teragenesys:


Then how do we deal with this insecurity. Educate us. Because it seems you've gotten over it.

Very simple:
The friend of your woman (who, by the way, probably knows more about her than you) is YOUR friend. You would/should certainly spend time together (aka tell him to invite his wife and you all go out together), get to know the person who spends so much time with your woman and since he is her best friend, he will be around you guys a lot (whether you like it or not). You have to look at this man as YOUR ally, because there will be times when HE will get you out of trouble.

Bro, that's the man that your woman turns to when she is upset, has worries, when she is too afraid to share stuff with you (YES, you should be the one that your woman turns to for such thing, but we all know how some won't, even if you are the most open man on earth)

by the time you get to know this man, you will certainly understand that he is harmless, and can help you in many ways than you can think of:
-if you don't understand your woman, talk to him, he will fill you in.
- If you don't know what she really like (with anything) ask him....especially on bdays.
- if you can't get a hold of her, call him FIRST.
- if you want to surprise her, ask for his help
Etc etc etc

Again, if your woman has nothing to hide, she will have absolutely no problem with having this man around you...and if you can't stand the sight of the people your woman spend most of her time with, then I suggest you find another babe to be with.

MrBrownJay1:


Very simple:
The friend of your woman (who, by the way, probably knows more about her than you) is YOUR friend. You would/should certainly spend time together (aka tell him to invite his wife and you all go out together), get to know the person who spends so much time with your woman and since he is her best friend, he will be around you guys a lot (whether you like it or not). You have to look at this man as YOUR ally, because there will be times when HE will get you out of trouble.

Bro, that's the man that your woman turns to when she is upset, has worries, when she is too afraid to share stuff with you (YES, you should be the one that your woman turns to for such thing, but we all know how some won't, even if you are the most open man on earth)

by the time you get to know this man, you will certainly understand that he is harmless, and can help you in many ways than you can think of:
-if you don't understand your woman, talk to him, he will fill you in.
- If you don't know what she really like (with anything) ask him....especially on bdays.
- if you can't get a hold of her, call him FIRST.
- if you want to surprise her, ask for his help
Etc etc etc

Again, if your woman has nothing to hide, she will have absolutely no problem with having this man around you...and if you can't stand the sight of the people your woman spend most of her time with, then I suggest you find another babe to be with.

Respect bro. This is good stuff.