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Re: What Apartment Is Best For A Newly Wedded Couple? by Ugosample(m): 7:25pm On Sep 29, 2019
Nnemuka:
broke guys everywhere
this thread stinks of poverty
I even read where someone suggested op should stay in a single room because his uncle has lived in a single room with his wife for 9yrs grin grin

well OP please do you


Nigeria is the HQ of extreme poverty
What else were you thinking or expecting?

At least men (well most of them) don t delude themselves

But many ladies in Nigeria dey live for dream land....

Ashawo and side chick to Married men na the final bus stop las las

the rich men many desire in Nigeria are a miniscule percentage of the populace

Take it or leave it cheesy


Abeg men here
Cut your coat according to your situation
and if the woman is not interested
then you should not be with her in the first place

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Re: What Apartment Is Best For A Newly Wedded Couple? by skukimania(f): 7:26pm On Sep 29, 2019
BabaIbo:


Before you go into a business always know enough about it, same online you checked that is the same online I got this and I believe there are more
Also check Towne place hall in eti osa, Palazzo Dumont hotel hall close to lekki...


These ones they put 400k, I hope it will really be 400k when you get there. Because this was something we (my sister and I) checked ourselves. So, it wasn't as if I was told. Even kfa event centres just after jakande first gate that is not even a real building self, they charged 1.5m.
Meanwhile, u will still rent tables and chairs, decorate the interior and all.
Re: What Apartment Is Best For A Newly Wedded Couple? by Ugosample(m): 7:28pm On Sep 29, 2019
Efewestern:


In the same Warri, KFT Place charges about 500k-1.5m, Emmanuex about 600k - 1m, even in that Lagos, one can get a cheap hall of 100k, it's just that most people love living above their means.

Like you said, it's just a one day event, one shouldn't bleed his pocket just so others can be happy, in every location, there are cheap and expensive halls.

exactly
Re: What Apartment Is Best For A Newly Wedded Couple? by ednut1(m): 7:28pm On Sep 29, 2019
BabaIbo:


Before you go into a business always know enough about it, same online you checked that is the same online I got this and I believe there are more
Also check Towne place hall in eti osa, Palazzo Dumont hotel hall close to lekki...
when you go to those places na another price dem go call for or the place too small to host wedding.
Re: What Apartment Is Best For A Newly Wedded Couple? by ednut1(m): 7:30pm On Sep 29, 2019
skukimania:



These ones they put 400k, I hope it will really be 400k when you get there. Because this was something we (my sister and I) checked ourselves. So, it wasn't as if I was told. Even kfa event centres just after jakande first gate that is not even a real building self, they charged 1.5m.
Meanwhile, u will still rent tables and chairs, decorate the interior and all.
no mind am. I stay around kfa i know as he dey go. Some of the adds online are not truthful

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Re: What Apartment Is Best For A Newly Wedded Couple? by Lamanii22(f): 7:30pm On Sep 29, 2019
ednut1:
this is lagos. Hall alone na 500 to 700k. Deco 200 to 300. Dj and mc. 200k don waka. That's 1m already and things still dey to buy from food, bride price list, suit gown , natives, drinks


Nawa oo... I already told my mom that it is only traditional wedding and registry that I will do... No church... The traditional wedding can take place behind my house, there's a field there.... We can't come and be wasting money... And again white(church) wedding in the US and UK is a traditional wedding to them, so there's no need for it...

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Re: What Apartment Is Best For A Newly Wedded Couple? by Gerrard59(m): 7:32pm On Sep 29, 2019
Aurielfinizu:


and again most the guys self want to live in Lekki, Maitama, asokoro, banana island or wuse, just to feel among..

u will die young if u wish to compete with politician.

meanwhile u have a place like apapa, kubwa, suleja, nyanya maraba or epe ajah where u can manage cheap rent there..

de there de mumu yourself.. and las las mind the kinda woman u marry

b4 i marry i will make sure she can manage with me what i have,,

bros no do pass urself ooo

I don't know about those locations in Abuja environs but Apapa is a no no. The road network there is horrible! Although, Ajah is quite expensive for an average Nigerian who got wedded but it's better than Apapa or Okokomiako, which is the worst of the worst. shocked Na marriage no be death penalty. Going through this thread, to be a man is not a day's job. embarassed

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Re: What Apartment Is Best For A Newly Wedded Couple? by ednut1(m): 7:32pm On Sep 29, 2019
Ugosample:


did you say igbo list?
na estimate sir
Re: What Apartment Is Best For A Newly Wedded Couple? by Lamanii22(f): 7:33pm On Sep 29, 2019
Offpoint:
I think Adam was the luckiest man on earth....


Free wife
Free Accommodation
Free meals
Free wears
Free medical bills

No other females with heavy and 'temptatious' back sides and boobs to lust at....
No in-laws
jeeez


Dude was lucky as hell



Swears man
Re: What Apartment Is Best For A Newly Wedded Couple? by Ugosample(m): 7:34pm On Sep 29, 2019
ednut1:
na estimate sir
I get you
the problem we have is that men have stopped being men .That is we are having all these wahala undecided
Re: What Apartment Is Best For A Newly Wedded Couple? by Nnemuka(m): 7:41pm On Sep 29, 2019
ednut1:
na why u never marry. Since ur rich why not pay cheesy
e painam grin grin
broke guys be attacking me tongue
Re: What Apartment Is Best For A Newly Wedded Couple? by Nnemuka(m): 7:44pm On Sep 29, 2019
Ugosample:



Nigeria is the HQ of extreme poverty
What else were you thinking or expecting?

At least men (well most of them) don t delude themselves

But many ladies in Nigeria dey live for dream land....

Ashawo and side chick to Married men na the final bus stop las las

the rich men many desire in Nigeria are a miniscule percentage of the populace

Take it or leave it cheesy


Abeg men here
Cut your coat according to your situation
and if the woman is not interested
then you should not be with her in the first place
was the ashewo your mum's final bus stop?
or did your sisters also inherit the olosho work? grin grin
Re: What Apartment Is Best For A Newly Wedded Couple? by blissbliss: 7:45pm On Sep 29, 2019
Mustack:


That remind me, someone I know very well use a miniflat with his 2 children before the 3rd came. He construct a double bet close to his bed for them.. both children use it as the 3rd child being an infant stayed with them on bed..

Not everyone would understand. The fact that most people take a 2 bedroom apartment shouldn’t necessarily affect your decision.

Enough said.
Re: What Apartment Is Best For A Newly Wedded Couple? by Ugosample(m): 7:47pm On Sep 29, 2019
Nnemuka:

was the ashewo your mum's final bus stop?
or did your sisters also inherit the olosho work? grin grin

You missed my point

I was not making specific references to you

All I was saying is that the unrealistic standard's many ladies have in NIGERIA these days will lead them into that las las

and that is the TRUTH

THE demand for the comfortable men is so high (practically most women)

But the supply is thinning out

when you have a demand /supply mismatch

You know what follows
Re: What Apartment Is Best For A Newly Wedded Couple? by Ugosample(m): 7:48pm On Sep 29, 2019
Gerrard59:


I don't know about those locations in Abuja environs but Apapa is a no no. The road network there is horrible! Although, Ajah is quite expensive for an average Nigerian who got wedded but it's better than Apapa or Okokomiako, which is the worst of the worst. shocked Na marriage no be death penalty. Going through this thread, to be a man is not a day's job. embarassed

being a man is not easy at all
Re: What Apartment Is Best For A Newly Wedded Couple? by Poanan: 7:50pm On Sep 29, 2019
ednut1:
you see say you be joker. 2 bedroom with agreement and agent fee in a place like ikotun is like over 380 to 420k. Furnishing if you have properties in your old house before will be like 150k. If you are coming from your parents house 500k will go to furnishing. Lets always be realistic and truth ful. Unless your wife and both families get sense 1m can't do wedding. Igbo list is over 500k self

I don't agree with you. Families usually look at capability before they bring list out. Are there no poor men in the east?
Re: What Apartment Is Best For A Newly Wedded Couple? by agarawu23(m): 8:01pm On Sep 29, 2019
obonujoker:
Please I need advice

I and my better half would be tying the knots soon and we are trying to secure an apartment as a newly wedded couple

Please what kind of apartment would be preferable

1 room self contain
Room + parlour self contain (1 bedroom mini flat)
2 bedroom flat

Thanks for your responses and reasons

Mr man, first of all, cut the wedding expenses short and don't mind what any fvcking person will say. I am sure u are an average guy and that's why u are asking prices for accommodation so that u can be prepared(rich dudes won't come here to ask)

2 bedroom is the best cos u will be having kids after your wedding. Should I remind u again? DON'T DO MORE THAN YOURSLEF IN THE NAME OF TRYING TO IMPRESS OR JOINING THE TREND.

If your wife to be wants a lavish wedding, tell her to bring money from her parents cos nobody will help u feed her after lavish wedding. Use your brain, get the accommodation first then use the remaining money to Wed.

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Re: What Apartment Is Best For A Newly Wedded Couple? by skukimania(f): 8:03pm On Sep 29, 2019
ednut1:
no mind am. I stay around kfa i know as he dey go. Some of the adds online are not truthful

Thank you. Because that 400k event centre for island shock me oh.
Re: What Apartment Is Best For A Newly Wedded Couple? by somehow: 8:04pm On Sep 29, 2019
Abi? More reasons we have increased in fraud stories and criminality. plenty people trying to put themselves where they don't belong.
Aurielfinizu:


and again most the guys self want to live in Lekki, Maitama, asokoro, banana island or wuse, just to feel among..

u will die young if u wish to compete with politician.

meanwhile u have a place like apapa, kubwa, suleja, nyanya maraba or epe ajah where u can manage cheap rent there..

de there de mumu yourself.. and las las mind the kinda woman u marry

b4 i marry i will make sure she can manage with me what i have,,

bros no do pass urself ooo
Re: What Apartment Is Best For A Newly Wedded Couple? by somehow: 8:04pm On Sep 29, 2019
Yes, for mumus
Bluehill1051:
Mango #500?only 1. shocked
Re: What Apartment Is Best For A Newly Wedded Couple? by Cousin9999: 8:10pm On Sep 29, 2019
If your primary concern is family and strong finances, live with your family or hers. This is what tradition dictates because it makes sense. You save money and help the family. Family helps with the first baby. The baby bonds with extended family.

If you want privacy and need your own space, get a two bedroom.

If you can only afford a small place, get roommates, and wait until your money is straight before you have a baby.
Re: What Apartment Is Best For A Newly Wedded Couple? by ednut1(m): 8:23pm On Sep 29, 2019
Nnemuka:

e painam grin grin
broke guys be attacking me tongue
madam i aint broke. Would rather use the money deposit for my mortgage in canada than use am entertain some people. Tufiakwa
Re: What Apartment Is Best For A Newly Wedded Couple? by BabaIbo: 8:26pm On Sep 29, 2019
skukimania:



These ones they put 400k, I hope it will really be 400k when you get there. Because this was something we (my sister and I) checked ourselves. So, it wasn't as if I was told. Even kfa event centres just after jakande first gate that is not even a real building self, they charged 1.5m.
Meanwhile, u will still rent tables and chairs, decorate the interior and all.

Na normal thing, they will hike the prices but if you go through someone who has uded or insider you will get good prices.
You can also check churches around those areas with halls, preferably Catholic, Anglican etc
Re: What Apartment Is Best For A Newly Wedded Couple? by Nobody: 8:28pm On Sep 29, 2019
obonujoker:
Please I need advice

I and my better half would be tying the knots soon and we are trying to secure an apartment as a newly wedded couple

Please what kind of apartment would be preferable

1 room self contain
Room + parlour self contain (1 bedroom mini flat)
2 bedroom flat

Thanks for your responses and reasons

Where are you living NOW ?
Re: What Apartment Is Best For A Newly Wedded Couple? by somehow: 8:29pm On Sep 29, 2019
austinauto:


Oga make we no lie to ourselves this amount no fit work. In 2016 wey I do my wedding I tot 600k fit work, but o boy e no work at all. There are some hidden cost wey you no go ever think about when making your budget, dem be small small things o but na them dey chop money pass. Even the warri you dey talk so the hall wey we use do our wedding was 150k. At the end both traditional and the white, we spent more than 2m, even as we try to manage reach. Maybe except you are doing both wedding same day and also in empty space.

There's no amount that can't work, it all depends on your taste and priorities
Re: What Apartment Is Best For A Newly Wedded Couple? by BabaIbo: 8:31pm On Sep 29, 2019
skukimania:


Thank you. Because that 400k event centre for island shock me oh.

Na wetin dey kill una be that, wetin some go get for 500 naira another person go get am for 2000naira, it's OK

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Re: What Apartment Is Best For A Newly Wedded Couple? by BabaIbo: 8:35pm On Sep 29, 2019
ednut1:
when you go to those places na another price dem go call for or the place too small to host wedding.

It depends on the info that you have, there are situations were people pay different prices for same hall, it's OK. Make we off the matter abeg
Re: What Apartment Is Best For A Newly Wedded Couple? by Dreew(f): 8:38pm On Sep 29, 2019
madgoat:

You are funny. What if it take 10 years before the woman gets pregnant and by then the mother-in-law may already be deceased. So who uses all the unnecessary extra space grin

Ahn ahn, you're funny too. There shall be no barrenness in this land. And mother-inlaw is 60 going on 16.
Re: What Apartment Is Best For A Newly Wedded Couple? by BeeBeeOoh(m): 8:53pm On Sep 29, 2019
izzou:


Your boy just dey. grin
This Buharism reach your side so?
Re: What Apartment Is Best For A Newly Wedded Couple? by jclassiq(m): 8:53pm On Sep 29, 2019
obonujoker:
Where I'm planning to get the apartment (Alapere, Ketu)

Room+parlour self (300-400k -1st year)

2 bedroom flat (550-700k- 1st year)

I just need good advice. Thanks

Can you comfortably pay the rents every other year. Think it through. You may be able to pay now cos you have saved up for it, but how about next year? And upper one?
Re: What Apartment Is Best For A Newly Wedded Couple? by izzou(m): 9:11pm On Sep 29, 2019
BeeBeeOoh:
This Buharism reach your side so?

Wetin we go do naa?

The deed has been done. Let's bear till 2023 grin
Re: What Apartment Is Best For A Newly Wedded Couple? by BeeBeeOoh(m): 9:50pm On Sep 29, 2019
izzou:


Wetin we go do naa?

The deed has been done. Let's bear till 2023 grin
Las Las, my name don become endurance angry cry

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