ngwababe:
Does your boyfriend give you money willingly? Does he really take care of you the way you want?

What with ladies and money ? I don't don't jst get it. Perhaps I am the only one not understanding . Must a relationship centre around money ?. Dating a girl doesn't make her ur responsibility yet in any way. If at all money would be given, it should be voluntarily and necessary. No be parasitic association.

Mbaise people are the most honest people you may wish to know. It'll interest you to know that Odumegwu Ojukwu was hidden in Mbaise until he was cleared to go on exile. They don't joke with trust, they hate injustice. Please send this to your parents. You'll enjoy your marriage once you love your husband and respect your marriage. Remember to thank God later.

keepingmum:
The famous proverb " if you see a snake and an mbaise person, kill the mbaise person first as they are more dangerous ".

The mbaise tribe is like what the ijebus are to yorubas or the igbirra's to Kogi.

Very wicked, deceptive, desperately love money, do not treat other tribes well, manipulative and evil.

Please, where are yhu from again? Calling out people of certain tribe such despicable names tell alot about yhur person.

Ever heard of fallacy of generalisation? An error only the fools and illiterates commit.


I was once told the Yorubas are very dirty but guess what? I have them here as the neatest set of people to live with........I live among them and I am telling you my personal experience and not "them say", that's being literate.


Character is a personal thing, learn to treat or relate with someone as individual and not as a tribe.....

Be wise.

Let marry Am from delta

pweeryambre:

during my youth service, the one I met was so kind and generous, but womanize a lot and very good looking too.
my neigbours husband is from thesame ahiazu mbaise, have refused to go and pay his wife dowry only did introduction and has impregnated her with 3 kids , the wife is from Enugu state, she still worried till today.
I also know a wicked mbaise man that I needed an assistance from, the conditions he gave me was just terrible, I had to back off.
they are nice people, I think, but the majority are just mean hearted..

Every tribe have such person.. U sounded like the said tribe was/is the problem of Nigeria.

hamid6249:
I can allow my children to marry from any tribe or community as long as the suitor is not from IBADAN

I have my reasons ,my eyes don see wem for thier hands ..useless bunch of people

Oh my goodness... So, you mean every individual from Ibadan has the same virtue?
I need to leave this country

mercyviv:
In Yoruba land, if you bring an Ijebu man home to be introduced to your parents, especially in parts of Ondo and Ekiti, I can assure you won't get your parents blessings.
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But why, have same issue with my girls parents all because I woke up to be from ogun.

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keepingmum:
The famous proverb " if you see a snake and an mbaise person, kill the mbaise person first as they are more dangerous ".

The mbaise tribe is like what the ijebus are to yorubas or the igbirra's to Kogi.

Very wicked, deceptive, desperately love money, do not treat other tribes well, manipulative and evil.

Don't mind that girl wanting to marry an Mbaise guy. Body go tell you don't worry. I am from IMO state and my sister, my sincere advice to u is to look before you leap. I have had several encounters with them and any of my family members that brings home one should consider him or herself 'disfamilied'. Nne jukwa ese

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Please, where are yhu from again? Calling out people of certain tribe such despicable names tell alot about yhur person.

Ever heard of fallacy of generalisation? An error only the fools and illiterates commit.


I was once told the Yorubas are very dirty but guess what? I have them here as the neatest set of people to live with........I live among them and I am telling you my personal experience and not "them say", that's being literate.


Character is a personal thing, learn to treat or relate with someone as individual and not as a tribe.....

Be wise.



Lol plenty grammer.! The average mbaiise person believes that they are wiser than God self. The first thing that comes to their mind is how to outsmart you or play you for a fool. It is even a bragging right when they make fools out of others. I guess its their village culture, maybe it encourages mean-spiritedness.

Kcee14:
I am a girl of 26 years from Delta state. I have a guy I have been dating for close to 3years now and he is from mbaise. My guy told me that he is coming for introduction and I told my parents about it and they said over their dead body will they allow me marry from mbaise. Please,is anything wrong with Mbaise? Are there ladies here that are married to mbaise men and living happily. Please, I am really sad now. I need advice and answers

We have a saying amongst igbos.

If a snake and an mbaise man enter your house, don't worry about the snake. Kill the mbaise man first, because he is more dangerous.

However, I do not like to generalise, so.... Maybe this particular mbaise man is straightforward, unlike the rest of his kinsmen. Dunno.

I hope this helps.

JERRY1925:


But why, have same issue with my girls parents all because I woke up to be from ogun.

Ijebus and Ondos/Ekitis have this long standing issue since ancient times I suppose. They tend not to like marrying each other. Funny enough its the ondos/ ekitis that are really against marrying the Ijebus, the Ijebus seem to be indifferent about it.

Ask whats the reason, you wont get a concrete reply from both parties.



But in recent times the beef has reduced there are lots of ekiti-ondo / Ijebu marriages.


Omo Ijebu ni mi oo Swagger

keepingmum:
The famous proverb " if you see a snake and an mbaise person, kill the mbaise person first as they are more dangerous ".

The mbaise tribe is like what the ijebus are to yorubas or the igbirra's to Kogi.

Very wicked, deceptive, desperately love money, do not treat other tribes well, manipulative and evil.

stfu! what happened to the ijebu's?

ASk them why first and come back here...

NoToPile:



Ijebus and Ondos/Ekitis have this long standing issue since ancient times I suppose. They tend not to like marrying each other. Funny enough its the ondos/ ekitis that are really against marrying the Ijebus, the Ijebus seem to be indifferent about it.

Ask whats the reason, you wont get a concrete reply from both parties.



But in recent times the beef has reduced there are lots of ekiti-ondo / Ijebu marriages.


Omo Ijebu ni mi oo Swagger

Abi o.
It's well.
I have sha given up in my head.
But she still beg me to hold on.

IT VERY FUNNY . YOU RE HAVING ISSUE LIKE THIS AND FIRST THING IS TO RUN TO SOCIAL MEDIA...
WHEN YOU HAVE GOD TO GUIDE AND DIRECT YOU .
SO WHEN YOU GUYS GET MARRIED AND HAVE SMALL ISSUE
YOU WILL STILL COME TO SOCIAL MEDIA AGAIN.

MY HONEST ADVICE IS SEEK GOD FIRST AND HE WILL DIRECT YOUR PATH.

YOU RE THE ONE TO MARRY THE GUY OH
NOT US. SO FACE YOUR REALITY WITH GOD YOURSELF.

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OH MBAISE MY FATHERLAND, THE TRIBE OF THE GREAT AND WISE MEN, GREAT IS THE DAY I WAS BORN AN MBAISE MAN BY MBAISE PARENTS.........A TRIBE FILLED WITH WISDOM AND KNOWLEDGE, THEY DO NOT SEGREGATE NEITHER DO THEY HABOUR HATRED .........

THEY ARE INDEPENDENT MINDED AND REFUSED TO BE USED AND DUMPED HENCED THEY ARE CALLED THE WISEST PEOPLE IN IGBOLAND...........VERY INDUSTRIOUS AND POTENT, ALWAYS STRIVE TO DEFEND THEIR RIGHT AND NOT TO BE SEEN AS FOOLS AND COWARDS..........WELL EDUCATED AND ARTICULATED HENCE THEIR LADIES ARE COSTLY IN MARRIAGE..........THEY ARE BEING NOTICED WHEREVER THEY ARE ......because A RISEN SUN CANNOT HIDE ITS SHINE.......NEGLECT THEM TO YOUR OWN PERIL ACCEPT THEM TO YOUR OWN GAIN.......

IN MY NEXT WORLD I PLEDGE WITH ALL MY SOUL, HEART, BODY, BLOOD AND MIND TO BE AN MBAISE MAN..........IF HE OR SHE IS NOT FROM MBAISE MY BROTHER HE/SHE IS HALF BAKED IN WISDOM

executive12:


I believe you mean Ogwashi-Ukwu from Delta Igbo part of Delta State. Delta Igbo women are generally very nice and loyal.

yes bro... Very loyal.

We ll be preaching one Nigeria yet we cannot achieve one Igbo/Biafra

There was never a proverb that says 'if you see a snake and an Mbaise man' bla bla bla. It is just a stereottpe from a.musician that had a misunderstanding with an Mbaise man.

I've come to.meet a lot of Mbaise people both male and female and they are wonderful people. Smart, kind, wise and sharp. There are bad ones amongst them too just like we have in any tribe.

I once had one as a female friend back then as a boy down to my adulthood. Very kind lady. I never knew she is an Mbaise lady until I got invitation for her wedding. I mean I've known this lady since I was a boy till I left that area as an adult in 2006.

Abeg make una dey travel and meet people instead of all this yeye stereotypes everywhere. Even the dreaded Fulanis have good souls among them.

This is the reason I dont like to visit nairaland or I just remain on ghost mode and read comments. Nairalamd has become the home for tribalism, religious war and stereotyping one tribe or the other.

This forum could have been the best place to unite Nigerians but no the MODEs are always quick to push useless post that turns the country apart all for traffic.

Abeg Nigerians try visit 'quora' and get enlightened with beautiful posts and comments. I bet you won't regret it. Come, visit and see sound Nigerians both home ans diaspora.

Sister, abeg try talk to your parents. At least the guy no date you for three years and say him no do again. In fact him even propose to you and want go see your parents.

That's is a good sign he is responsible and loves you. How many men ready for marriage this days?

fineheart:


[s][/s]Haba! Your use of English language is as bad as the quality of your advice. Which higher institution did you attend?

[s][/s]

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Obason22:
Ur side of story is based on mbaise woman getting
married to another man from
different state on tribe, what abt an mbaise man getting married to a lady from another state or tribe, what are d experience like.

I said it's a reverse psychology......

I know their reasons

hamid6249:
I can allow my children to marry from any tribe or community as long as the suitor is not from IBADAN

I have my reasons ,my eyes don see wem for thier hands ..useless bunch of people

Please tell me more, i married an ibadan lady, but my mum was totally against it patApata

orimsamsam:
please sir , what your reasons

Want to know too

.

Those people are terrible i have many of them as friend but i apply wisdom dealing with them. Listen to your parents

With respect to all the diverse opinion been shared and given to you, I will give you my own candid advice and a bit of life experience there's a African proverb which says what an Elder sees while sitting a child might not see it even while standing or even climbing a tree, if you parents says no to your suitor it doesn't mean they hate you or they dont want your happiness where's there's no event there won't be history, you are 26yrs old your generation are the info tech age where social media, opinion are valued and where you feel like doing your own thing in your own way and parent advice don't count, dont do things you might later regrets later in life, yes 3 years of courtship is a long one with all the commitment and the promise of love, however wedding is a day, marriage is along lifetime journey full of ups and down, let go if they asked you to let go, before you regrets you action with a bitter tears our parents our little God's here on earth, they see ahead of us, they know what's best for us, we might not agree with them all the time and they might not be equally correct all the time but when it comes to life decision as this trust me, they have their reasons let go the best will come your way for good there reasons against your wish is beyond marrying mbaise people.

Cheers.

David.

Bofoy4:
Run away my sister IMO state men are wicked one marry my sis for one year now and even with a child he refuse to take her from uyo to his village, IMO state men in fact most Igbo guy are use to the game
Run for ur life
Ur parents are not fools to take that decision

Stop talking nonsense! Stereotypes!

Kcee14:
I am a girl of 26 years from Delta state. I have a guy I have been dating for close to 3years now and he is from mbaise. My guy told me that he is coming for introduction and I told my parents about it and they said over their dead body will they allow me marry from mbaise. Please,is anything wrong with Mbaise? Are there ladies here that are married to mbaise men and living happily. Please, I am really sad now. I need advice and answers

Did you ask them why?

seangy4konji:
Same way o can never marry any ijebu or ondo,ilesha,ijesha lady

My father married a second wife whose mother was from oguachi or something.. The mother was loyal for ever and so was the wife my father married from that side.. If I we as woman from that side.. Oguachi.. Till death to us part.

Ondo town I guess.....very stingy people