72Morale:
I pray everyday not to meet a creature like you till I leave this earth.

If you are a man reading this.

May almighty God guide and protect you from marrying an inpatient woman who will be wayward and unfaithful enough to sleep around, getting pregnant for various men and deceiving you by making you raise a child that isn't yours unknowingly.

May you never marry a woman who will be busy thinking about sex and diiick while you are busy suffering hard on how to take care of her and make her and your kids happy.

Pridestorm:


He's my cousin brother. You guys have taken him for me, raining insults up-and-down on my mentions.

Jceeee:

Her father and his wife has relocated to Canada , When she was 2 , I had no contact with him since. Bringing her biological daughter won’t be possible because we had already done her a favour by bringing my daughter who’s my husband knows that it’s her child , I don’t think my husband would agreed to bring another one because bringing my daughter here has already caused a lot of problem in my husband family , they are not happy that he has bought my niece abroad while his sister children are still in Nigeria , my sister in law has stopped talking to me. I work and do everything for my sister child making sure she is getting the best education ever , still she is not satisfied and want her daughter to come abroad

nengibo:
Eleven years long sha oh to be lonely, well if you know your husband to be forgiving, tell him if not...

lilyheaven:

I don't know why she's doing what she's doing,
Don't let it bother you again.
I hope you are working, so that if anything happens tomorrow you can take care of yourself.
I don't think she will tell, but if she does, ask for forgiveness, if you are forgiven, better for you, if you are not, move ahead.
You have made the mistake already, you have to forgive yourself. Life goes on

Jceeee:
let me add this : for those 11 years I waited for him , he has also had 2 children here , a girl born in 2006 and a boy 2010 but I didn’t know about those children until when I joined him in 2013. He has only told me about the boy born in 2010 buy he never told me about the girl born in 2006 , so I came to found out about the girl in 2018 via Facebook when the mother of the girl who is an African but not Nigerian messaged me on Facebook with the girl photo , she looks exactly like my husband in everything and she and my first daughter look alike too , I confronted my husband he did not denied he has told me if he had documents in this country , it was because of the girl because after having lots of rejection things were hard that’s why he decided to cheat on me and get the lady pregnant and after the daughter was born , he and the mother went to claiming that he now have a child born in this country so he was allow to get his documents through the child. After getting documents the mother started making his life miserable and he has to leave her and child and never looked back to her. I know him having children outside of our marriage is forgivable which I had also forgive him but I know when he found out about mine , he wouldn’t be the same , he will make it looks so bad forgetting that he has done the same which I forgive and forget about it.

madridguy:
Time registered: February 22, 2020

Nairaland is now a place where the admin hire writers to write different lies just to drag traffic

Petyprincess:
All i have to say is you are a disgrace to womanhood!!! Your sister is even nice to have kept the secret with you all these years,if i was the one the moment i knew of your lies your husband would definitely be the first person to know!! Can't believe your mother could even support your lies!! On the other hand this might be a fake story so I'm out of here!!

Foodqueen:
Ur husband will find our sooner than u think. And it's best u tell him yourself.

BurnStoner:
We all make mistakes, but the best time to come clean is now! Come clean and bear the consequences and at-least be free.

merahki:




Yeah, I think so so
And will no longer respond to sensational topics by new usernames
One such scam is a lady who supposedly is in love with a super rich HIV positive man, smh
Most of the “fake” stories tend to fuel the gender war on here

madridguy:
Time registered: February 22, 2020

Nairaland is now a place where the admin hire writers to write different lies just to drag traffic

Jceeee:
Hello everybody , I came here to seek for advice because I’m in a big dilemma with my kid sister , I don’t want to bore you with long story I will make the long story short. I got married in May 2000 I was pregnant with my first child , I had my first child in September that same year then another daughter in 2002 May , and in July 2002 my husband left for abroad ( I won’t mention the country ) I had to move out of the renting apartment and went back to my parents house with my 2 children while waiting for him to apply for our documents, it took him 2 years to settle and for 2 year he couldn’t send us money because he had no documents and job , my parents were supportive until when my husband got his documents and started working , he started sending us money every month and was working hard for me and the kids to join him but things were not working well for us , they keep rejecting us but he didn’t get tired of us , but I started getting tired after 5 years of waiting, missing him badly , no intimacy and I was lonely and very depressed , I start seeking attention outside and I met with a married man that I had a relationship with, I got pregnant in 2008 the man suggested abortion but I didn’t want to abort because I was scared to die because I remember a cousin that had a husband abroad , she got pregnant and went to abort , she died instantly so I didn’t want to end up like her , I had planned with my sister and mum that I should leave our state to another state ( I won’t mention the name ) to go and have my baby then will come back after the baby is 3 months , I and my kid sister left and rented another house in a different state meanwhile we lied to my dad that I had traveled to this country to join my husband in abroad , things was well , I had my baby another girl in 2009 and we kept the secret for 3 months from my dad and we had to lie to him , it was my kid sister that has given birth to this baby while we were away and my dad got angry at her and he has said a lot of harsh things to her, it was very painful but my sister supported me and didn’t let the secret come out , even to my husband he just knew the baby was my sister , because I was breastfeeding her , we didn’t want to go home yet so we had to stayed here for a year , when I weaned her and we started preparing to go back home, lying to my dad that things didn’t work out and I couldn’t join my husband anymore, we came home in 2010 and we had been keeping this secrets from my dad , husband and other people , finally God has been great that I had to joined my husband in 2013 after 11 years of waiting , it was a wonderful time to be with him again , my kid sister got married in 2014 she had a daughter with her husband before marriage born in 2012, so the husband accepted her with my daughter that she pretend to be hers , she went to her husband house , leaving my kids with our parents , she only took the daughter she had with her husband and I used to send them money as usual until in 2015 my 2 daughters I had with my husband joined us abroad and my other daughter stayed behind , I had to convinced my husband that my sister baby should join us too which he was okay and grateful to my sister because she had been the one taking care of our children in my absent so we started applying for documents for the girl, but they kept rejecting it but we didn’t give up, at that same time my sister has also wanted her biological daughter to be included in but I was frank with her that we couldn’t add her daughter because the daughter that I had is known to be hers so if we had another daughter it would be wrong , so this has caused a lot of problems between my sister and I that she called me an ingrate after everything she has been doing to me , but I was never ungrateful because I take care of her daughter school fees in a best private school but I just couldn’t bring her abroad with us but she is adamant that her daughter should be here too. Luckily my daughter which to my husband is my niece has joined us this January 2020 , she knows me as her auntie and my sister her mummy , She is doing well my family is complete , I have also had 2 more children with my husband two cute boys but my sister has been threatening and blackmailing that she would tell my husband everything about my daughter , I had begged even our mum has been begging her not to spoil my marriage but she wouldn’t listen , I’m scared she would tell my husband and my marriage will be over. I don’t sleep well and anytime when my husband get back from work , my heart beat faster thinking that he has found out , he loves my niece ( daughter ) so much that he doesn’t treat her any different from our 4 children but I’m getting so scared I’m on blood pressure medication because of my sister threatening me. Please I know a lot of you would insult me because I deserve it but all I need is advice from you , please if you could offer me some , I just don’t know what else to do

Adgideon:
You are in deep shit, for your sister she is a witch, for you a I reserve my comment witchcraft is not only flying by night, but also one who want to destroy ones progress which your sister is doing you committed adultery prepared for the worst, cos the secret must surely come out, your husband was busy fighting for you and your kids to join him, but all you can think of is to go and have sex. you, your mother and sister, are all praticing witches and your sins shall find you out,

lilyheaven:

I don't know why she's doing what she's doing,
Don't let it bother you again.
I hope you are working, so that if anything happens tomorrow you can take care of yourself.
I don't think she will tell, but if she does, ask for forgiveness, if you are forgiven, better for you, if you are not, move ahead.
You have made the mistake already, you have to forgive yourself. Life goes on

lilyheaven:


You should have used the opportunity to open up

yeyeosoronga:


The sister is no witch.
She was a good sister to the OP.
She bore OPs shame, and was disgraced by their father and family members for bearing a child outside wedlock.
She married as a single mother, while she wasn't one.
I can't blame OP for not taking the sister's own daughter if it's not possible, but that sister should be worshipped by OP.

ShipChina2naija:
Person wey no see her husband for almost 11years,,una no want her to sort herself out sexually ,,.. Its only when you find yourself in same situation you criticized others for..then you understand why most times you need to be rational in judging people....

Dear op,,pick yourself up,,no go think die.na pickin you born just the way your husband also gave birth while being away.,,Explain everything to your husband..you are not gonna die,,any modaf*cker in your situation would do what you've done....and to your sister that wants to blackmail you,,she can go fu*ck herself.. Since she doesn't wanna think like human being.all because she covered you. ..let her do her worst ..just make sure you got something doing to take care of yourself....

What i dont understand is if the people insulting you wanted you to re-virginise for 11years without sex like your hubby wasn't fuc*king someone else where he was.... All of you raining insult on her are very stupid...

movement2020:
Even if your sister fails to open up, oneday and someday, the secret would be let out. To be frank, that would be worst time your entire life. Personally, I would advise you tell your husband. Some men are not that cruel like you think. If he acts, it's fine because you bleeped up. Just believe, things would settled amicably.

My question, where is the biological father of the little child?

Is he aware he has a daughter with you?

As he ever asked of her?

Do you still keep in touch.?

yeyeosoronga:


The sister is no witch.
She was a good sister to the OP.
She bore OPs shame, and was disgraced by their father and family members for bearing a child outside wedlock.
She married as a single mother, while she wasn't one.
I can't blame OP for not taking the sister's own daughter if it's not possible, but that sister should be worshipped by OP.