FrLukas:


I learnt that Cannabis oil can be used to treat epilepsy.

Why don't both of you do the research together instead of stressing the life out of each other?

Logan95:


My brother, the truth is that the call was just a friendly call...how was your night ish. Truth is that she's gorgeous and she has tons of admirers but she's with me most times. If anything it should be emotional cheating but I did this in order to put her on her toes, the outcome was unfortunate. In her defense she wanted to explain instantly but I cut her off and told her she is exhibiting cheating tendencies. She froze and her legs started shaking.....

She just came to my house now because she forgot her charger. She was looking unkempt and a shadow of herself, She refused to seat, I just escorted her but I told her that my apology is not working but she should talk to me normally without the moody face. I paid for a cab for her then she left.... We'll see what the future holds.

MISTAICEY02288:


Oh okay then. It's good you have apologized to her for your wrong as i earlier said. Like I also said, stop beating yourself up about this. If she truly wanna make things work, she'll create time to talk and sort things out with you. But still on still, always keep in mind to go into relationship with ya head alongside your heart. Enough said!

And as for her seizures, does it happen often? Is it epilepsy or what and how has she been managing it... Seizures is a serious health problem ooo and i actually feel for her...

Logan95:


She's taking carzepin and it's managed

Logan95:


Thanks man.
Her seizures is triggered by stress, emotions and fear. It's sometimes worse during her period. It happens often and it's usually mild like leg and hand shaking and total disconnection from the real world for like 2 to 5 mins.

The major seizures happen like once in 4 to 6 months, she loses consciousness totally and it's an emergency she's usually hospitalized but this happens when she misses her medication. She has depression tendencies so I always praise and flatter her because the condition makes her avoid people and she loses her self esteem.

I'm happy you understand seizures, the guys up there that suggests she's faking it.... It's ridiculous. With her she never fakes it and she crys anytime she regains consciousness.

I'm usually send less with girls but my girls own is very delicate.

Bola146:


Exactly.. Also there is nothing like. " honest man" especially in Nigeria. Use your brain

Bola146:


Exactly.. Also there is nothing like. " honest man" especially in Nigeria. Use your brain

Taywon:
Op u are not smart enough.....

Just a conversation and u jumped into conclusion... I tire 4 u ooo....

Even if u catch a 9ja babe red handed she go nearly deny... U wey suppose play along....

Now u don almost lose the pot and the stew....

My ex cheated, she neva realise i knew till date.... Na small small i use discharge her.... Reduced the calls, form busy... Nobody tell am say its over.... If i see her tomorrow i fit still chop her stew...
Wisdom is d principal thing....

For the record no Girl is honest, they are all Opportunist... Once she find someone with comparative advantage she leaves

chigoizie7:
She is really scared.

All that happened wasn’t because of the trust issues.

She is only scared that you blew something that has no significance out of proportion.

In her mind, you are only finding a flimsy excuse to break up with her because you can not stay with her based on her conditions. I know that wasn’t what you were thinking.

But trust me, from the onset of that relationship, she already had it at the back of her mind that you will leave her , not because she is not a good person or beautiful enough to date , but because of her conditions, she already prepared her mind towards that and when you did what you did, she only saw it as an indicator.


Brother, if you really want to be with her, go and get her.

A friends younger brother was having same issues, but after a medical trip to India last year, it has stopped, this guys case is not responsive to drugs.

Then my younger sister too, she do have seizures too. But she is married with three kids, the husband knew about it but it never stopped him from marrying her, and she got married at 22. Once I am back, I am arranging for her to go to India and get it sorted out.


So bro, if you really love this girl, please go back and win her back.

Logan95:


Very encouraging. I want to see her win regardless.

I can relate to the first paragraph because when we started she kept it away from me until it happened on night and I was sacred and almost rushing her to the hospital. She just took her drug and said it will stop.

I later became over careful with her and she hated it and said I should treat her like a normal human being, that I seem scared of being with her and many guys have left.

I will try to get her back because she appreciates my support when the communication was good.

chigoizie7:



Please do. Thank you so much.

Since you really love her.

Treat her like a normal human being that she is.

Assure her that you do not want to leave, but make sure that you are truly not gonna leave, make sure that you truly love her.

Treat her like a normal human, do not pity her, she needs her self confidence and self esteem intact, and you assuring her that she is normal is the only way she will get that.

But if you keep treating her like she is an invalid, then she will start doubting herself.

If you want to Bleep her, Bleep her well, with no pity.


Offer to help her with her medications. Make sure she stick to the prescription. Since she stays with you, make it a point of duty that she eats well, make breakfast and dinner compulsory for her. With that, you can always hand her her medications after every meal.

It does not kill. You can google it brother. It is not also contagious.

Make her feel like a normal human.

MedicH:


Yea we know that. We also know who will lie and cheat because of money for hair. Don't quote me oo i just come back from work i never eat.

Lostz:
must you girls compete with men? we are on another level guided by different rules

Davash222:
There’s nothing like a ‘Honest Girl’, especially in Nigeria.
She’s just manipulating you emotionally. Don’t fall for all these blackmails from Nigerian girls.

Imagine, she said she has forgiven you?? For what??
Obviously, you’re too immature to be in a relationship with a Nigerian girl.

Logan95:


Thanks man.

Bola146:


Exactly.. Also there is nothing like. " honest man" especially in Nigeria. Use your brain

excessmon:
Pls what’s d real meaning of the phrase “a typical Nigerian girl”

Over 87% of Nigerian guys have low self esteem

keryj:
I'm still surprised at how people go about bringing their private life to the public for advice or judgment.

Now that most of them have end up twisting your mind on her honesty, i do hope you are happy, comfortable and at peace now.

Only you know your girl perfectly well, stop passing her to others who knows nothing about her for judgment.

Tallesty1:
What in fvck's name did I just read?


A Nigerian girl in love is usually honest to a fault dude.

Logan95:


My brother, the truth is that the call was just a friendly call...how was your night ish. Truth is that she's gorgeous and she has tons of admirers but she's with me most times. If anything it should be emotional cheating but I did this in order to put her on her toes, the outcome was unfortunate. In her defense she wanted to explain instantly but I cut her off and told her she is exhibiting cheating tendencies. She froze and her legs started shaking.....

She just came to my house now because she forgot her charger. She was looking unkempt and a shadow of herself, She refused to seat, I just escorted her but I told her that my apology is not working but she should talk to me normally without the moody face. I paid for a cab for her then she left.... We'll see what the future holds.

ultimate77:

From where in Nigeria did you draw your sample and conclusion? Respond to this and I'll tell you something.

Logan95:


I would have been stern if she hadn't passed out, I needed to give her the medication immediately to revive her. I also noticed that she loses interest in life (a symptom of epilepsy) and her condition reduces her self esteem regardless of how stunning she is.

My challenge now is that if she was OK mentally, I would have given her space and cut contact for now but for her I detest her being alone.

We once had an issue via chat and she told me not to attend her funeral... I sent my sister to her house without her knowledge and by the time she got there my girl was vibrating in her feet and palms.

Logan95:


Thanks man.
Her seizures is triggered by stress, emotions and fear. It's sometimes worse during her period. It happens often and it's usually mild like leg and hand shaking and total disconnection from the real world for like 2 to 5 mins.

The major seizures happen like once in 4 to 6 months, she loses consciousness totally and it's an emergency she's usually hospitalized but this happens when she misses her medication. She has depression tendencies so I always praise and flatter her because the condition makes her avoid people and she loses her self esteem.

I'm happy you understand seizures, the guys up there that suggests she's faking it.... It's ridiculous. With her she never fakes it and she crys anytime she regains consciousness.

I'm usually send less with girls but my girls own is very delicate.

Logan95:
My people, Something really terrible just occurred now.

I have dated my girlfriend for about 6 months, she is the most open individual I've ever met... She has told me most of her secrets. She is a very beautiful and intelligent girl and what really made us thick is that I was there when she had seizures in the past.

To the issue, She answered a call today and I felt suspicious and I decided to confront her immediately, but as she was trying to explain, I cut in and acted with mistrust and accusations that I suspect cheating. This was a major catalyst and it triggered her seizure. I started apologizing immediately to calm her down, she passed out for some minutes after she tried to use her clothes to suffocate herself.

She woke up irritated and I asked her to explain what is happening in her social world. She said it was really nothing and that she feels I don't trust her that's why she reduced telling me personal stuff. That there is no connection between her and the guy.

She said she has forgiven me but she has to leave my house that moment. I asked that I drop her but she refused and packed her belongings that has been here. She later accepted that I'd drop her because I could not stand the shame of her going alone but my car battery decided to die and she eventually entered bike home.

She left by saying she needs space but I feel I've lost her because I'll be once guilty of inducing her seuzures.

Ladies and gentlemen, red pillers, kindly advice me on how to handle this issue.

N:B kindly put into consideration that she is really emotional and her peculiar challenge.