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Please Give Me Advice! by ILuvBreasts: 3:21pm On Jan 21, 2020
I am a ,mynd44,seun,
Re: Please Give Me Advice! by dawnomike(m): 3:29pm On Jan 21, 2020
Simple... He that must make friends must first make hismself friendly. Make friends with ladies with no ulterior intention or relationship thoughts in mind. If it will be, the relationship will spring up naturally.

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Re: Please Give Me Advice! by frankkydee(m): 3:30pm On Jan 21, 2020
You just need to start talking to ladies around you naturally without having thing(ulterior motives) in mind. Then when you feel you are really cool with one of them, you can move on to having another level of relationship with her.


NOTE: Don't be too edgy or goofy or uptight when you are around ladies, be yourself! One love!

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Re: Please Give Me Advice! by sweetonugbu: 3:32pm On Jan 21, 2020
And you love breast?.
Re: Please Give Me Advice! by MrBrownJay1(m): 3:33pm On Jan 21, 2020
FEAR defeats more people than any other thing on earth.”
Re: Please Give Me Advice! by IamPlato(m): 3:37pm On Jan 21, 2020
You Did Not Read Shitt. Go And Read The Drills.
Re: Please Give Me Advice! by IamPlato(m): 3:38pm On Jan 21, 2020
And You Love Breast. Have You Tasted Breast Before?
Re: Please Give Me Advice! by Nobody: 3:41pm On Jan 21, 2020
ILuvBreasts:
I am a medical student in one of the universities in Nigeria. I've spent almost five years of study without having a girlfriend. I've been teased about it since my year 2 but I refused to give a Bleep about it. But it just dawned on me that it is affecting my relationship with females, as I sometimes feel awkward in communication.
I had a gf in sec school for about 3 yrs. But I haven't any luck since i entered the university. Last semester I tried approaching girls but I started feeling I'm not rich enough to have them as girlfriend like low self worth which is very unlikely of me because I'm a very popular person in school mainly among boys though because I like parties(flexing) .
I am very afraid of asking a girl out, i will be thinking 'what if she rejects me,'. All my guys are just getting it with ease ,I am struggling. I have even read some red pills from ubunja, harddon, xxxteddyxxx but it didn't help. I just have the idea with no action.
Nb:- I am not the sex active type so my sole reason is not sex , I just want someone close to me. I feel my relationship between males and females isn't balanced. I'm 23 .
Please bashing is allowed but advice and opinion is highly needed.
Cc: Lalasticala,pocohontas,lalas247, farano,capslocked,nwaamaikpe,sinaj,mynd44,seun,
A fellow colleagues needs my advice. Thank you for saying that REDPILL nonsense doesn't work

first of all, you seem like a socially akward person. Med school does that to most of us.Take it from a colleague. Medical students are boring by default and pacifist in nature

Secondly, what kind of girls are you asking out? Your classmates, or juniors?

Thirdly, I know that medical students tend to care less about their appearance, except maybe those in Lagos universities. If you look good, girls will be more attracted to you.

Fourthly, try being friendly first to both genders, smile and greet everyone on your way to class or clinic, whether they reply you or not. Trust me, it will help build your confidence.

Also are you a spirikiko, scripture Union or MSSN Alfa brother? Do you use Bible verses and ' God said...' to toast girls. Stop it today.

Do you stand out? Cos girls will not consider you if there is nothing apparently different about you.
Re: Please Give Me Advice! by lilbarracuda(m): 3:47pm On Jan 21, 2020
ILuvBreasts:
I am a medical student in one of the universities in Nigeria. I've spent almost five years of study without having a girlfriend. I've been teased about it since my year 2 but I refused to give a Bleep about it. But it just dawned on me that it is affecting my relationship with females, as I sometimes feel awkward in communication.
I had a gf in sec school for about 3 yrs. But I haven't any luck since i entered the university. Last semester I tried approaching girls but I started feeling I'm not rich enough to have them as girlfriend like low self worth which is very unlikely of me because I'm a very popular person in school mainly among boys though because I like parties(flexing) .
I am very afraid of asking a girl out, i will be thinking 'what if she rejects me,'. All my guys are just getting it with ease ,I am struggling. I have even read some red pills from ubunja, harddon, xxxteddyxxx but it didn't help. I just have the idea with no action.
Nb:- I am not the sex active type so my sole reason is not sex , I just want someone close to me. I feel my relationship between males and females isn't balanced. I'm 23 .
Please bashing is allowed but advice and opinion is highly needed.
Cc: Lalasticala,pocohontas,lalas247, farano,capslocked,nwaamaikpe,sinaj,mynd44,seun,


is this dahunsi from OAU (Dentistry)
Re: Please Give Me Advice! by Abfinest007(m): 3:50pm On Jan 21, 2020
u went to uni for 5 years without a gf .u went for bachelor degree
Re: Please Give Me Advice! by Nobody: 3:52pm On Jan 21, 2020
IamPlato:
And You Love Breast. Have You Tasted Breast Before?

sweetonugbu:
And you love breast?.

Can't he like breast again?

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Re: Please Give Me Advice! by tidalstorm(m): 3:57pm On Jan 21, 2020
firstly stop comparing every girl with your secondary school girlfriend. First loves are always perfect in our eyes making others not up to standard.
You need to approach female relationships will a purely friendly motive till you get comfortable with women. Just make many female friends and learn how to discern green lights.
Re: Please Give Me Advice! by Nobody: 4:12pm On Jan 21, 2020
Same thing happened to me, am always that single guy amoung my friends. And am funny and good looking. Most people don't believe am single.
You just need to be very confident when it comes to the lady. As they say ladies love confident guys, but don't go about boasting.
Have a good dress sense.
look for ladies that suits you. I use to like one babe like that but when I became friends with her I found out she's the party type and all, and she likes guys that can spend, I had to withdraw from her because I don't fall in that category of spenders yet.
Since am not in that category I go for modest yet beautiful not too religious babe, even though am not a spender, I give when I have according to my capacity. (Ladies don't like stingy guys).
Finally what will make a girl like you depends on how good both of you communicate.
You should complement but not too much. You can even tease her instead of just complementing her like that. Instead of saying you are beautiful, u can use the normal Nigeria pigin abeg commot for here see as u fine.
Also go for smart girls that understand sarcasm, I think they are easier to communicate with.
Even though u are just looking for companion and not majorly sex, still talk dirty with her once in a while but don't be too raw. For example if she has a good shape(big ass), maybe wen both of you are walking you could walk behind her and just say mehnnn I like what I see, she will understand.

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Re: Please Give Me Advice! by CAPSLOCKED: 4:26pm On Jan 21, 2020
ILuvBreasts:
I am a medical student in one of the universities in Nigeria. I've spent almost five years of study without having a girlfriend. I've been teased about it since my year 2 but I refused to give a Bleep about it. But it just dawned on me that it is affecting my relationship with females, as I sometimes feel awkward in communication.
I had a gf in sec school for about 3 yrs. But I haven't any luck since i entered the university. Last semester I tried approaching girls but I started feeling I'm not rich enough to have them as girlfriend like low self worth which is very unlikely of me because I'm a very popular person in school mainly among boys though because I like parties(flexing) .
I am very afraid of asking a girl out, i will be thinking 'what if she rejects me,'. All my guys are just getting it with ease ,I am struggling. I have even read some red pills from ubunja, harddon, xxxteddyxxx but it didn't help. I just have the idea with no action.
Nb:- I am not the sex active type so my sole reason is not sex , I just want someone close to me. I feel my relationship between males and females isn't balanced. I'm 23 .
Please bashing is allowed but advice and opinion is highly needed.
Cc: Lalasticala,pocohontas,lalas247, farano,capslocked,nwaamaikpe,sinaj,mynd44,seun,

i'm a lez.

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Re: Please Give Me Advice! by nlPoster: 4:47pm On Jan 21, 2020
ILuvBreasts:
I am a medical student in one of the universities in Nigeria. I've spent almost five years of study without having a girlfriend. I've been teased about it since my year 2 but I refused to give a Bleep about it. But it just dawned on me that it is affecting my relationship with females, as I sometimes feel awkward in communication.
I had a gf in sec school for about 3 yrs. But I haven't any luck since i entered the university. Last semester I tried approaching girls but I started feeling I'm not rich enough to have them as girlfriend like low self worth which is very unlikely of me because I'm a very popular person in school mainly among boys though because I like parties(flexing) .
I am very afraid of asking a girl out, i will be thinking 'what if she rejects me,'. All my guys are just getting it with ease ,I am struggling. I have even read some red pills from ubunja, harddon, xxxteddyxxx but it didn't help. I just have the idea with no action.
Nb:- I am not the sex active type so my sole reason is not sex , I just want someone close to me. I feel my relationship between males and females isn't balanced. I'm 23 .
Please bashing is allowed but advice and opinion is highly needed.
Cc: Lalasticala,pocohontas,lalas247, farano,capslocked,nwaamaikpe,sinaj,mynd44,seun,

If the males here are taking all this stuff (eg the bolded) from random people seriously, then is anyone also offering proper advice and counsel to these easily influenced nl men?

Note I have no idea what red pill is neither do I know what is meant by ubunja besides the fact it's a user id frequently mentioned and linked to something else.
Re: Please Give Me Advice! by ubunja(m): 4:58pm On Jan 21, 2020
nlPoster:


If the males here are taking all this stuff (eg the bolded) from random people seriously, then is anyone also offering proper advice and counsel to these easily influenced nl men?

Note I have no idea what red pill is neither do I know what is meant by ubunja besides the fact it's a user id frequently mentioned and linked to something else.
there's an obsession about that ubunja moniker.

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Re: Please Give Me Advice! by Omar09(m): 5:11pm On Jan 21, 2020
To the OP. Be yourself. Red pill is not for getting girlfriends. It's actually pump and dump kinda thing. Red pill is your guide. It's supposed to open your eyes to things. To make you know when you are being cheated on. To get your girl, be yourself. Don't copy anyone. Just walk up to any girl you fancy, introduce yourself and ask her to be your friend. That's all. No ceremony to it, or cooking. Be open. But don't over invest.

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Re: Please Give Me Advice! by Tony142: 5:18pm On Jan 21, 2020
@iLegendd
Re: Please Give Me Advice! by Tony142: 5:24pm On Jan 21, 2020
ILuvBreasts:
I am a medical student in one of the universities in Nigeria. I've spent almost five years of study without having a girlfriend. I've been teased about it since my year 2 but I refused to give a Bleep about it. But it just dawned on me that it is affecting my relationship with females, as I sometimes feel awkward in communication.
I had a gf in sec school for about 3 yrs. But I haven't any luck since i entered the university. Last semester I tried approaching girls but I started feeling I'm not rich enough to have them as girlfriend like low self worth which is very unlikely of me because I'm a very popular person in school mainly among boys though because I like parties(flexing) .
I am very afraid of asking a girl out, i will be thinking 'what if she rejects me,'. All my guys are just getting it with ease ,I am struggling. I have even read some red pills from ubunja, harddon, xxxteddyxxx but it didn't help. I just have the idea with no action.
Nb:- I am not the sex active type so my sole reason is not sex , I just want someone close to me. I feel my relationship between males and females isn't balanced. I'm 23 .
Please bashing is allowed but advice and opinion is highly needed.
Cc: Lalasticala,pocohontas,lalas247, farano,capslocked,nwaamaikpe,sinaj,mynd44,seun,
.


Your problem is very simple to solve, u said u have read some drills from ubanja and harddon but "no action"


The reason why u have not gotten a girlfriend yet is not because what harddon and ubanja teaches does not work, it is because u refuse to take ACTION



Knowledge is not power, but putting those knowledge into action is were the power is



So having those ideas is not enough u have to put them into practice and take action


Now go back to harrddon dating drills and start applying what ever u learn there into your life, and within one month your life will never remain the same

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Re: Please Give Me Advice! by Nobody: 5:41pm On Jan 21, 2020
What happened to those removed posts?


ubunja:
there's an obsession about that ubunja moniker.
Re: Please Give Me Advice! by ubunja(m): 5:49pm On Jan 21, 2020
Pridestorm:
What happened to those removed posts?



the old ones?
Re: Please Give Me Advice! by Nobody: 5:54pm On Jan 21, 2020
ubunja:
the old ones?

Yea
Re: Please Give Me Advice! by ubunja(m): 5:56pm On Jan 21, 2020
Pridestorm:


Yea
long story.
Re: Please Give Me Advice! by Nobody: 5:58pm On Jan 21, 2020
ubunja:
long story.
OK. But are they still in your blog?
Re: Please Give Me Advice! by ubunja(m): 6:05pm On Jan 21, 2020
Pridestorm:

OK. But are they still in your blog?
most I rewrote and republished under different titles.

A few I lost cause I also lost the back ups on my phone and laptop.
Re: Please Give Me Advice! by Nobody: 6:27pm On Jan 21, 2020
ubunja:
most I rewrote and republished under different titles.

A few I lost cause I also lost the back ups on my phone and laptop.

Alright. More ink to brain bro.

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Re: Please Give Me Advice! by MedicH: 6:30pm On Jan 21, 2020
Lol. Fives years no pair of boobs hmmmm man you're in for a long long thing. Throughout my seven years in study i had atleast one per semester and problem was they don't last all. I dont know how to buy shawama and come to think of it Cunningham manual is like food to me and costs more than shawama so they're quick to get bored of everything. Some said i am stingy.

You just need to find something you're good at and build your self esteem around that. Then your communication will improve and those little little anxiety would be long gone . I came in from high school dormitory self esteem was low and i saw i was good in maths like i earned a reputation.


I capitalized and built my self esteem and can say anything i want and get the audience i need so long as i was in my circle as i noticed majority of the medical and health science students no like maths and the rest was history.
Re: Please Give Me Advice! by iLegendd: 6:34pm On Jan 21, 2020
Tony142:
@iLegendd

Nice thread. Tell him to keep it up.

Tell him to download the free version of this book https://shop.wetclef.com/blog/2019/05/30/download-mr-friendzone/

Case closed.

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Re: Please Give Me Advice! by Nobody: 7:30pm On Jan 21, 2020
MedicH:
Lol. Fives years no pair of boobs hmmmm man you're in for a long long thing. Throughout my seven years in study i had atleast one per semester and problem was they don't last all. I dont know how to buy shawama and come to think of it Cunningham manual is like food to me and costs more than shawama so they're quick to get bored of everything. Some said i am stingy.

You just need to find something you're good at and build your self esteem around that. Then your communication will improve and those little little anxiety would be long gone . I came in from high school dormitory self esteem was low and i saw i was good in maths like i earned a reputation.


I capitalized and built my self esteem and can say anything i want and get the audience i need so long as i was in my circle as i noticed majority of the medical and health science students no like maths and the rest was history.
Exactly, he needs to stand out and make an impression

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