Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by LZAA: 11:56pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
YorubaKing:
You wan go marry Okoro babe so? Craze dey worry you, I swear! Sifia pains Ndoo Cc immhotep GMBuharii Afamed Adaibeku 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by homirefacuny(m): 11:57pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
MEGA4BILLION: You should have wait to finished the entire marriage process before becoming a motivational speaker. When you are actually in the middle of it and you discover there are some inevitable bills you must settle, don't come here to open another thread about how you were used by your to be in-laws. You should have been excited if the marriage list the family gives you is in the region of what you have not the family telling you to come with what you have. Be guided, get the list first. You got the word outta my mouth Some inlaw sha, 2 Likes |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by Nature8(m): 11:58pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
Godislove1234: I am quite a young man in my late 20's. There's this lady whom I love so much. She's from one of these eastern states in Nigeria. She's very beautiful, very godly and still a virgin. We've been together for about two years now but no money for marriage. The reason is because it is quite expensive to get married in their state.
I told her to inquire from her parents how much I may need for the marital rites she called me back and said about 500k (na just to manage be that o). So I said ok. 500k is actually a small amount but when you try to get it and you cannot, then it will suddenly become like 500 million to you. So I started putting in more efforts to raise the money but na lie the money no wan show.
Guess what I did today? I called her up and after talking about other issues I finally told her that I can't keep waiting to raise that amount of money. I have been depressed about it for some time now but I couldn't tell her because I didn't want her to get bothered. So I told her to go tell her parents that what I can raise by God's grace is 200k. If they approve, I'll come but if not make she go look for another man marry. Before now she has been asking me to come with anything I have but I kept saying no and the reason is that you can't just show up at someone's house and tell them that you've come to pick up their daughter with the little amount you have. So guess what? Just like magic they agreed to what I said (even though I wasn't expecting it to go that way). She sent me the text confirming her parent's approval. For me its a big miracle. If I should tell you the state in question you won't believe it. So here's my advise to you all who want to get married to the love of your life but no money... Make you and the Babe get strong head work together or else her village people go dey delay una marriage because they want something elaborate. It's good to be stubborn I tell people. Both of you should come up with a plan (not to get her pregnant o. I don't support that please). But the plan will be carried out by your woman. She should stubbornly insist incase the parents are the difficult type, that this is the man she wishes to marry and if they don't let her she will remain single for ever (parents especially mothers dey fear that kind talk) if it doesn't work think of something else.
Just keep trying or else two of una go dey there old. But above all please put God first. He can make even the most hardened of men become soft for your sake. He may not send you all the money you need to fulfil what's in the list but He can make her parents accept you the way you are. It is called favour. What you need is the approval and blessings from both parents nothing more.
Forget village people. They too like eating and drinking. Remember that if you spend all the money in your account just to get married you and your wife will starve after the wedding. And to those who are insisting on white wedding please stop being foolish. White wedding is just a mere celebration just to fulfil all righteousness. If you have the money for it, fine. If not, no kill yourself. Don't keep your woman or man waiting.
Take a bold step today and God will meet you guys halfway. But whatever you do PLEASE don't marry a lazy woman. With this is mind, its just a matter of time you guys will succeed. Two good head are better than one. All the best guys. One love. You're lucky bro, God bless your marriage 1 Like |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by Navalsadiq(m): 12:04am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Fergin indeed. |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by lastempero: 12:04am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Carlyboi: lol sometimes as humans we just have to ginger ourselves hope for the best like a corper bout to POP saying my case would be different na favor market I dey go no be labor market few years on bros and Madam still dey hustle for that Npower slot lol Ginger is ok and normal but dont ginger yourself into trouble. |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by anonymuz(m): 12:08am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Are you sure you are mentally, financially ready? If you are, bro no time to waste 1 Like |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by kelvindj98: 12:11am On Dec 18, 2019 |
GeneralPula: Just take a look at the money Op is struggling to get and he’s wanting to get married!
Make I just laugh in Spanish & wish them well!
Like someone said up there, them no Dey tell person!
I thought I was the only one irritated by that. Someone who doesn't have 500k, and probably borrowed to get that 200k is talking about marriage, and will bring children into the world. And we wonder why we are still a 3rd world country. It's not just about standard of living, but mentality as well. An average millennial in a first world won't even dream about marriage without having a sizeable chunk of money in the bank and a blossoming career. But here, someone wacking garri will sit down and think marriage is the next thing. I think a time will come when kids will openly abuse their parents for bringing them into this world to suffer. 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by landforeast(m): 12:12am On Dec 18, 2019 |
You are not still ready for marriage please go and hustle 1 Like |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by bonnyhope: 12:32am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Godislove1234:
My brother just wish me well. Everyone can't have the same experience. Is like you like this girl well well o? |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by bonnyhope: 12:44am On Dec 18, 2019 |
bukkielee: Your own even better na. Shebi you don wan marry. My own 24 year old babe says she's not ready for marriage. Me at 30 is confused now. I don't even have the luxury of time to find a new relationship. I just tire for this marriage matter make I no lie you. Sometimes I think it is never gonna happen. Don't let your age push you into marriage o Life begins @ 40 4 Likes |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by Nobody: 12:48am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Godislove1234: I am quite a young man in my late 20's. There's this lady whom I love so much. She's from one of these eastern states in Nigeria. She's very beautiful, very godly and still a virgin. We've been together for about two years now but no money for marriage. The reason is because it is quite expensive to get married in their state.
I told her to inquire from her parents how much I may need for the marital rites she called me back and said about 500k (na just to manage be that o). So I said ok. 500k is actually a small amount but when you try to get it and you cannot, then it will suddenly become like 500 million to you. So I started putting in more efforts to raise the money but na lie the money no wan show.
Guess what I did today? I called her up and after talking about other issues I finally told her that I can't keep waiting to raise that amount of money. I have been depressed about it for some time now but I couldn't tell her because I didn't want her to get bothered. So I told her to go tell her parents that what I can raise by God's grace is 200k. If they approve, I'll come but if not make she go look for another man marry. Before now she has been asking me to come with anything I have but I kept saying no and the reason is that you can't just show up at someone's house and tell them that you've come to pick up their daughter with the little amount you have. So guess what? Just like magic they agreed to what I said (even though I wasn't expecting it to go that way). She sent me the text confirming her parent's approval. For me its a big miracle. If I should tell you the state in question you won't believe it. So here's my advise to you all who want to get married to the love of your life but no money... Make you and the Babe get strong head work together or else her village people go dey delay una marriage because they want something elaborate. It's good to be stubborn I tell people. Both of you should come up with a plan (not to get her pregnant o. I don't support that please). But the plan will be carried out by your woman. She should stubbornly insist incase the parents are the difficult type, that this is the man she wishes to marry and if they don't let her she will remain single for ever (parents especially mothers dey fear that kind talk) if it doesn't work think of something else.
Just keep trying or else two of una go dey there old. But above all please put God first. He can make even the most hardened of men become soft for your sake. He may not send you all the money you need to fulfil what's in the list but He can make her parents accept you the way you are. It is called favour. What you need is the approval and blessings from both parents nothing more.
Forget village people. They too like eating and drinking. Remember that if you spend all the money in your account just to get married you and your wife will starve after the wedding. And to those who are insisting on white wedding please stop being foolish. White wedding is just a mere celebration just to fulfil all righteousness. If you have the money for it, fine. If not, no kill yourself. Don't keep your woman or man waiting.
Take a bold step today and God will meet you guys halfway. But whatever you do PLEASE don't marry a lazy woman. With this is mind, its just a matter of time you guys will succeed. Two good head are better than one. All the best guys. One love. God bless you sir for sharing your story and giving an advice ... I so much believe your marriage will go very far and not just that, the Lord is preparing you for something big. You will buy lands for your in laws. Do not mind where you are now or what you see... I don't want to say much since I don't know you in person, but God does... Indeed you're buying a land/house soon, even so, Amen. Please when you are ready to buy that land or house, call me. Do save my number... I'm a real estate consultant. 3 Likes |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by YorubaKing: 12:50am On Dec 18, 2019 |
LZAA:
You just want igbo wife Na insult and curse be dat na... |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by googi: 12:56am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Sometimes I wonder if some parents need all that money.
I think the whole point behind it is making sure that a man can carry the responsibilities of a home. Too many people condemned the high price of the Igbo. But the real fact is, Yoruba also have a high price.
It is either you pay now or pay later. Yoruba women are expensive to keep.
But bad boys that women love so much have a way to get either of them. Indeed, the parents would come begging if she really loves you!
Would you rather take many lashes of koboko? If you love her that much, your blokos must have dislocated under heavy koboko.
There was this friend of ours that had to pay for his mother, well after the father passed. He paid fines and penalties like Paris loan. But he had a good job and position. |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by LyfeJennings(m): 12:57am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Alaye, I hope U know what U putting yourself into o but I have a feeling U would do fine. It might be tough but U will do right . 2 Likes |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by toprealman: 1:02am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Godislove1234: I am quite a young man in my late 20's. There's this lady whom I love so much. She's from one of these eastern states in Nigeria. She's very beautiful, very godly and still a virgin. We've been together for about two years now but no money for marriage. The reason is because it is quite expensive to get married in their state.
I told her to inquire from her parents how much I may need for the marital rites she called me back and said about 500k (na just to manage be that o). So I said ok. 500k is actually a small amount but when you try to get it and you cannot, then it will suddenly become like 500 million to you. So I started putting in more efforts to raise the money but na lie the money no wan show.
Guess what I did today? I called her up and after talking about other issues I finally told her that I can't keep waiting to raise that amount of money. I have been depressed about it for some time now but I couldn't tell her because I didn't want her to get bothered. So I told her to go tell her parents that what I can raise by God's grace is 200k. If they approve, I'll come but if not make she go look for another man marry. Before now she has been asking me to come with anything I have but I kept saying no and the reason is that you can't just show up at someone's house and tell them that you've come to pick up their daughter with the little amount you have. So guess what? Just like magic they agreed to what I said (even though I wasn't expecting it to go that way). She sent me the text confirming her parent's approval. For me its a big miracle. If I should tell you the state in question you won't believe it. So here's my advise to you all who want to get married to the love of your life but no money... Make you and the Babe get strong head work together or else her village people go dey delay una marriage because they want something elaborate. It's good to be stubborn I tell people. Both of you should come up with a plan (not to get her pregnant o. I don't support that please). But the plan will be carried out by your woman. She should stubbornly insist incase the parents are the difficult type, that this is the man she wishes to marry and if they don't let her she will remain single for ever (parents especially mothers dey fear that kind talk) if it doesn't work think of something else.
Just keep trying or else two of una go dey there old. But above all please put God first. He can make even the most hardened of men become soft for your sake. He may not send you all the money you need to fulfil what's in the list but He can make her parents accept you the way you are. It is called favour. What you need is the approval and blessings from both parents nothing more.
Forget village people. They too like eating and drinking. Remember that if you spend all the money in your account just to get married you and your wife will starve after the wedding. And to those who are insisting on white wedding please stop being foolish. White wedding is just a mere celebration just to fulfil all righteousness. If you have the money for it, fine. If not, no kill yourself. Don't keep your woman or man waiting.
Take a bold step today and God will meet you guys halfway. But whatever you do PLEASE don't marry a lazy woman. With this is mind, its just a matter of time you guys will succeed. Two good head are better than one. All the best guys. One love. Shut up dia. Just marry and carry on with your life. |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by ForbesHomesNG(m): 1:14am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Thiwalade: That's very good! Many times when I think of marrying this my igbo babe(I'm yoruba) I sometimes wonder how much it'll cost me. This lady definitely worth every penny honestly but the way Nigeria is now doesn't give room for too much spending especially for upcoming men. 1 Like |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by Godhatesodomy: 1:26am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Wow |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by Raalsalghul: 1:30am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Godislove1234: [s]I am quite a young man in my late 20's. There's this lady whom I love so much. She's from one of these eastern states in Nigeria. She's very beautiful, very godly and still a virgin. We've been together for about two years now but no money for marriage. The reason is because it is quite expensive to get married in their state.
I told her to inquire from her parents how much I may need for the marital rites she called me back and said about 500k (na just to manage be that o). So I said ok. 500k is actually a small amount but when you try to get it and you cannot, then it will suddenly become like 500 million to you. So I started putting in more efforts to raise the money but na lie the money no wan show.
Guess what I did today? I called her up and after talking about other issues I finally told her that I can't keep waiting to raise that amount of money. I have been depressed about it for some time now but I couldn't tell her because I didn't want her to get bothered. So I told her to go tell her parents that what I can raise by God's grace is 200k. If they approve, I'll come but if not make she go look for another man marry. Before now she has been asking me to come with anything I have but I kept saying no and the reason is that you can't just show up at someone's house and tell them that you've come to pick up their daughter with the little amount you have. So guess what? Just like magic they agreed to what I said (even though I wasn't expecting it to go that way). She sent me the text confirming her parent's approval. For me its a big miracle. If I should tell you the state in question you won't believe it. So here's my advise to you all who want to get married to the love of your life but no money... Make you and the Babe get strong head work together or else her village people go dey delay una marriage because they want something elaborate. It's good to be stubborn I tell people. Both of you should come up with a plan (not to get her pregnant o. I don't support that please). But the plan will be carried out by your woman. She should stubbornly insist incase the parents are the difficult type, that this is the man she wishes to marry and if they don't let her she will remain single for ever (parents especially mothers dey fear that kind talk) if it doesn't work think of something else.
Just keep trying or else two of una go dey there old. But above all please put God first. He can make even the most hardened of men become soft for your sake. He may not send you all the money you need to fulfil what's in the list but He can make her parents accept you the way you are. It is called favour. What you need is the approval and blessings from both parents nothing more.
Forget village people. They too like eating and drinking. Remember that if you spend all the money in your account just to get married you and your wife will starve after the wedding. And to those who are insisting on white wedding please stop being foolish. White wedding is just a mere celebration just to fulfil all righteousness. If you have the money for it, fine. If not, no kill yourself. Don't keep your woman or man waiting.
Take a bold step today and God will meet you guys halfway. But whatever you do PLEASE don't marry a lazy woman. With this is mind, its just a matter of time you guys will succeed. Two good head are better than one. All the best guys. One love.[/s] |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by Oyeleye101(m): 1:31am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Woman dey call you, you said you are working. Tell me, when you finish work who you go give the money? Alvin212: Another motivational speaker
Guy's hustle oooo Eh. Hustle ooo
The only thing better than Money in this life is actually
More money.
Bleep marriage Money pass all
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Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by Nobody: 1:56am On Dec 18, 2019 |
You struggled to raise 200k, have you considered about after? House rent?Feeding?
Pampers and Cerelac cost for market o.
I never even talk pikin school fees.
Anyway I am sure you have a plan. 3 Likes |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by Nobody: 2:00am On Dec 18, 2019 |
googi: Sometimes I wonder if some parents need all that money.
I think the whole point behind it is making sure that a man can carry the responsibilities of a home. Too many people condemned the high price of the Igbo. But the real fact is, Yoruba also have a high price.
It is either you pay now or pay later. Yoruba women are expensive to keep.
But bad boys that women love so much have a way to get either of them. Indeed, the parents would come begging if she really loves you!
Would you rather take many lashes of koboko? If you love her that much, your blokos must have dislocated under heavy koboko.
There was this friend of ours that had to pay for his mother, well after the father passed. He paid fines and penalties like Paris loan. But he had a good job and position. I have had a few yoruba girls as gfs, from where? Omo if i broke, na SW babes dey cure my konji pass(no disrespect o) Dem no dey sell their daughters, dem go even help half your wedding expenses. 1 Like |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by speaktome(m): 2:32am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Godislove1234: I am quite a young man in my late 20's. There's this lady whom I love so much. She's from one of these eastern states in Nigeria. She's very beautiful, very godly and still a virgin. We've been together for about two years now but no money for marriage. The reason is because it is quite expensive to get married in their state.
I told her to inquire from her parents how much I may need for the marital rites she called me back and said about 500k (na just to manage be that o). So I said ok. 500k is actually a small amount but when you try to get it and you cannot, then it will suddenly become like 500 million to you. So I started putting in more efforts to raise the money but na lie the money no wan show.
Guess what I did today? I called her up and after talking about other issues I finally told her that I can't keep waiting to raise that amount of money. I have been depressed about it for some time now but I couldn't tell her because I didn't want her to get bothered. So I told her to go tell her parents that what I can raise by God's grace is 200k. If they approve, I'll come but if not make she go look for another man marry. Before now she has been asking me to come with anything I have but I kept saying no and the reason is that you can't just show up at someone's house and tell them that you've come to pick up their daughter with the little amount you have. So guess what? Just like magic they agreed to what I said (even though I wasn't expecting it to go that way). She sent me the text confirming her parent's approval. For me its a big miracle. If I should tell you the state in question you won't believe it. So here's my advise to you all who want to get married to the love of your life but no money... Make you and the Babe get strong head work together or else her village people go dey delay una marriage because they want something elaborate. It's good to be stubborn I tell people. Both of you should come up with a plan (not to get her pregnant o. I don't support that please). But the plan will be carried out by your woman. She should stubbornly insist incase the parents are the difficult type, that this is the man she wishes to marry and if they don't let her she will remain single for ever (parents especially mothers dey fear that kind talk) if it doesn't work think of something else.
Just keep trying or else two of una go dey there old. But above all please put God first. He can make even the most hardened of men become soft for your sake. He may not send you all the money you need to fulfil what's in the list but He can make her parents accept you the way you are. It is called favour. What you need is the approval and blessings from both parents nothing more.
Forget village people. They too like eating and drinking. Remember that if you spend all the money in your account just to get married you and your wife will starve after the wedding. And to those who are insisting on white wedding please stop being foolish. White wedding is just a mere celebration just to fulfil all righteousness. If you have the money for it, fine. If not, no kill yourself. Don't keep your woman or man waiting.
Take a bold step today and God will meet you guys halfway. But whatever you do PLEASE don't marry a lazy woman. With this is mind, its just a matter of time you guys will succeed. Two good head are better than one. All the best guys. One love. Guy, any day you Wan do the TM, just let me know...I go buy you the shoe wey you go wear that day... Congratulations for taking a bold step. #MySignature #MyBusiness 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by Payshence(f): 3:25am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Nice one ooo. But tighten your belt oo.
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Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by Nobody: 3:30am On Dec 18, 2019 |
LZAA:
Sifia pains Ndoo Cc GMBuharii Afamed Adaibeku YorubaKing right now 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by Nobody: 3:31am On Dec 18, 2019 |
LZAA:
Afamed wee not like this post He will soon blame PDP Cc gmbuharii 2 Likes 2 Shares |
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Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by omakay(m): 4:05am On Dec 18, 2019 |
OP, i will need to understand something ooooooo....
This N200000 you are talking about, what expense is it going to cover exactly?
Traditional marriage rites?
Bride Price List?
The ceremony itself?
Marriage registry process cost?
Where do you reside?
Logistics cost through the event period? 1 Like |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by mariemummy(f): 4:17am On Dec 18, 2019 |
BabaIbo: Are you OK?
Say what you know please... Thank you nna. @slynation,we have (gb, gw, kw) as letters of the igbo alphabet. Please don't misinform people. 3 Likes |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by mariemummy(f): 4:18am On Dec 18, 2019 |
BabaIbo: Don't let that person mislead you... it's written and spelt Igbo. He is telling you two consonants are not spelt together, ask him how do they write Ogbuefi, Ogbuagu, Olugbo (bitter leaf), Ogbor, Okpa, Okpu etc. He doesn't know anything about igbo alphabet but this is Internet where people claim to be professors. If you pronounce it as Ibo in the midst of Igbos, they will look at you as a non-igbo.
Ordinarily, the way Ndigbo, Igbobuofu, Igboboy and other Igbo related topic is being spelt should serve as a guide. Didn't you write waec, neco, newspaper etc or haven't you seen it on any official or important documents, check and see how it's written... Dalu nwoke oma 1 Like |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by mariemummy(f): 4:24am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Slynation:
It's no biggie... You can do your research Few popular examples are spelling of Awka(Oka), Owerri (Oweri), Onitsha(Onicha) note 'CH' is a vowel sound in Ibo alphabets.... � Nna forget it, I am sorry but you know nothing about the igbo alphabet. Igbo vowels are[b] (a í ó ú - e ì ò ù)[/b]. ch is a consonant letter of the igbo alphabet |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by Ay04z(m): 4:27am On Dec 18, 2019 |
I have the money. But no woman to marry.yet. 1 Like |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by mrpackager(m): 4:31am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Congrats bro. |