Logobenz:
but he said without the wife,his business isnt going anywhere.
Maybe I understood wrong,someone please clarify.

He said his own is making profit but his wife's own will take a while to warm up

And without her support his own business will crash

Hmm

Too vague

You can't get any meaningful advice with this

Add more details otherwise you are on your own

Why can’t you handle your business without her? What if your business fails? Then the whole family will be in trouble. One source of income is not it. Let her grow her own business. You can both support each other without demanding someone give up their dream and business for the other.

You sound selfish and egoistic, so if they 'l think she is the owner then what? Must you put your silly ego first? It shows you don't trust her n you are here posing reverse psychology to make her look bad!!!

faithfull18:
Don't even understand your writeup. And what is wrong if you support her and she owns the business

Like why is he feeling inferior already?

Another day, another dose of family problem threads.

midnighter:


He said his own is bringing out profit bit his wife's own will take a while to warm up

But I think his wife's own may bring more money later

The bolded cannot be trusted.No good businessman leaves a going concern for uncertainty.
His wife's might make more money later sounds like a bullshìt business plan to me.
I clearly don't think that is the case because I will like to believe someone smart enough to build a yielding business should be able to know that is a wrong move.

Tehila07:
For my discovered, best gift to earn me money, my wife must agree with the job. But my wife has a job which is at Cross purposes with my job. I'm the biggest asset she needs for her business to flourish, and she is the only person that must agree to work with me in my line of interest. That means if I lend my expertise for her business, she will still be seen as the owner. If she agrees to be with me in my field, her business will go down.

After back and forth arguments, I have realized that heaven will rather fall, wife won't support my business to leave hers behind. If she doesn't support mine, I won't go far in the business; if I fully support hers, she will own the business.

We will need many years to build her business before it can support a family. My own is currently supporting the family. Does that mean I married a wrong person?

What seems like a solution is if I can find another job that won't affect her business. But the only thing I like most is what I'm doing currently.

Ur businesses work against each other business? Let’s be objective and practical or business minded a little. Which of these 2 business has more potential I’m not talking about short term peanuts bt long term serious bucks? That’s is the business both of you should focus on and have a 50/50 partnership agreement so it’s both of you investment/business.

I know u have a passion for yours bt if it doesn’t have higher or enormous potential then it shud just be a hobby rather than core business investment. Think business minded, profit minded and objectively. Ur wife’s business can be urs also if u work together and have the agreements.

Yes ur business will go down bt wud u be richer for it? If yes then I don’t see the problem here. It’s a wiser business move. Vice versa for ur wife.

subtlemee:
Both of you should leave the business and find fresh ones for peace to reign

Can't expect less from a woman

Logobenz:
The bolded cannot be trusted.No good businessman leaves a going concern for uncertainty.
His wife's might make more money later sounds like a bullshìt business plan to me.
I clearly don't think that is the case because I will like to believe someone smart enough to build a yielding business should be able to know that is a wrong move.

Sorry I made a mistake. I have modified

His wife just doesn't want to leave her own to support his even though it's making some money

Both of you are just to selfish to reach an agreement.

Tehila07:
For my discovered, best gift to earn me money, my wife must agree with the job. But my wife has a job which is at Cross purposes with my job. I'm the biggest asset she needs for her business to flourish, and she is the only person that must agree to work with me in my line of interest. That means if I lend my expertise for her business, she will still be seen as the owner. If she agrees to be with me in my field, her business will go down.

After back and forth arguments, I have realized that heaven will rather fall, wife won't support my business to leave hers behind. If she doesn't support mine, I won't go far in the business; if I fully support hers, she will own the business.

We will need many years to build her business before it can support a family. My own is currently supporting the family. Does that mean I married a wrong person?

What seems like a solution is if I can find another job that won't affect her business. But the only thing I like most is what I'm doing currently.

The work no get name?

More like 1 wants to sell weed, the other wants to sell bible.

Cos i can't think of businesses that contradict each other.

Tell the two businesses or the two unsupported future na, so can give well informed advice

What if it's weed u wanto start selling in a shop and ur wife wants to sell bible in d same shop. we won't know and be saying ur wife is not supportive, meanwhile na u get problem.

Eyan pablo escober

AJIBOLA840:
that's why they say you should pray before getting married. shameless and selfish woman

Don’t jump into conclusion. Sometimes our wives are our asset/ladder but due to our ego as a man we tend to kill their dreams for ours to come alive.
Some men are animal. I have a case study at hand.

AJIBOLA840:
that's why they say you should pray before getting married. shameless and selfish woman

I must be frank in my comment, women are the most greedy set of beings I have come across. They are too selfish.

AJIBOLA840:
that's why they say you should pray before getting married. shameless and selfish woman

Stop it naw, why the abuse, he didn't say you should abuse her

Do you really know what transpired ❓

NwaAmaikpe:



I can only pity you.
You married Domitilla's elder sister; Karashika.

I don miss your comments sha.

Whats up with the riddles , come out clean man.

if you want genuine advice, then u have to be open. what business do u do and what business does ur wife do. only then will I know what to give as an advice.

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I think the main intent of their getting married is finally playing out. Let the Best Man win!

Women cling to their source of income for security. Her money is her defence.
Have you made your wife feel insecure in any way? In fact, it might not even be you. All the negative news about marriages of today make participants very defensive, especially women.
If only we realise that ur marriage is urs and urs alone. You make what u want of it.

Tehila07:
For my discovered, best gift to earn me money, my wife must agree with the job. But my wife has a job which is at Cross purposes with my job. I'm the biggest asset she needs for her business to flourish, and she is the only person that must agree to work with me in my line of interest. That means if I lend my expertise for her business, she will still be seen as the owner. If she agrees to be with me in my field, her business will go down.

After back and forth arguments, I have realized that heaven will rather fall, wife won't support my business to leave hers behind. If she doesn't support mine, I won't go far in the business; if I fully support hers, she will own the business.

We will need many years to build her business before it can support a family. My own is currently supporting the family. Does that mean I married a wrong person?

What seems like a solution is if I can find another job that won't affect her business. But the only thing I like most is what I'm doing currently.

Must the two both of you work together..?

faithfull18:
Don't even understand your writeup. And what is wrong if you support her and she owns the business

He stated the wife's business can't feed the family. Isn't it easier for the wife to support a business that has a higher chance of success?

At Op, I feel your wife is afraid of losing out completely in the future. You may have to sit down and reassure her of her safety. You can also register or re-register your business and include her in the shareholding, that will make her see the business as her own too.

The op is so confused. Must your wife support your business before it florich? If you so much need some support then I guess you should employ a good hand.
Why must you make your business a family business for crying out loud?

vivypretty:

you both are selfish and not fit to be in a marriage.
marriage is all about sacrifice and compromise which none of you is ready to give.
but didn't you guys talk about your different businesses before getting married or did you both start your different businesses after marriage?

We started different businesses after marriage

must the person be your wife? go find someone else that can push you jare...

Are you doing illegal business while your wife is a policewoman??




Because I am not getting it at all you haven't tell us what type of business you are both in.


Modified..

Oh you are a pastor

chloride6:
Your write up is so vague...

You need to add the jobs involved so we can decide

Why do i feel both of you are in the "Ministry" ?

I'm a pastor in one of the biggest churches in Nigeria. She started a school. Profit can't be in school business at the beginning. So I'm helping with teachers salary at times. But in ministry, if I'm transfered, she must follow me. Now the school is growing fast and she said she won't follow me if I'm transfered.

I've been a school teacher for years and I'm the academic backbone of the school.

Tehila07:

We started different businesses after marriage

which one will make the biggest amount of money from?

midnighter:
He doesn't want to expose himself but its making it difficult to understand where he is coming from

What kind of business do they do

I'm a pastor in one of the biggest churches in Nigeria. She started a school. Profit can't be in school business at the beginning. So I'm helping with teachers salary at times. But in ministry, if I'm transfered, she must follow me. Now the school is growing fast and she said she won't follow me if I'm transfered.

I've been a school teacher for years and I'm the academic backbone of the school.

Fidelismaria:
Too vague

You can't get any meaningful advice with this

Add more details otherwise you are on your own

I'm a pastor in one of the biggest churches in Nigeria. She started a school. Profit can't be in school business at the beginning. So I'm helping with teachers salary at times. But in ministry, if I'm transfered, she must follow me. Now the school is growing fast and she said she won't follow me if I'm transfered.

I've been a school teacher for years and I'm the academic backbone of the school.

subtlemee:
Both of you should leave the business and find fresh ones for peace to reign

hanty thank God you are not a judge o. The world for hear am . I rep your solution jor. That way everyone wins