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Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by NuelNuelTT(m): 10:48pm On Dec 14, 2019
My dear friend, you need to be firm and stand your ground.
First of all, we need an urgent DNA tests on those kids to determine their paternity (A must). This must be a condition for further engagement/discussion with her. If she says no, then walk out of their lives (kids and mother), I mean it. If she agrees to the DNA test, do it and give us an update. We take it from there. Please do not be confused at all.

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Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by Mzstephii(f): 10:49pm On Dec 14, 2019
The sad truth, is that your fiance never had your interest at heart, she didn't want you to do the DNA test because she was afraid that you will give more attention to the kids and their mum, if they were yours and it could affect your relationship with her.

The best thing you can do for yourself now is to find a way to do DNA test for the two kids as soon as possible.

You can visit now, during the holidays, tell their mum you are taking them outing and then do the needful.

All the best.

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Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by CoolJul: 10:49pm On Dec 14, 2019
mumu talk mitchewww!



























what is ur fiancee still doing with u sef undecided undecided


u fed her with all these bullcrap of urs n she's still hook up to u. she try oo.


1st time was a mistake , 2nd time nko


young man have u not heard?!!! IF YOU DONT WANT TO FALL INSIDE A HOLE YOU DONT RUN AROUND IT!!!!!


Guy u jxt make me vex for real.

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Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by Nobody: 10:51pm On Dec 14, 2019
Who are all these stupid men on Nairaland that must always chook priick inside punnna at any available opportunity over and over again, and then release inside, knowing full well theyre dealing with b*tches?

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Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by King44(m): 10:51pm On Dec 14, 2019
ceeroh:
See where free pussy has landed you. Not once, but twice.

A man who has disciplined himself over women has solved half of his problems on earth.
Go for a DNA test, know the truth and be free.

if it is possible to take her to a customary court in order to force her and her family to release the children for a dna test do it, dna test is the way and if possible take your children from her so she can move on if they are yours cos moving them from one man to another would teach them worse life lessons just do it n take the children from her
Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by Priceless49(m): 10:51pm On Dec 14, 2019
FIND ALL POSSIBLE MEANS TO GET THERE SAMPLE FOR DNA.
Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by meobizy(f): 10:52pm On Dec 14, 2019
I concede. I no fit die on top reading person issue. Off to the next thread I go.
Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by Nobody: 10:53pm On Dec 14, 2019
Cutehector:
What kind of long story is this

Some men are just so foolish when free p*ssy is offered on a plate. Gosh.

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Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by Octopusssy(f): 10:54pm On Dec 14, 2019
This story is full of shit_.You nack once, she born, e no do you. You come nack another one. You sef be he-goat.

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Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by VULCAN(m): 10:55pm On Dec 14, 2019
My BP kept rising as I read this story. Before I could finish it I stopped for the sake of my life.

That there are still such pussy whipped men in this country is an amazement to me.

After some useless beasts will say "All men are scum"

I advise this man to go and sit at the feet of Ubunja The Oracle. Although the damage has been done and OP has been used like an old sanitary pad, if he can receive some Red Pill he might be saved.

CC: ubunja

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Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by Devops: 10:55pm On Dec 14, 2019
All I can say is that I'm not a fan of stupid people. But you're quite exceptional.
Your stupidity is powered directly by the sun. #facepalm

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Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by beejay501: 10:55pm On Dec 14, 2019
Omg which people read this kind long thing
Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by danot1030: 10:58pm On Dec 14, 2019
Henvest:
There is this shop I normally stock my house from then. One day I came to buy things as usual, the guy, the owner of the shop introduced one girl to me telling me she is his sister. After that day I stopped seeing the guy but only the girl in the shop.

One day I traveled, while on the travel someone called, introduced herself and explained who she is. Obviously she took my number from my younger brother staying with me. She pretended to be angry with me for not telling her am traveling and for me not knowing her name before then. Of course I apologized but she demanded I should take her out when am back before she will accept my apology I obliged.

I came back kept to my promise but made it in an open place, National theater precisely.
But then she booked another date next week but insisted it won't be open place anymore.. The rest is history.

One day I came to her shop to buy something and over heard a close friend calling her Iyawo Ossy, that wasn't the first I heard someone address her as Iyawo Ossy but I become curious this time because this person is a close friend and should know better. She tried to wave it with excuse of anybody is free to call her what they like but when I insisted, she finally opened up.....

Ossy was not her brother but her fiance with whom she has been together for 6 six years.
But, according to her Ossy is waiting for her to take in before going to see her people.
The reason why both of them chose to be telling people they are siblings remain a mystery to me till today....

I got mad and call it quit with her for trying to use me to secure marriage. The whole relationship did not last up to 2 months but obviously it was a bit late already.

Weeks later it become obvious she is pregnant, deep inside of me I felt am responsible, but when I ask her she insist it belong to Ossy. I push but she stood her ground insisting it belongs to Ossy.
She went further denying the timing of the pregnancy, if doctor is saying 2 months she will be claiming her pregnancy is 1 month.

To my greatest surprise become hostile and start avoiding me even go further to claim they went for paternity test and the result shows it belong to the guy.

I gave up, dust my self and moved on.
Nine months later she put to bed to a girl..
Months later I move out of that area.
One day my phone rang it was her, she demanded that she need to see me, that she has an important discussion with me. I opt to recharge and call her for us to do the discussion on phone but she insisted so I sent her my new address.

Two days later she came, what she came to tell me was that she is leaving the guy that the marriage thing is not working.
She was seriously crying all through I tried all i could to console her but then one thing lead to another sex happened again. When she is about to leave she told me that am the father of her daughter not Ossy. That the story of going for paternity test was true but that the test never happened because the counsellor they meet ask them to go back and rethink it again but the Ossy changed his mind at the process.

I laugh off the story and asked her to take her leave because to me she is just trying to activate her option B. Two months later she called to inform that she has not seen her period I told her am not Interested in her stories again but then my conscience was never at peace. I keep asking my self what if pregnancy and the girl truly belong to me?

One year plus later I decided to go look for them I told my girl, now fiance and she give her support ..

What I saw when I reached there almost make me cry, her condition is so bad. There and then I decide to come in and start assisting her as much as i can pending when I go for DNA. My family kick against my decision, their reason is that the girl story is not to be trusted, on the other hand my girl was supportive but kick against DNA claiming if it is done and they are not mine my feelings for the kids will change.
But from then I start taking care of their feeding, schooling, clothing, rent e.t.c

After like a year my girl suggest I open business for the girl instead, so that she doesn't have to come to me for everything everytime except school fees and medical bills.

I bought the idea and asked the lady to go look for shop ...
While on that i told her of the need to open account for the kids.

Two days later she came back to tell me that her brothers said she should not change the name of the kids...

That the kids will bear the name of who ever that marry her or the name of her family if the person don't want them.

Now what happened was that, she once told me that she need to change the girls surname to mine. Before then i don't know their surname nor attach any importance to it. So while discussing the idea of opening the account for the girls I innocently suggest that she go do the change of name before opening the account.

I was hit by her responds and her body language so I told her that she and her brothers can go suit theirselves, that from then henceforth I have hands off her matter.

Later that day she called and begged but I told her that the only condition for me to keep assisting her is that she will change their names and also release one of them to me.

She said i should make out time and come down to her base so that we will discuss it. I discuss it with my fiance and she permit me to go. When I get there and raise the topic she flame up telling me she won't try it, that that is the position of her family.

Obviously she was expecting a fight or angry reactions from me so that she can push her terms and agenda to the table ..

But was disappointed when I don't fall for that, she start begging that she can change their names but can't release any to me. I told her is no longer an option.

The meeting end at that and I took my leave, go with the start up capital i was meant to give her for her business.

She sent people to me to beg on her behave but I insisted. Finally she agreed, but with a condition that she (the first girl) must be up to 5years which is few months away then before she release her.

I sense lies in the whole thing but my girl insist I should release the fund for her to start the business of which I did when her pressure become much.

Since then I still pay their school fees nd medical bills...
Late last year the small one did surgery it was on me.

The 1st is 7 now the 2nd is 4 years old.
This year she said she wanna marry, that someone is asking for her hand in marriage
I congratulate her and wish her luck. Then ask her her plan for the kids.

What she answered me is " let the will of God be done"

I called the woman, her friend who first told me about the marriage thing, after much drilling she open up that they have agreed with the man that he is going to marry her the kids.

I don't have any problem with that even though I feel used but my only problem is why lying to me again? At that point am yet to pay their graduation /party fees out of anger I decide am not going to pay it again. I told her to go meet their new father to pay the remaining, but my conscience kept battling me.

My fiance is extremely mad at her now and have withdraw her support and insist I cut of with her entirely .

I understand her, she has been very understanding, supportive and always fighting for them even without knowing them or them knowing her.

I feel so bad for putting her in that position.
That becomes a very messy situation for me now becus I cant afford to ruin my relationship / marriage because of a renowed liar.

But what will be of those kids if I hands off them keep am awake some times at night because I don't wanna be that father that abandon his kids but I cant afford to do anything which my woman do not approve or take her for granted in anyway.


Is obvious she is trying to blackmail me with the kids, But then am not even sure if they are mine ,and she have refused to release them because if she do I can be able to go for DNA. And know what next from there.

For a while now we have not talk, She called two weeks ago that the kids wanna talk to me obviously for school fees I turn it down and warn her against calling my line again ...

I don't know if that is right, I'm confused now.
My another worry now if those kids are mine is,
When it comes to Education we are at opposite end.

She don't attach importance to education but me I attach so much importance to it.
I can't trust her with the education of those kids.
Please I need advise on how to handle things.



I have to tag you because i want you to read my reply.

One from your post it's very obvious that you are naive and lack experience on matters of life as relating to relationship. Another thing is that both Ossy and the lady have noticed your have noticed your weakness and decided to take advantage of you.

It's good to have conscience but you need to allow your conscience guide you in taking logical decisions.

You have allowed yourself to be fooled for too long by this lady and she knows how how to manipulate your emotions along side.

Now on what to do.

Cut off ties with her. That you are paying the children's bill doesn't guarantee they will acknowledge you nor appreciate in future, to their mother and them you might just be a tool to their means. Yes, you don't know what she told the children about you, you might be their father but the lady may have been telling them somethings different about you.

Keep off from them and let them value you, at the right time the lady herself will bring them back to you. Just mark this, her relationship with the new man will not last because it's obvious she's not a wife material, she will soon come back to looking for the father of the children.

But you self try be in control of yourself and stop falling cheaply to seductive appeal of ladies with ulterior intentions.

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Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by noisy45(m): 10:58pm On Dec 14, 2019
This is Super story, this is super story. Op now take water and wash your eyes. My advise go for those 2 kids DNA test I bet you you are not there father. Just take heart and thank me later.

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Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by mascot87(m): 10:58pm On Dec 14, 2019
Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by CoolJul: 10:59pm On Dec 14, 2019
I wonder how some1 will dig raw and not expect pregnancy (not that u even gave her some pills oh) you go just go house go relax then pregnancy show later u go com open thread for NL. Honestly it beats me!

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Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by horlafact(m): 11:00pm On Dec 14, 2019
This is what happens when you like free things especially free sex

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Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by lomprico(m): 11:00pm On Dec 14, 2019
emerged01:
Awof Toto na sugarcoated bitterness.

they dated for two months.
Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by DarkJeddi(m): 11:01pm On Dec 14, 2019
This Guy is a P@$$y.. angry

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Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by lomprico(m): 11:02pm On Dec 14, 2019
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Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by emmaodet: 11:04pm On Dec 14, 2019
CAPSLOCKED:


I'M SORRY. I DON'T UNDERSTAND.
A STRANGER CALLS YOU TO SAY SHE'S ANGRY WITH YOU FOR NO REASON, AND WOULD ONLY STOP BEING ANGRY IF YOU APOLOGIZED BY TAKING HER OUT.. AND YOU OBLIGED. AS THE FOØL THAT YOU ARE, OR WHAT?

WHAT IS IT WITH MEN THAT ALLOW YOU TAKE THESE SILLY THINGS FROM WOMEN, THAT WOMEN CANNOT TAKE FROM YOU?

YOU ALL PUT YOUR SELF IN DIFFERENT DANGEROUS SITUATIONS AND THEN COME TO THE INTERNET OR BEER PARLOURS TO CRY AND LAMENT, WITHOUT EVEN TAKING THE ADVICE YOU CLAIM TO SEEK. THE MORE I SEE THINGS, THE MORE MY LOVE FOR UBUNJA AND HIS PILLS GROWS.

WHAT IS IT WITH MEN THAT ALLOW YOU TAKE THESE SILLY THINGS FROM WOMEN, THAT WOMEN CANNOT TAKE FROM YOU? It is because immediately men see pvssy, most brains will switch off.
Bro, any man that can be in control of his dick and sexual urge/hormone has solved 70% of his problems in life.
It even looks as if the pvssy is a curse to men.

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Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by vRendoh(m): 11:04pm On Dec 14, 2019
ceeroh:
See where free pussy has landed you. Not once, but twice.

A man who has disciplined himself over women has solved half of his problems on earth.
Go for a DNA test, know the truth and be free.




Wisdom! Thank You for Your rich words

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Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by webngnews: 11:05pm On Dec 14, 2019
hmm
Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by 46arcadez(m): 11:05pm On Dec 14, 2019
I only see a weakling guy
Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by Yxxx: 11:06pm On Dec 14, 2019
Your story be like indian film...and e long die.

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Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by Nobody: 11:07pm On Dec 14, 2019
There is no difference between Nairaland and Beer Parlour undecided

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Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by jaxxy(m): 11:08pm On Dec 14, 2019
Henvest u need to know once and for all if those kids are urs. Stop letting that pathological liar keep fleecing u of money in the name of kids who father is still unknown.

Yes u care for them which is good bt u must demand a test to ascertain if they are urs or not and let the family acknowledge the result. Let the matter be put to rest once and for all. So u can focus better without confusion.


I’m also sorry to say bt all this from the very beginning was a trap, a gal getting ur number and calling u for hangout or hookup is a red flag. What’s happened has happened. Secure the kids if they are urs and move on.
Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by lizdammy: 11:10pm On Dec 14, 2019
Hmmm
Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by Nobody: 11:10pm On Dec 14, 2019
In need of a Facebook account.. 2k is d budget and pls I need d ad account intact
Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by topicsng(m): 11:11pm On Dec 14, 2019
Only two month
Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by Nobody: 11:11pm On Dec 14, 2019
daddytime:
This kain tori sef.

So, e be like say Osy prick no dey work, him come use style connect you with him babe to help am nack and give am belle, you sef na come go do over time by giving her belle two times.

You for stop for the first contract at least the matter for no dey too complicated like this with two children.

Laslas na DNA go resolve the matter and free you from this apparent scam wey you fall put like mugu.

Na better office dem open for your head brother.

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Re: Two-Month Relationship, My Worst Nightmare by maya007: 11:11pm On Dec 14, 2019
I dont know why u and ur fiance are so concerned about the kids.....am sorry ur story is missing out some parts...
Do you have alot of money to spend on kids ur not sure of are urs?
Wat will it take u to stand ur ground and ask to go for a DNA?
Pls go to church I tink UV been tied in a bottle oooo this ur situation doesnt sound normal atal...

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