maasoap:


She claimed that her husband had told the same lie to his family, simple. So, she recognised the "lie" here. The woman said that she has no landed property. Who is the liar here?

Gbemishile1:

So what's the truth from her own side?

Kennedyiheme:
mgtow isn't brainwashing.. its just men choosing to be by themselves.. there is no rally on the streets like feminists hold monthky rallies or conferences with placards... its all a self decision and an inclination that arises from the fact that men are getting wiser

QueenSuccubus:


What else shall we do in this life sha? Ofcurz been chasin' paper ooo.. so many mouth i feed every day

I barely come online here since there's no topic that would entice me anymore

I miss u too.. i miss those days that we are all here almost banging each oda hahahaha

BRATISLAVA:


It's brainwashing once you can't think outside of it. You can't approach relationships with a clean mind because the teaching is always there. And the problem with the brainwashing is that it was invented by a particularly weak man filled with hatred for women. Secretly, he's still some woman's plaything, but let's not get into that.

Look at the main student of mgtow here on nairaland. martinez39 is simply a misogynist, it's a wonder he's not pronounced himself gay. Maybe he actually is gay. He has lost objectivity while he pushes the agenda: hatred and subjugation of women. On this thread he never gave reconcilatory advice. His aim is to hurt women through other men with myopic one-sided mgtow theories. You can see it in his questions and responses. He cannot evaluate info except it's in favor of men. Men are always right. Women are crafty. He still wants to pay a baby mama. He still wants to brainwash the children he may have. He's still doing the same things he claims to be against, though he thinks he's on some train to somewhere. He's a feminazi with balls. On this thread he's still lawing for the OP who is viewing but has gone into hiding on exposure. He needs to push the male perspective even with contrary info.

Add the so called red pill to it and you have men who hate women and believe every evil about them while they consider themselves saints. Isn't that brainwashing? The women are always up to no good. If you don't trust women and hate them, why not look into relationships with other men who won't use tears and money to manipulate you or turn the children against you with their wailings and will not give you stress?

When the WGTOW version comes out, the men will begin new hate. Feminism isn't mgtow, if that's the counter. It is for equality of rights. That's why the red pill etc are just avenues for hatred. In the end, all men will marry and impregnate robots in future. That way the dangerous creatures called women will be kept far.

If men were getting any wiser, they would step up to the simplest solution available. Love your wife and she will do anything for you. True love. Instead you have red pill men competing with her on children, wailing, sex and other idiocy.

I'm done with posts with misogynists. I thought nairaland had balanced views. Instead it sways towards gays and little boys testing their wrists.

Kennedyiheme:
again mgtow doesn't hold rallies or conferences, holding placards, protesting in front of government offices, holding seminars and telling people what to do... on the other hand this is what the feminist do... the only thing mgtow does is state their opinion on social media.. how do you call people stating their life experience and opinion on social media as brainwashing.. who did the brainwashing?.. if you call that brainwashing then you probably cant comprehend things easily

BRATISLAVA:

So what's the truth from his own side?

Gbemishile1:

He has stated his side of the matter
We want to hear from the woman too

BRATISLAVA:


K. A zombie doesn't know it's a zombie.

Kennedyiheme:
well you haven't proved there's a zombie at all.. brianwashing occurs when there is a gathering and a leader.. just like the jihadist, they gather and listen to radical preaching... in london there's an event centre that host feminists twice a month.. you can't point anything like that for mgtows...

BRATISLAVA:
It's brainwashing once you can't think outside of it. You can't approach relationships with a clean mind because the teaching is always there.

Look at the main student of mgtow here on nairaland. martinez39 is simply a misogynist ... He has lost objectivity while he pushes the agenda: hatred and subjugation of women. On this thread he never gave reconcilatory advice. His aim is to hurt women through other men with myopic one-sided mgtow theories. You can see it in his questions and responses. He cannot evaluate info except it's in favor of men.

midnighter:


I actually went back and read through the exchange to see if I was mistaken, but Im not.

I didnt take your exaggeration out of context because the following sentences used to support it still painted a bad picture of wealthier women, which you obfuscated again in your subsequent comment by erroneously adding another issue. It was later on that you clarified what you meant, which I accepted already.

And dont mind that indolent blaggard who is encouraging you in your folly, his support means nothing

If you read the discussion he referred to, you will see how much hot air he was blowing just so that he wouldnt answer my simple questions hahaha you people are hysterical!

funmisticqueen:
fact of life, money changes both men and women because it comes with control. It's human nature

Your wife is not emasculating you, you are just losing control of the power and finances in the family. Do you know how much BS women tolerate from men in marriages because he earns more?

Uncle, go and hustle or give your pants over to your wife and stop complaining

BRATISLAVA:

What happened, midnighter?

cerpvad:
^{He who pays the piper dictates the tune. Marriage is woven around power and class interface. Earning power and social class are two main factors I always advise guys to consider before marrying a lady. If she earns more than you and she's from a wealthy family, guys, run for your life. Some ladies, after using their earnings and wealthy family to entice you into marriage, would bite you back with a lifetime controls, blackmails and giving you depression. In fact they would be feeling too big to have sex with you.}

See where you missed it all. look above. Immediately after the actual statement that you isolated and quoted, the next sentence starts with "Some ladies". If you were not discursively indolent, you should have realized that with the presence of that indefinite modifier "Some" in the body of that post, the writer does not condemn ALL WEALTHY WOMEN like you have erroneously perceived.

From discursive perspective, you do not isolate a particular utterance from the rest while assessing a writer's main opinion on a subject. Equally, some utterances are mere exaggerations or overstatements just like the aspect which you bolded and quoted and should not be used to represent main opinion. In fact all exaggerations or overstatements are not valid opinions.

However, I don't expect everyone to be technical on how to deduce a writer's point of view. Since you fall into that category, you can drop your last words and let's move on from this topic for good.

midnighter:


I know you followed it with "some ladies" to qualify your statement but the actual stance in itself was wrong.

Is it "dont marry just for wealth" or "avoid wealthy women"? Those are 2 different things.

Kekereekun123:
my dad was one of MKOs trusted staff before he went to set up us own business in the 80s. My father has only one house he built in 1992. He so much believed in helping people.

By 2010 when my mama came back to nigeria. She bought a jeep of 4m while my father has no car lol( in 2001 he had 2 cars and a bus).

She later built duplex and moved there . Same man wey buy her benz in 1998.

I have learnt the hard way. I only date working class ladies. Once you ask me for money for tfare, hair or uber its over . The last one i dated earns 276k in a bank as an assistant banking officer but was asking for uber money.

Ilekokonit:


Thanks for sharing this.

I hope unmarried Naija men are learning more about Nigerian women from this.

Truthwillout:
I am Strungup79's wife and I have watched the drama here unfold in silence. Here is a copy of a message I just sent my husband on WhatsApp. I hope it will put things in clearer light.

I'll try to keep this brief. I started this year on a sour note, crying bitterly. Because of you total strangers called me bitch and all sorts of unprintable names. Some even went as far as saying I was diabolical and ¹reversed your fortunes with juju, and you basked in it all, all because of the lies you told them. You have repeatedly told your siblings the same lies. I emasculate you. Really? I emaaculate you yet i led my colleagues, our neighbours and practically everyone I know to believe that you are the breadwinner and doing a marvellous job. I emasculate you, yet when the rent needs to be paid, I pay it into your account first just so no one will know. I earn good money but no one knows it because everything goes into running this family. I don't save a dime. I NEVER complained about you not working these past 4 or 5 years. You complained about me spending a lot of time at my mum's place. I do that so that I can avoid the endless streams of alterations with you, and for other reasons I'll spare everyone here.

Every single time you bring this up, I reassure you that all I want is the best for you. I encourage you, fast and pray for you, yet I'm a bad wife. You actually called our daughter and told her I am a bad wife. She cried her eyes out when she told me all the nasty things you told her. I have never in the 10 years we've been married said anything disparaging to her about you despite your many short comings. You put me through hell and I just take in stride.

You also told your fans I had nothing when you married me. I had a job and I wasn't doing badly. In fact I practically funded our wedding with the help of my family. I could go on forever. Or is it the fact that you used to leave the house for days on end without communication, leaving me to wonder if you met with some misfortune or something. How many times did i show up at your office haggard and scared early in the morning just to confirm you are alright? I actually wear my younger sister's hand me downs just to save enough to keep this family going.

Your siblings all believe I am a bad person thanks to the endless lies you've told them and I've borne it all. During your last visit, you complained about the fact that I always seemed unhappy and heckled and I explained to you the stress I am under. Our rent is due. Our daughter's fees of over a hundred thousand needs to be paid. Utility bills, feeding...these are some of the burdens I have to deal with. I explained how burdened I felt. I also explained that having to clean up after you constantly worsens my stress. While you were here, I battled insomnia for almost two weeks straight, without compassion or help. I could fill a page with all that is wrong with this marriage. It's never you. You are perfect and righteous and I am a wicked woman. We quarrel like every husband and wife and regardless of whether it's my fault or not, I apologise so that peace will reign. I have suffered humiliation at your hands but you go around damaging my character so people will pity you. Guess what? The truth cannot be hidden. It may take time, but it will come out. I take solace in that.

I will beat my chest and tell you that no woman on this earth will bear what I bore at your hands or care for you like I have. Since you are so unhappy, I think you should take out time and find yourself. I also need time to pray and to heal from this emotional trauma, so please let's give ourselves a year at least to decide what to do next. I wish you the best.

Truthwillout:
I've got God. I will be vindicated unless my God is no longer alive. God I make this prayer here openly, please vindicate me the way you vindicated Mordecai and heal my wounds.

funmisticqueen:
You're a small minded and ignorant idiot

midnighter:

midnighter:


What happened to what? I don't understand

BRATISLAVA:


Why quoting me?

midnighter:


I agreed with that part of your post.

BRATISLAVA:


Unbelievable.

Ilekokonit:


Your words will come back to bite you.

At 25 you are still a child when it comes to REAL LIFE work experience.

Don't let your qualification as a Doctor deceive you 'cos even those who studied medicine at Cambridge University, UK are still subject to some of us, so before you open your mouth to say silly stuff in response to career saving advice given to you, think deeply than not every one on here gives a hoot about your medical degree as some people on this anonymous forum can employ you and pay you 10 times what you are earning as a Doctor with just the money they spend on socializing monthly.

Try and read between the lines in CALMNESS as your God sent helper that can elevate your finances at record speed may be one of the people you are insulting here daily and remember that it doesn't all end in Nigeria as you may still meet some of the people you have insulted here abroad and they already know your face. So, simmer down and learn as the world is a shrinking global village and you don't want to burn all your bridges as your face is already known from your profile.

So, as a CHILD of 25, take a chill pill and keep quiet and learn for once. If you have mental health issues like you have alluded to on one of your posts then focus on completing your counseling sessions and if need be take anti depressants and stop being so cantankerous especially when people who can help your situation are giving you advise.

funmisticqueen:
there's a reason why I ignore your existence.

Let me continue to do so.

So, kindly mind the misogynist business that pays to you. Goodbye

cerpvad:
Yes. You are correct with that position.
I just dm you. Check your dm and respond

funmisticqueen:
fact of life, money changes both men and women because it comes with control. It's human nature

Your wife is not emasculating you, you are just losing control of the power and finances in the family. Do you know how much BS women tolerate from men in marriages because he earns more?

Uncle, go and hustle or give your pants over to your wife and stop complaining