pls nairalanders no abuse only advice. my girlfriend wants to know how much I earn monthly and wants me to tell her everything about the expenses I make. is it normal? any other person experienced this how did you handle it? pls I need candid Advice

There lies here priority in the relationship, your salary.
Money is one of the characteristics of a Nigerian girlfriend.

You're in the best position to answer that question. You know her better. Is she extravagant? Materialistic? Her behaviour would help you know the kind of person she is.
If she has none of these traits, then she might just be concerned.
I used to fret about my boyfriends earning and how he spends the little he has. I cared alot for him...

Give her the wrong figures to see her reactions
She wants you to always set aside some cash for her personal uses too
Be wise bro

tell her if u think she worth it

Don’t you ever make that mistake, she wants to know how much she can squeeze out of you every month without you complaining. Be wise

Remove emotions from your relationships from time to time and you'll see clearly the intentions of your partner.

As per finances, would she be comfortable with letting you see her own bank statement?

I smell a rat