Dicktion:

This is epic

But I'm glad you mentioned a wrong woman
Find the right woman and marry
If it turns out she was just acting all right to get you trapped, kick her right out of the front door out of your life before you die prematurely and revert back to single life. You don't have to reduce your life span cos you're married
A right woman never acts.
A right woman is golden, but unfortunately they're extremely scarce in this society

Passionate888:
Singleness is next to Godliness

Blendy77:
When you marry your friend as in someone both of you started from scratch, trust me married life is more enjoyable. A lot of people are suffering because they are not friends with their spouse or they married for the wrong reasons and after several years discovered what attracted them in the first place is no more there. I met my hubby in school and today after 14years of marriage, I can say proudly that God has been faithful In making us 1. We look out for each other's growth and try to build up ourselves in the best possible ways with God on our side. The job I have today that has greatly prospered us, it was my hubby who applied for me even when I wasnt interested 13 years ago cos I assumed then that I wont get that type of job without knowing any big man or senator in Nigeria. The job he has today I was the one who got infor about a vacancy there and made enquiries and my friends working there asked me to send his CV. Today after 16years of working there he is seen as one of their strongest hands which has earned him lots of awards and overseas training yearly which other of his colleagues dont get. That is the kind of relationship am talking about, being friends first, having the word of God as your guide and helping each other to grow. Years after even after the kids arrival, you will still see yourselves as friends.
It's not like we dont have misunderstanding or we dont quarrel, of course we do once in a while but because we are friends we settle and over look each others lapses. Of course married life is bae for me any day and anytime���

shestrong:

The wrong partner u mean, not the wrong woman because it goes both ways.

Lovelyn451:
the children part of marriage is the only thing I don't want to miss. But u see the companion part, spouse, mate, hanging around husband like handbag, sex, these things doesn't trip me because I like my privacy like mad and I'm a chronic introvert

In my honest opinion, being single is more enjoyable except that you'll miss the sex part (for those of us that are born again) but talk about freedom and the will to do what you want and when you want it, single life is bae unlike when you're married that you must do certain things whether convenient or not.

Now one aspect marriage life can freak you out is home front where you have to manage and keep it and also have to combine it with your job.
I do visit some of my married friends and sometimes don't admire them cos we may get back from work same thread time, and right from the road while I'm relaxed and not hurrying to anything, she's rushing to pick the kids from school, stopping at the market to buy a few stuffs to make evening meals. She get home, attend to the kids then races to the kitchen to prepare meals by what time I would have rested and prolly taken something light for the day. And I begin to wonder, is this what I'm going to be someday? Mannn its not enjoyable at all.

That is just one aspect of it. Talking about emotional aspect where you have to deal with spouses short comings and all that. Its a whole lot.
Families and others.
Marriage is over hyped especially in Nigeria where you believed to lose yourself just so you can be seen as submissive.

Let me still enjoy my single life while it last biko.

kennyz247:

where u want follow find the right woman for ds Nigeria?when hustle nova pay guys

In my honest opinion, being single is more enjoyable except that you'll miss the sex part (for those of us that are born again) but talk about freedom and the will to do what you want and when you want it, single life is bae unlike when you're married that you must do certain things whether convenient or not.

Now one aspect marriage life can freak you out is home front where you have to manage and keep it and also have to combine it with your job.
I do visit some of my married friends and sometimes don't admire them cos we may get back from work same thread time, and right from the road while I'm relaxed and not hurrying to anything, she's rushing to pick the kids from school, stopping at the market to buy a few stuffs to make evening meals. She get home, attend to the kids then races to the kitchen to prepare meals by what time I would have rested and prolly taken something light for the day. And I begin to wonder, is this what I'm going to be someday? Mannn its not enjoyable at all.

That is just one aspect of it. Talking about emotional aspect where you have to deal with spouses short comings and all that. Its a whole lot.
Families and others.
Marriage is over hyped especially in Nigeria where you believed to lose yourself just so you can be seen as submissive.

Let me still enjoy my single life while it last biko.

dasparrow:
It depends on the individual. Some people do better in a partnership such as marriage while others do better going life solo. An elderly gentleman once told me that there are pros and cons being married and there are pros and cons of being single. So figure out what you think is best for you.

Jh0wsef:
single life can sweet ehn, shayo and faaji as you like till mama calls.
But at the end of it all, you need a companion who you'll tell your deepest secrets to freely, your gist partner, your soulmate, the mother / father of your kids, the one you'll share responsibilities with, someone who understands the pain behind the smile, the tears that hasn't dropped, the one who'll s*x you to sleep when you're stressed at night, the one who'll kiss your forehead everytime the sun rises.

I can now finally say that, MARRIED LIFE IS THE BEST(WITH THE RIGHT PARTNER)

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JohnieWalker12:
He who finds a wife, finds a good thing and obtains Favour from the Lord

StUriah:


Not in Nigeria.

If you find a good, faithful and reliable wife you should thank your star.

Ryan03:
the wrong woman? What about the wrong man? Always try to balance your posts

SpecialAdviser:


You are wrong my dear. It all depend on who they marry. Part of a man's work is to protect his wife. Not just on security but every aspect of life.
I admit some men can be horrible but most are good in protecting their wives. A man who sees the wife return from work, buy food for cooking and also go to kitchen after a whole day work is not protecting his wife enough. This is because the wife can collapse doing excessive works. Way out of it is to get a helper. Most Igbos pick their relatives who could be helping their wives. The only issue is that women sometimes can have horrible attitude towards the helper and ruin everything.

As for me, I can't stand seeing my wife undergoing enormous stress. Not just me alone. Many men

dunsin125:
Well, marry someone who thinks alike. There are guys who are just interested in the children part alone and not a fan of companionship.

vivalavida:
Single life is bae ooo

But having babe over the weekend for one month consecutively has shown me the other side of life. Sometimes u come home and an empty house is quite discouraging. No one to talk to. All chores are done by me. Sometimes I run back to the family house on weekends. But having my babe over has been exhilarating. Someone to gist with, laugh with. Someone who helps you out in the kitchen. My fridge is stocked up with food prepared by her. The nights are more pleasurable. The cuddling and everything is on point.
It's actually making me think of marriage right now sef.
Lol

@czarchris, come and state your own opinion

Qaw361:
Marriage life is enjoyable

gbami:
Single Life Is Freedom....I just have 2 reasons why I want to get married....
I work in a hospital...
A man was very ill... The only person that stayed with him from morning till night everyday was his wife...Other family members came and went and stopped coming...The wife was there...
I knew it was only love nothing else...
Secondly...For children...I want to have my children raised in a happy home of both parents..
Any other reasons are bullshit

Gerrard59:


The bold is very important because the vast majority of well groomed children come from a two parent-household compared to single parent.

yrex01:
I’m not single nor married so I no get idea

Wayne4uall:



We are facing the same thing.. Staying alone in a two bed room apartment.. Most times I get drunk before going home so that I can sleep as soon I get back home... Been single can be so boring at times..

CzarChris:
Guy leave matter, the single life is the best of the best, as an introvert, coming home alone is sweeter than anything ever. I cook myself, infact I prefer meals cooked by me, but truth be told the chores can be discouraging.
But I love my solitude, but the freedom that comes with being single is bliss, I can go home at anytime without fear of being reprimanded by anybody. Guy I love my freedom o, even when girl come sef, most times she most go her house that day o.

BUSHHUNTER:
Single life is the best if not for kids wu marriage help?

Lovelyn451:
unfortunately I've been getting my opposite, people that want to show me off not knowing that I'm so so boring..lol

Lovelyn451:
the children part of marriage is the only thing I don't want to miss. But u see the companion part, spouse, mate, hanging around husband like handbag, sex, these things doesn't trip me because I like my privacy like mad and I'm a chronic introvert