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Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by Slimsly100(f): 1:35pm On Dec 15, 2019
I thought i was the only one who saw this


SmellingAnus:
Even your woman no be better person .... See how she manipulate you with the following statement... " on the other hand my girl was supportive but kick against DNA claiming if it is done and they are not mine my feelings for the kids will change"...


It will take a genius to know that the above statement was a high level manipulation... A simple DNA would have saved you lots of stress but your woman was scared that if it comes out that you are their father, you will give your kids more attention than her and her potential kids for you... My brother, you are just in the midst of two manipulative women... I pity for you ...

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Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by Emmanuelhector(m): 1:40pm On Dec 15, 2019
DNA you are on light. No DNA, you remain in darkness
Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by thedio(m): 1:48pm On Dec 15, 2019
jeff1607:



make sure you assure your wife that her kids gets everything in terms of inheritance and make her happy cos she deserves it.

you can still have all your kids under one roof and give them all the training and mentoring they deserve else they will become a liability to you wen u have advanced in age

Guy u don't give this kind of advice to somebody lijr
Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by thedio(m): 1:51pm On Dec 15, 2019
jeff1607:



make sure you assure your wife that her kids gets everything in terms of inheritance and make her happy cos she deserves it.

you can still have all your kids under one roof and give them all the training and mentoring they deserve else they will become a liability to you wen u have advanced in age

Guy u don't give this kind of advice to somebody like op who reason with his dick. U r complicating his problems. If he train them together and give his inheritance to his fiance children,what do u think it will happen after him.
Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by yemsai(f): 1:54pm On Dec 15, 2019
Dis story get as e be..anyway i think u should by all means get a DNA test done..den u can take it from there
Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by Kaychiz: 2:00pm On Dec 15, 2019
Na wa for this OP sha! undecided
One thing always lead to another and finally end with sex.
What a sexually indisciplind fellow.
Nonsense

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Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by urose93(f): 2:17pm On Dec 15, 2019
What really annoyed me is the title of the whole bulshit. ...is this what you called a 'two months relationship'.

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Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by Octopusssy(f): 2:26pm On Dec 15, 2019
obinna58:

Just imagine, even octopusssy is weak
I taya
Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by Tsolutionifede(m): 2:32pm On Dec 15, 2019
Henvest:
There is this shop I normally stock my house from then. One day I came to buy things as usual, the guy, the owner of the shop introduced one girl to me telling me she is his sister. After that day I stopped seeing the guy but only the girl in the shop.

One day I traveled, while on the travel someone called, introduced herself and explained who she is. Obviously she took my number from my younger brother staying with me. She pretended to be angry with me for not telling her am traveling and for me not knowing her name before then. Of course I apologized but she demanded I should take her out when am back before she will accept my apology I obliged.

I came back kept to my promise but made it in an open place, National theater precisely.
But then she booked another date next week but insisted it won't be open place anymore.. The rest is history.

One day I came to her shop to buy something and over heard a close friend calling her Iyawo Ossy, that wasn't the first I heard someone address her as Iyawo Ossy but I become curious this time because this person is a close friend and should know better. She tried to wave it with excuse of anybody is free to call her what they like but when I insisted, she finally opened up.....

Ossy was not her brother but her fiance with whom she has been together for 6 six years.
But, according to her Ossy is waiting for her to take in before going to see her people.
The reason why both of them chose to be telling people they are siblings remain a mystery to me till today....

I got mad and call it quit with her for trying to use me to secure marriage. The whole relationship did not last up to 2 months but obviously it was a bit late already.

Weeks later it become obvious she is pregnant, deep inside of me I felt am responsible, but when I ask her she insist it belong to Ossy. I push but she stood her ground insisting it belongs to Ossy.
She went further denying the timing of the pregnancy, if doctor is saying 2 months she will be claiming her pregnancy is 1 month.

To my greatest surprise become hostile and start avoiding me even go further to claim they went for paternity test and the result shows it belong to the guy.

I gave up, dust my self and moved on.
Nine months later she put to bed to a girl..
Months later I move out of that area.
One day my phone rang it was her, she demanded that she need to see me, that she has an important discussion with me. I opt to recharge and call her for us to do the discussion on phone but she insisted so I sent her my new address.

Two days later she came, what she came to tell me was that she is leaving the guy that the marriage thing is not working.
She was seriously crying all through I tried all i could to console her but then one thing lead to another sex happened again. When she is about to leave she told me that am the father of her daughter not Ossy. That the story of going for paternity test was true but that the test never happened because the counsellor they meet ask them to go back and rethink it again but the Ossy changed his mind at the process.

I laugh off the story and asked her to take her leave because to me she is just trying to activate her option B. Two months later she called to inform that she has not seen her period I told her am not Interested in her stories again but then my conscience was never at peace. I keep asking my self what if pregnancy and the girl truly belong to me?

One year plus later I decided to go look for them I told my girl, now fiance and she give her support ..

What I saw when I reached there almost make me cry, her condition is so bad. There and then I decide to come in and start assisting her as much as i can pending when I go for DNA. My family kick against my decision, their reason is that the girl story is not to be trusted, on the other hand my girl was supportive but kick against DNA claiming if it is done and they are not mine my feelings for the kids will change.
But from then I start taking care of their feeding, schooling, clothing, rent e.t.c

After like a year my girl suggest I open business for the girl instead, so that she doesn't have to come to me for everything everytime except school fees and medical bills.

I bought the idea and asked the lady to go look for shop ...
While on that i told her of the need to open account for the kids.

Two days later she came back to tell me that her brothers said she should not change the name of the kids...

That the kids will bear the name of who ever that marry her or the name of her family if the person don't want them.

Now what happened was that, she once told me that she need to change the girls surname to mine. Before then i don't know their surname nor attach any importance to it. So while discussing the idea of opening the account for the girls I innocently suggest that she go do the change of name before opening the account.

I was hit by her responds and her body language so I told her that she and her brothers can go suit theirselves, that from then henceforth I have hands off her matter.

Later that day she called and begged but I told her that the only condition for me to keep assisting her is that she will change their names and also release one of them to me.

She said i should make out time and come down to her base so that we will discuss it. I discuss it with my fiance and she permit me to go. When I get there and raise the topic she flame up telling me she won't try it, that that is the position of her family.

Obviously she was expecting a fight or angry reactions from me so that she can push her terms and agenda to the table ..

But was disappointed when I don't fall for that, she start begging that she can change their names but can't release any to me. I told her is no longer an option.

The meeting end at that and I took my leave, go with the start up capital i was meant to give her for her business.

She sent people to me to beg on her behave but I insisted. Finally she agreed, but with a condition that she (the first girl) must be up to 5years which is few months away then before she release her.

I sense lies in the whole thing but my girl insist I should release the fund for her to start the business of which I did when her pressure become much.

Since then I still pay their school fees nd medical bills...
Late last year the small one did surgery it was on me.

The 1st is 7 now the 2nd is 4 years old.
This year she said she wanna marry, that someone is asking for her hand in marriage
I congratulate her and wish her luck. Then ask her her plan for the kids.

What she answered me is " let the will of God be done"

I called the woman, her friend who first told me about the marriage thing, after much drilling she open up that they have agreed with the man that he is going to marry her the kids.

I don't have any problem with that even though I feel used but my only problem is why lying to me again? At that point am yet to pay their graduation /party fees out of anger I decide am not going to pay it again. I told her to go meet their new father to pay the remaining, but my conscience kept battling me.

My fiance is extremely mad at her now and have withdraw her support and insist I cut of with her entirely .

I understand her, she has been very understanding, supportive and always fighting for them even without knowing them or them knowing her.

I feel so bad for putting her in that position.
That becomes a very messy situation for me now becus I cant afford to ruin my relationship / marriage because of a renowed liar.

But what will be of those kids if I hands off them keep am awake some times at night because I don't wanna be that father that abandon his kids but I cant afford to do anything which my woman do not approve or take her for granted in anyway.


Is obvious she is trying to blackmail me with the kids, But then am not even sure if they are mine ,and she have refused to release them because if she do I can be able to go for DNA. And know what next from there.

For a while now we have not talk, She called two weeks ago that the kids wanna talk to me obviously for school fees I turn it down and warn her against calling my line again ...

I don't know if that is right, I'm confused now.
My another worry now if those kids are mine is,
When it comes to Education we are at opposite end.

She don't attach importance to education but me I attach so much importance to it.
I can't trust her with the education of those kids.
Please I need advise on how to handle things.


Foolish boy Buari is wiser than you, common sense, do DNA first.
Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by petitejolie(f): 2:54pm On Dec 15, 2019
Biglittlelois:
Your fiancé is the real MVP, she has a heart of gold for her to stay with you through all that,

And please, go for a DNA test.
which yeye heart of gold. Shes just doesn't seem wise.

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Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by petitejolie(f): 2:57pm On Dec 15, 2019
Konnektions146:
And why have you not married your fiancée?

Why have you not done a DNA test?

Are you this weak?
very weak.

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Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by petitejolie(f): 3:00pm On Dec 15, 2019
Brother wey mumu.

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Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by Mathiasa(m): 3:14pm On Dec 15, 2019
Ur mumu no be here.

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Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by SmellingAnus(m): 3:16pm On Dec 15, 2019
Homeboiy:


Bros 2020 God will bless you more

You too get sense, I just de read comments since and no one fit detect say na his fiance be the deceiver her. Forming caring while luring him to his death.

He's a weak man, he don't have a say in life
Amen o I receive...

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Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by sweetilicious(f): 3:22pm On Dec 15, 2019
ceeroh:
See where free pussy has landed you. Not once, but twice.

A man who has disciplined himself over women has solved half of his problems on earth.
Go for a DNA test, know the truth and be free.

Exactly! How come you are unstable. She should allow DNA first.
Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by Shugargal(f): 3:43pm On Dec 15, 2019
luminouz:
Jesus Christ of NL.

WILL YOU GOAN DO DNA TEST AND LET US HAVE SOME PEACE?



Chai, they have really cooked your brains and eaten it. See as man dey talk.


Which kain men this generation get oooooooooo?

Always opening threads and sobbing, yet somehow failing to see the solution glaringly obvious from their own posts!
In fact bro, can't imagine this kind of man, me as a woman just de vex as I de read this shit he wrote here.if him be my bros walahi talahi I for Don change am for am.but Kai why men cassava de allow them behave like mumu.

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Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by Shugargal(f): 3:51pm On Dec 15, 2019
FlutterDollar99:
if you were my brother and you come home to tell me all these, I would have suggested a paternity test to be done on you
1. By now you should have learnt not to fall for female shenanigans. Don't ever form Mr nice guy to whoever that stole your contact. Psychologically, it means you are weak and can be easily manipulated if you make them feel wanted

2. She can only demand you take her out if the two of you have been on talking terms... If not, it means you are thirsty and she's hungry

God bless you. na your kind I like as bro... thunder for Don start to strike

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Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by PattyMike(m): 3:56pm On Dec 15, 2019
Mehn 7 years of bondage. I'm sorry but you are not assertive enough. I trust myself emi ika. My yes is yes and no is no, conscience be damned.
Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by lereinter(m): 4:09pm On Dec 15, 2019
Nawa o

I can't even read to end

Psychologically you can't remain the same again
Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by Zigdore: 4:12pm On Dec 15, 2019
chukwuibuipob:
wink Mr distributor of baby.We greet u wink..For sale Honda baby boy @600k.Nothing to fix
l

Contact please?
Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by Legendguru: 4:25pm On Dec 15, 2019
Oh
Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by luminouz(m): 4:58pm On Dec 15, 2019
Shugargal:
In fact bro, can't imagine this kind of man, me as a woman just de vex as I de read this shit he wrote here.if him be my bros walahi talahi I for Don change am for am.but Kai why men cassava de allow them behave like mumu.


Say no more babe...

In other news....

Will you be my personal sugarbabe? tongue
Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by jeff1607(m): 5:12pm On Dec 15, 2019
thedio:


Guy u don't give this kind of advice to somebody like op who reason with his dick. U r complicating his problems. If he train them together and give his inheritance to his fiance children,what do u think it will happen after him.

No vex bros , you got a point there.

he has two girls I think ,so passing on his properties shouldn't be difficult as long as he doesn't get her preggy again and his wife begets a male child.

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Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by janejive(f): 5:34pm On Dec 15, 2019
Men ur Fiancée/Wifey is one in a million. This ur baby mama or whatever she is, is a manipulator. Guy do DNA test. Get a lawyer, get ur kids or keep them 50:50. Stay clear of this woman.
Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by chukwuibuipob: 5:39pm On Dec 15, 2019
Zigdore:
l

Contact please?
Drop ur Whatsapp number
Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by Martinez39(m): 6:43pm On Dec 15, 2019
Penisman:



Chai... See small god..

Wetin you dey feel like self?
I am not feeling like anything. OP is stupid and indisciplined.

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Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by DedeNkem: 6:46pm On Dec 15, 2019
Henvest:
There is this shop I normally stock my house from then. One day I came to buy things as usual, the guy, the owner of the shop introduced one girl to me telling me she is his sister. After that day I stopped seeing the guy but only the girl in the shop.

One day I traveled, while on the travel someone called, introduced herself and explained who she is. Obviously she took my number from my younger brother staying with me. She pretended to be angry with me for not telling her am traveling and for me not knowing her name before then. Of course I apologized but she demanded I should take her out when am back before she will accept my apology I obliged.

I came back kept to my promise but made it in an open place, National theater precisely.
But then she booked another date next week but insisted it won't be open place anymore.. The rest is history.

One day I came to her shop to buy something and over heard a close friend calling her Iyawo Ossy, that wasn't the first I heard someone address her as Iyawo Ossy but I become curious this time because this person is a close friend and should know better. She tried to wave it with excuse of anybody is free to call her what they like but when I insisted, she finally opened up.....

Ossy was not her brother but her fiance with whom she has been together for 6 six years.
But, according to her Ossy is waiting for her to take in before going to see her people.
The reason why both of them chose to be telling people they are siblings remain a mystery to me till today....

I got mad and call it quit with her for trying to use me to secure marriage. The whole relationship did not last up to 2 months but obviously it was a bit late already.

Weeks later it become obvious she is pregnant, deep inside of me I felt am responsible, but when I ask her she insist it belong to Ossy. I push but she stood her ground insisting it belongs to Ossy.
She went further denying the timing of the pregnancy, if doctor is saying 2 months she will be claiming her pregnancy is 1 month.

To my greatest surprise become hostile and start avoiding me even go further to claim they went for paternity test and the result shows it belong to the guy.

I gave up, dust my self and moved on.
Nine months later she put to bed to a girl..
Months later I move out of that area.
One day my phone rang it was her, she demanded that she need to see me, that she has an important discussion with me. I opt to recharge and call her for us to do the discussion on phone but she insisted so I sent her my new address.

Two days later she came, what she came to tell me was that she is leaving the guy that the marriage thing is not working.
She was seriously crying all through I tried all i could to console her but then one thing lead to another sex happened again. When she is about to leave she told me that am the father of her daughter not Ossy. That the story of going for paternity test was true but that the test never happened because the counsellor they meet ask them to go back and rethink it again but the Ossy changed his mind at the process.

I laugh off the story and asked her to take her leave because to me she is just trying to activate her option B. Two months later she called to inform that she has not seen her period I told her am not Interested in her stories again but then my conscience was never at peace. I keep asking my self what if pregnancy and the girl truly belong to me?

One year plus later I decided to go look for them I told my girl, now fiance and she give her support ..

What I saw when I reached there almost make me cry, her condition is so bad. There and then I decide to come in and start assisting her as much as i can pending when I go for DNA. My family kick against my decision, their reason is that the girl story is not to be trusted, on the other hand my girl was supportive but kick against DNA claiming if it is done and they are not mine my feelings for the kids will change.
But from then I start taking care of their feeding, schooling, clothing, rent e.t.c

After like a year my girl suggest I open business for the girl instead, so that she doesn't have to come to me for everything everytime except school fees and medical bills.

I bought the idea and asked the lady to go look for shop ...
While on that i told her of the need to open account for the kids.

Two days later she came back to tell me that her brothers said she should not change the name of the kids...

That the kids will bear the name of who ever that marry her or the name of her family if the person don't want them.

Now what happened was that, she once told me that she need to change the girls surname to mine. Before then i don't know their surname nor attach any importance to it. So while discussing the idea of opening the account for the girls I innocently suggest that she go do the change of name before opening the account.

I was hit by her responds and her body language so I told her that she and her brothers can go suit theirselves, that from then henceforth I have hands off her matter.

Later that day she called and begged but I told her that the only condition for me to keep assisting her is that she will change their names and also release one of them to me.

She said i should make out time and come down to her base so that we will discuss it. I discuss it with my fiance and she permit me to go. When I get there and raise the topic she flame up telling me she won't try it, that that is the position of her family.

Obviously she was expecting a fight or angry reactions from me so that she can push her terms and agenda to the table ..

But was disappointed when I don't fall for that, she start begging that she can change their names but can't release any to me. I told her is no longer an option.

The meeting end at that and I took my leave, go with the start up capital i was meant to give her for her business.

She sent people to me to beg on her behave but I insisted. Finally she agreed, but with a condition that she (the first girl) must be up to 5years which is few months away then before she release her.

I sense lies in the whole thing but my girl insist I should release the fund for her to start the business of which I did when her pressure become much.

Since then I still pay their school fees nd medical bills...
Late last year the small one did surgery it was on me.

The 1st is 7 now the 2nd is 4 years old.
This year she said she wanna marry, that someone is asking for her hand in marriage
I congratulate her and wish her luck. Then ask her her plan for the kids.

What she answered me is " let the will of God be done"

I called the woman, her friend who first told me about the marriage thing, after much drilling she open up that they have agreed with the man that he is going to marry her the kids.

I don't have any problem with that even though I feel used but my only problem is why lying to me again? At that point am yet to pay their graduation /party fees out of anger I decide am not going to pay it again. I told her to go meet their new father to pay the remaining, but my conscience kept battling me.

My fiance is extremely mad at her now and have withdraw her support and insist I cut of with her entirely .

I understand her, she has been very understanding, supportive and always fighting for them even without knowing them or them knowing her.

I feel so bad for putting her in that position.
That becomes a very messy situation for me now becus I cant afford to ruin my relationship / marriage because of a renowed liar.

But what will be of those kids if I hands off them keep am awake some times at night because I don't wanna be that father that abandon his kids but I cant afford to do anything which my woman do not approve or take her for granted in anyway.


Is obvious she is trying to blackmail me with the kids, But then am not even sure if they are mine ,and she have refused to release them because if she do I can be able to go for DNA. And know what next from there.

For a while now we have not talk, She called two weeks ago that the kids wanna talk to me obviously for school fees I turn it down and warn her against calling my line again ...

I don't know if that is right, I'm confused now.
My another worry now if those kids are mine is,
When it comes to Education we are at opposite end.

She don't attach importance to education but me I attach so much importance to it.
I can't trust her with the education of those kids.
Please I need advise on how to handle things.



It is moronic to not check DNA before your spending spree!

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Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by doggedfighter(f): 8:58pm On Dec 15, 2019
Martinez39:
What a very stupid and indisciplined fellow. If you can't figure out the right thing to do in this situation as an adult male then rot in your situation. I have no sympathy for you. At this rate, you can't be helped.
grin Ahh, no redpill for him? grin grin grin

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Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by Martinez39(m): 9:19pm On Dec 15, 2019
doggedfighter:

grin Ahh, no redpill for him? grin grin grin
None for him. I can't be teaching adults 1+1=2.

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Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by seedsower(m): 10:21pm On Dec 15, 2019
Youngpo413:
they are called seed sowersowers,they are sowing their seeds everywhere.
lol

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