simonlee:
simple trick....

use a strange number to forward a text to your phone that reads "i will give you N20million and an oil company job if you divorce your wife and marry me"...
then see if she wouldn't go back to factory settings!

funmisticqueen:
fact of life, money changes both men and women because it comes with control. It's human nature

Your wife is not emasculating you, you are just losing control of the power and finances in the family. Do you know how much BS women tolerate from men in marriages because he earns more?

Uncle, go and hustle or give your pants over to your wife and stop complaining

Martinez39:


You also forgot that funmisticqueen once opened a thread advising women to cut of the d!ck of their cheating husbands, poison them slowly, or go diabolical. She is really a horrible person. Don't be fooled by posts that give excuses or explain away her toxicity and SHE IS PRO-WOMAN EVEN IN MISANDRIC PROPORTIONS. To further buttress my point on the victim mentality and solipsism of modern women, here is an excerpt from her reply to you :
What patriarchy? The same old feminist bullcrap used to justify their victim mentality. They erroneously purport that men have more privileges, men own the world, and things are somehow structured to make things more difficult for women. This same victim mentality peculiar to contemporary feminists is a global phenomenon. In the US where women are pampered and given free privileges, they still complain of the nonexistent patriarchy, nonexistent rape culture, and nonexistent female oppression.

Funmisticqueen knows that women and men have equal rights and opportunities and that comes with equal responsibilities but she is having none of that. Any argument that absolves a woman of responsibility, place the man as a provider, and doesn't support a woman making financial sacrifices for her husband will do for her even if the argument is invalid. The woman must always receive and millennial men are disappointing because they don't want to be women's ATM machines. Patriarchy my ass that funmisticqueen has equal rights and opportunities and she is a doctor.

"We live in a patriarchy. Men already have so much going for them." Trash!

funmisticqueen:
I don't troll him anymore and basically ignore him now. When last did I troll him? I actually wish him well because he speaks his truth.

Doesn't stop me from thinking that he's a psychopath though.

funmisticqueen:
fact of life, money changes both men and women because it comes with control. It's human nature

Your wife is not emasculating you, you are just losing control of the power and finances in the family. Do you know how much BS women tolerate from men in marriages because he earns more?

Uncle, go and hustle or give your pants over to your wife and stop complaining

maak400:

Sorry about your predicament sir, I can only imagine what you’re going through. That’s the nature of women who suddenly become richer than their husband, similar cases like yours abound everywhere. God did not create women to be the provider of the house, so anytime circumstances happen to make a woman the provider, they simply become proud and treat the husband like shit. Just keep praying and hoping that your business bounces back. Also, ensure that you still put your foot down as the head of your home no matter what attitude your wife is displaying.

RisenPhoenix:
Your mistake was permitting her to become the breadwinner. When you experienced a downturn, you should have adjusted your family's standards of living down to comfortable levels accordingly, instead of using her own money to maintain that standard. Because you couldn't relinquish the good life, you have effectively relinquished control over your home. No matter how little you make, adjust your expenses to stay within that income. Do not touch her money under any circumstances.

Martinez39:


You also forgot that funmisticqueen once opened a thread advising women to cut of the d!ck of their cheating husbands, poison them slowly, or go diabolical. She is really a horrible person. Don't be fooled by her posts that give excuses or explain away her toxicity and SHE IS PRO-WOMAN EVEN IN MISANDRIC PROPORTIONS. To further buttress my point on the victim mentality and solipsism of modern women, here is an excerpt from her reply to you :
What patriarchy? The same old feminist bullcrap used to justify their victim mentality. They erroneously purport that men have more privileges, men own the world, and things are somehow structured to make things more difficult for women. This same victim mentality peculiar to contemporary feminists is a global phenomenon. In the US where women are pampered and given free privileges, they still complain of the nonexistent patriarchy, nonexistent rape culture, and nonexistent female oppression.

Funmisticqueen knows that women and men have equal rights and opportunities and that comes with equal responsibilities but she is having none of that. Any argument that absolves a woman of responsibility, place the man as a provider, and doesn't support a woman making financial sacrifices for her husband will do for her even if the argument is invalid. The woman must always receive and millennial men are disappointing because they don't want to be women's ATM machines. Patriarchy my ass that funmisticqueen has equal rights and opportunities and she is a doctor.

"We live in a patriarchy. Men already have so much going for them." Trash!

LINTUNE:
like I said,not all,definitely there will be exceptions

pennywys:
see dem here ugly bitches. Na my type fit marry u to show being a man is all about, handle you in manly ways
I will give you the money the money u so desire

funmisticqueen:
fact of life, money changes both men and women because it comes with control. It's human nature

Your wife is not emasculating you, you are just losing control of the power and finances in the family. Do you know how much BS women tolerate from men in marriages because he earns more?

Uncle, go and hustle or give your pants over to your wife and stop complaining

strungup79:


You are just like my wife. If marriage is about control, why marry? Why not stay on your own? Making money is not about hustling, if it was i'd be earning over three times what my wife earns. Luck, favour also plays a role. Maybe God just wants to show me who I married.

912:


Yes because no man would have you. You even had to create a thread but still no man wants to be part of your 99 problems

LINTUNE:
such men are irrespnsible,but the OP is apparently different,didnt u hear that he was the bread winner until his business stopped flourishing,can't u see her is making effort to recover ..

Charliewyt:


Dr were you able to meet the boyfriend you are searched for?.
I would be glad if you understand that the world does not revolve around your beauty and intelligence.
You may attract a man but keeping the man with such a mindset of yours will be difficult if not impossibe for you.

Las las ugo de alright after your POP on 27 Feb.

strungup79:
I'm 42 years old and married with 3 children (2 boys and a girl). I got married to this beatiful lady 13 years ago and everything was bliss until three years ago when my business experienced a serious down turn.

My wife on the other hand witnessed an upturn in fortunes and practically became the bread winner in the home.

Her good financial fortune had me focussed on trying to get myself back on track. I tried getting a job, but it was not forth coming.

My business continued to dwindle and then I resorted to doing small odd jobs just so I could contribute to the family upkeep.

My wife's upturn in fortune however brought out the ugliness in her. She started trying to assume control of the home. She stopped consulting me on decisions concerning our home, rather consulting her parents. She practically turned my kids against me as she painted me as irresponsible.

We initially had assess to each other's account, but now she has accounts hidden from me. I just found out she bought land somewhere, though she doesn't know I have that knowledge.

She has become rude and disrespectful and her parents and siblings have taken over my home. I am so pained because all I ever did was show her love and respect.

She didn't like the fact i tried to have order in my home and that seems to be my sin. I have never hit her or been wicked to her.

Right now, I'm pained and confused. I don't know what to do. Someone please help.

strungup79:


You are just like my wife. If marriage is about control, why marry? Why not stay on your own? Making money is not about hustling, if it was i'd be earning over three times what my wife earns. Luck, favour also plays a role. Maybe God just wants to show me who I married.

SmithRussell:
Shut up yhu dumbskull.. A man who has money can be controlled by his wife or parents or siblings or friends... On the other hand, a woman with cash can't be controlled by anyone,, just that for her kids' sake she can only be constrained , somehow..

Women have poor insights and are generally narrow-minded.. They don't believe in future, they don't remember the past..

That's why a man is needed to control his woman, for she can't control herself

77up:
Your judgement is somehow harsh , you ll do more if you are the said wife I guess . He's not bad to his wife according to him so why this harsh ? We shouldn't be this mean to ourselves now haba


@op, I pray may God return all your loss and get you back on track soon ,just keep pushing it bro

funmisticqueen:
marriage is not about control. Money is what gives control. Stop misquoting me from your place of pain.

Also stop this 'poor me' 'boohoo' victim mentality, it is irritating and pathetic. You are the one emasculating yourself, by allowing yourself to be emasculated.

Most likely money was all you had to offer in the marriage and now that you have lost that, you are just like an appendix in your marriage. Existing without function, but capable of causing hell because no one cares about it anymore.

It is not about bringing more money but showing that you are a leader, and being her support. Give her a reason to trust you by showing initiative. Do you think women like to be bread winners? She is picking up your slack.Of course She will be pissed at you subconsciously.

Be proactive, anticipate needs in the marriage that you can provide and meet them without being told or nagged. Convince her that you are still necessary in your marriage. Get your head out of your asshole and be man.


This is the most candid advice you will get from me or on your thread

Michellekabod2:
funmisticqueen ain't a feminist,so don't drag feminism into this

pocohantas:


He hasn't recovered, he should be useful for now. Not for his wife, but his kids. I don't care what he does with his wife when he recovers, she probably doesn't care too and if all OP said is the truth, she has waited so long for this moment. Some women just need men for the marriage and (temporary) comfort men can provide. This is a model that is okay for the Nigerian man too, even though they always cry when it backfires.

Nigerian men only win bread, they don't know how to win any other thing- even the hearts and sympathy of their women. Always thinking everything is manee, manee, manee.