Angela62:


I am trying to understand you sir.

AstroG:



Don't later come and open thread on top her matter ooh,cus ah will insult you to stupor that day.

Angela62:


That is true sister, I agree with you. Though, women have the responsibility to look out for predatory males. We are blessed with the intuition to know, but sometimes, we do not listen to that voice telling us the truth. Keep winning darling.

Angela62:


I am trying to understand you sir.

czarr:
We can't find them here in Nigeria ...but we won't give up the search

Romanoff:
Good woman o, great woman o, virtuous woman o, a man that will still crap on you will crap on you.

The one that will marry you will marry you. Just stay woke enough to know the one who just wants to mark attendance.

#GodlyRelationships.

Angela62:
I have been on this forum for quite some time now as an anonymous, and the cries of men being handed their balls by women whom they thought love them are ubiquitous. In this regard, here is some list of things to determine, to know if a woman is a keeper, and you shouldn't waste your time on her if she is not.

1. A girlfriend will complement your outfit, a woman will complement your being

A girlfriend is merely interested in the ''now'', her motto is ''what's in for me''? her selfishness triumphs your common interest, and as much as your actions satisfy her ego and score social points, she will stay. But a good woman is more interested in your being, your success, your path, potential and what you stand for. These are criteria she considered before choosing you as her man, and if you retain your core personality and value, temporary fluctuations such as finance will not break her commitment. She thinks longterm and willing to embark on that journey with you, while supporting you in her feminine ways.

2. You can be yourself around her.

You do not need to put up a different face when meeting her, just to represent the illusionary idea of you she has in her head. If she is visiting and you are temporarily out of cash, it won't make you feel insecure or undergo inconvenience just to not be your true self. If you can tell her that you are short of cash and that she should come with something, then she is a good woman. If you have to lie about your life situations such as your job, salary, family background to retain her interest, then it is actually time to live as such a union is not sustainable.

3. Does small stuff for you

Helps you clean, buy stuffs for you, assist you, be there for you, express emotions and she supports you, open to you, compliments you, defend you, make you a beneficiary of her artistic skills. For example, I love writing, and I write a lot of poems for my bf in the form of sticky notes hidden under his pillowcase, inside his work bag, his suit pocket, car boot, teacup, just anywhere I could sneak something into. And guess what, he loves it to pieces. It makes him miss me a lot when I am not in town, and our relationship is stronger as the day goes by.

4. Doesn't use sex as a weapon

Men love sex, and women loved to be loved. If a woman is convinced that her man loves her, she will not withhold sex, as she will equally enjoy it with her man. A lady that denies man sex, or uses it as a bargaining chip for her request doesn't love and a man should be careful in marrying her. Normally when women feel insecure, unloved and not sure about the definition of the relationship, it is possible that she will not be interested in sex, as to have sex, a woman needs mental stimulation first. This should not be interpreted as a reluctance to give sex. But all things being equal and balance, a woman that loves you will not use sex as a weapon.

5. You will be her best friend.

Your intuition will tell you if she tells you everything and sees you as an integral part of her life. She will remember your birthday, be interested in your family affairs, tell you everything, and ask you about everything. Your presence will make her feel good and happy, a natural antidote to the stress and noise of living.


Hope this helps

SlimChay:

Describe "predatory males" or rather what type of man is a predator?

Angela62:


Men that targets only the coochie, live for the coochie, and can die for the coochie. Without deserving it

chigoizie7:
Story.


A good woman can still be your girlfriend. At the same time, your girlfriend can still be a good woman.

24kmagic:
Who doesn't know all these?

We are not saying you should tell us the difference or what to expect, we are asking where we can find the good ones? And please don't tell us its in the church cos church girls are far, far worse. Hypocrites!

The more the days passes by, the more difficult it is to get a good girl to marry or even start a relationship with.

Asin ehn, 95% of 9ja girls bahd, them just bahd.

Na only Aboki girls still get virtue and that's because they are mostly ignorant and unexposed.

Getting an educated and exposed christian girl with virtues is like rocket science.

They don't think beyond barbecue, fish and shawarma.

May God save us from all these Karashikas

Ehen, so just basically marry anyone you see. There's no good person anywhere.

Forget about it. And stop searching. You won't find. There's no point complaining about something that doesn't exist.

Jodha:
I'm sick of all these posts ...telling women how to behave. ....

proclinician:


Nobody's telling u how to behave alright. Make no mistake about this you can be a wh0re, a non compos mentis, bitter, stubborn and selfish. It's your life.

chiommy123:
They want the good woman but can't leave girlfriend alone. which gender is more confused?

24kmagic:
Who doesn't know all these?

We are not saying you should tell us the difference or what to expect, we are asking where we can find the good ones? And please don't tell us its in the church cos church girls are far, far worse. Hypocrites!

The more the days passes by, the more difficult it is to get a good girl to marry or even start a relationship with.

Asin ehn, 95% of 9ja girls bahd, them just bahd.

Na only Aboki girls still get virtue and that's because they are mostly ignorant and unexposed.

Getting an educated and exposed christian girl with virtues is like rocket science.

They don't think beyond barbecue, fish and shawarma.

May God save us from all these Karashikas

czarr:
We can't find them here in Nigeria ...but we won't give up the search

Ariza:
The problem is most Nigerian guys won't even recognize a Good woman even if she is standing on their noses. Their quest for big boobs and bum will not let them. Na sex full them brain.

Angela62:


Charlie, the matter tired me sef o. It is not only naija men, Ghanian men too. I think men generally.

Ariza:
The problem is most Nigerian guys won't even recognize a Good woman even if she is standing on their noses. Their quest for big boobs and bum will not let them. Na sex full them brain.

MrCork:



Girlfriends always lightskin,more beautiful, always fun & always were mini slept plus tight dress

Good woman: hate wering mini skirt, were trousers, dakskin, love going to mosque, very boring, talks about bills, & hate afrobeat!! (true story)

Paxie55:

Exactly. Deny them sex or claim no sex relationship and see how they dump or make you suffer emotional abuse.
They aren't even near to being good, but they are looking for good women to maltreat and turn to something else. Later, they will be complaining.

Ariza:
Lol ! I experienced the bolded twice! The last one was worse, when I had enough of his emotional torments I quit. Dude came back begging but nah it was too late, just yesterday after four years I saw a message from him on FB but I was distracted by the Videos I was watching I couldn't open it. Maybe I will after this.

Thing is these guys don't know a good woman. Ask them to describe her and they will give you a pictorial description of a nanny. You will read: A good woman must be able to cook, clean the house, wash the dishes, respect me no matter what.obey at all times, docile, quite etc.

The greatest undoing a woman can do is trying to be a good woman by the standard of Men or society. Ladies should be good for themselves first then for Men that can recognize and appreciate them!

Paxie55:

You made lots of sense.

Ariza:
Babe how's this quarantine for your side. It is doing me somehow here o..

Ariza:
Lol ! I experienced the bolded twice! The last one was worse, when I had enough of his emotional torments I quit. Dude came back begging but nah it was too late, just yesterday after four years I saw a message from him on FB but I was distracted by the Videos I was watching I couldn't open it. Maybe I will after this.

Thing is these guys don't know a good woman. Ask them to describe her and they will give you a pictorial description of a nanny, a sex maniac or a maniquine You will read: A good woman must be able to cook, clean the house, wash the dishes, respect me no matter what.obey at all times, docile, quite etc.

The greatest undoing a woman can do is trying to be a good woman by the standard of Men or society. Ladies should be good for themselves first then for Men that can recognize and appreciate them!

Paxie55:

Exactly. [b]Deny them sex or claim no sex [/b]relationship and see how they dump or make you suffer emotional abuse.
They aren't even near to being good, but they are looking for good women to maltreat and turn to something else. Later, they will be complaining.