Arrogantbro:
I'll be very explicit.
Before I traveled out of the country, my girlfriend and I had been in good terms. The love spirit flows but suddenly she started acting weird since I traveled out of the country.

She goes offline for days without trying to put a call across or even picking my calls.

Last night, we spoke normal on WhatsApp and I requested a picture of her but she declined and gave flimsy excuses. I was already upset then she texted "I love you" then deleted it almost immediately. I asked her why she did that, her response was that I don't need it.

I am so fed up. Should I call it a quit? I need your candid advice on this

People around her have filled her head with stories about Yankee bfs stories and her subconscious is playing out in real time....u need to reassure her of your loyalty, commitment and more.... probably she's met someone she can physically relate with

The usual case is the guy getting there and forgetting the girlfriend. Everybody here is quick to say she's dating another, dump her! Even when they hardly know the both of you. I don't support your girl one bit. Even if something is bothering you, the first person you tell is your soul mate. Before you leave her, talk to her mum so no one will hand you any blame later on. Communication is key, what is the meaning of "Nothing"

proclinician:


U say what Of what use is a girlfriend? The one that can't afford internet data?

How you know say she no get money for data?

Arrogantbro:
I'll be very explicit.
Before I traveled out of the country, my girlfriend and I had been in good terms. The love spirit flows but suddenly she started acting weird since I traveled out of the country.

She goes offline for days without trying to put a call across or even picking my calls.

Last night, we spoke normal on WhatsApp and I requested a picture of her but she declined and gave flimsy excuses. I was already upset then she texted "I love you" then deleted it almost immediately. I asked her why she did that, her response was that I don't need it.

I am so fed up. Should I call it a quit? I need your candid advice on this

Bro, that message wasn't meant for you.

2dice01:
Data and airtime is free abi

So you want your bf to do all want you can't ask your father to do for you

Yet you scream Gender equality abi

Lol I should work hard so I can spend money on someone like the Op girlfriend..If u were Op's mother am sure u will tell him to continue spending maybe the money he is sending is too small abi

Rubbish and Buhari

My dad is late you son of a gun. Make e pain u there

SweetCunt97:
How you know say she no get money for data?

U just said if ur boyfriend no buy u data u won't say hi to him.

placeofallure:
The usual case is the guy getting there and forgetting the girlfriend. Everybody here is quick to say she's dating another, dump her! Even when they hardly know the both of you. I don't support your girl one bit. Even if something is bothering you, the first person you tell is your soul mate. Before you leave her, talk to her mum so no one will hand you any blame later on. Communication is key, what is the meaning of "Nothing"

the signs are there
she is ignoring op
she is refusing his calls
every smart guy knows the wisest thing to do if u have to travel out is codedly break up with ur girlfriend or dont involve in a serious relationship cos if u dont ur so called gf will start jumping from one bed to another in the name of lonliness
even most naija men who are married are uneasy in going abroad to hustle and most do it as a last necesity

CAPSLOCKED:


DEFINITELY MAN ISSUES.
WE ALREADY KNOWS WHAT'S GOING ON BOARD. IT DEPENDS ON THIS GUY TO EITHER PACK AND GO, OR SIT-AT-HOME AND ENDURE.

okay

proclinician:


U just said if ur boyfriend no buy u data u won't say hi to him.

lolzzzz... Nice try. It's obvious schools don't teach Comprehensive English anymore... Olodo

SweetCunt97:
lolzzzz... Nice try. It's obvious schools don't teach Comprehensive English anymore... Olodo

Boyfriend said his babe doesn't say hello anymore. U said it could be because he didn't buy her data.


In ur words.

Since you traveled have you bothered to buy her airtime or data? Don't you know those things are expensive here?

proclinician:


Boyfriend said his babe doesn't say hello anymore. U said it could be because he didn't buy her data.

u urself if a girl tells u dat saying hello to u will be conditional of u sending data to her will u keep such a girl ?

lefulefu:
u urself if a girl tells u dat saying hello to u will be conditional of u sending data to her will u keep such a girl ?

No I won't. I want to ask her if she will allow her bro to date a girl like her.

proclinician:


No I won't. I want to ask her if she will allow her bro to date a girl like her.

wich sister will allow such

proclinician:


Boyfriend said his babe doesn't say hello anymore. U said it could be because he didn't buy her data.


In ur words.

Since you traveled have you bothered to buy her airtime or data? Don't you know those things are expensive here?

2/10 Comprehension English.

Some other guy has filled the emotional gap your absence created in her.
Do you wish to marry her? Then, you need to reassure her of your commitment to the relationship. But I must warn that long distance relationship will zap your energy. It's not easy at all and I don't recommend it for anyone.
Call her and discuss your future together. Her response or disposition will tell you to continue or to quit.
Her attitude towards you presently is normal for a young lady. It may not be intentional because ladies hardly withstand emotional voids when their guy travel abroad. They don't waist time to replace you with the nearest bestie available.

SweetCunt97:
2/10 Comprehension English.

Things are expensive in Nigeria and unaffordable includes airtime and data in ur own words. Hmmm efe enyero

placeofallure:
The usual case is the guy getting there and forgetting the girlfriend. Everybody here is quick to say she's dating another, dump her! Even when they hardly know the both of you. I don't support your girl one bit. Even if something is bothering you, the first person you tell is your soul mate. Before you leave her, talk to her mum so no one will hand you any blame later on. Communication is key, what is the meaning of "Nothing"

We built a strong bond together before I left but now I am baffled with her unusual altitude. I tried explaining things to her younger sis, but she told me i should over look her sister's flaws

Arrogantbro:
The most annoying thing is that she knows how well I love her and she still keeps frustrating my life. Whoever loves you would make an effort. I don't think the affection is there anymore

These girls take you for granted when you open up too much about how you love them bla blabla and give themuch of your time. Remind her through your actions that she doesnt own you, remind her you only want her out of many and that shes not indispensable.

SweetCunt97:
Have you asked her what the problem is? She may b dealing with issues you don't know about

Can you please just shut the Bleep up

You aren't saying anything intelligent

Arrogantbro:
We built a strong bond together before I left but now I am baffled with her unusual altitude. I tried explaining things to her younger sis, but she told me i should over look her sister's flaws

u built the strongbond in ur mind.she didnt share the bond with u.i am very sure she has a sideguy she is frolicking with right now

Victornezzar:

Can you please just shut the Bleep up

You aren't saying anything intelligent

lefulefu:

Boss wadup na

How's Dominican republic

Arrogantbro:
We built a strong bond together before I left but now I am baffled with her unusual altitude. I tried explaining things to her younger sis, but she told me i should over look her sister's flaws

Good! I didn't mention the sister before cos I was wondering how old she is. If your conscience justifies you that you have tried your best, then moving on will not be a crime. Good luck to you.

Victornezzar:

Boss wadup na

How's Dominican republic

warm and sunny right here with lots of passion fruits and coconut and of course beautiful women

lefulefu:
warm and sunny right here with lots of passion fruits and coconut and of course beautiful women

Your ukwulucious women that year

proclinician:


Things are expensive in Nigeria and unaffordable includes airtime and data in ur own words. Hmmm efe enyero

Baba we know how people ask for airtime and data everyday here, even men do so too! Why acting like you don't know communicating with those abroad is quite expensive? I simply stated reality but seems you too daft to get my drift. I won't bother replying any mention from you again.

All these guys, small change their shoulder pads get puffed up like peacock and say thrash like say dem no lick yansh when dem no get shishi

Victornezzar:

Can you please just shut the Bleep up

You aren't saying anything intelligent

Victor kindly swerve I no get your time today

SweetCunt97:
Baba we know how people ask for airtime and data everyday here, even men do so too! Why acting like you don't know communicating with those abroad is quite expensive? I simply stated reality but seems you too daft to get my drift. I won't bother replying any mention from you again.

All these guys, small change their shoulder pads get puffed up like peacock and say thrash like say dem no lick yansh when dem no get shishi

Lol but u said if ur BOYFRIEND abroad (u don't know if he's running from the police or sleeping outside no send airtime) u can't afford to say hello to him. I feel for some of my fellow young men sha.

Victornezzar:

Your ukwulucious women that year

brotherly here is ukwu paradise ..especially some of the brazilian and mulato girls here dem carrry back and they smell like fresh roses

lefulefu:
brotherly here is ukwu paradise ..especially some of the brazilian and mulato girls here dem carrry back and they smell like fresh roses

They no get wahala ahbi

Lefu take am easy ooo

Those masturbating on my comment should go drink chilled zobo... No be me cause am

SweetCunt97:
Victor kindly swerve I no get your time today