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Re: Should I Marry Her Or Quit? by TerryMcGinis(m): 6:07am On Feb 14
Oracle55:
Hello nairalanders I need your advice, I have been dating this girl 8 months now she is pretty which Is one of the quality that made me like her, first time I met her her first request was her birthday gift which I monetized and gave her, she came for a visit and stayed 3 weeks she cooks very well though she can't cook a pot of meal if I didn't give her 3k upwards that shows she can't manage very well but her quest for money is too high, she complained for her hostel fee which is #160,000 of which I gave her half she didn't even say thank u to me rather she complained and asked where she was gonna a see the remaining half,,it hurt me so much that the 80,000 I gave her she didn't appreciate, I scolded her for that and she said she was sorry, today she send me a picture of a dress and told me this is what she wants for her value gift,,pls ladies here is it proper for u ladies to tell a guy straight what u need for your call? I thought it's a surprise gift,,and I am planning to marry this lady pls what is your advice should I quit or go ahead though my siblings told me she is out for my money
guy you dash girl 80k? You be fool.

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Re: Should I Marry Her Or Quit? by Blissbath(f): 6:08am On Feb 14
Ur siblings r right.Wat if d money is not dere??will she still date?after collecting 80k,she didnt even appreciate.Dnt she ve parent?
Oracle55:
bro pls tell me what to do I am confused

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Re: Should I Marry Her Or Quit? by EVILFOREST: 6:48am On Feb 14
Just DUMP her and move on
Re: Should I Marry Her Or Quit? by Omar09(f): 6:56am On Feb 14
Drince:

Yeah, i think everybody has been giving him the wrong advice.. What do you suggest??

If he can't see the writing on the wall, he should go ahead and marry her.
Re: Should I Marry Her Or Quit? by Funkyswagzz(m): 7:20am On Feb 14
Oracle55:
bro pls tell me what to do I am confused

I can't imagine how u spend such amount of money on a girl. U are the reason y most girls act the way they want. In her mind she just won a jackpot. I most tell u am really disappointed. It's good u need a solution.

See what u do.. find a girl u just wan2 hav a fling with. Don't let her know about it. Start dating the babe and have a change of attitude towards her. She will def find out within a wik or 2. This is the only way u can break up with her without getting hurt so much. U can't quit the relationship cos u love her. Obviously the girl knows her game very well so don't feel pity when she starts crying or begging. That's the time u tell her how u feel and make sure u don't give her a second chance until she comes back and start begging. This is the time u can give her a chance and cut down on what u spend on her.

Buh if she finds out u have someone else and quickly leave then uve save urself from a farm tool

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Re: Should I Marry Her Or Quit? by Oracle55: 7:27am On Feb 14
Funkyswagzz:


I can't imagine how u spend such amount of money on a girl. U are the reason y most girls act the way they want. In her mind she just won a jackpot. I most tell u am really disappointed. It's good u need a solution.

See what u do.. find a girl u just wan2 hav a fling with. Don't let her know about it. Start dating the babe and have a change of attitude towards her. She will def find out within a wik or 2. This is the only way u can break up with her without getting hurt so much. U can't quit the relationship cos u love her. Obviously the girl knows her game very well so don't feel pity when she starts crying or begging. That's the time u tell her how u feel and make sure u don't give her a second chance until she comes back and start begging. This is the time u can give her a chance and cut down on what u spend on her.

Buh if she finds out u have someone else and quickly leave then uve save urself from a farm tool
thanks bro
Re: Should I Marry Her Or Quit? by Lamanii22(f): 7:48am On Feb 14
How do people meet boyfriend that gives them money lol I haven't met one.. Maybe cause I'm independent and I'm not quick to ask..


@OP ... SHE'S AFTER YOUR MONEY... WHEN THE MONEY FINISHES, SHE'S GONNA LEAVE YOU.. JUST THINK ABOUT THAT!

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Re: Should I Marry Her Or Quit? by Oreofepeters(f): 8:22am On Feb 14
Don't date a girl that demand for too much money, it's a red flag......

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Re: Should I Marry Her Or Quit? by Drince: 8:46am On Feb 14
Oreofepeters:
Don't date a girl that demand for too much money, it's a red flag......
Red flag bawo, this one is more than a red flag.. Everywhere red leleyi!
Re: Should I Marry Her Or Quit? by Ishilove: 10:04am On Feb 14
Oracle55:
Hello nairalanders I need your advice, I have been dating this girl 8 months now she is pretty which Is one of the quality that made me like her, first time I met her her first request was her birthday gift which I monetized and gave her, she came for a visit and stayed 3 weeks she cooks very well t[b]hough she can't cook a pot of meal if I didn't give her 3k upwards that shows she can't manage very well[/b] but her quest for money is too high, she complained for her hostel fee which is #160,000 of which I gave her half she didn't even say thank u to me rather she complained and asked where she was gonna a see the remaining half,,it hurt me so much that the 80,000 I gave her she didn't appreciate, I scolded her for that and she said she was sorry, today she send me a picture of a dress and told me this is what she wants for her value gift,,pls ladies here is it proper for u ladies to tell a guy straight what u need for your call? I thought it's a surprise gift,,and I am planning to marry this lady pls what is your advice should I quit or go ahead though my siblings told me she is out for my money
I think the only pot of soup you can comfortably cook for less than 3k is okro soup. Have you been to the market lately?

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Re: Should I Marry Her Or Quit? by viceddy95(m): 10:39am On Feb 14
Oracle55:
Hello nairalanders I need your advice, I have been dating this girl 8 months now she is pretty which Is one of the quality that made me like her, first time I met her her first request was her birthday gift which I monetized and gave her, she came for a visit and stayed 3 weeks she cooks very well though she can't cook a pot of meal if I didn't give her 3k upwards that shows she can't manage very well but her quest for money is too high, she complained for her hostel fee which is #160,000 of which I gave her half she didn't even say thank u to me rather she complained and asked where she was gonna a see the remaining half,,it hurt me so much that the 80,000 I gave her she didn't appreciate, I scolded her for that and she said she was sorry, today she send me a picture of a dress and told me this is what she wants for her value gift,,pls ladies here is it proper for u ladies to tell a guy straight what u need for your call? I thought it's a surprise gift,,and I am planning to marry this lady pls what is your advice should I quit or go ahead though my siblings told me she is out for my money
Sorry to ask,does this girl school in Auchi polytechnic and were is she from,,before we start to advice you..

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Re: Should I Marry Her Or Quit? by Acidosis(m): 10:58am On Feb 14
abuuzy:
She should leave the 180k place and seek for something lesser probably 75k since her parents can't afford it,oga wise up na,if you know get tomorrow she go leave you

They never listen.
Re: Should I Marry Her Or Quit? by Acidosis(m): 10:59am On Feb 14
Ishilove:

I think the only pot of soup you can comfortably cook for less than 3k is okro soup. Have you been to the market lately?


For one or two people, you can make any pot of soup for less than 3k. Quantity determines the price, remember?

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Re: Should I Marry Her Or Quit? by funmisticqueen2(m): 11:12am On Feb 14
It is better she tells you vwhat she wants for Valentine's than for you to get what she doesn't like. It's better than you guessing and risking the Valentine going sour.

I told my alpha bae I wanted a fridge, and the delivery man is on his way today.

Some smart women know that men are not mind-readers, most of them don't know our best colors, or that we are allergic to pollen from flowers,dust mites in teddy bear and imitation leather or nickel watches and jewellery, or that we don't like poetry and chocolate makes us fat. We understand that and drop hints to what we would like.

If a brother cannot take a hint then we become direct and tell him to get us something we like but he can afford

Ignore those broke boys. And do you..

Happy Valentine's day

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Re: Should I Marry Her Or Quit? by BurnStoner: 11:13am On Feb 14
Chi59:
Send me her val gift. I'd appreciate it unlike her.
Ole. If she breaks up with him you must date him
Re: Should I Marry Her Or Quit? by BurnStoner: 11:15am On Feb 14
Simi si trobul.
Re: Should I Marry Her Or Quit? by Ishilove: 11:22am On Feb 14
Acidosis:


For one or two people, you can make any pot of soup for less than 3k. Quantity determines the price, remember?
Quality nko?

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Re: Should I Marry Her Or Quit? by Triniti(m): 11:29am On Feb 14
Oracle55:
I agree with u bro though she complained that her parents don't have,,she is too broke for my liking
That’s what broke girls do, they demand like their life depends on it. Most girls from poor family assumes a man owe them the responsibility of taking care of all their needs once they start dating

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Re: Should I Marry Her Or Quit? by cr7lomo: 11:47am On Feb 14
Once u go broke...she will dump u like a bad habit

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Re: Should I Marry Her Or Quit? by Clinghton: 11:55am On Feb 14
Stop giving her money and see her reaction, people like that are not ready for marriage.
Re: Should I Marry Her Or Quit? by chinchonglee(m): 12:01pm On Feb 14
How do u pple give such a big amount in relationship

Even 2k dey hard me give. I always form broke the very moment i enter relationship.
Re: Should I Marry Her Or Quit? by millionboi2: 12:02pm On Feb 14
proclinician:
The kind mind u guys get eeh. Ordinary 1k airtime i find it difficult to send to girl. Who dash una this kind mind. U count 80k give nwata nwanyi. U strong oo
me after reading d stupid OP
#So ppl fit mumu like dis

Re: Should I Marry Her Or Quit? by Oracle55: 12:02pm On Feb 14
viceddy95:

Sorry to ask,does this girl school in Auchi polytechnic and were is she from,,before we start to advice you..
Absu she is from Enugu
Re: Should I Marry Her Or Quit? by Acidosis(m): 12:21pm On Feb 14
Ishilove:

Quality nko?

grin True sha



Ishi come and cook for me na. Today's valentine
Re: Should I Marry Her Or Quit? by Lazypoke(m): 12:38pm On Feb 14
Its explicit na bro u are deceiving yasef
Oracle55:
bro what do u mean
Re: Should I Marry Her Or Quit? by Lazypoke(m): 12:40pm On Feb 14
Oracle55:
bro pls tell me what to do I am confused
just break up with her first and see her reaction, if she is after ur money u will surely know by her reaction.
Re: Should I Marry Her Or Quit? by Ishilove: 12:43pm On Feb 14
funmisticqueen2:
It is better she tells you vwhat she wants for Valentine's than for you to get what she doesn't like. It's better than you guessing and risking the Valentine going sour.

I told my alpha bae I wanted a fridge, and the delivery man is on his way today.

Some smart women know that men are not mind-readers, most of them don't know our best colors, or that we are allergic to pollen from flowers,dust mites in teddy bear and imitation leather or nickel watches and jewellery, or that we don't like poetry and chocolate makes us fat. We understand that and drop hints to what we would like.

If a brother cannot take a hint then we become direct and tell him to get us something we like but he can afford

Ignore those broke boys. And do you..

Happy Valentine's day
We cannot come online to form independent women yet cannot pay our own bills. These men are not our ATM machines. If a woman constantly hangs all her bukata on her partner then she is a liability. A leech. A parasite. Pay your own darned bills and stop being a leech.

However, since love is giving and sharing, let the gifts come from the heart because it is not by force o.

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Re: Should I Marry Her Or Quit? by Skmoda360(m): 12:47pm On Feb 14
Oracle55:
Hello nairalanders I need your advice, I have been dating this girl 8 months now she is pretty which Is one of the quality that made me like her, first time I met her her first request was her birthday gift which I monetized and gave her, she came for a visit and stayed 3 weeks she cooks very well though she can't cook a pot of meal if I didn't give her 3k upwards that shows she can't manage very well but her quest for money is too high, she complained for her hostel fee which is #160,000 of which I gave her half she didn't even say thank u to me rather she complained and asked where she was gonna a see the remaining half,,it hurt me so much that the 80,000 I gave her she didn't appreciate, I scolded her for that and she said she was sorry, today she send me a picture of a dress and told me this is what she wants for her value gift,,pls ladies here is it proper for u ladies to tell a guy straight what u need for your call? I thought it's a surprise gift,,and I am planning to marry this lady pls what is your advice should I quit or go ahead though my siblings told me she is out for my money
She is only interested in your money.....
Re: Should I Marry Her Or Quit? by Ishilove: 12:48pm On Feb 14
Acidosis:


grin True sha



Ishi come and cook for me na. Today's valentine
Better soup na money kill am grin

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Re: Should I Marry Her Or Quit? by Skmoda360(m): 12:55pm On Feb 14
Lamanii22:
How do people meet boyfriend that gives them money lol I haven't met one.. Maybe cause I'm independent and I'm not quick to ask..


@OP ... SHE'S AFTER YOUR MONEY... WHEN THE MONEY FINISHES, SHE'S GONNA LEAVE YOU.. JUST THINK ABOUT THAT!
I always observe you...you are one of those girls that do tell truth and untainted.....on NL

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Re: Should I Marry Her Or Quit? by funmisticqueen2(m): 12:59pm On Feb 14
Ishilove:

We cannot come online to form independent women yet cannot pay our own bills. These men are not our ATM machines. If a woman constantly hangs all her bukata on her partner then she is a liability. A leech. A parasite. Pay your own darned bills and stop being a leech.

However, since love is giving and sharing, let the gifts come from the heart because it is not by force o.
he asked and I answered.

I don't know what your problem is. if you like, pay your man's bills. Don't bring your frustrations here today

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Re: Should I Marry Her Or Quit? by funmisticqueen2(m): 1:00pm On Feb 14
Ishilove:

We cannot come online to form independent women yet cannot pay our own bills. These men are not our ATM machines. If a woman constantly hangs all her bukata on her partner then she is a liability. A leech. A parasite. Pay your own darned bills and stop being a leech.

However, since love is giving and sharing, let the gifts come from the heart because it is not by force o.
he asked and I answered.

I don't know what your problem is. if you like, pay your man's bills. Don't bring your frustrations here today.

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