luvyaself95:


Guy will you stop being a kid
redpill can't stop you from getting married but it does help you get marry to right woman.
just play the game right and accordingly.

victorian:





To save yourself from heart aches or any eventualities don't check.
What are u even looking for in the phone sef?

My pastor always advice the married, women stop following your husband like a detective when he's going out. Stop checking his calls and numbers. What you are hoping to see, one day u will see it.

He said he doesn't check his wife phones and she doesn't check his too.

They both trust each other .

So why check in the first place? What are u looking for?

As you don't see it as a big deal? Why waste some minutes of your time checking phone?

That means it's a huge deal to you.


My brother stop o . Trust her and remove eyes.

bdchange:

I don't actually understand what you are saying. Are you saying the approach I took from onset is wrong. Remember I don't want to fornicate before marriage. That is why I always go into it with honesty.

luvyaself95:


your approach is bad and is not bad
because to good woman is not bad but to bad woman is bad
and actually being redpill is the best way for any man to deal with women.

bdchange:

How do you love when you are on red pill? You block your heart because you don't want it to get hurt. At the end you marry and find it difficult to love. You just provide the necessary means to your wife.

bdchange:

going through her phone doesn't mean you don't trust her. So your pastor said it is wrong for husband and wife to check each other's phone? I don't accept that. If you have no skeleton in your ward-drop then no reason to panic.

bdchange:

I don't understand the comments i highlighted in your statements.. Are you saying it is not okay for me to be truthful and honest in two matured adult's relationship? If I don't lay an honest foundation, how then do I get a good home if I marry? This your comments still baffles me

bdchange:

I don't understand the comments i highlighted in your statements.. Are you saying it is not okay for me to be truthful and honest in two matured adult's relationship? If I don't lay an honest foundation, how then do I get a good home if I marry? This your comments still baffles me

victorian:





To save yourself from heart aches or any eventualities don't check.
What are u even looking for in the phone sef?

My pastor always advice the married, women stop following your husband like a detective when he's going out. Stop checking his calls and numbers. What you are hoping to see, one day u will see it.

He said he doesn't check his wife phones and she doesn't check his too.

They both trust each other .

So why check in the first place? What are u looking for?

As you don't see it as a big deal? Why waste some minutes of your time checking phone?

That means it's a huge deal to you.


My brother stop o . Trust her and remove eyes.

bdchange:

Lady like you give me hope, but then you consider that my ex said the same thing until she spoilt it. So what do I believe now? I don't also check her phone regularly but we used each others phone, so i see no big deal in that.

bdchange:

I don't actually understand what you are saying. Are you saying the approach I took from onset is wrong. Remember I don't want to fornicate before marriage. That is why I always go into it with honesty.

Shimzyy:


"You don't want to fornicate before marriage" then better get used to disappointment.

I was like you 3 years back chasing after girls which always disappoint but now girls are chasing after me
But y? Because I give them what they want now adays, I give them hard sex so they always come back for more and also don't wanna lose me.

victorian:








My Pastor said its uncalled for.

And if one didn't marry their wives or husband's from night clubs and brothels, then why get suspicious checking the partners phones?

What are you looking for?

It's because u feel suspicious of your partner and u don't trust him. Or her that's why u check.

For me? I don't have time to check and I don't want to know.

Because assuming my husband is cheating on me and I know at the late hour he has a kid with another woman through his phone. What will I do?

Divorce him? Or pretend all is well and be living with him. In bitterness and anger?

I don't need all that shiiit!

I like to live a peaceful life. Because the day I find out he's cheating and got a child out there. That day my peace is destroyed and only God knows what my reaction. Will be.


So it's better I don't know.

Darevofpeace:
.......bros,the fact is that you as a man must always be on your game in any relationship.
Firstly,have a life that consumes your time schedule outside the relationship. This would reduce wasting unnecessary energy in all those drama's from your girlfriend.
Secondly no matter how much you love your girlfriend, do not show all the affections immediately.
By the virtue of women wiring by God,they only remember the good deeds of the present by a man.
Since they are emotional being.
Thirdly,make your money and consistently work on your financial independence.This days,naija women date a man whom they love and marries a man who is ready,therefore forget about love and just be ready.
There are many things I want to type here.............

bdchange:

I don't actually understand what you are saying. Are you saying the approach I took from onset is wrong.Remember I don't want to fornicate before marriage. That is why I always go into it with honesty.

luvyaself95:


it's nothing like block heart but it put heart in safety zone from those manipulative, deceit and lie ladies out there.
when you meet good lady you will know or you don't know how to interact with ladies.

ericsmith:




I am really surprised @ ur decision, nevertheless i respect it bro, buh with these kind of decision the only way you won't get burnt is to settle for a virgin.
The bitter truth is guys like you pay for the sins of the bad guys, women are creatures full of deciet, if she is not a virgin trash the celibate story.
lf what you want is a no sex r/ship ur best shot is a verified virgin ...otherwise be ready to tolerate a cheating partner, we know ourselves

bdchange:

She said she is a virgin. I believed her because she had a solid background and decent. Atleast that is what she appears to me. She doesn't even like to kiss. She does all these attributes attached to a virgin.

bdchange:

She said she is a virgin. I believed her because she had a solid background and decent. Atleast that is what she appears to me. She doesn't even like to kiss. She does all these attributes attached to a virgin.

bdchange:

checking your partner's phone has saved alot from disasters such as contracting HIV, time wasting and so on. The earlier you know the better you move ahead.

victorian:





To save yourself from heart aches or any eventualities don't check.
What are u even looking for in the phone sef?

My pastor always advice the married, women stop following your husband like a detective when he's going out. Stop checking his calls and numbers. What you are hoping to see, one day u will see it.

He said he doesn't check his wife phones and she doesn't check his too.

They both trust each other .

So why check in the first place? What are u looking for?

As you don't see it as a big deal? Why waste some minutes of your time checking phone?

That means it's a huge deal to you.


My brother stop o . Trust her and remove eyes.

bdchange:

How many ladies do you have to date before you meet the right one? 2, 4 or even 10.

Budex40:
Read up more of Ubunja's tutorials, u wont be disappointed. That Girl has been fvcking someone else since ur "relationship" began. She's just playing you. RUN..!! I SAID RUN...!!!


#Swallows_a_gallon_of_RED_PILLS

princfred:
A woman's advice for the good of women.
Have you heard of the saying, Trust but verify?

MichaelsHope:
I have similar stories... just 0.000001% difference.. I was mad, but I have since moved on.


She later cane for forgiveness, I have forgiven her.

victorian:







What if it has password, how do u Open it?

Lemme tell u, I have a married female friend whose husband was carrying women after he got a plum job and a jeep as company car. She didn't even need to crack his password before friends came to her, saying they see her husband with different women at clubs, restaurants, hotel and all.
She has 5kids for him. She's a housewife. How can she now divorce him? She thought deeply about it.

She can't? She can't pay the school fees of her five kids whom the husband enrolled in good private schools . She does not have a job! And she's not ready to leave any of her kids behind if divorce happens . It's not like the husband is throwing her out. Four kids are in secondary schools while the last one in primary school . She is in a fix!

She talked, threathnend, cried even reported him to elders in his family, he simply told his family members, look I'm giving this woman monthly allowance, I pay the children school fees, they are all. In private schools, I gave her a car, the store room and fridge is filled with food. What does this woman want again?

Uncle please I'm. Late for work, I don't have time for this meeting. I'm late.
He walked out on everyone. She was shocked and crying , saying girls have bewitched her husband.



Anyways lo and behold he contracted aids. He knew at late time., since when he knew he stopped having sex with his wife. But d wife didn't know, she thought one his side chicks must have charmed him. She kept praying to God. Until he became ill, to cut long story short. He died of HIV.

And he didn't transmit the disease to his wife. The prayer of the wife made him. To have conscience and not infect her with HIV.

So how do u see this scenario?

Prayers of the wife made him to stop sleeping with her. Not even checking his phone. She called a family meeting because he stopped sleeping with her, not knowing he was protecting her from himself.
You see life?

My Pastor says just place your wife or husband in God's hands. Let God handle them.. Las Las if they are doing bad behind you. It will be revealed one way or the other and you will be saved from their games.

bdchange:

Be truthful, are you saying there is no single lady out there that share the same ideology of no sex before marriage and she will stay true to her words?

bdchange:
I wonder if @Ubunja was right all this while or am just a victim of a nonentity who doesn't know what she wanted even at 26?

bdchange:

She said she is a virgin. I believed her because she had a solid background and decent. Atleast that is what she appears to me. She doesn't even like to kiss. She does all these attributes attached to a virgin.

victorian:





To save yourself from heart aches or any eventualities don't check.
What are u even looking for in the phone sef?

My pastor always advice the married, women stop following your husband like a detective when he's going out. Stop checking his calls and numbers. What you are hoping to see, one day u will see it.

He said he doesn't check his wife phones and she doesn't check his too.

They both trust each other .

So why check in the first place? What are u looking for?

As you don't see it as a big deal? Why waste some minutes of your time checking phone?

That means it's a huge deal to you.


My brother stop o . Trust her and remove eyes.