So I found put my fiance is really 32 and when I confronted him he flew off the handle and turned to me and says you Look older than 33 anyways so what are you worried about if I am 32? I'm oh so hurt by this. Its not the first time he's said this. It makes me wonder why he stays if he feels this way. Help me out here.

Tell him what you want and what you don't want . . .Simple!
And if he persists fine him!

Are you really 33,if you are 33 and he his 32 and he says that you often ,then just know there is nothing for you at the end of relationship because he his not okay with your age and look,he may tell you he his sorry,but it will happen again,you need to get somebody older than you.its better but not compulsory,but you are 33 its really risky for you to forget him,because you are not sure of the next guy and the next guy and the next guy calculate your age and years that will be used to know the other person unless you dont inted to be married.

tim2:

Are you really 33,if you are 33 and he his 32 and he says that to you often ,then just know there is nothing for you at the end of relationship because he his not okay with your age and look,he may tell you he his sorry,but it will happen again,you need to get somebody older than you.its better but not compulsory,but you are 33 its really risky for you to forget him,because you are not sure of the next guy and the next guy and the next guy calculate your age and years that will be used to know the other person unless you dont inted to be married.

word

this isnt going to last

says you Look older than 33 anyways

Is it true of false?
Since it bothers you, it must be true.
Tell him your real age.
He prolly told you 32 just to match the age you told him.

Na wa o,poster find someone older,cos obviously he ain't ok wiv ur age, no matter how hard he tries to hide it,its still glaring.

I myself am 27 soon 28 he said he was 29 when we met. Now his sister tells me he's goin on 33. he told me I look older than him so what should I care if he's older. Age isn't the issue the lie than the insult is.

Mistrezz28:

I myself am 27 soon 28 he said he was 29 when we met. Now his sister tells me he's goin on 33. he told me I look older than him so what should I care if he's older. Age isn't the issue the lie than the insult is.

Why don't you give Mr cork a chance coz to me that guy will latter sing: Lagbaja nothing for youuuu,

he said he was 29 when we met. Now his sister tells me he's goin on 33.

na today?

33 is even small.

anyhoo!

not my beeswax.

Mistrezz28:

I myself am 27 soon 28 he said he was 29 when we met. Now his sister tells me he's goin on 33. he told me I look older than him so what should I care if he's older. Age isn't the issue the lie than the insult is.

So, what is the problem?
You say he is your fiance?
You went to get 'fianced' to a dude you did not know his real age?

You must have met on Nairaland or Facebook.

Fiance by mail or fiance by internet?

We first met when I was 16 & 11 yrs later reunited. Even back than he said he was 2 yrs older. I did not meet online sorry.

^^
You mean you've been lamushuanging since you were 11?

190:

whats our business!

Learn to be polite sometime. This is a sensitive matter women and age

@poster, I'm sure it wasn't meant as anything negative but it also wasn't a good choice of words.

But pls do not let this bring you down, guys know our weak point you got to learn their tricks. Do not let their words bring you down.
I am sure dis has been hunting your mind for days now constantly thinking "do I really look that old" That is why he did it for. Some guys
can be mean with words, they do not physically abuse you, but they are emotional abusers. As you said they is not the first time he said it,
so why are you hurt? The dude is obviously out to hurt you. Do not LET HIM!

You have two options,
one talk it out with him and tell him that he's hurting you.

Or

Ignore his insult do not even let it bother you. Just let it slid he will be left confuse and before you know he will give up, cus he will know that nothing he said hurts you.

P.S if you are not good at ignoring pls go for option one.

^^ are u saying he is joking about it.

Talking to me

yes i am

Da_b¤§§.:

yes i am

What I said was

rokiatu:

@poster, I'm sure it wasn't meant as anything negative but it also wasn't a good choice of words.

@poster, I'm sure it wasn't meant as anything negative

actually, it was.

So I found put my fiance is really 32 and when I confronted him he flew off the handle and turned to me and says you Look older than 33 anyways so what are you worried about if I am 32? I'm oh so hurt by this. Its not the first time he's said this

but love can cover all i guess.

men are scarce and black males are even scarcer.

in any case, she too should stop confronting him perhaps. Dont know what the guidelines are for people in most of these types of relationships. Where the man has different names, different birthdates, multiple everything since we are all fleeing the bad conditions at home.

^^i wonder how many names, ages and countries you've claimed passed through, yourself.

cant be less than six.

tpia@:

^^i wonder how many names, ages and countries you've claimed passed through, yourself.

cant be less than six.

ermm madam, thers is no need for rudeness. Act like a lady for once. cheers!

struck a nerve again i see.

post your picture and let's see who needs it the most.




anyway, STOP DERAILING THE THREAD.

I DO NOT FIND YOU INTERESTING OR FUNNY IN CASE THAT'S WHAT YOU'RE AIMING FOR.

I'M NOT FEELING YOU, GEDDIT?

lol

Mr cork you can be really annoying at time. Why do not you open a thread title "The official Mr cork thread cheap jokes and insults all found here" and let other important threads be
And then you can display your desperate attempts to be funny and your constant struggle to remain dumb. And drop some of your sad jokes there. No one would care at-least not me cus I wouldn't
dare not even if am sleepy click on that thread.