ZinoFasisi:


The work no get name?

More like 1 wants to sell weed, the other wants to sell bible.

Cos i can't think of businesses that contradict each other.

Tell the two businesses or the two unsupported future na, so can give well informed advice

What if it's weed u wanto start selling in a shop and ur wife wants to sell bible in d same shop. we won't know and be saying ur wife is not supportive, meanwhile na u get problem.

Eyan pablo escober

Remsilla:
if you want genuine advice, then u have to be open. what business do u do and what business does ur wife do. only then will I know what to give as an advice.

TechCapon:
Mr man ur speaking in parables. I can't decipher what you're saying

Meanwhile, I heard buhari went to united nations and fall hands, abeg who has link to the video?

Tehila07:


I'm a pastor in one of the biggest churches in Nigeria. She started a school. Profit can't be in school business at the beginning. So I'm helping with teachers salary at times. But in ministry, if I'm transfered, she must follow me. Now the school is growing fast and she said she won't follow me if I'm transfered.

I've been a school teacher for years and I'm the academic backbone of the school.

Tehila07:


Lol
I'm a pastor in one of the biggest churches in Nigeria. She started a school. Profit can't be in school business at the beginning. So I'm helping with teachers salary at times. But in ministry, if I'm transfered, she must follow me. Now the school is growing fast and she said she won't follow me if I'm transfered.

I've been a school teacher for years and I'm the academic backbone of the school.

AZeD1:
Am I the only one confused by this post?

Wickedfacts:
OP is already living in misery with that woman. Check his past posts
https://www.nairaland.com/4634299/im-regret-getting-married

My question is simple: Do you want to divorce, be happy and live long or remain married, live a long and miserable life?

Tehila07:


Lol
I'm a pastor in one of the biggest churches in Nigeria. She started a school. Profit can't be in school business at the beginning. So I'm helping with teachers salary at times. But in ministry, if I'm transfered, she must follow me. Now the school is growing fast and she said she won't follow me if I'm transfered.

I've been a school teacher for years and I'm the academic backbone of the school.

Chamladas:
Is it police and thief busines?

midnighter:


Ok I understand it now.

Hmm it's a tricky one but tell me, before you married did you discuss the possibility of having to move to some other place for ministry? That is a big consideration when going into marriage with a pastor.

From a Christian perspective, she is supposed to follow you wherever you are called. That's the essence of being a pastor's wife.

I've seen people move to all sorts of places and wife has to follow. Maybe you should get to the bottom of why she refuses to join you .

faithfull18:
Don't even understand your writeup. And what is wrong if you support her and she owns the business

Tehila07:


I'm a pastor in one of the biggest churches in Nigeria. She started a school. Profit can't be in school business at the beginning. So I'm helping with teachers salary at times. But in ministry, if I'm transfered, she must follow me. Now the school is growing fast and she said she won't follow me if I'm transfered.

I've been a school teacher for years and I'm the academic backbone of the school.

Tehila07:

I was resisting calling into the pastoral ministry since 2010. I recently yielded to the pressure from people around me.

I'm a pastor in one of the biggest churches in Nigeria. She started a school. Profit can't be in school business at the beginning. So I'm helping with teachers salary at times. But in ministry, if I'm transfered, she must follow me. Now the school is growing fast and she said she won't follow me if I'm transfered.

I've been a school teacher for years and I'm the academic backbone of the school.

Tehila07:


She knew I would become a pastor. My main church is a Pentecostal one. But where I met her, I was attending orthodox to hide from those who know I had been resisting the calling. When I finally made up my mind, I returned to my church. But she doesn't like Pentecostal churches because her church is orthodox.

AZeD1:
Am I the only one confused by this post?

badonkadonk:


Must the two both of you work together..?

AJIBOLA840:
that's why they say you should pray before getting married. shameless and selfish woman

PHIPEX:
He stated the wife's business can't feed the family. Isn't it easier for the wife to support a business that has a higher chance of success?

At Op, I feel your wife is afraid of losing out completely in the future. You may have to sit down and reassure her of her safety. You can also register or re-register your business and include her in the shareholding, that will make her see the business as her own too.

midnighter:


I don't mean to sound harsh but you haven't answered the question... I am an orthodox worshipper myself and visiting pastors come to my church from all over, equally trainee pastors will also be posted to another place where there is a vacancy. That's an obvious thing about being a pastor...

Did you guys discuss the possibility of moving around? Cos if you arrive in my church without your wife they will tell you to go and resolve your issues before you resume your duties

Excuse me, does she attend your church with you at all? What do you mean she doesn't like it...

When did you people realise that she doesn't like it and what does it have to do with being your wife....

Tehila07:


We started different businesses after marriage

midnighter:


I don't mean to sound harsh but you haven't answered the question... I am an orthodox worshipper myself and visiting pastors come to my church from all over, equally trainee pastors will also be posted to another place where there is a vacancy. That's an obvious thing about being a pastor...

Did you guys discuss the possibility of moving around? Cos if you arrive in my church without your wife they will tell you to go and resolve your issues before you resume your duties

Excuse me, does she attend your church with you at all? What do you mean she doesn't like it...

When did you people realise that she doesn't like it and what does it have to do with being your wife....

stillseth:
Everyday una go just wan dey give person reason not to even bother about marriage. ..na self interest women seems to dey find these days.

zomoears:


You probably need to read it again.

Her business takes time to grow. His is currently supporting the family. If he abandons his business, the family finances will suffer for a long time before her business picks up, if it picks up. But he needs her support for his business to grow some more.

Easy way out is for her to support him to grow his own, generate the needed capital, and later grow hers. The family will suffer less financially.

Tehila07:


She knew I would become a pastor. My main church is a Pentecostal one. But where I met her, I was attending orthodox to hide from those who know I had been resisting the calling. When I finally made up my mind, I returned to my church. But she doesn't like Pentecostal churches because her church is orthodox.