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Why It's Foolish To Ask A Lady If She Is A Virgin Or Her Body Counts by Quality20(m): 6:43am On Nov 30, 2019
I think in this age where we are now,asking such questions either by parents or potential suitor is kind of foolish, because the ladies won't give u an honest response.
How can you meet a 25 year old girl who probably started having sex at age 12 and you are now asking such questions? She is only gonna laughs at ur naivety. A girl who may not even be able to remember the actual number of guys she has had over the years or their identities, some of the encounters were would have been so casual that they happened in less than a minute maybe behind the house fence, others maybe with some elderly men around secretly, then of course some unserious boyfrnds, classmates,teachers,lecturers,guys on dating sites, guys they met at the markets,bus etc.
The avenues girls now open to these ladies are just too numerous. So the best a man shd ask a lady on things like fantasies,intensity, frequencies and maybe miscarriages and abortion.
However,if u a dating a village girl,who is probably not more than 16, then it's not a bad idea to enquire if she is a virgin or if she is not,her body counts

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Re: Why It's Foolish To Ask A Lady If She Is A Virgin Or Her Body Counts by eitsei(m): 6:45am On Nov 30, 2019
because it's nobody's business what someone chose to do with her body
Re: Why It's Foolish To Ask A Lady If She Is A Virgin Or Her Body Counts by donbachi(m): 6:46am On Nov 30, 2019
Even if she says yes,it will not still be a conference sex.
Re: Why It's Foolish To Ask A Lady If She Is A Virgin Or Her Body Counts by Davash222(m): 6:50am On Nov 30, 2019
It's easier to find SK in heaven than to find a virgin Nigerian girl.

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Re: Why It's Foolish To Ask A Lady If She Is A Virgin Or Her Body Counts by Quality20(m): 6:59am On Nov 30, 2019
eitsei:
because it's nobody's business what someone chose to do with her body
Even for someone u wanna spend ur lifetime with?

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Re: Why It's Foolish To Ask A Lady If She Is A Virgin Or Her Body Counts by Abfinest007(m): 7:08am On Nov 30, 2019
I only ask my ex her body count n she said 7 then I ask how old is she said 21 n she started having sex at d age of 11 watch out for part two

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Re: Why It's Foolish To Ask A Lady If She Is A Virgin Or Her Body Counts by Born2Breed(f): 7:08am On Nov 30, 2019
There is nothing wrong in sharing your past with the one who will be in your future forever.

What you don't talk about eats you up.

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Re: Why It's Foolish To Ask A Lady If She Is A Virgin Or Her Body Counts by Davash222(m): 7:17am On Nov 30, 2019
Born2Breed:
There is nothing wrong in sharing your past with the one who will be in your future forever.
There is nothing wrong in keeping your virginity till you get married so you don't have a past to share.

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Re: Why It's Foolish To Ask A Lady If She Is A Virgin Or Her Body Counts by Nobody: 7:22am On Nov 30, 2019
eitsei:
because it's nobody's business what someone chose to do with her body
that's the biggest lie in the world. What you do with your is everybody, who decide to care business

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Re: Why It's Foolish To Ask A Lady If She Is A Virgin Or Her Body Counts by Born2Breed(f): 7:23am On Nov 30, 2019
Davash222:

There is nothing wrong in keeping your virginity till you get married so you don't have a past to share.

Nor be lie.

You are looking for a virgin to marry when you as a man has slept with several women.

Una hypocrisy eh...hypo nor fit clean am.

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Re: Why It's Foolish To Ask A Lady If She Is A Virgin Or Her Body Counts by Topmaike007(m): 7:26am On Nov 30, 2019
Even if she tells you she only have a single body count, when she have hundred you can't know if it's true or not when Alum is real and also the thing no dey read like meter

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Re: Why It's Foolish To Ask A Lady If She Is A Virgin Or Her Body Counts by Davash222(m): 7:26am On Nov 30, 2019
Born2Breed:


Nor be lie.

You are looking for a virgin to marry when you as a man has slept with several women.

Una hypocrisy eh...hypo nor fit clean am.
But, I didn't mention any gender. Seems your guilty conscience is playing pranks on you

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Re: Why It's Foolish To Ask A Lady If She Is A Virgin Or Her Body Counts by Born2Breed(f): 7:34am On Nov 30, 2019
Davash222:

But, I didn't mention any gender. Seems your guilty conscience is playing pranks on you

Guilty ke!

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Re: Why It's Foolish To Ask A Lady If She Is A Virgin Or Her Body Counts by Davash222(m): 7:37am On Nov 30, 2019
Born2Breed:


Guilty ke!
I understand. We've all fall short of God's glory.
It's well.

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Re: Why It's Foolish To Ask A Lady If She Is A Virgin Or Her Body Counts by eitsei(m): 8:01am On Nov 30, 2019
Quality20:
Even for someone u wanna spend ur lifetime with?
yes, before we met...what do I intend to do with the body count or is it going to make it reduce by knowing? being a virgin doesn't really mean the person is going to be a good wife.
anything that makes a man to have numerous body count or not a virgin, shouldn't expect same from a woman
Re: Why It's Foolish To Ask A Lady If She Is A Virgin Or Her Body Counts by Snowale: 8:21am On Nov 30, 2019
eitsei:
yes, before we met...what do I intend to do with the body count or is it going to make it reduce by knowing? being a virgin doesn't really mean the person is going to be a good wife.
anything that makes a man to have numerous body count or not a virgin, shouldn't expect same from a woman
Weather you like it or not, a woman Being a virgin is a very very good quality, even if a lady is rude, can't cook or lies, Her being a virgin cancels out all this vices, and her husband will always remember. Even, If he finds out she's barren after marrying her, most men won't divorce her or marry another, because of it. They have a clue of her past, and any every man would be happy they deflowered their wife.
It is very right for your fiancee to ask if you are a virgin or not, no man would like to marry an harlot. And if you lied to him about your virginity or the number of men you slept with, by the time he finds out the truth just be ready for divorce. Before and after marriage, no man would be happy to see any guy that slept with their lady, it's very painful, same as ladies. So, it is best to be a virgin till marriage

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Re: Why It's Foolish To Ask A Lady If She Is A Virgin Or Her Body Counts by eitsei(m): 8:31am On Nov 30, 2019
Snowale:
Weather you like it or not, a woman Being a virgin is a very very good quality, even if a lady is rude, can't cook or lies, Her being a virgin cancels out all this vices, and her husband will always remember. Even, If he finds out she's barren after marrying her, most men won't divorce her or marry another, because of it. They have a clue of her past, and any every man would be happy they deflowered their wife.
It is very right for your fiancee to ask if you are a virgin or not, no man would like to marry an harlot. And if you lied to him about your virginity or the number of men you slept with, by the time he finds out the truth just be ready for divorce. Before and after marriage, no man would be happy to see any guy that slept with their lady, it's very painful, same as ladies. So, it is best to be a virgin till marriage
it's funny how you think being a virgin simply cancels out being rude, lazy and a liar...I will choose a lady who is not rude, hardworking and honest and not a virgin over a virgin with a lot of bad characters.. you are forgetting she will lose her virginity when you sleep with her and her characters would remain?
being a virgin or not has little to do with barreness even a virgin can be barren...
I'm not saying being a virgin is bad or being a slut is good.. I'm just saying in the long run it doesn't count because there's more to a woman than her virginity

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Re: Why It's Foolish To Ask A Lady If She Is A Virgin Or Her Body Counts by Snowale: 8:57am On Nov 30, 2019
eitsei:
it's funny how you think being a virgin simply cancels out being rude, lazy and a liar...I will choose a lady who is not rude, hardworking and honest and not a virgin over a virgin with a lot of bad characters.. you are forgetting she will lose her virginity when you sleep with her and her characters would remain?
being a virgin or not has little to do with barreness even a virgin can be barren...
I'm not saying being a virgin is bad or being a slut is good.. I'm just saying in the long run it doesn't count because there's more to a woman than her virginity
There is more to a woman than being a virgin, but being a virgin is very important. Sex related offences being one of the major cause of divorce in marriage, and it not only after marriage, ie. Infidelity, but also before marriage. When it comes to adultery, no matter how calm the husband his, will he ever forgive his wife for sleeping with someone else, the same with the wife, and 90% of such leads to divorce. A man or woman can endure lies, rudeness and if she can't cook it usually not a big deal. But, when it comes to fornication, it's very bad. After marriage, some finds out their wife or husband had slept with the friends, brothers or sisters etc., only a very calm man would forget it so easily, and even maintain the friendship with such persons. So, being a virgin should be a lady's priority, and such people are usually good and truthful, if you know them. And you will also find out those that sleeps with multiple guys are usually bad and liars.

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Re: Why It's Foolish To Ask A Lady If She Is A Virgin Or Her Body Counts by eitsei(m): 10:13am On Nov 30, 2019
Snowale:
There is more to a woman than being a virgin, but being a virgin is very important. Sex related offences being one of the major course divorce in marriage, and it not only after marriage, ie. Infidelity, but also before marriage. When it comes to adultery, no matter how calm the husband his, will he ever forgive his wife for sleeping with someone else, the same with the wife, and 90% of such leads to divorce. A man or woman can endure lies, rudeness and if she can't cook it usually not a big deal. But, when it comes to fornication, it's very bad. After marriage, some finds out their wife or husband had slept with the friends, brothers or sisters etc., only a very calm man would forget it so easily, and even maintain the friendship with such persons. So, being a virgin should be a lady's priority, and such people are usually good and truthful, if you know them. And you will also find out those that sleeps with multiple guys are usually bad and liars.
being a virgin should be a lady's priority and then what should be a man's priority?
well, each to his own...Virginity would be the last thing on my list if I want to settle down with a woman
Re: Why It's Foolish To Ask A Lady If She Is A Virgin Or Her Body Counts by Eggovic: 10:44am On Nov 30, 2019
Born2Breed:
There is nothing wrong in sharing your past with the one who will be in your future forever.

What you don't talk about eats you up.

You're right Bro. All details of the past of your partner must be known. If you can't deal with it then simply move on

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Re: Why It's Foolish To Ask A Lady If She Is A Virgin Or Her Body Counts by Born2Breed(f): 10:47am On Nov 30, 2019
Eggovic:


You're right Bro. All details of the past of your partner must be known. If you can't deal with it then simply move on

Gbam!!!

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Re: Why It's Foolish To Ask A Lady If She Is A Virgin Or Her Body Counts by Snowale: 11:04am On Nov 30, 2019
eitsei:
being a virgin should be a lady's priority and then what should be a man's priority?
well, each to his own...Virginity would be the last thing on my list if I want to settle down with a woman
The topic speaks of ladies. And my comments were based on the topic. You acted like a lady initially, and probably you are one.

Meanwhile, if you are a man, you are free to do whatever you like, you can go ahead and marry a prostitute, or a lady you know have slept with all your friends and brother, it's a free world. Make sure you come back here to create a thread about how she infected you with something, or how you caught her on bed with an ex, or how how you found out she slept with numerous guys and aborted numerous pregancy. It's shouldn't be a big deal to you.

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Re: Why It's Foolish To Ask A Lady If She Is A Virgin Or Her Body Counts by bethyz(m): 11:36am On Nov 30, 2019
See men who won marry virgin. Virgin ko virgin ni.

Do you know what an average woman face everyday with liars cheaters and love deceiving men like you.

You just want to cross your legs wait for a virgin to come and meet you or cross your path because we as ladies we are locked up in the house and one day released to come across husbands who want our virginity.

The same man who claim being in love and wants to spend the rest of his life with a lady. Immediately he hears she is a virgin some will force themselves on the woman disvirgin her and move on to marry somone who they never meet as virgins.
Do you know most women want to married as virgins but one idiot will walk into her life deceive her do all sort at the end they go seperate way.

Do you also know its difficult for a woman to forget the person that disvirgined her? Either in annoyance or in love.

Everyday children are molested. Here and there by boys men fathers who should look after them. Men will rape neighbours 9 year old daughter men will rape your girls. How many talk about there stories. Children babies are raped everyday. How will they explain how they lost their virginity.


And you as a person because you call yourself a man will come and start looking for viginity. Virginity you didnt provide ,money you dont have house you dont have, but you want to marry virgin. I think is only poverty that makes someone feel he is entitled to once viginty. Make money find a woman you love and want to be with marry her have kids and live long.

This one is here looking for virginity.
May you marry a wicked heartless and a troublesome woman who is a virgin lets see how long your lifespan will be. You will even forget you married her as virgin and run.

So the person saying you wont mind if she has bad character as long she is a virgin you have a confused priority. You simply dont no what you want yet.

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Re: Why It's Foolish To Ask A Lady If She Is A Virgin Or Her Body Counts by funmisticqueen(f): 11:41am On Nov 30, 2019
Davash222:

There is nothing wrong in keeping your virginity till you get married so you don't have a past to share.
are you a virgin
Re: Why It's Foolish To Ask A Lady If She Is A Virgin Or Her Body Counts by Eggovic: 11:52am On Nov 30, 2019
bethyz:
See men who won marry virgin. Virgin ko virgin ni.

Do you know what an average woman face everyday with liars cheaters and love deceiving men like you.

You just want to cross your legs wait for a virgin to come and meet you or cross your path because we as ladies we are locked up in the house and one day released to come across husbands who want our virginity.

The same man who claim being in love and wants to spend the rest of his life with a lady. Immediately he hears she is a virgin some will force themselves on the woman disvirgin her and move on to marry somone who they never meet as virgins.
Do you know most women want to married as virgins but one idiot will walk into her life deceive her do all sort at the end they go seperate way.

Do you also know its difficult for a woman to forget the person that disvirgined her? Either in annoyance or in love.

Everyday children are molested. Here and there by boys men fathers who should look after them. Men will rape neighbours 9 year old daughter men will rape your girls. How many talk about there stories. Children babies are raped everyday. How will they explain how they lost their virginity.


And you as a person because you call yourself a man will come and start looking for viginity. Virginity you didnt provide ,money you dont have house you dont have, but you want to marry virgin. I think is only poverty that makes someone feel he is entitled to once viginty. Make money find a woman you love and want to be with marry her have kids and live long.

This one is here looking for virginity.
May you marry a wicked heartless and a troublesome woman who is a virgin lets see how long your lifespan will be. You will even forget you married her as virgin and run.

So the person saying you wont mind if she has bad character as long she is a virgin you have a confused priority. You simply dont no what you want yet.
please what's the connection between wanting a virgin as a partner and poverty?

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Re: Why It's Foolish To Ask A Lady If She Is A Virgin Or Her Body Counts by eitsei(m): 11:56am On Nov 30, 2019
Snowale:
The topic speaks of ladies. And my comments were based on the topic. You acted like a lady initially, and probably you are one.

Meanwhile, if you are a man, you are free to do whatever you like, you can go ahead and marry a prostitute, or a lady you know have slept with all your friends and brother, it's a free world. Make sure you come back here to create a thread about how she infected you with something, or how you caught her on bed with an ex, or how how you found out she slept with numerous guys and aborted numerous pregancy. It's shouldn't be a big deal to you.
lolz...I wish you peace and joy in your life
Re: Why It's Foolish To Ask A Lady If She Is A Virgin Or Her Body Counts by MedicH: 12:04pm On Nov 30, 2019
eitsei:
it's funny how you think being a virgin simply cancels out being rude, lazy and a liar...I will choose a lady who is not rude, hardworking and honest and not a virgin over a virgin with a lot of bad characters.. you are forgetting she will lose her virginity when you sleep with her and her characters would remain?
being a virgin or not has little to do with barreness even a virgin can be barren...
I'm not saying being a virgin is bad or being a slut is good.. I'm just saying in the long run it doesn't count because there's more to a woman than her virginity


You dont know anything about women.

Who has a higher chances of maintaining a sexual relationship with a boyfriend after marriage?

A virgin

Or

A non virgin

Has a woman ever told u that if her husband cant treat her the way u do she will cheat on him?

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Re: Why It's Foolish To Ask A Lady If She Is A Virgin Or Her Body Counts by eitsei(m): 12:10pm On Nov 30, 2019
MedicH:



You dont know anything about women.

Who has a higher chances of maintaining a sexual relationship with a boyfriend after marriage?

A virgin

Or

A non virgin

Has a woman ever told u that if her husband cant treat her the way u do she will cheat on him?
so you are saying virgins don't cheat after marriage?
and all non virgins cheat abi?

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Re: Why It's Foolish To Ask A Lady If She Is A Virgin Or Her Body Counts by eitsei(m): 12:14pm On Nov 30, 2019
all of you shouting virgins, what should happen to victims of rape that made them lose their virginity? no man should marry them again abi?
widows (especially women whose husbands died young) and divorcee nkọ?

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Re: Why It's Foolish To Ask A Lady If She Is A Virgin Or Her Body Counts by Beverlyjean(f): 12:54pm On Nov 30, 2019
eitsei:
being a virgin should be a lady's priority and then what should be a man's priority?
well, each to his own...Virginity would be the last thing on my list if I want to settle down with a woman

Keep on living in denial... I hv brothers and I know how men think ... Everyman wants to marry a virgin..everyman might not want to date a virgin, but everyman wants to marry a virgin... No man is comfortable knowing that his wife hv 4kd a number of guys b4 him ...it breeds disrespect subconsciously

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Re: Why It's Foolish To Ask A Lady If She Is A Virgin Or Her Body Counts by Eggovic: 1:05pm On Nov 30, 2019
eitsei:
all of you shouting virgins, what should happen to victims of rape that made them lose their virginity? no man should marry them again abi?
widows (especially women whose husbands died young) and divorcee nkọ?
That's why we are all different Bro. People will marry the victim of rape, child molestation, widows or widower, the ugly ones. The decision lies with you. Are you willing to be the one to marry these peeps listed above? If you are then there's no problem with that. Let every man own his/her own decision
Re: Why It's Foolish To Ask A Lady If She Is A Virgin Or Her Body Counts by MedicH: 1:06pm On Nov 30, 2019
eitsei:
so you are saying virgins don't cheat after marriage?
and all non virgins cheat abi?

Lol. Atleast u understand now.

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