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2 Out Of 3 Kids Are Not Mine - Man Married For 12 Years by jobsonlist: 6:43am On Sep 30, 2019
The time devil settles in your home is when one gets married to a bad partner. I got married to a wrong woman about 12years ago, we had 3kids, 2 boys and a girl, our first child (a boy) is 11years old.

I have been suspecting her for some time now. We've been having issues recently, our families and friends have tried to help us reconcile but she kept insulting me and my family members an attitude which she developed overnight. Initially she stole from my save about a million naira and ran away from home with our kids, I started searching for her, called her people to persuade her to return home because her safety and that of the kids is more important to me and I do not want to know the reason why she stole from me. She returned with the kids and that was the beginning of it.

Her stealing habit never stopped rather she turned it into an hobby. There was a time she returned home after her usual practice, I asked the kids where their mother took them to, they said they stayed in one uncle's house.

That was the beginning of my worries, who is this man my wife will always run to anytime she steals from me? .what was their motive,I prayed and hoped she will not kill me one day. So I decided to dig up her Facebook account and see who are mutual friends are, I tried to see if I can get the details of the man she runs to.

I picture one of her ex, believing he could be the one, but something struck me about this man, my first son has a form resemblance with him, is it possible I am not the father of our first son?, or is it just my imagination? She did the usual again and I vowed never to take her back ,families and friends tried to settle our differences but I refused, they don't want to see things from my perspective ,they don't seem to understand me, they kept using the kids as a bait, I accepted her again.

About 2 years ago, she packed out of the house on her own, insisting I get her an apartment for her and the kids which I did, she demanded for a shop where she will sell frozen foods, I did all she wanted, gave her monthly allowance for the kids and her self. So, I decided to take the bold step, I did DNA test for my first son, after some weeks the result came out NEGATIVE.

I almost lost it, I wasn't myself, I called her one on one and told her about the DNA result, she wasn't shock and she didn't feel remorseful, I told a friend of mine who was also close to her to talk to her about the result and recorded their conversation, she said I should not think of digging too deep because I might hurt myself, already the doctor advised that I carry out DNA test on the remaining two kids, few weeks back , I got the results, our second child which is the girl is mine, but the other boy is not mine.

So painful after 12 years, I get to know the person I called my wife. Now, she is no where to be found with the kids. I want you all to help me fish out this wicked woman, so she give me my daughter before she destroys her life


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Re: 2 Out Of 3 Kids Are Not Mine - Man Married For 12 Years by Pavore9: 7:12am On Sep 30, 2019
The wife should also do her own DNA test to rule out baby switching before paternity fraud can be fully established.

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Re: 2 Out Of 3 Kids Are Not Mine - Man Married For 12 Years by Rosarie(f): 7:23am On Sep 30, 2019
Women love to deliver in one hospital,If the hospital is good .so the woman should do a DNA in case there was a switch,if she cheated then shame on her.its better to walk away than to cheat.two good kids ,too bad.....
But men u don't need DNA to know
The signs are there.
If u have three kids , two must look alike esp during baby stage,some characters will of two will play out,they do things alike,it's just there.i have seen these even still seeing one with 3girls and non look alike,
As a man have sixth sense .. before DNA, the signs are always there.

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Re: 2 Out Of 3 Kids Are Not Mine - Man Married For 12 Years by Acidosis(m): 7:53am On Sep 30, 2019
cococandy:

Go and find the kids you left in other men’s houses. What goes around does come around.
What's this Coco??

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Re: 2 Out Of 3 Kids Are Not Mine - Man Married For 12 Years by Jayslicky: 8:32am On Sep 30, 2019
According to recent stats the percentage of bastard children in Nigeria is at 33%, so if you have three children, there is a high possibility of having a bastard in your home.

Men save up to do DNA so as to not save up for heart attack in the future.

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Re: 2 Out Of 3 Kids Are Not Mine - Man Married For 12 Years by cococandy(f): 8:33am On Sep 30, 2019
Die mad
Jayslicky:
See natural stupidity, how did you know he has children outside his marriage, you are always trying to form feminist but you just a dumb.

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Re: 2 Out Of 3 Kids Are Not Mine - Man Married For 12 Years by cococandy(f): 8:34am On Sep 30, 2019
Lmao: una never start.

The polygamous nature at work.
Jayslicky:
According to recent stats the percentage of bastard children in Nigeria is at 33%, so if you have three children, there is a high possibility of having a bastard in your home.

Men save up to do DNA so as to not save up for heart attack in the future.

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Re: 2 Out Of 3 Kids Are Not Mine - Man Married For 12 Years by cococandy(f): 8:34am On Sep 30, 2019
It is what it looks like
Acidosis:


What's this Coco??

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Re: 2 Out Of 3 Kids Are Not Mine - Man Married For 12 Years by yeyeosoronga: 8:37am On Sep 30, 2019
cococandy:


Go and find the kids you left in other men’s houses.
What goes around does come around.

Chai!!!
This one is uppercut...

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Re: 2 Out Of 3 Kids Are Not Mine - Man Married For 12 Years by Mstick: 8:50am On Sep 30, 2019
The polygamous nature of men strikes again. Eyah take heart sir penîs is no respecter of marriage vow.

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Re: 2 Out Of 3 Kids Are Not Mine - Man Married For 12 Years by Richy4(m): 9:25am On Sep 30, 2019
That could give a man some heart attack and lots of sleepless nights..

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Re: 2 Out Of 3 Kids Are Not Mine - Man Married For 12 Years by Destined2win: 9:36am On Sep 30, 2019
cococandy:


Go and find the kids you left in other men’s houses.
What goes around does come around.
This comment reeks of guilt on your part.

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Re: 2 Out Of 3 Kids Are Not Mine - Man Married For 12 Years by cococandy(f): 9:37am On Sep 30, 2019
Okay. And so what?
Destined2win:
This comment reeks of guilt on your part.

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Re: 2 Out Of 3 Kids Are Not Mine - Man Married For 12 Years by cococandy(f): 9:38am On Sep 30, 2019
grin grin

Have your cardiologist’s number on speed dial
Richy4:
That could give a man some heart attack and lots of sleepless nights..

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Re: 2 Out Of 3 Kids Are Not Mine - Man Married For 12 Years by Destined2win: 10:05am On Sep 30, 2019
cococandy:
Okay. And so what?
You will be caught and dealt with

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Re: 2 Out Of 3 Kids Are Not Mine - Man Married For 12 Years by cococandy(f): 10:08am On Sep 30, 2019
The same way y’all are being dealt with now right?

Don’t worry your own baby form another man is coming. Hypocrites

Destined2win:
You will be caught and dealt with

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Re: 2 Out Of 3 Kids Are Not Mine - Man Married For 12 Years by Destined2win: 10:12am On Sep 30, 2019
cococandy:
The same y’all are being dealt with now right?

Don’t worry your own baby form another man is coming. Hypocrites

Not every woman is like you who opens her leg for every man while married, and not every man is like the men you have known all your life who go about impregnating people's wives.

So I'll advice you shut up and seek psychological assistance.

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Re: 2 Out Of 3 Kids Are Not Mine - Man Married For 12 Years by cococandy(f): 10:14am On Sep 30, 2019
Really?

I thought the research is out there to prove otherwise. That we are all going around sleeping with other men and bringing bastards home.

Who are the ones doing this and who are the men impregnating them?


Destined2win:
Not every woman is like you who opens her leg for every man while married, and not every man is like the men you have known all your life who go about impregnating people's wives.

So I'll advice you shut and seek psychological assistance.

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Re: 2 Out Of 3 Kids Are Not Mine - Man Married For 12 Years by Destined2win: 10:19am On Sep 30, 2019
cococandy:
Really?

I thought the research is out there to prove otherwise. That we are all going around sleeping with other men and bringing bastards home.

Who are the ones doing this and who are the men impregnating them?


I just checked your profile and saw the picture of a cute girl. Whether she belongs to your husband or not, I love kids including her. For that single reason, I won't use wrong words on you again

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Re: 2 Out Of 3 Kids Are Not Mine - Man Married For 12 Years by Destined2win: 10:20am On Sep 30, 2019
cococandy:
Really?

I thought the research is out there to prove otherwise. That we are all going around sleeping with other men and bringing bastards home.

Who are the ones doing this and who are the men impregnating them?


Not everyone sleeps around but there are terrible eggs. Women are held more responsible because they are the primary home builders

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Re: 2 Out Of 3 Kids Are Not Mine - Man Married For 12 Years by cococandy(f): 10:32am On Sep 30, 2019
Argh we’ve finally gotten to the heart of the matter.

The sexism and misogyny masked as something else.
Women being held more responsible even though they are not the supposed leaders of the home.

Lay on the bed y’all have made.
Destined2win:
Not everyone sleeps around but there are terrible eggs. Women are held more responsible because they are the primary home builders

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Re: 2 Out Of 3 Kids Are Not Mine - Man Married For 12 Years by cococandy(f): 10:32am On Sep 30, 2019
undecided
Destined2win:
I just checked your profile and saw the picture of a cute girl. Whether she belongs to your husband or not, I love kids including her. For that single reason, I won't use wrong words on you again

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Re: 2 Out Of 3 Kids Are Not Mine - Man Married For 12 Years by Destined2win: 10:48am On Sep 30, 2019
cococandy:
Argh we’ve finally gotten to the heart of the matter.

The sexism and misogyny masked as something else.
Women being held more responsible even though they are not the supposed leaders of the home.

Lay on the bed y’all have made.
Have a nice day.

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Re: 2 Out Of 3 Kids Are Not Mine - Man Married For 12 Years by cococandy(f): 10:49am On Sep 30, 2019
Yep. Run away
Destined2win:
Have a nice day.

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Re: 2 Out Of 3 Kids Are Not Mine - Man Married For 12 Years by Destined2win: 10:50am On Sep 30, 2019
cococandy:
Yep. Run away
Before I forget, my regards to young princess, she makes more sense than you

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Re: 2 Out Of 3 Kids Are Not Mine - Man Married For 12 Years by cococandy(f): 10:54am On Sep 30, 2019
We are at the point of turning off our brains and just going rubbish eh?

Destined2win:
Before I forget, my regards to young princess, she makes more sense than you

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Re: 2 Out Of 3 Kids Are Not Mine - Man Married For 12 Years by Chummynoni(m): 10:57am On Sep 30, 2019
hmm, that means monica must have lied to me that i am responsible for her pregnancy. i only fingered her
Re: 2 Out Of 3 Kids Are Not Mine - Man Married For 12 Years by Destined2win: 11:07am On Sep 30, 2019
cococandy:
We are at the point of turning off our brains and just going rubbish eh?

Chocolatecandy abi Milkcandy, leave me alone oooooooo

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Re: 2 Out Of 3 Kids Are Not Mine - Man Married For 12 Years by jnrbayano(m): 11:12am On Sep 30, 2019
cococandy:


Go and find the kids you left in other men’s houses.
What goes around does come around.

Whoa!

Do you know this man?

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Re: 2 Out Of 3 Kids Are Not Mine - Man Married For 12 Years by cococandy(f): 11:20am On Sep 30, 2019
Yes cool
jnrbayano:


Whoa!

Do you know this man?

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