Toks2008:

Why should they disrespect or fight each other? Only stupid parents do that.

If there is any form of misunderstanding it is best settled without the kids involvement or notice.

when there is no love, then soon enough disrespect will set in etc and we all know that many have no problem in insulting one another in front of the kids (or worse). thats what happen when such union are without any love whatsoever.

an unhappy bitter miserable parent CANNOT raise happy children... it just dont go.

MrBrownJay1:


when there is no love, then soon enough disrespect will set in etc and we all know that many have no problem in insulting one another in front of the kids (or worse). thats what happen when such union are without any love whatsoever.

an unhappy bitter miserable parent CANNOT raise happy children... it just dont go.

How many people are happy in their Marriage?

Marriage is not about feelings but a vivid determination to stay and work it out.

Cheers.

MrBrownJay1:


when there is no love, then soon enough disrespect will set in etc and we all know that many have no problem in insulting one another in front of the kids (or worse). thats what happen when such union are without any love whatsoever.

an unhappy bitter miserable parent CANNOT raise happy children... it just dont go.

and it will play out in the children"s life as well.most men who end up as violent women beaters most times emulate their dads

Toks2008:


How many people are happy in their Marriage?

Marriage is not about feelings but a vivid determination to stay and work it out.

Cheers.

ehn bro their are ppl who are in a happy marriage.if u are in an unahappy marriage its best u just quietly breakup with her or him otherwise u will just die before ur time.there was this lady i used to purchase gas from when i was in benin.this lady suddenly died of heart attack.very young lady not even up to 40.it was later we heard how her husband used to emotionally abuse her and she will swallow everything cos she is a staunch christian and her church frowns at seperation.when she died e no take two months the man carry another woman put for house.so na so e be.if u prefer to storm the tide u go just end six feet below and the funny thing ur partner will not remember u when u gone..in short he or she would even be happy that u passed away.

merit1988:
I got married as a young virgin...probably didnt understand what love was all about then....I've never really felt love or being loved in my marriage..coupled with some other marriage issues..I wear the shoes and I know where it hurts...all I need is advices on how to build my love life and not yabs pls...it's very hurtful

Toks2008:
How many people are happy in their Marriage?

many are unhappy in marriages and stay married at any cost... if you believe that this is the way to go then so be it. i guess children may learn great life lessons from their parents being miserable and abusing each other (emotionally and physically)

Marriage is not about feelings but a vivid determination to stay and work it out.
Cheers.

to work things out in marriage, you 1st have to want to make things better between one another... and a true desire to stay together for the benefit of the FAMILY. too many deluded people out there want to stay married for the wrong reasons.

lefulefu:
and it will play out in the children"s life as well.most men who end up as violent women beaters most times emulate their dads

exactly!!!

MrBrownJay1:


- dont you think that the kids will be negatively affected if/when they see daddy and mummy insult and disrespect one another (in so many ways)?
- dont you think that it is wrong to raise children in such manner?
- dont you think that its wrong for children to believe that its ok for parents to have no respect for one another?
- dont you think thats its wrong to stay in these miserable unions?
- how can any bitter/miserable person in such union be a good parent?

and who says all ur negative outline exist in my marriage? Pls look b4 u leap

merit1988:
I hv been trying to play my role as a wife anyway.... thanks for u warm advices....I'm grateful..ur name though

Na Advice you come Seek or to observe All Wilson's??

merit1988:
and who says all ur negative outline exist in my marriage? Pls look b4 u leap

they may not exist "yet" sista... the union is very young but they are coming.

merit1988:
I got married as a young virgin...probably didnt understand what love was all about then....I've never really felt love or being loved in my marriage..coupled with some other marriage issues..I wear the shoes and I know where it hurts...all I need is advices on how to build my love life and not yabs pls...it's very hurtful

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Knowerjay:


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I'm a lady..not a bro sir... secondly ur what'sapp link isn't connecting

Sirvingeo:

Most virgin I know enjoy their marriage .

"most"....not "all"

invectives:
Na Advice you come Seek or to observe All Wilson's??

lol...if my problem is "Wilson", I know where to get it...I'm more concerned abt my happiness dearie

lefulefu:
ehn bro their are ppl who are in a happy marriage.if u are in an unahappy marriage its best u just quietly breakup with her or him otherwise u will just die before ur time.there was this lady i used to purchase gas from when i was in benin.this lady suddenly died of heart attack.very young lady not even up to 40.it was later we heard how her husband used to emotionally abuse her and she will swallow everything cos she is a staunch christian and her church frowns at seperation.when she died e no take two months the man carry another woman put for house.so na so e be.if u prefer to storm the tide u go just end six feet below and the funny thing ur partner will not remember u when u gone..in short he or she would even be happy that u passed away.

hmmmmm

DaudaTheSexyGuy:


You did not get enough practice before settling down with this dick.

I'm also sure your husband is also tired of your toto already.

Your best bet now is to get a boyfriend who will be servicing you cos I'm sure it's been over 6 months since your husband touched you last

lol...funny

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merit1988:
I got married as a young virgin...probably didnt understand what love was all about then....I've never really felt love or being loved in my marriage..coupled with some other marriage issues..I wear the shoes and I know where it hurts...all I need is advices on how to build my love life and not yabs pls...it's very hurtful

I still don't get it,,,, are you struggling with everything in your marriage?

Love, money, sex, what exactly are you struggling with?

merit1988:
I got married as a young virgin...probably didnt understand what love was all about then....I've never really felt love or being loved in my marriage..coupled with some other marriage issues..I wear the shoes and I know where it hurts...all I need is advices on how to build my love life and not yabs pls...it's very hurtful

Though you didn't give us much info to work with


Anyway, show him respect and he ll show you love in return

OkongwuTochukwu:
You need to make sure your wife always does want you need, sometimes a little slap can go a long way.

You're an id1ot for recommending violence as a means of ensuring compliance in a relationship!

Always suck his cuck and let him shoot his hot cum in your mouth.

merit1988:
I got married as a young virgin...probably didnt understand what love was all about then....I've never really felt love or being loved in my marriage..coupled with some other marriage issues..I wear the shoes and I know where it hurts...all I need is advices on how to build my love life and not yabs pls...it's very hurtful

Stay there and continue the way youve been doing since you got married.

Should we advise you to leave?
At least learn to be a friend to him. That way you guys will last longer.
You're in, you're in. Let those who have not entered see road abeg.

Ayyah! try and develop it yourself
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Ayyah! try and develop it yourself

Kilo kan niggar pelu marriage ati shoe

merit1988:
I got married as a young virgin...probably didnt understand what love was all about then....I've never really felt love or being loved in my marriage..coupled with some other marriage issues..I wear the shoes and I know where it hurts...all I need is advices on how to build my love life and not yabs pls...it's very hurtful

how many kids, if none, get someone u love and marry him, and don't disturb me with your marriage/love again ok

It's sad. But sometimes you've got to take your time and work it out with your partner. There's a reason you got married in the first place. Look for that spark and restore it.
Meanwhile, did you know you can build a really beautiful building using just salt. Check it out http://prodesigners.com.ng/why-you-should-build-your-house-with-salt/

virgin or non virginity has nothing to do with love....... love is deeper than your status as a lady before getting married , guess u should ask yourself this few Q..... how do u miss him when his away from home, how often do u guys interact, as communication has a vital role to play here, what are his likes n dislikes, and what exactly do U AS A PERSON want and how do u express the LOVE toward him........ wish u all d best with LOVE

What exactly do you mean by no love? You don't want to have sex with your husband? You don't enjoy his company? What exactly ?

You want to go have sex with other people as you feel you are missing out ? You are the confused party as you don't even know what your problem is

merit1988:
I got married as a young virgin...probably didnt understand what love was all about then....I've never really felt love or being loved in my marriage..coupled with some other marriage issues..I wear the shoes and I know where it hurts...all I need is advices on how to build my love life and not yabs pls...it's very hurtful

Seek professional counselling........

Not from your pastor, GO, mummy GO, daddy, mummy etcetera

see as love/romance topics follow thierselves for FP.




but this thread seems familiar..like I've come across it b4 , I don't know if it was by who or someone else. but I'll say this, please we should be matured enough to get married..I don't understand why a lady below 23 should be getting married. this is the end result.

Lazerone:
It's sad. But sometimes you've got to take your time and work it out with your partner. There's a reason you got married in the first place. Look for that spark and restore it.
Meanwhile, did you know you can build a really beautiful building using just salt. Check it out http://prodesigners.com.ng/why-you-should-build-your-house-with-salt/

The spark is absolute western rubbish. Spark of what exactly are you a transformer ?

Real marriages are built on substance not some flimsy spark. The spark is stupidest thing to build a marriage.

Love is the death of duty. Marriage is as a matter of fact duty first!

there is no perfect Love out there, just learn to appreciate what you have and always try to be the best version of urself. you may think you don't have perfect life or Marriage now. you will only come to realize when you loss it all. l believe ur Husband doesn't beat you( not abusive). stop focusing on the ferry tales of Other people's lives you see around you. it all a lie no body is 100%. learn to Love yourself, and ur family.