Beosten:
The question should be "what's is the strategy needed to make your wife weep once in a week without lifting a finger or denying her necessary things of life?" I'm an expert in this. And I have never been indicted by any sane listener or judge.

themaestro08:
Absolutely no.Good women deserved to be showered with kindness and love. Good wives are hard to find.

Modified; To that worthless troll, remember our battle on somewhat a similar thread on this romance section? Today is another good day to continue the fight. Get ready for a bumpy ride you Fuuckkking animal.

Bring it on!.

Rgade:

Hmm not sure I follow your logic.

MrBrownJay1:
although it is a JOKE, an Arab proverb says:"beat your wife every single day, if you dont know why, she will know"

AfroKnight:
Joke? They came for Basketmouth because of a joke.

MrBrownJay1:


bro, dont mix apples with oranges....none of these Arabs were EU ambassador for domestic violence neither am i... and as much as it is wrong to lay hands on a woman, i can find many reason as to why a man would/should. EXAMPLE: if your woman loses her mind and lay hands on you then the only way to reset her brain is to give her a taste of her own medicine. tit for tat.

AfroKnight:
Lol. Basketmouth joked about violence against women. Same as your previous comment. Definitely not apples and oranges. But okay.

As to the reason for hitting a woman, of course, I say, don’t hit a man if you’re not ready to defend yourself like a man. Femininity is not an excuse to go about assaulting men. She may meet men who think a woman is not worth hitting, conversely, she may meet men who would love to demonstrate that there can be equality even in violence.

Rgade:
I believe this is a very vital part of every marriage.
So I was wondering if anyone could come up with an answer.
It's a question I personally would want answered as a person who would eventually get married.

frozen70:


This is a very stupid question

Why would a man marry to beat his wife weekly

You should have asked, how to prevent your wife from being tempted to sleep with another man after marriage who can offer better than you do

Beosten:


There are different types of women. I married an employer of labour (boss lady). Any man that marries this type must agree that there will be two masters in the home. In order to keep the marriage going, the man must have at least 3 sources of income (1st in a private organization, 2nd with the government, and 3rd a side hustle).


If I'm to write on this topic, a book will be birthed.

MrBrownJay1:


bro, dont mix apples with oranges....none of these Arabs were EU ambassador for domestic violence neither am i... and as much as it is wrong to lay hands on a woman, i can find many reason as to why a man would/should. EXAMPLE: if your woman loses her mind and lay hands on you then the only way to reset her brain is to give her a taste of her own medicine. tit for tat.

MrBrownJay1:


i think there is a huge difference between domestic violence and RAPE, but i can understand how some people might see the above Arab proverb as insensitive... although these proverbs have been here for centuries, in the past it was considered normal, and i was just making an observation . here are other well known proverbs about beating ones wife:
Puerto Rico:“To keep your wife on the rails, beat her...and if she goes off the rails, beat her again.”
Germany:“Women and chops... the more you beat them the better they’ll be”
China:“Clubbing produces virtuous wives”
England/US:“Women, like gongs, should be beaten regularly,”
Korea:“A woman who is beaten is going to be a better wife.”
Burma:“Do not spare a bullock or a wife”
India:“The nails of a cart and the head of a woman, they work only when they are hit hard”
Russia:“For the man who beats his wife, God improves the food”
Europe:“A woman, a dog and a walnut tree -- the harder you beat them, the better they be”



i fully agree.

MrBrownJay1:
although it is a JOKE, an Arab proverb says:"beat your wife every single day, if you dont know why, she will know"

Rgade:

Well it's not that stupid, it's not as if men enjoy hitting their wives, it's just that sometimes when the toaster malfunctions or delays your bread, you gotta give it a lil smack to make it lively again.
Some wives can be very annoying, you know that.

Randy100:
Justification for beating a woman.

ubunja:
it's funny but it's true. One day just ask your GF: "So you thought I wouldn't find out??"
Then watch as she apologies for things you didn't even know she did. Reverse Psychology at its best.

MrBrownJay1:


this is how people viewed women in the past yes... and as much you may disagree with it, thats how women were viewed.... same way that the bible/qur'an are viewing women as second class citizen, since biblical times... no big deal here!



many will quickly confess yeah!
the reason wy many believe that it was ok to beat women in the past was because IT WAS OK TO BEAT YOUR WOMAN IN THE PAST. who are we kidding here?

Randy100:
Thank God, you said it is in the past. Old things have passed away. Our forefathers were beast and committed all manner of atrocities like killing of twins, should we also continue in the same way. We are in the era of civilization, it is either you get in or be left behind.

MrBrownJay1:


if people TODAY continue to read whats written in the bible/qur'an and have no problems with it then i think it should also be ok to have the same outlook with these above old proverbs i quoted.

Randy100:
unfortunately, not everything written in the bible/quran is worth emulating and people discarded it for a reason.

MrBrownJay1:


... just as not every proverb should be taken seriously. the point is that many of the atrocities written in these holybooks are not removed, so why would you expect us to suddenly disregard these old proverbs?!?!? ust do the same thing you do when reading the rubbish in these holybooks....

Randy100:
In summary, I am discarding the proverb that encourages violence on women. Thanks.