Tell me, if you have ever cheated on your partner, why did you do it?

I am an advocate of fidelity, but the reality is, only few people are completely faithful to their partners. And so I wonder, why? What exactly do we want? Why would a man/woman who "has it all" in his/her partner still cheat? What do one do so his/her partner doesn't cheat?

Who knows, your response might help someone somewhere...

The bigger a$$ is always better

People cheats on themselves....who come be u and me?

Cheating or the thought of cheating is there to humble your partner whenever they want to start doing like a scrambled dstv channel ..


Anytime i intentionally plant the idea and believe of my tendency to cheat in my girlfriend's mind, that's when i know that she loves me even more than i love her.

I always keep her on her toes..
The idea is never to let them get comfortable thinking your player prowess has dwindled because you are with them..

Alway let them think you are a woman eater; that's when their love for you is ever unwavering

PS... I don't even cheat

I don't believe I have cheated on anybody, it's my body and not yours, so no one has the right to tell me how to use my body.

BigJoe19:
I don't believe I have cheated on anybody, it's my body and not yours, so no one has the right to tell me how to use my body.

Then you equally don't have the right to call "your" girlfriend "my girlfriend" .

GeniusWannabe:

Then you equally don't have the right to call "your" girlfriend "my girlfriend" .

I don't have girlfriends, I have friends with benefits but some of them consider me their boyfriend, to me they are just dating themselves.

BigJoe19:
I don't have girlfriends, I have friends with benefits but some of them consider me their boyfriend, to me they are just dating themselves.

BadBigJoe19.

BigJoe19:
I don't believe I have cheated on anybody, it's my body and not yours, so no one has the right to tell me how to use my body.

Did you create yourself??

internationalman:


Did you create yourself??

I was referring to human, so what are you saying?

BigJoe19:
I was referring to human, so what are you saying?

Yeah but you said you alone are the owner of your body

BigJoe19:
I don't have girlfriends, I have friends with benefits but some of them consider me their boyfriend, to me they are just dating themselves.

Forming bad boys online

Florenccce:

Forming bad boys online

Is that why you sent me a P.M?

I cheated because my partner gave me the impression that she was faithful, she talked about her faithfulness nonstop even used it as an excuse for any bad behaviour she exhibited. Saying things like yes am abusive but atleast i dont cheat. I actually believed her till i saw texts on her phone making hotel appointments and having chats about kissing with other guys.

I had been holding myself because i had this "holier than thou" picture of her in my head. Once i realized i was wrong i let the girl who had been wanting me for so long have as much of me as she needed�

internationalman:
Cheating or the thought of cheating is there to humble your partner whenever they want to start doing like a scrambled dstv channel ..


Anytime i intentionally plant the idea and believe of me cheating in my girlfriend's mind, that's when i know that she loves me even more than i love her.

I always keep her on her toes..
The idea is never to let them get comfortable thinking your player prowess has dwindled because you are with them..

Alway let them think you are a woman eater; that's when their love for you is ever unwavering

PS... I don't even cheat

Really? But do you think this is sustainable? Will you always threaten her with infidelity?

IceColdVeins:
The bigger a$$ is always better

Like seriously?

Kyom20:
I cheated because my partner gave me the impression that she was faithful, she talked about her faithfulness nonstop even used it as an excuse for any bad behaviour she exhibited. Saying things like yes am abusive but atleast i dont cheat. I actually believed her till i saw texts on her phone making hotel appointments and having chats about kissing with other guys.

I had been holding myself because i had this "holier than thou" picture of her in my head. Once i realized i was wrong i let the girl who had been wanting me for so long have as much of me as she needed�

Oh... a case of retaliation.. Are you still with that your gf?

Mobree:


Really? But do you think this is sustainable? Will you always threaten her with infidelity?

Relationship itself isn't sustainable if you don't keep watering it every blessed day

Mobree:


Oh... a case of retaliation.. Are you still with that your gf?

Yes we r still together.

Kyom20:

Yes we r still together.

Wow... that's interesting! Will you be marrying her irrespective then?

Mobree:



Wow... that's interesting! Will you be marrying her irrespective then?

That would depend on her not being pretentious anymore. If i notice she is still about dat life. I am out

pls what exactly is considered as cheating. asking another girl out when in a relationship? romancing and caressing another girl ? or having sex with another girl. abeg I wan know

dannyrhymes600:
pls what exactly is considered as cheating.
asking another girl out when in a relationship?
romancing and caressing another girl ?
or having sex with another girl.
abeg I wan know

All of the above

Mobree:

All of the above

I will encourage you to seek God the more. The Holy spirit has been given to us to act as our informer and a stand-by,without which we are like a speed boat without control.

The human mind has been so messed up with the corrupt contents springing up everyday. Its the Holy spirit that can help you find the find right now , because those guys out there are more satanic than satan.

I read your diary B-E.

spyglaxx:


I will encourage you to seek God the more. The Holy spirit has been given to us to act as our informer and a stand-by,without which we are like a speed boat without control.

The human mind has been so messed up with the corrupt contents springing up everyday. Its the Holy spirit that can help you find the find right now , because those guys out there are more satanic than satan.

I read your diary B-E.

Ohhh..that's good to know..

And thank you for your advice. I agree minds are really messed up. God help us.

Thanks again!