Ladylite:
Why do housewives look unkempt and ugly. Don't blame the men for looking for something more appealing. Many ladies stop taking care of themselves once they marry. This video tells alot

I have to agree with you. Put both ladies side by side and you'll probably understand why the man is with the side chick. There's no excuse for cheating though.

Ladylite:
Why do housewives look unkempt and ugly. Don't blame the men for looking for something more appealing. Many ladies stop taking care of themselves once they marry. This video tells alot

Pls shut up!, marriage is a vow and both parties should keep the vow irrespective, she wasn't like that when they married now, it's after the woman has given birth and concentrate on issues at home she tend to care less of herself, I expect every married man to keep the vow, it's a price one must pay.

Na unmarried people dey make mouth the most about marital issues. They are the ones who express their opinions very strongly about a topic they don't have an idea about.

Ohemababy:
In response to why the wife is looking unkempt.
Sometimes the wife is unlucky to be an housewife.
The man drops nothing for her, no money to change wardrobe or hairstyles.

When it is time to stock the house, he goes to the market to buy things himself just so the woman does not come in contact with any money while he is busy splashing money outside.

Please how does she step up her looks?

Later in life when someone drastic happens to these men. They dont ever understand where it is coming from.

She has no job, can't make her own money? A lot of ladies finish school these days and the next thing is looking for a man to marry so they can dump their life problem on him. Not even making any attempt to better their own lives first.

eazzzy1:


I'm 100 percent with you. There is absolutely nothing wrong with the wife. The only difference between the wife and side chick is the age. The wife looks like she is in her late 40's to early 50's while the side chick is obviously younger. It is arrant stupidity to expect a 50 year old woman to be dressing like a fresher on campus.

Shey Beyonce sef dey wear oversized kaftan na why Jay-z cheat abi, Juliet Ibrahim dey tie wrapper na why iceberg slim cheat, abi na Toke no dey wear makeup. All this long talks is just from guys who cheat trying to rationalize cheating.

Thank you may God bless your day

Ritzy10:
Identity of viral side chick who bumped into her boyfriend's wife at Ikeja city mall on the 4th of January finally revealed.

Her Name is "Obaebaecares" she has over N20k followers on Instagram, she parades as an online motivational speaker, relationship adviser and Kayanmata ( toto sweetener) Seller.

Below is one of her videos we quickly obtained before she deactivated her account.

Watch Her Video HERE

even u na ashawo

There's nothing wrong with the way the wife is dressed.
The problem be say the home wrecker don use toto sweetener finish somebody

lefulefu:
they look like that cos their husbands always insist they want their wives to look natural

So oooo true

lefulefu:
the husband is doing it on purpose .some married men prefer to spend on their side chicks to look good while they abandon their housewives.they get scared if they make their wives look good other men will start running after them.why do u think some husbands tend to grumble when their wives enlist in gyms to get in shape .

With all due respect bro, I totally disagree with you.


Men cheat because they are fulfilling their natural form and tendency, not because their wife is not looking attractive or sexy. Most men don't even know why they cheat on their girlfriends and wives....they cheat because it is in their DNA to desire to mate with as many women they find appealing as they can get to consent, nothing more nothing less.

The men that may not be cheating are doing so out of fear of consequences of them being caught cheating, such consequences include; fear of loosing their spiritual relationship with their God or god or gods......fear of loosing money/wealth (settling their wife after a divorce).....fear of loosing a particular position (political, religious, official or communal leadership positions), fear of infection, fear of unwanted pregnancy or any other form of fear.

Take away religious doctrines, take away government laws and policies criminalizing cheating/divorce, take away societal stigma, take away STDs and STIs and watch all men sex different women even on the road on a sunny day lol


Jay Z that cheated on Beyonce, was Beyonce looking like an ugly housewife Tigerwoods that cheated on his wife, was his wife looking ugly or was she a housewife David Beckham that cheated on Victoria Beckham, was Victoria looking ugly Iceberg Slim that cheated on Juliet Ibrahim, is Juliet Ibrahim not one lady every man would love to handle Toke Makinwa that her ex cheated on severally, is she not good looking and a fashionista enough Ubi Franklin that cheated on Lilian Esoro, is Lilian looking like an ugly unkempt housewife I can go on and on...


I repeat it again, men don't cheat because their wife or girlfriend or fiance does not dress sexy or look sexy enough, they cheat because it is in the DNA of all men (except the natural eunochs) to mate with as many appealing women as possible, don't argue it....what's stopping men from exercising their animal trait when it comes to sex is religious doctrines, fear of God or gods or oracle, societal stigma, government laws/policies, etc, not because they married or dating sexy ladies.


I once had a senior colleague, a manager who had fetish for crude looking women; you need to see his wife, his wife is more than a sex idol....super hot lady, but this man said he love those ladies that look crude and a bit dirty....he likes those ladies that hawk things....those kind of ladies, and this is a man that can afford any type of woman he so desires, but he prefers crude looking ladies but married a very beautiful, classy woman....and his driver gets him those crude looking ladies enough....he said all these pretty, hot, classy looking ladies don't taste natural....that they have used creams and chemicals to wash away the sweetness in a woman, so you can see.

I have also worked with a whiteman from Canada who loves dark looking, crude Nigerian women....he doesn't like all these slayqueen, sexy looking Nigerian ladies, he prefers those local breed looking dark complexioned Nigerian girls...and his wife is a medical personnel back in Canada. So men don't even understand why they cheat, they don't, its not their fault, its how they are created, they need help to overcome that natural energy in them, and that help is beyond counseling and talking or fighting like most women think

Ladylite:
Why do housewives look unkempt and ugly. Don't blame the men for looking for something more appealing. Many ladies stop taking care of themselves once they marry. This video tells alot

Because they are real. They are home builders, children rearers, husband supporters and 100 thingsi more

So there is a toto sweetner?

lefulefu:
the big oversized gown
ehn some men want their house wives to look like that sha
big saggy wrapper and oversized gowns all the time
if my boo no gree wear bum short or those sexy negligee we go quarrell

To shopping mall

Ladylite:
Why do housewives look unkempt and ugly. Don't blame the men for looking for something more appealing. Many ladies stop taking care of themselves once they marry. This video tells alot

There's nothing unkempt or ugly about not wearing skimpy/revealing clothes, not wearing wigs or not having light/bleached skin. If you're truly a female behind this handle, then you're justifying your reasons for dating married men.

You're next to be publicly disgraced.

Yes married men that go dating single girls are dogs that lack self control and should be the ones to be faced by the wife, but any girl that consciously dates them is a dog as well and deserves whatever public shame that comes her way.

franchasng:
With all due respect bro, I totally disagree with you.


Men cheat because they are fulfilling their natural form and tendency, not because their wife is not looking attractive or sexy. Most men don't even know why they cheat on their girlfriends and wives....they cheat because it is in their DNA to desire to mate with as many women they find appealing as they can get to consent, nothing more nothing less.

The men that may not be cheating are doing so out of fear of consequences of them being caught cheating, such consequences include; fear of loosing their spiritual relationship with their God or god or gods......fear of loosing money/wealth (settling their wife after a divorce).....fear of loosing a particular position (political, religious, official or communal leadership positions), fear of infection, fear of unwanted pregnancy or any other form of fear.

Take away religious doctrines, take away government laws and policies criminalizing cheating/divorce, take away societal stigma, take away STDs and STIs and watch all men sex different women even on the road on a sunny day lol


Jay Z that cheated on Beyonce, was Beyonce looking like an ugly housewife Tigerwoods that cheated on his wife, was his wife looking ugly or was she a housewife David Beckham that cheated on Victoria Beckham, was Victoria looking ugly Iceberg Slim that cheated on Juliet Ibrahim, is Juliet Ibrahim not one lady every man would love to handle Toke Makinwa that her ex cheated on severally, is she not good looking and a fashionista enough Ubi Franklin that cheated on Lilian Esoro, is Lilian looking like an ugly unkempt housewife I can go on and on...


I repeat it again, men don't cheat because their wife or girlfriend or fiance does not dress sexy or look sexy enough, they cheat because it is in the DNA of all men (except the natural eunochs) to mate with as many appealing women as possible, don't argue it....what's stopping men from exercising their animal trait when it comes to sex is religious doctrines, fear of God or gods or oracle, societal stigma, government laws/policies, etc, not because they married or dating sexy ladies.


I once had a senior colleague, a manager who had fetish for crude looking women; you need to see his wife, his wife is more than a sex idol....super hot lady, but this man said he love those ladies that look crude and a bit dirty....he likes those ladies that hawk things....those kind of ladies, and this is a man that can afford any type of woman he so desires, but he prefers crude looking ladies but married a very beautiful, classy woman....and his driver gets him those crude looking ladies enough....he said all these pretty, hot, classy looking ladies don't taste natural....that they have used creams and chemicals to wash away the sweetness in a woman, so you can see.

I have also worked with a whiteman from Canada who loves dark looking, crude Nigerian women....he doesn't like all these slayqueen, sexy looking Nigerian ladies, he prefers those local breed looking dark complexioned Nigerian girls...and his wife is a medical personnel back in Canada. So men don't even understand why they cheat, they don't, its not their fault, its how they are created, they need help to overcome that natural energy in them, and that help is beyond counseling and talking or fighting like most women think

It's quite intriguing for a woman to think she understands men perfectly, You're not a man so don't make general assumptions. The fact that you know men that cheat and are polygamous does not mean all men are wired that way.

Also, you're completely wrong to assume men don't cheat because of some sort of fear. Most men don't cheat because of Principles and Self control and not because of fear. I tell you there are even some men that are not really into women, if you haven't seen such, they exist, and I'm not talking about gay men here. They are much more interested in other things than women.

The real problem is not the wives but the men who have a total lack of self control.


Some say the women leave themselves after marriage, has anyone ever really taken time to imagine the level of change a woman goes through after marriage and this even becomes worse after child birth yet you all blame her for not taking care of herself. Most women after marriage struggle to balance their lives and this usually tells in their dressing.

Let this so called side chic get married and see if she is till the same slay queen after 6 months. There is an adjustment time which every married woman goes through, as a man it would be nice to support your wife and encourage her. Try not to be too fast to look outwards.


PEACE

Ladylite:
Why do housewives look unkempt and ugly. Don't blame the men for looking for something more appealing. Many ladies stop taking care of themselves once they marry. This video tells alot

For real tho. it's so annoying
I don't know why some of them look unkempt.
It's so not cool. Looking good is very important
I'm sure some of them keep smelling hair and don't even smell nice.

lefulefu:
the big oversized gown
ehn some men want their house wives to look like that sha
big saggy wrapper and oversized gowns all the time
if my boo no gree wear bum short or those sexy negligee we go quarrell

baba u dey vex ooo

Mzflexydeeva:
The real problem is not the wives but the men who have a total lack of self control.


Some say the women leave themselves after marriage, has anyone ever really taken time to imagine the level of change a woman goes through after marriage and this even becomes worse after child birth yet you all blame her for not taking care of herself. Most women after marriage struggle to balance their lives and this usually tells in their dressing.

Let this so called side chic get married and see if she is till the same slay queen after 6 months. There is an adjustment time which every married woman goes through, as a man it would be nice to support your wife and encourage her. Try not to be too fast to look outwards.


PEACE

I understand what you're trying to say but please it's still important to take care of yourself not necessarily because of a man but for yourself. You don't have to buy designer clothes or expensive hair (that's if you don't have enough cash) to look nice. You can't get beautiful clothes for less prices. But if you have the money fucking spend it!
If we all allowed our problems to show in our faces or looks I'm sure most of us we look like shit!
Looking good is good business
I also know that sometimes looking good or being a good woman can't keep a man..but don't make a man your ultimate priority. Look good for yourself.

MannieA:




For real tho. it's so annoying
I don't know why some of them look unkempt.
It's so not cool. Looking good is very important
I'm sure some of them keep smelling hair and don't even smell nice.

my dear, d truth is some women are inherently dirty. Like dey say a leopard can neva change its spot

Whether you have a man or not try to still look gorgeous for yourself.

MrBrownJay1:


NONSENSE!!!!!
if the husband has a problem with the way his wife looks, then he can divorce her and go be with whoever he desires, instead of cheating.

sadly, the deluded wife went to attack the mistress while the main problem here is the deluded/disrespectful/deceitful/unfaithful animal she calls her husband

M nt understanding u.u dey blame d man n d wife or u are defending boths.deluded wife deluded husband.

Anfieldboss:


It's quite intriguing for a woman to think she understands men perfectly, You're not a man so don't make general assumptions. The fact that you know men that cheat and are polygamous does not mean all men are wired that way.

Also, you're completely wrong to assume men don't cheat because of some sort of fear. Most men don't cheat because of Principles and Self control and not because of fear. I tell you there are even some men that are not really into women, if you haven't seen such, they exist, and I'm not talking about gay men here. They are much more interested in other things than women.

Okay

Liposure:
my dear, d truth is some women are inherently dirty. Like dey say a leopard can neva change its spot

Yes! you're so right. Some women are dirty abeg.
I can attest to that because my roommate is very dirty.. imagine if she gets married. Mtchewww.. it's annoying abeg

49cents:


Because they are real. They are home builders, children rearers, husband supporters and 100 thingsi more

So them being homebuilders and whatever you mentioned means they should look unkempt?
Abeg a woman can be all these things you mentioned and still look good!

dominique:


There's nothing unkempt or ugly about not wearing skimpy/revealing clothes, not wearing wigs or not having light/bleached skin. If you're truly a female behind this handle, then you're justifying your reasons for dating married men.

You're next to be publicly disgraced.

Yes married men that go dating single girls are dogs that lack self control and should be the ones to be faced by the wife, but any girl that consciously dates them is a dog as well and deserves whatever public shame that comes her way.

Bless you ma!

CSTR2:
So there is a toto sweetner?

Yes o. Kayanmata

Octopusssy:

Yes o. Kayanmata

Lmaaoo...wetin person no go see

MannieA:



I understand what you're trying to say but please it's still important to take care of yourself not necessarily because of a man but for yourself. You don't have to buy designer clothes or expensive hair (that's if you don't have enough cash) to look nice. You can't get beautiful clothes for less prices. But if you have the money fucking spend it!
If we all allowed our problems to show in our faces or looks I'm sure most of us we look like shit!
Looking good is good business
I also know that sometimes looking good or being a good woman can't keep a man..but don't make a man your ultimate priority. Look good for yourself.

Well said, I was only addressing it this way cos someone mentioned the dressing of the wife.


We all know a man that is doomed to cheat will cheat irrespective