I laid on the bed considering what my girlfriend said , she wants court marriage, im only intrested in introduction.
Forget about the idea of what Marriage is meant to be.. Lets face the realistic point of view. Should we leave "love" aside and consider first what both parties want to bring to the table, if we do that there would be no agreement because in most cases especially Nigeria , its only body the woman wants to bring, the man brings finances, protection, comfort, etc.
Should marriage continue to be a lifetime agreement or should it be periodic agreement like premiere league, that way both parties come together every 6 years and decide if to sign for another season? This would curb couples changing after marriage, some men and women, bring violence and arrogance behaviour out once the dust of the marriage settles.

There's nothing a married wife can do that a baby mama can not do.

I'm coming....

crafteck:
I laid on the bed considering what my gf said last week, she wants court marriage, im only intrested in introduction. Forget about the idea of what Marriage is meant to be.. Lets face the realistic point of view.

What will you do when u have to go abroad

Evablizin:
I'm coming....

Cum quick please.

As a man, you are design to be disposable after serving the feminine reproductive and nurture purpose phase by being a protector and a provider to the female in your life and society in general.


You are not design to come out alive Victorius so, you can choose to work your ass off to do what nature design you to do or abandon everything by going your own way. Either way you lose, but in one you're in total control of your decision and the way you live your life while in the other side nature is the one controlling you to serve a particular purpose she want from you. You are disposable; that is the cold hard fact and there's nothing you can do about it.


You can't gain anything from marriage or being a good husband, you can only realise this when you're old and about to die.

Davash222:
There's nothing a married wife can do that a baby mama can not do.

My view exactly. I want someone to change that.

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Davash222:
Cum quick please.

Oluromantic:

What will you do when u have to go abroad

Going abroad isnt reason enough to justify marriage though i think you mean more than you typed..

Periodic agreement?

This will give both parties more leverage to do “anyhow” because you know you’ll get out of the marriage anytime soon. Things will get worse than it is.

I’ll get married every six months

In summary, e nor make sense.

Either don’t get married at all or get married and face the music that plays. You’ll get used to the jamz

Evablizin:

Corrupt shild

crafteck:



Going abroad isnt reason enough to justify marriage though i think you mean more than you typed..

Embassy doesn't reckon with introduction certificate even if there is.

It's legal marriage certificate they know

Carchoice:
Periodic agreement?

This will give both parties more leverage to do “anyhow” because you know you’ll get out of the marriage anytime soon. Things will get worse than it is.

I’ll get married every six months

In summary, e nor make sense.

Either don’t get married at all or get married and face the music that plays. You’ll get used to the jamz

6 years sentence is better than lifetime sentence, yoi see someone else, you wait for the term to expire, you dont have to give attitude or put your current partner in dilema coa of a new freaky freaky... Oinnn

Oluromantic:

Embassy doesn't reckon with introduction certificate even if there is.

It's legal marriage certificate they know

Cant you travel as a single individual, its what you are going there to do that really matters and your financial means. Thought you were talking about having to marry for green card... I would say thats something to bring to the table.

crafteck:


Cant you travel as a single individual, its what you are going there to do that really matters and your financial means. Thought you were talking about having to marry for green card... I would say thats something to bring to the table.

You shdnt sit on d fence. If you're not bouyant enough to marry a woman, leave introduction

crafteck:



6 years sentence is better than lifetime sentence, yoi see someone else, you wait for the term to expire, you dont have to give attitude or put your current partner in dilema coa of a new freaky freaky... Oinnn

and kids? You breed children from different women?

The new women you’ll get married to at the end of every term might have gone through 5 or 6 other marriages

Bro’s, marry her and face the music. When you leave her after the six years to marry another woman, which man are you leaving her for?

You wan dey filter them and leave the bad ones for us wey never marry? You lie!!!

Emotions and bonds can't be compared to business contracts

Some players stay in same clubs for longer because if the bond.

Some have played in same team all their lives.

That not withstanding, real emotions should not be placed on the sales shelf.

After the man leaves the lady in 6 years the next man will open a body count thread for her.

Oluromantic:

You shdnt sit on d fence. If you're not bouyant enough to marry a woman, leave introduction

Bros, i make more than a million monthly, stop assuming marriage is like buying an expensive car, its an agreement, in agreement ther should be an exchange of convenience and inconveniences,services or products.

crafteck:


Bros, i make more than a million monthly, stop assuming marriage is like buying an expensive car, its an agreement, in agreement ther should be an exchange of convenience and inconveniences,services or products.

Lol. You have a long way

Carchoice:
and kids? You breed children from different women?

The new women you’ll get married to at the end of every term might have gone through 5 or 6 other marriages

Bro’s, marry her and face the music. When you leave her after the six years to marry another woman, which man are you leaving her for?

You wan dey filter them and leave the bad ones for us wey never marry? You lie!!!

Lol... Not all marriage agreements would include kids. Some self would be solely for kids...

Bartork:
Emotions and bonds can't be compared to business contracts

Some players stay in same clubs for longer because if the bond.

Some have played in same team all their lives.

That not withstanding, real emotions should not be placed on the sales shelf.

After the man leaves the lady in 6 years the next man will open a body count thread for her.

That way, you renew the contract. That body count is better than mortuary headcount from marital violence. The victims are both men and women oo.

crafteck:



Lol... Not all marriage agreements would include kids. Some self would be solely for kids...

you don’t know what’s going on. Some women will deliberately take in and refuse to abort. you can’t do nothing about it.

The females will have upper hand in this. When a woman knows she can get replaced at every 6 years. Expect the worse to happen.

Also what’s in for her after the six years? Does she leave empty handed or you’ll share your property into two and give her half for “thank you for coming”

crafteck:



That way, you renew the contract. That body count is better than mortuary headcount from marital violence. The victims are both men and women oo.

Boss I disagree

Yeah I know it's both ways but it's better people plan and learn to work and live together.

Not have interludes that can be a pass to move on to another person.

Most of us will rather have short relationships of 1-3years over and over with new partners than get married

As sweet as that is, bros you self think am.

Lets see if this makes front page...

crafteck:
I laid on the bed...

Should marriage continue to be a lifetime agreement or should it be periodic agreement like premiere league, that way both parties come together every 6 years and decide if to sign for another...

Personally I think marriage should be strictly treated as a contract which should be renewable every 10 years!

I think all these can be averted here`s my view
- Get married
- Teach her how to fend and protect for herself
-Live your life with out stress

ur attention is only going to be needed wen u have kids

that`s my own view

Interesting.

Men seeing marriage like favour done to women as usual.

If you TRULY believe in God, then you shouldn't have a problem with getting married because God supports it, that is how he wants it. Two heads they say are better than one.

Only if you marry a liability then your name is sorry.

Ok

simplepee:
Interesting.

Men seeing marriage like favour done to women as usual.

If you TRULY believe in God, then you shouldn't have a problem with getting married because God supports it, that is how he wants it. Two heads they say are better than one.

Only if you marry a liability then your name is sorry.

is two good heads o, but na dat same marriage brought death to humanity courtesy aunty Eve.

Naija246:
marriage is a relic of the past that has outlived it's usefulness.
It's basically serfdom in the modern world.
Any man that goes into such a union without examining it's many cons deserves to be ripped off.
I feel deep pity anytime I see married men..
these men are basically slaves!
They sacrifice their freedom, money, hopes and dreams to satisfy one woman who doesn't really bring anything to the table except drama and responsibility.

Even the "limitless" sex they expect to gain from the relationship never really becomes a reality
as married women are experts at hoarding sex...coupled with the fact that there's a 99% chance that she's going to turn your kids against you!!!
Men are one unlucky lot in this union called marriage

This fact cannot be over emphasize
God bless you bro