Why is it so hard to forget the person you love, when he won't even speak to you now?

Because you still love him.

xgel:

Why is it so hard to forget the person you love, when he won't even speak to you now?

Yeah baby,that's natural.But try to move on.l know u can make it without him

Like Carolece said, because you still have deep feelings for him. This person once meant alot to you, so when they are no longer in your life, it feels like a "lost". So in order for you to get over that person, allow yourself time to "grieve". You may never forget this person, but with time your feelings will fade away and you will be able to move on and love someone else. I'd never forget about my ex. But far as me dwelling on him, having any feelings for him, or wanting to be with him again, those days are completely and gratefully over with! If you are experiencing difficulties getting over this person, you can pray and ask God to help you and release them out of your spirit. Each day seems like an eternity but it'll get better and better for you. Since you said this person don't won't no form of communication with you (which is good) then that'll make it a tad bit easier for you to move on with your life. Because that is what they are doing. They are making/made you apart of their past. So you should do the same.

Bcoz u choose to. Is a decision.

livedit:

Like Carolece said, because you still have deep feelings for him. This person once meant alot to you, so when they are no longer in your life, it feels like a "lost". So in order for you to get over that person, allow yourself time to "grieve". You may never forget this person, but with time your feelings will fade away and you will be able to move on and love someone else. I'd never forget about my ex. But far as me dwelling on him, having any feelings for him, or wanting to be with him again, those days are completely and gratefully over with! If you are experiencing difficulties getting over this person, you can pray and ask God to help you and release them out of your spirit. Each day seems like an eternity but it'll get better and better for you. Since you said this person don't won't no form of communication with you (which is good) then that'll make it a tad bit easier for you to move on with your life. Because that is what they are doing. They are making/made you apart of their past. So you should do the same.

This a matured!! where have been since?

I also agree with livedit, but I also want to add that you should take the time to rediscover things that you liked to do. Keep yourself busy with friends, read new books, take up different hobbies, and keep up with the rest of your usual activities. In my experience, it has only been an idle mind that has time to worry about an old relationship.

190:

This only happens when u have had sex with him/her

esp without a condom~

Some nairaland people and their generalizations, chai!

190:

^^excuse madam, if you have ever had sex without a condom

You are likely to fall prey to what this poster is complaining about!!

But the problem is she said that they were not doing anything to suggest they were more than friends. Wouldn't sex fall into that category? You are saying that that is the only way that she could be in that situation, when that is not true. That is all that I'm saying.

Hahaha, my serious bad!!!

I was thinking about another thread

But your statement is still not true. You can most definitely not have sex with someone and still love them and miss them a lot! And besides, maybe she just needs closure? Maybe they just recently stopped talking as well?

@ topic.You are not doing yourself any favours,clearly the other person has moved on . it is up to you to handle the rejection in mature way otherwise its going to affect your confidence ,self esteem and spoil the quality  of your life as you spend time obsessing about another person.Every human animal deals with rejection at some point in their life but you need to take time to reflect and think positively.Pamper yourself,get a new hair cut,vamp your wardrobe,join the gym and hey presto ,your mojo would be back and you will soon be getting lots of attention from ardent males or females depending on your sexuality