Pedrotina11:


Shut up..if nah f**k go make am lose the man...make the man lost and cannot b found..fresh thunder wey God just dey make fire am there..

Lyydia:
There's this guy that we have been dating for 6 months, we love each other very well and we plan on marrying each other.

Here is the deal, we plan on no sex before marriage due to personal reasons. I don't ask for money also, we do cuddle and kiss sometimes. But not sex!

Of recent, he has been acting strange and wants to go beyond our normal cuddle level. I cautioned him about this and he promised to change! But he still does this.

Yesterday it happened again as I got furious and asked him to leave.

Did I overreact? I called, he has not picked up since yesterday.

mema900:


Oloribrukutu

Pedrotina11:


Wen u learn English come back..for nw illiteracy is bad company..

Gina2019:
Am a virgin :-

Elbone2:

You are the one preaching the will of God to us as if you believe in the Bible.
Atleast,I'm not like u hypocrites who make out strict purity requirements yet ur heads,mouths and eyes are filled with ungodly stuffs.

Ogaonos:
my problem is sex sweet but belle be my fear because I dey hear if u wear condoms girl fit get belle is it true

Saviosantos:
Sex befor Marriage....hmmm let me think.....I will talk later

SpyAC:
Y giving him such conditions, are u a virgin, if not, give it to him, if he love u truly, he will marry u, but why cuddle and kiss when u hv agreed no sex bf marriage, abi ur body nah wood? If no sex, stop the kiss and the nonsense cuddles

ILoveLight:




Your post shows how immature and uncultured you are.

pryme:


And how do you know the guy will leave after having sex?
It doesn't matter if the guy has sex or not, what matters is if the guy has good intentions.
And no sane man will want to end up with a woman that uses sex as a bargaining chip, its a complete turn off.

The guy could agree to the no sex thing but he is having it elsewhere, now since he is not "disturbing" for it, does this makes him a good guy?
You guys dont have any strategy that can decipher a man, even if there is this is not one of them.
The only thing is you should pray you come across a good man, but then again you will push him away with your "strategy".

Besides how do women loose by having sex in a relationship? Or you leave everything to chance and hope you guys are sexually compatible?

When you start a relationship you either go all the way or you dont bother at all.

Offpoint:
Are you a virgin, is he a virgin?

Sex is like a good wine, those who have never taste of it would not have the urges to want to drink it. even if they do have the urge to drink, it won't be as strong as those who have tasted and drank the wine before.

Only virgins can keep to 'no sex before marriage' agreement, anything outside that is just 2 adults fooling themselves.

pryme:


And how do you know the guy will leave after having sex?
It doesn't matter if the guy has sex or not, what matters is if the guy has good intentions.
And no sane man will want to end up with a woman that uses sex as a bargaining chip, its a complete turn off.

The guy could agree to the no sex thing but he is having it elsewhere, now since he is not "disturbing" for it, does this makes him a good guy?
You guys dont have any strategy that can decipher a man, even if there is this is not one of them.
The only thing is you should pray you come across a good man, but then again you will push him away with your "strategy".

Besides how do women loose by having sex in a relationship? Or you leave everything to chance and hope you guys are sexually compatible?

When you start a relationship you either go all the way or you dont bother at all.

Lyydia:
There's this guy that we have been dating for 6 months, we love each other very well and we plan on marrying each other.

Here is the deal, we plan on no sex before marriage due to personal reasons. I don't ask for money also, we do cuddle and kiss sometimes. But not sex!

Of recent, he has been acting strange and wants to go beyond our normal cuddle level. I cautioned him about this and he promised to change! But he still does this.

Yesterday it happened again as I got furious and asked him to leave.

Did I overreact? I called, he has not picked up since yesterday.

Lyydia:
There's this guy that we have been dating for 6 months, we love each other very well and we plan on marrying each other.

Here is the deal, we plan on no sex before marriage due to personal reasons. I don't ask for money also, we do cuddle and kiss sometimes. But not sex!

Of recent, he has been acting strange and wants to go beyond our normal cuddle level. I cautioned him about this and he promised to change! But he still does this.

Yesterday it happened again as I got furious and asked him to leave.

Did I overreact? I called, he has not picked up since yesterday.

Lyydia:
There's this guy that we have been dating for 6 months, we love each other very well and we plan on marrying each other.

Here is the deal, we plan on no sex before marriage due to personal reasons. I don't ask for money also, we do cuddle and kiss sometimes. But not sex!

Of recent, he has been acting strange and wants to go beyond our normal cuddle level. I cautioned him about this and he promised to change! But he still does this.

Yesterday it happened again as I got furious and asked him to leave.

Did I overreact? I called, he has not picked up since yesterday.

Lyydia:
There's this guy that we have been dating for 6 months, we love each other very well and we plan on marrying each other.

Here is the deal, we plan on no sex before marriage due to personal reasons. I don't ask for money also, we do cuddle and kiss sometimes. But not sex!

Of recent, he has been acting strange and wants to go beyond our normal cuddle level. I cautioned him about this and he promised to change! But he still does this.

Yesterday it happened again as I got furious and asked him to leave.

Did I overreact? I called, he has not picked up since yesterday.

Gina2019:
No you didn't. He was only playing along all this while to try to get the cookie.

If you give him the cookie, he will dump your ass.

themaestro08:


Rubbish @ bolded.

That "No sex till marriage is a scam". Legends know this.

And yes you overreacted by reacting in a rude and undiplomatic manner. What happened to reminding the young man of the vows both of you made in a kind and respectful manner. But instead you choose to displayed how uncultured you are.

How I wish I know this guy, I would have pointed out obvious red flags to him.

Truth is you are piece are a garbage. And bitches like you should be discarded where they belong. To the trash can.
[quote author=adekoroye. Stop deceiving each other sex is a key to any good relationship. before another woman come, ask him one day may your man care for sex. If he say yes, then give it to him. That's all

Nonsense.

Mypeople2:
Hmmm where babes like you dey ? I have been looking for a lady like you to marry .But the thing is , most times you people will go to the guy's house with something revealing and say he should not touch after kissing ,....why start what you can not finish ? You people should get married ,with the money you have .Six months is okay for a relationship before courtship unless one of you is faking it

nwachukwu9:
My instinct tells me you are not a virgin. but if you are a genuine Christian who has given her life to Christ. Welcome to the house hold of faith. concerning your decision on no sex before marriage, you have done the right thing. But I stopped reading when I saw we normally cuddle and kiss. If you are a genuine Christian, you should stop playing games with the devil, you should give the devil red card by marrying yourself if you can't control your sex drive. How can you be cuddling and kissing without sex. It is just like going to University and passing all your courses and the university refuse to award you with a certificate. Stop deceiving yourself, you have already had sex with him according to the Bible,but you don't like penetration sex,you prefer sucking and kissing. I would advise you to let him go. In your next relationship don't cuddle or kiss,insist on a no sex relationship,if he is God sent he would stay

Sammarshall:


I agree with you, I don’t think the relationship is genuine.

I’m a born again Christian and I believe that sex should come after marriage and the first time I will kiss my husband is when the priest say you can kiss your bride. ( I promised God that if I don’t see a man that will accept that, then is not the will of God for me to get married. I will become a Rev. sister)

Before now, I use to say I can never marry a man I haven’t had sex with but all that stupid mentality changed when I met God.

God have each and everyone of us destiny in his hands and he knows what is good for us. He will never put us in a situation that is too big for us.

If that her boyfriend loves her, I don’t think sex can stop him from talking to her or picking her calls. I don’t think he’s for real

Gforce2015:


I guess you are hiding something from.him.
You that gave him opportunity to kiss and cuddle. and.dont want him to go to Jerusalem don't you know you are hurting him.
If.both of you are devouted Muslim or Christian, you shouldn't even cuddle or.kiss till you get married but since both of you are not..I guess..so, after.yoi have done your" due diligence",then.let.him.have it..if you don't give him there are a lot of ladies that will open their leg for him as far they know he's good and he has a.bright future.
There was a lady that lost her good husband just on the bases of this flimsy excuses... now, she is a single mom because the guy she later got is not.responsible.

petitejolie:
Come guys if u know u wont take a no sex before marriage thingy its better u leave at that instance. Most of u will just say yes but have ulterior motives . please let DAT guy go abeg. He thought he could bend u and use u den dump u

Memyselfu2009:
Just get married and let us rest