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Re: . by ubunja(m): 12:31pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
ericsmith:Married men need the red pill even more than single men. Fvck up with a GF the price is small, fvck up with a wife and the price is heavy. Red Pill is about the Truth of Life not just fvcking hoes 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: . by ubunja(m): 12:35pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
Eagba:true. You keep it to yourself. Among my friends only 1 knows my Red Pill life. And he's a long time Player whose life reflects a lot of my writings. Otherwise others just think I'm quiet when it comes to romance. I repeat the lies when I'm with them and their wives. To keep the peace. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: . by Fountainofyouth(f): 12:39pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
Is the red pill, men are now becoming aware suppose to be a secret or should spread to all? The comments I'm seeing here are surprising, I was expecting all comments above should be advising him to spread the Gospel of red pill far and wide, so why telling op to keep it a secret? Don't you want more members? Or is the recruitment only limited to the Internet and not real life? Lmao, I cannot but laugh 3 Likes |
Re: . by Nobody: 2:03pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
ubunja: Bro am not a student, most of these things you teach i knew them, just been a man, instinct n it as alway powered my discretion. seeing it online only gave it a title. The integral scope of miseducation:red pill is an eye opener to make guys realize relationship is a game. i also share these ideology tew[b]buh on the otherhand Marriage is not a game ...It now a TEAM,vs LIFE[/b]. In r/ship one person can be seen as the winner buh in marriages ... the man & the woman are seen as one ..its either the marriage win or the marriage fails. You say married men need redpill more, buh redpill is a sucker for truth which alway promote suspicion even when unnecessary, suspicion depreciate trust ...unfortunately trust is the bedrock of every marriage You said "redpill is about the truth of life " buh check the board its marriage vs life a married man taking redpills will only succeed scoring an "own goal". we are singles, marriage is way above us ubunja 1 Like |
Re: . by healthserve(m): 3:02pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
Eagba: Its called keep quiet, observe, until called upon 1 Like |
Re: . by ubunja(m): 3:12pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
ericsmith:if you knew as much as you say you know you must know life itself is a game. It's not called The Game of Life for nothing. But you mistake the term "game" to mean Jokes. That's where you are lost. Also I see you're lost because you think the game ends with getting married. That's why women outplay you because women never stop playing. Even in marriage she's gaming you. A woman is not married to you. She's married to the game. That's why when you go broke she drops you. It's all cutthroat cold game. Don't sleep. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: . by Nobody: 3:19pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
Tocynone: u said it all. in my line of work people prefer to be told everything is ok when in truth a lot of things are going haywire. another truth is nobody runs or hides from reality. it just has a way of catching up later on so its better to throw it to people the way it is whether they will like it or not. sometimes people pick up quarrel with me when i lay it out bare just the way it is but hey, do not play their game because the truth they want to hide from is somewhere waiting. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: . by Nobody: 3:54pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
ubunja: Well i can see we agreed on something "life issa game" buh i can see you are avin a misconception issue. You can never see anywhere a Bf & GF are address as "ONE" its only under marriage a man & woman are address as "one". In a r/ship it is boy vs gurl[/b]becos we both have seperate interest but in marriage it is [b]couple vs Life becos couples av one goal. Bottomline both stages are game but the opponents are different. these is were u miss it Ubunja one truth we must swallow is that we are fallible therefore, no matter how smart you are someone will outsmart you, what matter is consistency you need to also know that the way gurls exit r/ship(bf & gf) is not the way they exist marriage. you can't bring a bachelor mentality into marriage. i think discretion from well built instinct is ok for a man. |
Re: . by ubunja(m): 4:13pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
ericsmith:lose your erection or your salary during marriage and tell your wife you're "one" and see if that will save your marriage. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: . by karo93: 4:17pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
There are not too many facts when human behaviour is discussed.....it all depends on those involved... The average clubbing drinking not very religious person has only one fear when cheating......fear of bin caught by his patner.... The average religious person has multiple fears......fear of being caught by the patner......fear of bin punished by God with badluck or even hellfire.....and most importantly....what the church members who respect you for being a deacon in church will say.. You will be naive to believe that these two sets of people will cheat in the same way..... The average christian woman will continue forcing love in a dead rship simply because ppl will say she isnt prayerful if they get a divorce. The non religious person doesnt have such worries. Thus u cant be raising ur opinion as if its the full truth....it is heavily affected by the people involved Imagine someone telling u that you are a fraudster n yahoo boy simply because nigerians have been known for fraud worldwide. Thats how ridiculous ur opinion felt in that church group 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: . by spongeisback: 4:44pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
DEAR USELESSS BASTARD, I DON'T KNOW YOUR MONIKER OR ANYONE ELSE BECAUSE I BARELY COME ONLINE AND FOR YOU TO NOTICE MY COMMENTS AND GET TRIGGERED BY IT MEANS YOU FALL IN TGE CATEGORY OF BOYS I AM TALKING ABOUT. NOW GET THE FUĆK OFF MY MENTIONS AND GO BACK TO THE PIT YOU CRAWLED OUT FROM YOU LOW LIFE! SEE THIS NONSENSE GOAT QUOTING ME AS IF I CARE ABOUT HIS USELESS OPINION. themaestro08: |
Re: . by Nobody: 4:57pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
ubunja: ubunja i want to believe this very respond is below you, its more like u're asking me to be impotent & jobless to test a wife is that even good 4 me Let even assume it happened, a wife has no option than to join the man in a search for solution .. its mostly the slay bitches that opt out with d speed of glo disregarding any factor, that is why men avoid slay bitches. In a r/ship ..only a gurls heart or interest keeps her buh in marriage more factors keep a woman, nigeria for instance, children, family image, social & religion factors are highly considered. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: . by ubunja(m): 5:08pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
ericsmith:well then since your comprehension skills are a little subpar let's leave it at that. 3 Likes |
Re: . by 24kmagic: 5:24pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
I wish these ubunja threads could get to me like it gets to other guys but it's not just working for me. I want to be mean, I want to be brutal to girls. I'm too gentle and I soo hate it. I respect girls too much. I can't start taking hard drugs as it's not just my thing. Even alcohol that I take is occasionally. I just want to be brutal to girls without the influence of alcohol and drugs. I'm been taken advantage of. I need help. How can I be so mean and brutal to girls? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: . by Nobody: 6:00pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
ubunja: i wasnt expecting you to accept anything i say .... for you alot is @stake buh me ,i av nothing to lose . #peace |
Re: . by healthserve(m): 6:04pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
24kmagic: Its simple na Find a gal you love and feel for deeply, break her heart and walk away like you don't care. Out of the ashes of your own broken heart will come. a new being. Simple Or simply mistreat the ladies you feel for deeply and talk thrashy to them, the new you is born. Straight up |
Re: . by Nobody: 6:07pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
24kmagic: i am sure the whole ideology behind the red pill is not to be "mean" or brutality ... just be normal ,brain over emotion and let ur discretion sort the rest. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: . by ubunja(m): 6:10pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
healthserve:lol what? |
Re: . by healthserve(m): 6:11pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
Re: . by healthserve(m): 6:11pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
ericsmith: Not when the heart is still soft. Dude needs to have his heart pierced. Once the heart is pierced, emotions will be brought under the control of rationality simple. 1 Like |
Re: . by ubunja(m): 6:14pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
ericsmith:I was surprised when I gave you an example and you took it quite literally. no I didn't mean for you to test your woman by losing your erection or job. how could you even fail to get me. 2 Likes |
Re: . by Nobody: 6:24pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
emmaodet:Tsk tsk tsk! you have really pushed yourself too hard haven't you? Don't tell me you keep trying to make more money, be a man etc as guys always advise here. Have you? Look Emmadeot,( I should probably put Boda or Sir to that, you may be older than I am self ) See no go run race of motor jam keke ooo. Life is very simple( you may check my last update in my diary for more) Na humans make am complicated. I understand it's not easy to be a Man, if there is any Man that I value, respect and cherish so much that will be My Dad. Yes he has his flaws, he's human but he is the best and he is my model.His sacrifice, discipline and words can not be forgotten.While I was younger I misunderstood him (like we fight a lot as par say me ehn I will always show my disapproval of his bad actions, like man was too strict. Typical Alpha Man, no time for small talks, man of action) But as I grow older, I understand him better and today we are best pals. Point is, be yourself! Pushing yourself over the limit with rules, do's and dont's , pills and other nonsense is a waste of time and energy. Those who will love you will love you and those who will feel otherwise will.So what's the point of choking the real you? abi you don see person wey every body like before? Be who you are. You have a wife , there's a reason you chose her to be.Share your pains and fears with her.Let her know what's bothering you and sort it out together. Nl can't be of much help to you o 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: . by 24kmagic: 6:26pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
healthserve: How do I start doing these things? I don't have a relationship at the moment but I have a girl I just met. I want her to experience these things you just said. It might not necessarily be a heartbreak, but my ability to talk trashy and still get her to fall. I ve been gentle for too long. I hate the gentle guy I am I swear. 1 Like |
Re: . by healthserve(m): 6:33pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
24kmagic: Its not hard Ignore her when you feel like getting close to her Turn her down when she gives you attention Speak harshly for no just cause. Your heart will get stronger as you do this. Remember, its mind over emotions. I didn't advice maltreating anyone, but you need to bring omyour emotions under the control of your better judgement. |
Re: . by 24kmagic: 6:40pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
healthserve: Ok thanks. I will try so hard to do these things you said. Problem is... We just met, we haven't even clicked yet. Just some few phone calls so far. |
Re: . by healthserve(m): 6:45pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
24kmagic: Start with this. When you feel like calling don't call even if it'll take days. Let her do the calling and emotional investment. Use her emotions to run the game while you keep yours |
Re: . by 24kmagic: 6:52pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
healthserve: Lol Isn't that rather risky? I'm still trying to win her oo. Don't you think lack of calls will affect my chances? It's not like I'm even sure she likes me that much. It's still early days o 2 Likes |
Re: . by healthserve(m): 6:54pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
24kmagic: Puppy love. Okay you're learning. Which obviously means you don't understand the ubunja epistles evidently. The goal is to stimulate so much desire in a lady that She'll be the one desirous of having you and not the other way around. Cause the moment you make the move first, she's already won and retains the greater power in the relationship |
Re: . by 24kmagic: 7:16pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
healthserve:Lol Ok, thanks |
Re: . by healthserve(m): 7:41pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
Re: . by 24kmagic: 7:48pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
Re: . by Nobody: 7:52pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
ubunja: same way i was surprise when i saw d instance u gave, maybe i failed becos i just could not picture mysef in such situation. however these are problems with lower tendencies, besides there are solutions n if she want to leave no problem. |
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