Why you should marry a Single Mother!!!

MARRYING A SINGLE MOTHER.
(MARRIAGE EXPO FOR MEN).
Most folks, especially Nigerian men, do feel they are doing women favour when they marry them as single mothers, but it's a paradox and a social myth that must be educated.
In my research as a counselor, I have discovered that 90% of single mothers are BEST wives in the marriage market when we go to buy.
Firstly, why do women become single mothers?
Some are DELIBERATE, some are TRAGEDIES (widows) while some are MISTAKES. So if you happen to like a single mother, investigate her motive before you configure the drivers of your feelings. If it's deliberate because she doesn't want to marry a man, you can just date her and walk away; but if it was a MISTAKE OF TRAGEDY, trust me she can be the best WIFE you can ever think of.
12 EXPO
1. Single mothers that made mistakes do bring total SUBMISSION to the table of marriage once they know that the man is honest and sincere, because they will see marriage as a classroom where they must correct the mistakes the made in the past.
2. If you want to WIN her, love her child first, and you will see that she will LOVE you with her last breath and blood.
3. Don't forget that as a woman that has put to BED before, there's 85% assurance that she will conceive without toiling from one prayer house to the other to conceive; the baby is evidence of her fruitfulness.
4. Single Mums treat their husbands as LORDS for the sacrifices they make, and easily forgive them no matter the gravity of what they err.
5. If you marry her, do not discriminate the child in your children's budget, see them as equals so you don't sprout the seed of jealousy.
6. If she is a single mum as a widow you may not have problem but if the child's father is alive, both of you should have an agreement from the beginning on welfare and information management. Don't deny the father access to his child but put a password before he can have access to your wife; it implies the gateway should be defined while you monitor the parameters; trust me, the child will grow up to love you as the man that made his/her mother happy more than the biological father.
7. Ensure the child is in the same school with your kids, if not that child's educational setbacks will influence your kids negatively when they play together. If the father supports good, but if he does not be ready to train the child alongside your kids for uniformity of knowledge.
8. If the child is a female child/children, you will have less parenting to do because female children easily relieve parents once the are adult or even get married.
9. 90% of SINGLE MOTHERS are faithful in marriage and wouldn't pull infidelity string to damage the engine of TRUST in the marriage system; they feel you have sacrificed enough to win their trust and faithfulness.
10. Single Mums are SUPERWOMEN. For a woman to play the role of both parents and bear the responsibility of raising a child/children, don't joke with such a woman, because even if you die in future she can take care of your family.
11. Single Mums are SEX SATISFIERS. They will lock you down in bed for good sex so you don't look outside to avoid stories that will touch the heart.
12. Most Single Mothers are good cooks and God fearing; the fact that she did not abort the child justifies her SACREDNESS AND GOD'S FEAR.
Go Brother! It will go well. Buy her a ring and pop the big question "Will You Marry Me?"... I see tears of Joy in her eyes as she says.."Yes I will". You won't regret the step you have taken brother. May God see you through as I join my faith with yours in prayer. SHOUT OUT TO ALL SINGLE MUMS WORLDWIDE!
God bless u all.

By Pastor Joseph Udoh.... #SHARE now!

Check if you naturally love her child. If yes, your problem is 99% solved in the union.

My wife has an unpaid househelp. I love children, and as a neighbor, the woman's children always come to our apartment to play. So, the woman always do house chores for my wife free of charge since the woman is through with child bearing and my wife just started.

But whenever the two exlovers meet, intercourse can't be ruled out.

Depends

u just opened my eyes and also change my thinking abt single mothers but will still not marry a single mom

Take this advice at your own risk.
Training another man's sperm is a no no
besides that child will always connect the single mother and the father even when she's married and what happens when two ex lovers meet after a long break is better imagined than said no matter what separated them.

I don't have any problem marrying a single mum, what I need is a virtuous woman that's all

I tire for some guys shaa

This is TRASH

Akuko

Mr op, what u just wrote up there is good O!!!.... but I cannot come and go and complicate my life all in the name of love.....there is a saying....e no dey hard,e go begin hard....

Abfinest007:
u just opened my eyes and also change my thinking abt single mothers but will still not marry a single mom

Funny dude....

DocJoseph:
Why you should marry a Single Mother!!!

MARRYING A SINGLE MOTHER.
(MARRIAGE EXPO FOR MEN).
Most folks, especially Nigerian men, do feel they are doing women favour when they marry them as single mothers, but it's a paradox and a social myth that must be educated.
In my research as a counselor, I have discovered that 90% of single mothers are BEST wives in the marriage market when we go to buy.
Firstly, why do women become single mothers?
Some are DELIBERATE, some are TRAGEDIES (widows) while some are MISTAKES. So if you happen to like a single mother, investigate her motive before you configure the drivers of your feelings. If it's deliberate because she doesn't want to marry a man, you can just date her and walk away; but if it was a MISTAKE OF TRAGEDY, trust me she can be the best WIFE you can ever think of.
12 EXPO
1. Single mothers that made mistakes do bring total SUBMISSION to the table of marriage once they know that the man is honest and sincere, because they will see marriage as a classroom where they must correct the mistakes the made in the past.
2. If you want to WIN her, love her child first, and you will see that she will LOVE you with her last breath and blood.
3. Don't forget that as a woman that has put to BED before, there's 85% assurance that she will conceive without toiling from one prayer house to the other to conceive; the baby is evidence of her fruitfulness.
4. Single Mums treat their husbands as LORDS for the sacrifices they make, and easily forgive them no matter the gravity of what they err.
5. If you marry her, do not discriminate the child in your children's budget, see them as equals so you don't sprout the seed of jealousy.
6. If she is a single mum as a widow you may not have problem but if the child's father is alive, both of you should have an agreement from the beginning on welfare and information management. Don't deny the father access to his child but put a password before he can have access to your wife; it implies the gateway should be defined while you monitor the parameters; trust me, the child will grow up to love you as the man that made his/her mother happy more than the biological father.
7. Ensure the child is in the same school with your kids, if not that child's educational setbacks will influence your kids negatively when they play together. If the father supports good, but if he does not be ready to train the child alongside your kids for uniformity of knowledge.
8. If the child is a female child/children, you will have less parenting to do because female children easily relieve parents once the are adult or even get married.
9. 90% of SINGLE MOTHERS are faithful in marriage and wouldn't pull infidelity string to damage the engine of TRUST in the marriage system; they feel you have sacrificed enough to win their trust and faithfulness.
10. Single Mums are SUPERWOMEN. For a woman to play the role of both parents and bear the responsibility of raising a child/children, don't joke with such a woman, because even if you die in future she can take care of your family.
11. Single Mums are SEX SATISFIERS. They will lock you down in bed for good sex so you don't look outside to avoid stories that will touch the heart.
12. Most Single Mothers are good cooks and God fearing; the fact that she did not abort the child justifies her SACREDNESS AND GOD'S FEAR.
Go Brother! It will go well. Buy her a ring and pop the big question "Will You Marry Me?"... I see tears of Joy in her eyes as she says.."Yes I will". You won't regret the step you have taken brother. May God see you through as I join my faith with yours in prayer. SHOUT OUT TO ALL SINGLE MUMS WORLDWIDE!
God bless u all.

By Pastor Joseph Udoh.... #SHARE now!

. Most of them come with a lot of baggage, local man can't can

Here we go again, single mom!
Hmmm

The baggage is best avoided

90% of the single mother you would meet in this generation are baggages. In them you will find someone who got carried away by materialism and "get belle" in the process, some who bailed at the slightest marital challenge, a feminist, the list goes on.

I met one in service then, she had a 5-year old child. she was totally responsible for his upkeep (it was financially stressful for her). One thing I observed was that she ALWAYS lay curses on the father of her baby.

We got talking one day and I asked her how the whole thing came to be. She told me that she was rolling with the guy when she was in school. The guy was not a graduate. But he used to have some money (he ran a viewing center business around her school).

While some of her "broke" course mates would have been worshipping her to get her attention, babe was been dickmatized and monetized by an illiterate.

PS: We were rolling together in service. I would have considered her to be my wife, until I told her one day while discussing that I cannot marry a single mother or someone from the other religion. I never knew she had a child then. She kept it hush hush. Perhaps she was planning on telling me at her own pace while pulling the victim card.

So when she was finally telling me about it, she was saying so from the position of someone who has nothing to lose. If we were still together, of course you wouldn't have expected her to say she ran after money na. She would have obviously pulled the victim card on me.

Powersurge:
90% of the single mother you would meet in this generation are baggages. In them you will find someone who got carried away by materialism and "get belle" in the process, some who bailed at the slightest marital challenge, a feminist, the list goes on.

I met one in service then, she had a 5-year old child. she was totally responsible for his upkeep (it was financially stressful for her). One thing I observed was that she ALWAYS lay curses on the father of her baby.

We got talking one day and I asked her how the whole thing came to be. She told me that she was rolling with the guy when she was in school. The guy was not a graduate. But he used to have some money (he ran a viewing center business around her school).

While some of her "broke" course mates would have been worshipping her to get her attention, babe was been dickmatized and monetized by an illiterate.

PS: We were rolling together in service. I would have considered her to be my wife, until I told her one day while discussing that I cannot marry a single mother or someone from the other religion. I never knew she had a child then. She kept it hush hush. Perhaps she was planning on telling me at her own pace while pulling the victim card.

So when she was finally telling me about it, she was saying so from the position of someone who has nothing to lose. If we were still together, of course you wouldn't have expected her to say she ran after money na. She would have obviously pulled the victim card on me.

At least, from what you have said, I think she's repented from her shortcomings and she's matured now because she's learned from her mistakes.

calabardick:
Here we go again, single mom!
Hmmm

..lols!! But they're better off than some singles ladies who have destroyed their womb because of Many Abortions @@@

Abfinest007:
u just opened my eyes and also change my thinking abt single mothers but will still not marry a single mom

..... Lols, you're funny

MasterShifu010:
Mr op, what u just wrote up there is good O!!!.... but I cannot come and go and complicate my life all in the name of love.....there is a saying....e no dey hard,e go begin hard....

.... Hmmmm what if u married that Single girl, and she doesn't have a womb? Even miscarriage. Nawaoo

lilmax:
This is TRASH

...really

I tire for some guys shaa

....lols, see mumu

Una don come again

. Most of them come with a lot of baggage, local man can't can

....is it single girls that doesn't have baggages

Beosten:
Check if you naturally love her child. If yes, your problem is 99% solved in the union.

My wife has an unpaid househelp. I love children, and as a neighbor, the woman's children always come to our apartment to play. So, the woman always do house chores for my wife free of charge since the woman is through with child bearing and my wife just started.

But whenever the two exlovers meet, intercourse can't be ruled out.

... Good

Bahamas95:
I don't have any problem marrying a single mum, what I need is a virtuous woman that's all

.... Amen for you ooo. Even me.

Firstorderwizard:
Take this advice at your own risk.
Training another man's sperm is a no no
besides that child will always connect the single mother and the father even when she's married and what happens when two ex lovers meet after a long break is better imagined than said no matter what separated them.

.. Bros, there is a way you can treat her child or children, they will connect with you more than their biological parents. Yes. Those her children can even love you more if you treat them as your own children.
....and, except the single mother is a confused human being that she'll stood so low to sleep with her ex again...

DocJoseph:


.. Bros, there is a way you can treat her child or children, they will connect with you more than their biological parents. Yes. Those her children can even love you more if you treat them as your own children.
....and, except the single mother is a confused human being that she'll stood so low to sleep with her ex again...

for creating this thread you deserve a knock on your head. I'm sure you can't eat the food you're serving us

Ha! No thread that you won't see on this platform.

What's your business? Marriage is a personal decision. You should learn to stop poke nosing. The only time you are allowed to poke nose is when you are asked for an advice. If no one, please keep your advice to yourself.

Category of men that marry single mothers:

1. Stupid men
2. Men without serious financial prospects looking to leech of the single mother
3. Old men looking for companion
4. Men that shoot blanks

DocJoseph:


.. Bros, there is a way you can treat her child or children, they will connect with you more than their biological parents. Yes. Those her children can even love you more if you treat them as your own children.
....and, except the single mother is a confused human being that she'll stood so low to sleep with her ex again...

Why are you so desperate to usurp the love and affection a child has for their biological parents?

but in terms of hygiene, u can't compare fresh ladies with single mummies, d mummies usually throw away their sense of hygiene while d fresh ones always make efforts to b clean all d time