Virginity shows a high level of morality but it's not a yardstick to measure a good wife.

Vortex369:
I know, right?

She isn't smart
People who don't understand those terminologies she used under neuroscience will think what she's saying actually align to what the other guy was explaining

Though they are both right to fault

#everything is relative

akaahs:

What character is more than self discipline, good morals and sticking with what is right?
To me oo any girl that can keep herself up to marriage, ll equally has strong character in other
areas

Have you heard of foolish virgins before?
Not all virgins are virgins out of self discipline. Some virgins are virgins out of lack of opportunity.

Aside lack of opportunity, and self discipline, some people can be very proud, disrespectful unforgiving heart with no fear of God.

The fact that they haven't had sex before doesn't change anything.

So watch out for the characters of a virgin before you regret for the rest of your dear life.

People always attacking virgins Everytime, I wonder why?

Akinbahm:


Help me tell them cause I dont know their motive behind the sudden attack on a virgin. If you are not virgin you dont need to paint those virgin as a bad one all because u felt inferior to them.

Funny enough threads on virgin this days is alarming, when they tell you to keep your chastity u wont listen now u ranting around, confuse sets of people tueh...

I don't think anyone is attacking virgins.
People are just trying to state the obvious fact. That fact that being a virgin doesn't automatically make anyone a good person or good wife material.

Phenomenal16:
Apart from being raped,,sexually abused,,,,,and all forms of sexyal harassment....
Being a virgin especially from 20 upwards is not easy...
It takes character n discipline to keep one
Some call it inexperience... I laff cos I know personally a lot of my frnd... Who are intact ......yet very beautiful....
Let's be guided ..is not easy

Even though that being a virgin shouldn't make one proud..

Anygal that's shouting about her virginity is no longer a virgin


When u see a real V ...she hardly talk About it...without some level of trust


Marriage goes beyond That anyway.....

Being a virgin is still gud

Peace

I find it funny when people tag this experience and inexperience thing, maybe getting STD would be an experience for them. Here, some people are nuns, reverend father, politicians, doctors but, people are not and should not attempt those because of so-called experience thing and end up ruining the good name of it.

BadRadio:
superfluous with words though

Real communication matters, if you understand

CosmicJames:


I don't think anyone is attacking virgins.
People are just trying to state the obvious fact. That fact that being a virgin doesn't automatically make anyone a good person or good wife material.

She was trivialising the value of chastity by bringing in opposing concepts such as being a harlot which doesn't make any sense.

If you built a house with your sweat and somebody said "Ehn, no be house wey Atiku build, even armed robber dey build na, all house na house" don't you think you would find it irritating?

That is "pull me down" or "crabs in a bucket" syndrome that is very common among black people.

The OP was talking about signs of good upbringing. Instead of them to raise other points of good upbringing that should be considered in conjunction with the virginity stuff like being neat, being able to cook, being prudent with money, etc they jumped and started taking about sluts and slay queens to make themselves feel better smh

Everybody knows that the sole act of keeping a flap of skin intact can never automatically make somebody a good person so there's no need for all these machinations.

midnighter:


She was trivialising the value of chastity by bringing in opposing concepts such as being a harlot which doesn't make any sense.

If you built a house with your sweat and somebody said "Ehn, no be house wey Atiku build, even armed robber dey build na, all house na house" don't you think you would find it irritating?

That is "pull me down" or "crabs in a bucket" syndrome that is very common among black people.

The OP was talking about signs of good upbringing. Instead of them to raise other points of good upbringing that should be considered in conjunction with the virginity stuff like being neat, being able to cook, being prudent with money, etc they jumped and started taking about sluts and slay queens to make themselves feel better smh

Everybody knows that the sole act of keeping a flap of skin intact can never automatically make somebody a good person so there's no need for all these machinations.

Let's assume that OP is looking to marry a virgin and wants to validate his decision or choice of marrying a virgin from this thread.
Now if everybody start praising virgins without starting the truth of the matter, OP will validate his decision and may end up making some serious mistakes in this regard.

So allow the negative side of view about virgins that looks like attracts on virgins because it help balance the equation.
So that people who look to get advice on virgins from here won't make mistake.

I hope you understand that not all virgins are made out of decision.

A vast majority of virgins are made out of lack of opportunity.

But most lack of opportunity virgins are mostly below 20

Vortex369:


To be what you were created to be, and do what you were designed to do. One must separate morality from the core functions of the organs.

Virginity is inexperience of penetrative sex, whether it is morally right or wrong is irrelevant to a logical thinker, the entire concept of morality and legality is irrelevant to the core ideal of a creature from a Universe programmer's point of view.

Yeah, I agree with you. The moral substantiability is not an intrinsic property of any creature, nor is it an adscititious to it but depends largely on it relations with its subconscious mind

CosmicJames:

Let's assume that OP is looking to marry a virgin and wants to validate his decision or choice of marrying a virgin from this thread.
Now if everybody start praising virgins without starting the truth of the matter, OP will validate his decision and may end up making some serious mistakes in this regard.

So allow the negative side of view about virgins that looks like attracts on virgins because it help balance the equation.
So that people who look to get advice on virgins from here won't make mistake.

I hope you understand that not all virgins are made out of decision.

A vast majority of virgins are made out of lack of opportunity.

But most lack of opportunity virgins are mostly below 20

I don't think it's lack of opportunities, there are one night stand, hookups points, hookup sites, brotels, escort services etc just so many of 'em, even with a smartphone you can get connected anytime. Some choose not to.

CosmicJames:

Have you heard of foolish virgins before?
Not all virgins are virgins out of self discipline. Some virgins are virgins out of lack of opportunity.

Aside lack of opportunity, and self discipline, some people can be very proud, disrespectful unforgiving heart with no fear of God.

The fact that they haven't had sex before doesn't change anything.

So watch out for the characters of a virgin before you regret for the rest of your dear life.

Yeah but consider this also, the past never remains in the past; the divorce rate among those who have had previous sexual experience is twice as high as those who have had no sexual experience before marriage cause of previous sexual experience often becomes a psychological barrier in achieving sexual unity in marriage. Somehow, virgin girls in marriage get advantage