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Re: I Have Messed Up My Life by edward1106(m): 2:39pm On Nov 26, 2019
Call all the people you owe money and speak to them sincerely you don't have a means to pay for now. If luck is on your side, they wont pressure you and will tell you to pay when you have it. That alone will solve the fear factor. Then you need look for something doing and of course, look away from gambling
Re: I Have Messed Up My Life by phranklyn92(m): 3:10pm On Nov 26, 2019
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Re: I Have Messed Up My Life by Okokalu: 3:57pm On Nov 26, 2019
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Re: I Have Messed Up My Life by daisidavid(m): 4:40pm On Nov 26, 2019
ChildOfDoom:
fear

I live in fear. there is the fear of losing my life anytime I am apprehended by those I owe. there is a permanent fear and insecurity that I may never make it since I am a drop out. my mates who paid attention to their books,are either in N-Power or one white collar job or the other. the country is very hard now. so I see gambling as my only way of making it big. it puts me in more misery at the end of the day though. the fear of going down due to my passive kidney issue is there. no matter how much I eat or jerk off,the fear remains.the fear of not being able to handle money without gambling with it, pushes me at times to make panic and reckless spending.
i have three banks accounts with zero figures as I lack a saving ability.

I act and reason less than a child now due to my insecurities. some times I find myself unknowingly hitting my body on parked vehicles or the wall because I am usually lost in thought



Don't kill yourself over this very small issue of yours! I'm a drop out as well! Nobody to call a family just mutual friends and so on! Believe me brother the situation of yours right now is for you to just retract your steps and plan over from the beginning again! This one you're over thinking won't help you instead the situation still remain the same and it gives you unnecessary headache at times! Doing all this doesn't mean the end of the road or does it mean tomorrow you won't be a better person instead redefine yourself.... Leave and stop acting leaving
Re: I Have Messed Up My Life by daisidavid(m): 4:40pm On Nov 26, 2019
Forward77:
CONGRATULATIONS!!!

You already know what your problem is(70% solved), then start to solve them.

Replace those habits with other ones and you’re good to go.

GOODLUCK!
God bless you!!

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Re: I Have Messed Up My Life by 2RUTHHURTS(m): 6:19pm On Nov 26, 2019
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Re: I Have Messed Up My Life by Sleekydee(m): 6:25pm On Nov 26, 2019
Depressed101:



I am typing this from a bet office, currently charging my phone there, infact somebody just won 70k, I don't need to tell you how much the person has lost... My point is even when I am in the den, I no longer feel the urge to play it.

I AM SAVED, YOU CAN BE SAVED TOO.


However I play live bet responsibly and I enjoy it..as a gambler I hope you know the psychological difference between live bet and virtual bet...

Goodluck

Which kind "advice from hell be this one"? its confirmed, there is absolutely nothing Musa wont visualize at the gate.
Re: I Have Messed Up My Life by Sima04: 4:27am On Nov 27, 2019
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Re: I Have Messed Up My Life by Hypnotise: 7:39am On Nov 27, 2019
edward1106:
Call all the people you owe money and speak to them sincerely you don't have a means to pay for now. If luck is on your side, they wont pressure you and will tell you to pay when you have it. That alone will solve the fear factor. Then you need look for something doing and of course, look away from gambling
Some won't give him chance to talk, threaten him and hang up immediately after
Re: I Have Messed Up My Life by Nobody: 8:19am On Nov 27, 2019
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Re: I Have Messed Up My Life by Nobody: 8:22am On Nov 27, 2019
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Re: I Have Messed Up My Life by Nobody: 10:31am On Nov 27, 2019
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I wondered why are you not on fiver or kindle and makes your life better
Re: I Have Messed Up My Life by ChildOfDoom: 6:18pm On Nov 27, 2019
Tony142:



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Re: I Have Messed Up My Life by Tony142: 7:41pm On Nov 27, 2019
ChildOfDoom:
my whatsapp phone is faulty
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Re: I Have Messed Up My Life by Nobody: 7:53pm On Nov 27, 2019
saasala:
My younger brother is in exact state as you. I have tried everything known to man to help him but all to no avail.

Now I dont give a fvck what happens to him anymore. He can commit suicide if he wants.

Get yourself out of that addiction of yours. By all means get your life together.

Blessed are those who are not addicted to anything in life, for they shall be called the successful men of the earth.
Lols, you don't know what addiction is unless you are into it. I was addicted to porn and mastubation for 2 years before Jesus saved me through the prayer of faith (I was an atheist back then). If it was that easy to get out if addiction no body would be an addict.

op, you should seek for spiritual help.
Re: I Have Messed Up My Life by Nobody: 6:11pm On Nov 28, 2019
ChildOfDoom:
my whatsapp phone is faulty
If you wanna stop, you can stop betting...

For the past 4 years I have been playing virtual as long as I have access to cash...

I could remembered vividly I have like 420k in my savings account, virtual took everything, I also engage in dubious deals in other to feed my addiction.

I thought I wasn't normal because I eat, drink and dream virtual not until I stumbled on your profile early this month.

At first I thought you were me because you narrated all my ordeal then I realised that I was normal.

Bro you inspired me to let go of my virtual addiction.

Before now I thought it's not possible not to play virtual as long as you have cash with you but hell no I was wrong.

Bro if I can do it, definitely you can do it as well.

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Re: I Have Messed Up My Life by Nobody: 6:16pm On Nov 28, 2019
JESUSBOIY:
Lols, you don't know what addiction is unless you are into it. I was addicted to porn and mastubation for 2 years before Jesus saved me through the prayer of faith (I was an atheist back then). If it was that easy to get out if addiction no body would be an addict.

op, you should seek for spiritual help.
Bro being spiritual won't help.

I slept in a church for complete 3 month praying and fastig earnestly but after I left the church the addiction tripled.

The only solution is a made up mind.

I was phoneless for 2 solid years despite earning 30kk, in fact if my salary can last for 3days then it's a miracle.
Re: I Have Messed Up My Life by Nobody: 6:18pm On Nov 28, 2019
legitwaysblog:
If you could right swiftly like this


I wondered why are you not on fiver or kindle and makes your life better
I admire the dude, he has potential., the thing is, he has refused to let go because they have taken a lot from him.
Re: I Have Messed Up My Life by Nobody: 6:34pm On Nov 28, 2019
novice22:
Bro being spiritual won't help.

I slept in a church for complete 3 month praying and fastig earnestly but after I left the church the addiction tripled.

The only solution is a made up mind.

I was phoneless for 2 solid years despite earning 30kk, in fact if my salary can last for 3days then it's a miracle.
lols, u don't get something from God by sleeping in church, you get it by faith(mk11:24). I didn't get any professional help for my social anxiety, porn addiction and mastubation .I was just sitting one day after the prayer of faith when something left me. I have forgotten what porn addiction is. I am free
Re: I Have Messed Up My Life by Nobody: 7:03pm On Nov 28, 2019
JESUSBOIY:
lols, u don't get something from God by sleeping in church, you get it by faith(mk11:24). I didn't get any professional help for my social anxiety, porn addiction and mastubation .I was just sitting one day after the prayer of faith when something left me. I have forgotten what porn addiction is. I am free
You might be right to some extent.
Re: I Have Messed Up My Life by IAmRoot(m): 8:04pm On Nov 28, 2019
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Re: I Have Messed Up My Life by Nobody: 11:06pm On Nov 28, 2019
Tony142:
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@ childofdoom. In one of your post you said "gambling is our hope of making it big"... Have you seen anyone making it big via virtual?.

I shouldn't be telling you this, use your head man.
Re: I Have Messed Up My Life by namiji2598: 2:49pm On Feb 17, 2020
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Re: I Have Messed Up My Life by Tony142: 2:59pm On Feb 17, 2020
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Re: I Have Messed Up My Life by Tony142: 2:59pm On Feb 17, 2020
Re: I Have Messed Up My Life by Tolani1122(m): 5:46pm On Feb 17, 2020
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