viceddy95:
Bros calm down, let her be she will come back to beg you,just a matter of little time (2 to 3 months) when the abroad guy must have gone back and left her behind, and reality of life hit her again.....

My little advice, don't accept her back,she is a coded runs girl,a full time gold digger....

All these will only happen,if you are serious with your life and were having good plans towards her...

hkidola00:
pls kindly explain ur last sentence,i want to grab it

AntiMCU:
Such is life bro.

There is nothing like love, at least she'll gain foreign citizenship from the abroad based guy.

What does she stand to gain being with you?

pcguru1:


I guess you can say she didn't see the *big picture* , lol guy na normal thing jare, it's called Hypergamy in 3D since you got to witness it.

pocohantas:


I know say this is sarcasm. But I don't know why people get all emotional, bitter and vindictive when their partners break up.

You leave for a "richer" guy, they say you left for money.

You leave for a "poorer" one, they will say the person you left for no reach them half.

Nothing is guaranteed in this life. Love itself is transient. Maybe OP would have broken up with her next year. He and his teammates would only whine because he isn't the one that did the breaking up.

One abroad guy who spent all his youth hustling and making money (as instructed) is ready to settle down. A homebased (younger) guy has to pay for it. Cold world

So, alfa males should get the memo. Even if they spend the whole year insulting Nigerian girls. Once it is Xmas, men will come back for homebased wives. Same Nigerian girls that are dumb oloshos who bring nothing to relationships.

pocohantas:
It is that time of the year o.

Abroad husbands will be back with their "innit" and "you know warra mean?"

If you want to be a homebased wife, the hour is upon you. You might get lucky and migrate to China or South.

Sorry OP. Look at the big picture. Even you will migrate if you see Visa now. Women are only luckier. Ours comes on a platter of marriage- not to ancestors or foreign graves

bigpicture001:


Hahahaha...ur funny with the use of my moniker....

Sh is a very good gud lady sha....my second best gf ever...but life is kinda trcky......

We march on!

pocohantas:
It is that time of the year o.

Abroad husbands will be back with their "innit" and "you know warra mean?"

If you want to be a homebased wife, the hour is upon you. You might get lucky and migrate to China or South.

Sorry OP. Look at the big picture. Even you will migrate if you see Visa now. Women are only luckier. Ours comes on a platter of marriage- not to ancestors or foreign graves

bigpicture001:

With her acts am now forced to conclude that no matter what level a lady attains in age, maturity, intelligence, exposure.....they are all going ti behave the same way.....

Yes am hurt. But not to extend of crying river or complaining up nd down. Cuz in relationships I usually expect break up.....

nah true you talk Bro , cause the feds can nab them at any fucking time! Then off to jail they go.
Invictus is a good example

chigoizie7:



You see all these woman getting married to abroad based men? Especially those men into street hustling? Pity Them. Especially the good ones amongst them.



I pity them too. Weather you dey home or you dey abroad with your husband. I still pity them. Don’t envy them.


Except for those men that do legitimate work.

chiefolododo:
Olowo gba iyawo ole , ole n se la-ila