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Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by deltateam: 6:36am On Dec 18, 2019 |
As e be I dey find wife. Anyone willing to be with me should pm me. Let's prayerfully work it out. |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by Ibfpleasant(m): 6:38am On Dec 18, 2019 |
The kind pressure Africans put on themselves all because of marriage is fucking alarming.. Best of luck! 2 Likes |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by nick50(m): 6:41am On Dec 18, 2019 |
This one all of una dey hunt for Igbo gals to marry..hmm 1 Like |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by hokafor(m): 6:45am On Dec 18, 2019 |
This one you are negotiating bride price like you are buying crayfish in the market square. My brother double your huzle, getting into marriage is something you have to be well prepared and well thought. Money is very very important here.I wish u luck. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by seanwilliam(m): 6:47am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Godislove1234:u were making sense till u got to that bolded part.. nothing of VALUE in life pass money.. except if you dont want to be sincere with yourself.. and dont be fooled by 'love in Cairo', if a lady loves you without money, then either of the following 3 reasons is in play 1. She sees potential in you which makes her feel secure( financial security is number one quality every woman seeks first) 2. She doesn't see better offer at the moment and she thinks the best man might not come( dont be fooled by marriage ,some ladies use marriage to save face) 3. She's ugly.. ugly ladies tend to go and are contented with what they have, because they kuku know their own problem already.. that's why it is easier to fhuck a very ugly girl, weather u get money or not... So my brother, I pray for your new home and pray for your marriage to be sweet and last..amen.. But dont ever allow love to cloud your sense of reasoning.. nothing tangible is achievable in life without money.. the only thing money cant buy in life is " death".. money buys love,commitment, loyalty,friends, think of anything.. what money cant achieve, believe more money will do.. And you said after one marries, what if one gets broke, let me tell u something, when u are making enough money before, brokeness cant last long and if the wife leaves, na she loose.. and all these things I wrote above is not in anyway to discourage u or intending guys, but we need to always tell yourself the truth... and dont think I get money right now ooo, I dey Brokelyn, I no mind if you do xmas for me .thank you sir!! 1 Like |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by BabaIbo: 6:47am On Dec 18, 2019 |
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Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by BabaIbo: 6:53am On Dec 18, 2019 |
mariemummy: Slynation: I don't see any comparison or anything to argue on here. Another ezigbo nwafor(nwanyi) as helped out with a clear and easy to understand answer, see the comment/quote above |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by nwadiuko1(m): 6:53am On Dec 18, 2019 |
ikechukwu21:are you ibo or igbo? no full fledged igbo man will address himself as ibo |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by maasoap(m): 6:56am On Dec 18, 2019 |
vickydankal: Good question. Both of them should work not necessarily hard but smart. Not everyone will have opportunity to have everything before they get married, reality check. Talking from experience 2 Likes |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by maasoap(m): 7:01am On Dec 18, 2019 |
GeneralPula: What is the minimum wage before? 18k. What about it today? 30k in some places and still 18k in many places. Many depended on that and were able to maintain their family and give their children education to higher level. Op is just starting, marriage can't stop him from achieving whatever he is determined to achieve, just a mere challenge. 2 Likes |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by maasoap(m): 7:03am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Fuckthamods: Like Igbos don't insult others. Your own is even too much, insult Yorubas, join Hausas together and add Fulanis on top. |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by Theoarhics: 7:06am On Dec 18, 2019 |
This can only happen when the is old and the family is desperately trying to oflaod the girl from the house...time no dey again abeg come dey go. Or if the girl is causing Lott of trouble in the house and they can't just wait for her to go. My brother you can't try to an under 25 year old girl. 1 Like |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by Preshy561(f): 7:19am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Godislove1234:Don't listen to that. |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by Preshy561(f): 7:20am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Slynation:Smh. |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by konkonbilo(m): 7:25am On Dec 18, 2019 |
OP has taken a bold step, whether he's starting with 200k or not, the most important thing is that he's taking a bold step... First of all, all fingers are not equal, some people married with far less than that and there are okay after years of marriage even with the little they have... If it's all about you having millions in you account before you get married, I swear 80% of married people today in Nigeria won't get married.. I'm sure the OP still have other money still left after spending 200k even though it's not much, he just don't want to spend all his money on marriage rite then start looking to the sky for manna from heaven.. 3 Likes |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by jclassiq(m): 7:28am On Dec 18, 2019 |
What's up with all these Yoruba guys sudden obsession with Igbo girls?? I don't understand o. Una no fancy una Yoruba women again? 1 Like |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by Nobody: 7:29am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Godislove1234:Oga if it works for you it doesn't mean it will work for everyone. Marriage is not by force it is just necessary it is not compulsory. Let those that don't have money stay away from marriage. Marriage doesn't end in Ceremonies only. |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by maasoap(m): 7:30am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Goodbloke: It depends on how lucky you are when you are to start work. Who doesn't want a fat account before getting married? Lol 2 Likes |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by PotatoSalad(m): 7:33am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Afamed:You just shot yourself in the foot |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by Nobody: 7:33am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Afamed:Thou shall not bear false witness against thy neighbor. Cc lzaa gmbuharii 3 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by GrossPrice: 7:34am On Dec 18, 2019 |
UPANDAN: He has a good girl, chaste and undefiled. He has parents approval to marry her. Yet, some small boys, that can't manage a snooker table at a busy junction on the street are asking him how much baby diapers cost. A slowpoke even mentioned $10K for child birth in the US - like the average American even has 10K for such/similar ventures. Life is about trade-offs and the OP is setting out on a good path. His inlaws seem to have accepted him as he is, and have given him and I repeat "an undefiled wife". We all know how much virgins cost in some cultures - I believe it was south sudan; where someone paid for one with hundreds of cattle, luxury cars and 10K usd in cash. The even had a competition - even though she was also tall (this made her more expensive). How many men with beautiful wives can beat their chest and say - I was the first. OP, just stand by God. I suggest you go close to God. So you can reap the full benefits of your tear rubber wife. Let your wife pray for you. And, you also keep away from other women, because it is now. All those spiritually pungent women, will start to chase you up and down. Also keep a very good eye on the friends your wife keeps. 1 Like |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by Nobody: 7:35am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Fuckthamods: Sorry about the lady who accepted, I'm also in this with an open mind! A truly enlightened mind knows how to take people for who they are without being sentimental about where they come from. I think I and my lady have this in common. |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by Melian(f): 7:38am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Fuckthamods: Na wa for the igbo girl too sef, there's no rich igbo man to cling to. |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by Nwaonyishi69: 7:40am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Fuckthamods:Don't mind sweet tongued demonic minded play boys. |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by WildChild00(m): 7:47am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by LZAA: 7:47am On Dec 18, 2019 |
immhotep:Gbam 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by CsRockefeller(m): 8:02am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Melian: Come on. How many unmarried women do we have in the East and how many Igbo men are well to do? Let's not go.down that road. |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by ireneidiva(f): 8:06am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Slynation:The CH in Chukwu is a vowel sound right? |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by ireneidiva(f): 8:10am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Godislove1234:It is too early to create this thread. It is not her parents that will give you the list. It is her kinsmen. Her parents don't have a say. You must buy everything on the list. Even if they let her go on credit, it will be recorded that you never completed the rites. So get the list first before celebrating. 1 Like |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by Godislove1234: 8:22am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Fvckmoderators:LOL. My brother I'm not a fool. I have a plan. Thanks |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by Offpoint: 8:26am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Godislove1234:Make go knack your marriage better blessings brother... nothing do you, we cannot come and kill ourselves die. more blessings 1 Like |
Re: If Money Is Delaying You From Getting Married, Read This by Godislove1234: 8:33am On Dec 18, 2019 |
fujirice:I told my woman that nothing concerns me and that their list. I'm stubborn by nature. The reason why people still fall victim of that list is because they appear too desperate to take their wife home. Even if you're desperate try and hide it so that the inlaws no go too get say over you. Because to me it's crazy. Dem no de marry once and for all in Nigeria. Even after marriage you go still dey send your inlaws money and gifts. So why should they stress you too much with some offensive list |
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