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Re: Confusion In My Very Young Marriage by SpecialAdviser(m): 10:06pm On Feb 27, 2020 |
Are u sure the lab scientist is not crushing for your wife? and churning out fake result upadan |
Re: Confusion In My Very Young Marriage by Novaccines: 10:06pm On Feb 27, 2020 |
Wow |
Re: Confusion In My Very Young Marriage by Modarun(m): 10:06pm On Feb 27, 2020 |
Invisible123:My brother your wife is AA. You see all those labs? Like 75% of then just guess results. Especially typhoid and malaria. They just ask you for symptoms, then take your money and write results. This is why she it cones to such go to quality private Labs, not those road side quarks. |
Re: Confusion In My Very Young Marriage by firo08(m): 10:07pm On Feb 27, 2020 |
OP,. You know your problem? I too know. God will help you. Pls send those monies you are wasting of unnecessary test convert it to airtime for me. |
Re: Confusion In My Very Young Marriage by Sammy07: 10:08pm On Feb 27, 2020 |
Oga, your wife is AA... You don't have problem Next please.. |
Re: Confusion In My Very Young Marriage by Femeto: 10:09pm On Feb 27, 2020 |
Why are you worried 6 hospitals ran d test 5 AA 1 As. Let common sense prevail. |
Re: Confusion In My Very Young Marriage by LordReed(m): 10:09pm On Feb 27, 2020 |
The test probably gave a false positive since repeats confirm AA. Reputation has nothing to do with it. |
Re: Confusion In My Very Young Marriage by noblealuu: 10:09pm On Feb 27, 2020 |
Invisible123: How do I reach you? |
Re: Confusion In My Very Young Marriage by Nobody: 10:13pm On Feb 27, 2020 |
Oga, just go to them and ask for an official laboratory result on the hospital letter head. Have the sign and stamp it. If they refuse, threaten to report them to ministry of health. Thereafter, jelely take your fiancee to another hospital. Truth is that they eithrr mixed up samples earlier or they have poor lab facility. 2 Likes |
Re: Confusion In My Very Young Marriage by Helena6(f): 10:13pm On Feb 27, 2020 |
thesicilian: Take this response to heart! They are not honest and you should not trust them with your precious gifts. Sue them, if you can. 2 Likes |
Re: Confusion In My Very Young Marriage by Nobody: 10:14pm On Feb 27, 2020 |
healthserve:You rather not say anything than shut up.He needs advice not this crap 2 Likes |
Re: Confusion In My Very Young Marriage by aspiring44: 10:15pm On Feb 27, 2020 |
Being reputable and rich does not equate best standard practice. They goofed completely. It's only the SS SC can have such variants. AA will always come out as AA and nothing . You can use the best hospital and still have issues and a very reliable and hygienic one won't give you issues . Accept the result based on your last confirmation. |
Re: Confusion In My Very Young Marriage by healthserve(m): 10:15pm On Feb 27, 2020 |
Re: Confusion In My Very Young Marriage by DOZTECH: 10:15pm On Feb 27, 2020 |
na wah |
Re: Confusion In My Very Young Marriage by Nobody: 10:18pm On Feb 27, 2020 |
LordReed: Genotype that I know does not give such result. If the electrolyte (hooe they still use that) is weak, the results will be blurred and reasonable thing to do is to pour it awsit an use a fredh one. As long as the strip is ok, the result will be clear. |
Re: Confusion In My Very Young Marriage by greggng: 10:19pm On Feb 27, 2020 |
The same people wan dictate corona viruse ? What a joke of a country ... |
Re: Confusion In My Very Young Marriage by Nobody: 10:19pm On Feb 27, 2020 |
Invisible123:De way way that hospitu take giv you rong test rezut dem fit change your pikin to anatha one if your erima born for dat hospitu Las Las. 1 Like |
Re: Confusion In My Very Young Marriage by Ibkay32(m): 10:19pm On Feb 27, 2020 |
why u just dey worry yourself upandown, since she had went for 6 different hospital before and they confirm that she's AA wetin make u dey look for wetin no lost again, a times self we Nigerian we're our own problem..you better wait make them born pikin first.. |
Re: Confusion In My Very Young Marriage by aigbokiejohnson(m): 10:20pm On Feb 27, 2020 |
Obviously an error from an untrained lab personnel on methodology. Personnel likely a technician not supposed to handle same without a lab. scientist. I will still advise you have same repeated two reputable labs in Lagos. All the best |
Re: Confusion In My Very Young Marriage by Nobody: 10:20pm On Feb 27, 2020 |
healthserve:Am lost already. |
Re: Confusion In My Very Young Marriage by charlsecy(m): 10:24pm On Feb 27, 2020 |
[quote author=Invisible123 post=87008878]I informed the hospital of my findings, they took another sample and promised to get back to me./quote]You should have taken another test at the said hospital without informing them. If the first read AS, and the second AA that's when you should confront them. |
Re: Confusion In My Very Young Marriage by Sterope(f): 10:25pm On Feb 27, 2020 |
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Re: Confusion In My Very Young Marriage by Invisible123: 10:33pm On Feb 27, 2020 |
noblealuu: I sent you a mail, would have dropped my line but I will like to remain anonymous. |
Re: Confusion In My Very Young Marriage by luluosas(m): 10:33pm On Feb 27, 2020 |
Why did you have sex with her when you haven't married her? Kai |
Re: Confusion In My Very Young Marriage by Angelacruz: 10:34pm On Feb 27, 2020 |
Some hospitals r quack.Try diferent hospitals n even a reputable lab.Hope u both knw ur Rhesus factor?I wish her safe n sound labour. Invisible123: |
Re: Confusion In My Very Young Marriage by manontree: 10:34pm On Feb 27, 2020 |
Funny people. The hospital is unbelievable. It's shocking. These errors can occur for a number of reasons but their explanation is so mind-boggling it's hilarious. Why we act this way in Nigeria is beyond explanation Op. Accept my sympathy on the distress they caused you Happy marriage |
Re: Confusion In My Very Young Marriage by Nobody: 10:35pm On Feb 27, 2020 |
[quote author=Invisible123 post=87008878]Good evening all, I have just found myself in a dilemma that's really disturbing me emotionally. I need matured and candid advice from anyone who cares. Just recently, myself and my fiancee concluded our introduction ceremony. The wedding comes up middle of this year. Now the problem : My fiancee is pregnant, early last month I registered her for anti natal in a very reputable hospital in Lagos. It is standard practice that they run series of tests before commencement of the treatment. After the results came out, my wife didn't disclose the findings to me, she kept it to herself until a day after the introduction. The results indicated that her genotype is AS of which I'm also AS. Note that we had gone for checks 4 times before committing to each other, on all four occasions the results came out as AA for her. Her mum also confirmed that she is AA, she claimed she got her tested when she was young. Immediately she told me, I got so confused, I started sweating profusely. I immediately took her to another Lab close to the general hospital in my area. We both ran the test, I came our as my usual AS while she came out as AA. Also, Today, just to be sure again, she ran another test in a separate hospital on the Island and she also came out as AA. My fear: The hospital I registered her in is a reputable hospital and that's the reason I'm scared. I informed the hospital of my findings, they took another sample and promised to get back to me. It took them two days to call me, they left me and my wife in emotional distress while devising a means to clear their name or confuse me with medical terms. They finally called today and told me she has the AS hemoglobin in her blood but the AA is more pronounced. This got me confused cos if the AA is more pronounced, why release the result as AS in the first place. This is why I find their story hard to believe. I feel they came up with this excuse just to justify their claim and cover up their mistake. How can 6 clinics and hospitals test her as AA while only this hospital says AS. Note, just this evening a new test from a separate hospital says she's AA. Nairalanders, please what do I do? Is it possible for this anomaly to happen ? Is it possible for her to have AS and AA hemoglobin at the same time where one will be more pronounced than the other. And if it's possible, what her the chances of my baby coming out fine. Thanks Nairalanders. [/quote Nothing should bother you my dear friend It's probably their mistake but they won't tell you... May God bless your union ♥️ 1 Like |
Re: Confusion In My Very Young Marriage by Nobody: 10:35pm On Feb 27, 2020 |
Op, you had better take your wife away from that quack hospital. They probably made mistakes with her lab result. I haven't heard about AA with AS hemoglobin before |
Re: Confusion In My Very Young Marriage by LordReed(m): 10:36pm On Feb 27, 2020 |
Amitez: Read https://www.sciencedirect.com/topics/agricultural-and-biological-sciences/genotyping-errors |
Re: Confusion In My Very Young Marriage by luluosas(m): 10:37pm On Feb 27, 2020 |
You mean his girlfriend? thesicilian: 1 Like |
Re: Confusion In My Very Young Marriage by OrjiAlex(m): 10:38pm On Feb 27, 2020 |
You can charge their Ass 2 court........ur wifey is AA. Even the mum told u the management is just trying 2 cover for there error |
Re: Confusion In My Very Young Marriage by Nobody: 10:39pm On Feb 27, 2020 |
JewelDiamond:Or maybe they used a material they used for another sample. |
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