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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by Randy100: 7:56am On Mar 05
Nobody is even asking if the guy has airtime to call. The guy may be broke as fvck. Young girl, if he doesn't call, call him.

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by Timothy6: 8:03am On Mar 05
Am sorry to be a carrier of bad news.babe your bobo is fade up with the relationship,if you truly love somebody you don't have any excuse what do ever,am a guy I do the same to a girl I don't have feelings for anymore.

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by Timothy6: 8:05am On Mar 05
Am sorry to be a carrier of bad news.babe your bobo is fade up with the relationship,if you truly love somebody you don't have any excuse what so ever,am a guy I do the same to a girl I don't have feelings for anymore.
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by Innobee99(m): 8:10am On Mar 05
CAPSLOCKED:


SO ALL THERE IS TO BE SEEN IN A WOMAN IS HER PANTIES?
THIS MENTALITY IS DEAD SICKENING, AND IF YOU DON'T FIX YOUR LIFE IN YOUR OBVIOUSLY YOUNG STAGE, YOU'LL GROW UP TO BECOME UNREASONABLE AND DUMBER THAN MOST SHIT TALKING REDPILLER/ALPHA DRUNKS OF NAIRALAND.
Seems u can't read between lines. Most guys does that and that doesn't mean am like that. I just assumed that from his actions. Most guys gets tired of a lady wen they see ur pants. That's just my observation nothing more.....
Next time try as much as possible to understand a phrase before u waste ur RED ink And CAPSLOCK

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by Nobody: 8:17am On Mar 05
Michool60:
My boyfriend hasn't called me for a week now and I went to his place this week Monday to ask him what the matter was but he didn't give me any valid reply.I even called him that same day when I got home but he didn't pick up and didn't call back.I even message him the following day when I didn't see his call that if there is anything bugging him or if he wants to break up,that he should let me know instead of keeping me in the dark.He replied by saying "is alright and good day"I don't know what to do again because we didn't have any issue and he hasn't called nor text me up still now
There are a lot of garbage on the internet peddled as truth by people oblivious of a masculine man psychology (I am not talking about wimps,or twats,but masculine man).

Take it from me,masculine men are commitment phobic! It drains them. Why ladies are empowered and fufiled by commitment it drains a typical masculine man and he needs to pull back to energize himself once in a while.
Your reaction to his temporary withdrawal is the most important thing and will determine whether he sees you as a high value woman. Most women make mistake at this point by nagging him ,accusing him of cheating,whining he doesn't care etc All those will drain him the more. Another big mistake is when you bombard him with calls,the worst thing that can happen to a lady is when a man sees her as an irritant or one that pesters him.Trust me it is hopeless when he sees a lady in such a light as she will pose a treat to his freedom which is the very thing men love


You didnt give information of the things that occurred prior to,and during this pull away.

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by fcdgrand(m): 8:22am On Mar 05
that is why dating all these over used pussy is too risk not to talk of marrying them, they read alot of senseless meaning in your action and inaction, they say red flag blue flag green flag yellow flag, very set of foolish & stupid people, oya guit or stay or remain centre, bush meat!

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by Adgideon(m): 8:25am On Mar 05
So your boyfriend no call you watin you want make we come do, to beat or to fight him, have you check your self or ask his friends his issues. I just wonder some kind of posting you see here, if no be husband eye my best friend, e go b pls help my boyfriend came home drunk or my girlfriend just kiss me and say goodbye, madam move on level don change but can still return if you apply wisdom, nonody fit help you, coz no body know him problem

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by efewizey(m): 8:26am On Mar 05
I will pick your call. I don't come cheap sha
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by fcdgrand(m): 8:29am On Mar 05
other benefit of virgin; no broken or savage heart, no bitter emotion, no reading of senseless meaning, no turning you to scape goat, no spoil pussy and many more

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by MiVida(m): 8:36am On Mar 05
Blu03:
shocked
okay...

You don't mean it? Well, the boyfriend is now her mugu. The sad thing is that he would send her the money...
lol... Just joking.


How's life treating you?
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by ericsmith: 8:48am On Mar 05
CAPSLOCKED:


SO ALL THERE IS TO BE SEEN IN A WOMAN IS HER PANTIES?
THIS MENTALITY IS DEAD SICKENING, AND IF YOU DON'T FIX YOUR LIFE IN YOUR OBVIOUSLY YOUNG STAGE, YOU'LL GROW UP TO BECOME UNREASONABLE AND DUMBER THAN MOST SHIT TALKING REDPILLER/ALPHA DRUNKS OF NAIRALAND.




Apparently some fuse don cut for ur box, what as pant shifting or cassanova got to do with it redpill or alpha whateva.
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by Liposure(m): 8:50am On Mar 05
Nawa oh.some girls no get problem at all
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by Liposure(m): 8:53am On Mar 05
Adgideon:
So your boyfriend no call you watin you want make we come do, to beat or to fight him, have you check your self or ask his friends his issues. I just wonder some kind of posting you see here, if no be husband eye my best friend, e go b pls help my boyfriend came home drunk or my girlfriend just kiss me and say goodbye, madam move on level don change but can still return if you apply wisdom, nonody fit help you, coz no body know him problem
my brother, some girls go just dey worry over little little things
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by Liposure(m): 8:56am On Mar 05
Blu03:
shocked
okay...

You don't mean it? Well, the boyfriend is now her mugu. The sad thing is that he would send her the money...
goodmorning
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by Techcornerng(m): 8:56am On Mar 05
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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by hpmoney(m): 8:59am On Mar 05
If you haven't done anything wrong to him and you so sure about that then relax your mind. at times, guys will wanna ignore u for some few days just to see your reaction. keep calling and sending text to him. after 2weeks if you do not get any response from him then stop calling and give him break and if still u didn't hear from him after about a month or so, call him again and again that is if u really love him o. and this time if the situation persist then back off and day your day.
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by ericsmith: 9:10am On Mar 05
XhosaNostra:
He's playing games. Probably has somebody else, but doesn't wanna directly end things with you, in case he needs you as a backup plan in the future. End things, to shut down that window of [/b]opportunity for him & if he dares try to test your temperature later on, FÙCKING SCALD HIM. Muahahaha. That's how you deal with confused A-holes.



are you saying you as a lady you don't av moments you just wana be alone or times you go thru some personal shit yu don't even wana get ur parent involved not to talk of a boyfriend.
Just few month ago i was going to some personal shit, as usual i redraw frm everyone buh my babe did not even send i was tryin to avoid her, [b]she wasnt tew wise to end things or shut down d window
rather she pressed on till i open up to her, a wise xhosa wuld av jump to the next available r/ship n @ 55yrs she wil stil be blaming her village people for been single.
just one week of silence and the only advice is walk away or shut down.... smh
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by XhosaNostra(f): 9:12am On Mar 05
hpmoney:
If you haven't done anything wrong to him and you so sure about that then relax your mind. at times, guys will wanna ignore u for some few days just to see your reaction. keep calling and sending text to him. after 2weeks if you do not get any response from him then stop calling and give him break and if still u didn't hear from him after about a month or so, call him again and again that is if u really love him o. and this time if the situation persist then back off and day your day.

Geez, who has time for that? OP, that's exactly what your BF wants you to do, to chase him. Don't fall into that trap or give him the satisfaction of chasing after him like you have nothing better to do with your time. You have done more than enough already. No woman should ever chase after a man. Nobody over the age of 12 should be playing these cat & mouse games. Period. If he can't act like a grown up, drop him like a bad habit. You deserve a guy who is going to communicate with you. One who is going to be considerate of your feelings etc. Not one that expects you to play the pursuer. Ever seen an egg chasing the sperm? No, of course not! That'd be unnatural & ridiculous. Let him come to you. You're the Fabergé egg, don't sell yourself cheap grin

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by XhosaNostra(f): 9:33am On Mar 05
ericsmith:




are you saying you as a lady you don't av moments you just wana be alone or times you go thru some personal shit yu don't even wana get ur parent involved not to talk of a boyfriend.
Just few month ago i was going to some personal shit, as usual i redraw frm everyone buh my babe did not even send i was tryin to avoid her, she wasnt tew wise to end things or shut down d window rather she pressed on till i open up to her, a wise xhosa wuld av jump to the next available r/ship n @ 55yrs she wil stil be blaming her village people for been single.
just one week of silence and the only advice is walk away or shut down.... smh

If you're going through some shìt, then tell her that. Don't just disappear & expect her to be understanding. That's BS. She's not a mind reader.
There're moments where I fall off the face of the Earth, myself. Quite often, in fact. Because I need some me-time or whatever. But I will never do that to someone I'm in a relationship with because I'm not an A-hole grin Whichever way you like to spin it, this is unbecoming behaviour & me personally, I treat people how they treat me. Better to be single than be in a relationship with a selfish person that only thinks about themselves because I'll flip the script & give them a taste of their own medicine. Never test Nostra's waters if you're not an expert swimmer because I'll drown you!

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by Dlionsheart: 10:12am On Mar 05
femiphillips007:

It isnt about "writing on the wall " always.
There are situations in which someone is disorientated [/b]and wouldn't wanna get in touch or relate with anyone..
And by the way it's just a week,she can give him some more time,if he doesn't come clean after that then she can take actions.

That's the very word bro
[b]disoriented
and discombobulated
and
you want to lie low
away from so many noise that doesn't add up sometimes
to think straight
to be your own man
to face your own challenge
and overcome it without bothering anyone
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by ericsmith: 10:37am On Mar 05
XhosaNostra:


If you're going through some shìt, then tell her that. Don't just disappear & expect her to be understanding. That's BS. She's not a mind reader.
There're moments where I fall off the face of the Earth, myself. Quite often, in fact. Because I need some me-time or whatever. But I will never do that to someone I'm in a relationship with because I'm not an A-hole grin Whichever way you like to spin it, this is unbecoming behaviour & me personally, I treat people how they treat me. Better to be single than be in a relationship with a selfish person that only thinks about themselves because I'll flip the script & give them a taste of their own medicine. Never test Nostra's waters if you're not an expert swimmer because I'll drown you!



I would av expected you read thru & understand "there comes moments in our lives we just need space" for various reasons that as nothing to do with partners ... buh do even reason.
Let be realistic man or woman we alway av personal shit we don't just wana share, you can't tell me its all ur problem to share with ur boyfriend,some yu just av to sort it yursef.
Mumu gurl grin if partners who refuse to share there problem are selfish, so bombarding ones partner with problems is generosity ..lol! are sure you've been dating men cos yu sound so inexperience.
Humans are prone to problems n challenges, on a longn run people want space, a real man would jus wana sort his shit alone same as an iron lady, so its alway important to study n know ur partner …. i don't just see 1% sense in walking out of a r/ship just becos your partner is not talking, whether we like it or not situation like these wil alway happen, concern & understanding, maturity & tolerance is what takes couples thru, xhosas with zero patience have no business with r/ships not to talk of giving advicing.
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by Nehyooh(m): 10:55am On Mar 05
Bilabong:


View ur status and be seeing things like "I can change u in a minute"

He might be staying safe... Base on Corona.
U never can tell if it can be transmitted through phone calls and viewing status.

Lol...
grin
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by XhosaNostra(f): 11:00am On Mar 05
ericsmith:




I would av expected you read thru & understand "there comes moments in our lives we just need space" for various reasons that as nothing to do with partners ... buh do even reason.
Let be realistic man or woman we alway av personal shit we don't just wana share, you can't tell me its all ur problem to share with ur boyfriend,some yu just av to sort it yursef.
Mumu gurl grin if partners who refuse to share there problem are selfish, so bombarding ones partner with problems is generosity ..lol! are sure you've been dating men cos yu sound so inexperience.
Humans are prone to problems n challenges, on a longn run people want space, a real man would jus wana sort his shit alone same as an iron lady, so its alway important to study n know ur partner …. i don't just see 1% sense in walking out of a r/ship just becos your partner is not talking, whether we like it or not situation like these wil alway happen, concern & understanding, maturity & tolerance is what takes couples thru, xhosas with zero patience have no business with r/ships not to talk of giving advicing.

Listen, if you're not up to something, you tell that to your partner. Finish. You don't just go Houdini on them & then expect them not to catch an attitude or dump you. Communication is KEY. You don't have to spill your guts out to them, but be considerate enough to let them know you got stuff to deal with. Only a psychotic woman will still bombard you with needy messages after you have told them wassup. A sane one like myself grin, will check up on you occassionally just to let you know I'm there, BUT ONLY if you tell me what the fùck is going on. When you go silent on ME, without any explanation. Nada. That's when the sword comes out. The next moment you decide to put your head through, to peek in, I'M CHOPPING IT. End of story. I'm not studying shìt. You have to understand me too if you want me to understand you. Fair game or get stepping.

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by bdchange(m): 11:15am On Mar 05
ericsmith:




I would av expected you read thru & understand "there comes moments in our lives we just need space" for various reasons that as nothing to do with partners ... buh do even reason.
Let be realistic man or woman we alway av personal shit we don't just wana share, you can't tell me its all ur problem to share with ur boyfriend,some yu just av to sort it yursef.
Mumu gurl grin if partners who refuse to share there problem are selfish, so bombarding ones partner with problems is generosity ..lol! are sure you've been dating men cos yu sound so inexperience.
Humans are prone to problems n challenges, on a longn run people want space, a real man would jus wana sort his shit alone same as an iron lady, so its alway important to study n know ur partner …. i don't just see 1% sense in walking out of a r/ship just becos your partner is not talking, whether we like it or not situation like these wil alway happen, concern & understanding, maturity & tolerance is what takes couples thru, xhosas with zero patience have no business with r/ships not to talk of giving advicing.
You have a strong point when you said there are moments we want to be alone and have our time to ourselves. But when you are in a relationship especially committed one not just randy bf or gf stuff, you owed it to your partner to communicate with each other any issues that you may be facing. You have to be open to each other and see how you can help each other when issues arises. But when you don't communicate with me during the time you are on distress, shutting me out, making me feel less important to you. My brother he doesn't speak well of the relationship, or how far we have come. So that is the angle Xhosa is coming from.

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by bdchange(m): 11:16am On Mar 05
XhosaNostra:


Listen, if you're not up to something, you tell that to your partner. Finish. You don't just go Houdini on them & then expect them not to catch an attitude or dump you. Communication is KEY. You don't have to spill your guts out to them, but be considerate enough to let them know you got stuff to deal with. Only a psychotic woman will still bombard you with needy messages after you have told them wassup. A sane one like myself grin, will check up on you occassionally just to let you know I'm there, BUT ONLY if you tell me what the fùck is going on. When you go silent on ME, without any explanation. Nada. That's when the sword comes out. The next moment you decide to put your head through, to peek in, I'M CHOPPING IT. End of story. I'm not studying shìt. You have to understand me too if you want me to understand you. Fair game or get stepping.
Spot on grin

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by Edyice: 11:51am On Mar 05
Just wait and see where is behaviour is going , if he said he's not doing again , just grin smile because men still dey queue cool
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by EVILFOREST: 11:52am On Mar 05
Michool60:
My boyfriend hasn't called me for a week now and I went to his place this week Monday to ask him what the matter was but he didn't give me any valid reply.I even called him that same day when I got home but he didn't pick up and didn't call back.I even message him the following day when I didn't see his call that if there is anything bugging him or if he wants to break up,that he should let me know instead of keeping me in the dark.He replied by saying "is alright and good day"I don't know what to do again because we didn't have any issue and he hasn't called nor text me up still now
It appears you have OFFERED all you can in the RELATIONSHIP and he is now on a mission to locating his REAL HEARTTHROB
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by ericsmith: 12:12pm On Mar 05
XhosaNostra:


Listen, if you're not up to something, you tell that to your partner. Finish. You don't just go Houdini on them & then expect them not to catch an attitude or dump you. Communication is KEY. You don't have to spill your guts out to them, but be considerate enough to let them know you got stuff to deal with. Only a psychotic woman will still bombard you with needy messages after you have told them wassup. A sane one like myself grin, will check up on you occassionally just to let you know I'm there, BUT ONLY if you tell me what the fùck is going on. When you go silent on ME, without any explanation. Nada. That's when the sword comes out. The next moment you decide to put your head through, to peek in, I'M CHOPPING IT. End of story. I'm not studying shìt. You have to understand me too if you want me to understand you. Fair game or get stepping.



I can @least relate with ur last comment buh on a quickie lemme ask .... when you are dating or in a r/ship are there issues you consider personal shit or is it everything you are going thru you share with ur boyfriend, emphasis on "everything"
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by biddostandard: 12:13pm On Mar 05
Michool60:
My boyfriend hasn't called me for a week now and I went to his place this week Monday to ask him what the matter was but he didn't give me any valid reply.I even called him that same day when I got home 。 he didn't pick up and didn't call back.I even message him the following day when I didn't see his call that if there is anything bugging him or if he wants to break up,that he should let me know instead of keeping me in the dark.He replied by saying "is alright and good day"I don't know what to do again because we didn't have any issue and he hasn't called nor text me up still now
sorry dear..calm down for him
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by clintwealth(m): 12:37pm On Mar 05
lies he might be facing some issues that he dont want to share with any body just give him sometime,and pray for him.
Durhleepee:
You are now disturbing yourself when the writing on the wall can't be anymore clearer. Sis, ignore him and start deleting him from your heart. grin
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by BecaciaBarbie(f): 12:40pm On Mar 05
Michool60:
My boyfriend hasn't called me for a week now and I went to his place this week Monday to ask him what the matter was but he didn't give me any valid reply.I even called him that same day when I got home but he didn't pick up and didn't call back.I even message him the following day when I didn't see his call that if there is anything bugging him or if he wants to break up,that he should let me know instead of keeping me in the dark.He replied by saying "is alright and good day"I don't know what to do again because we didn't have any issue and he hasn't called nor text me up still now
I know how this feels, unfortunately humans are likely to face issues like this before finally finding the right person. One day you would look back and understand why these men broke your heart, then you would be with your charming husband. Let it go, this will surely pass.
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by Nobody: 12:54pm On Mar 05
Michool60:
My boyfriend hasn't called me for a week now and I went to his place this week Monday to ask him what the matter was but he didn't give me any valid reply.I even called him that same day when I got home but he didn't pick up and didn't call back.I even message him the following day when I didn't see his call that if there is anything bugging him or if he wants to break up,that he should let me know instead of keeping me in the dark.He replied by saying "is alright and good day"I don't know what to do again because we didn't have any issue and he hasn't called nor text me up still now

Mental disorder

OR

He doesnt need you no more

OR

He is playing mind games.

None of which is good for your mind and spirit. Stay away from men for now.

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