Lol,one babe opened a thread&says she loves a guy but can't put up with him in a one room apartment. first,if d guy was staying in a 2-bedroom flat won't you guys still end up inside a room or would you ask for your own special room? food for thought.

I don't understand, is she marrying the room? Can't they start up with a room and expand when childbirth becomes?

So you and her with all your load will pack like sardin inside one room?
At least if its 2, while both of you occupy one, all your baggage and eru town council will be in the other room.
Haba!

favoryte33:
Lol,one babe opened a thread&says she loves a guy but can't put up with him in a one room apartment. first,if d guy was staying in a 2-bedroom flat won't you guys still end up inside a room or would you ask for your own special room? food for thought.

.....that Lady don't love that guy
Is quite obvious....
She's still seeking validation

Phenomenal16:
.....that Lady don't love that guy
Is quite obvious....
She's still seeking validation

Thanx a bunches.

Na so them they miss there luck
4years ago na so one baby say she no dey do because I dey one room..... the girl in question dey leave with her sister way don marry in mini flat.....na parlour she dey sleep........high


But today I thank God
I don marry and move to better apartment

Jewessgratitudd:
So you and her with all your load will pack like sardin inside one room?
At least if its 2, while both of you occupy one, all your baggage and eru town council will be in the other room.
Haba!

they are not married na.


I know a single room is not enough for a single guy but some of this girls are in still in their parents house. some can't afford to rent a room

Lostz:
they are not married na.


I know a single room is not enough for a single guy but some of this girls are in still in their parents house. some can't afford to rent a room

Oh... So he'll wait until hes married before renting a room and palor selfcon at least? Hes obviously not ready for something serious then. The girl should move on.

Phenomenal16:
.....that Lady don't love that guy
Is quite obvious....
She's still seeking validation

my brother women are social animal. They survive on validation.

I will never support my sister to consider marrying such guy. And I also will not consider getting married in that type of situation.
She can be in a relationship with him for as long as she wants but I will not endorse that marriage.

No be poverty mentality de de take know wife material.

I love you is only for relationships

Marriage is the real deal.

24kmagic:
I will never support my sister to consider marrying such guy. And I also will not consider getting married in that type of situation.

I love you is only for relationships

Marriage is the real deal.

my brother shut up you aint making sense.

Jewessgratitudd:


Oh... So he'll wait until hes married before renting a room and palor selfcon at least? Hes obviously not ready for something serious then. The girl should move on.

if he can't afford it the girl should either help him or shut up.


you will advice a struggling young man to spend all his money on rent just to impress a lady?

it is clear the man was comfortable there before she came in with unnecessary pressure

Lostz:
if he can't afford it the girl should either help him or shut up.


you will advice a struggling young man to spend all his money on rent just to impress a lady?

it is clear the man was comfortable there before she came in with unnecessary pressure

That's no way to encourage someone. So because he's comfortable he should die in face me I face you one room? Haba!

Ehnnn let her leave him since she's not comfortable in that kind of place.

If she can't help, then let her leave. She shouldn't put unnecessary pressure on him. he will rent better apartment when he get money. I believe you won't have millions in your account and live in one room,

Jewessgratitudd:


That's no way to encourage someone. So because he's comfortable he should die in face me I face you one room? Haba!

Ehnnn let her leave him since she's not comfortable in that kind of place.

he is not going to die there. he will probably move out when he is doing better financially.

you don't encourage someone by putting him under unnecessary pressure.

support him financially, wait patiently or leave.

moving into a big house is not the end of life

Phenomenal16:
.....that Lady don't love that guy
Is quite obvious....
She's still seeking validation

I totally disagree wit u. I read her story and I also read the comment section and all I could say is that the Lady has every right to get worried. The guy needs to upgrade. the lady's fear is not about today but how tomorrow will look like

Jewessgratitudd:


Oh... So he'll wait until hes married before renting a room and palor selfcon at least? Hes obviously not ready for something serious then. The girl should move on.

He said he is planning on moving to a bigger house by May, her problem is she isn't patient. She doesn't even cook for him in the one room cause she said she can't cook on a passage, except kitchen.

Lostz:
he is not going to die there. he will probably move out when he is doing better financially.

you don't encourage someone by putting him under unnecessary pressure.

support him financially, wait patiently or leave.

moving into a big house is not the end of life

The said lady CAN'T SUPPORT Him, cause she said she doesn't cook cause she can't cook in a single room and whenever she is around, they go out to eat.
Plus he takes care of her.

So how will he move out of the single room when they continue to eat out?

Sunshyne200:


The said lady CAN'T SUPPORT Him, cause she said she doesn't cook cause she can't cook in a single room and whenever she is around, they go out to eat.
Plus he takes care of her.

So how will he move out of the single room when they continue to eat out?

the earlier he breakup with her, the better his life will be.

why can't she cook from her house then bring it to the guy house? that will at least show that she is useful to the guy.

the foolish boy should better break up and look for a girl that will be comfortable in his house

gunners160:

I totally disagree wit u. I read her story and I also read the comment section and all I could say is that the Lady has every right to get worried. The guy needs to upgrade. the lady's fear is not about today but how tomorrow will look like

if it is about tomorrow, why not encourage him to save? instead of helping him to squander the little one he has

Are you guys really serious? Do you expect her to be comfortable with the fact that her man is living in a face me whatever? She wants the best for him not just for her benefit that's why she is complaining, at least if they should break up tomorrow, he wouldn't forget her easily if the only impact she has in his life is to instill the need and desire to upgrade from his situation, I wouldn't be happy if I have a friend living in a place like that.

Lostz:


if it is about tomorrow, why not encourage him to save? instead of helping him to squander the little one he has

I will say u have a good point here but the guy is matured enough to knw his left from his right. Yes, she should have encouraged him but at thesame time " sense suppose dey him head na, no be prick dem dey use reason"
The lady tried her best by making suggestions to support him but at thesame time change cannot occur if d person is not yet ready for one.
Who wants to suffer in marriage? prick wey no get money no suppose to dey stand up .

Ladies and deir wahala

Biglittlelois:
Are you guys really serious? Do you expect her to be comfortable with the fact that her man is living in a face me whatever? She wants the best for him not just for her benefit that's why she is complaining, at least if they should break up tomorrow, he wouldn't forget her easily if the only impact she has in his life is to instill the need and desire to ungrade from his situation, I wouldn't be happy if I have a friend living in a place like that.

gbam. the thing tirer me too ooo..

gunners160:

I will say u have a good point here but the guy is matured enough to knw his left from his right. Yes, she should have encouraged him but at thesame time " sense suppose dey him head na, no be prick dem dey use reason"
The lady tried her best by making suggestions to support him but at thesame time change cannot occur if d person is not yet ready for one.
Who wants to suffer in marriage? prick wey no get money no suppose to dey stand up .

the world is no longer how it use to be... when a man's money was enough.

if you don't want to suffer in marriage work hard. or you think rich guys are after lazy girls who only put unnecessary pressure on guys?

a man's money alone can no longer care for every bill.... especially a struggling young man.

we can't work to death just to take care of a woman.
the foolish man should break up with her. she may end up running away after leading him to debts and
eternal poverty

Sunshyne200:


He said he is planning on moving to a bigger house by May, her problem is she isn't patient. She doesn't even cook for him in the one room cause she said she can't cook on a passage, except kitchen.

With less than 30k? Well I drew my conclusions from what she said that she asked the guy how much he had so she could augment it and the guy said he doesn't have up to 30k. So how do you think getting a new apartment is feasible between now and may? Hes only tying her down with lies.

Lostz:


the world is no longer how it use to be... when a man's money was enough.

if you don't want to suffer in marriage work hard. or you think rich guys are after lazy girls who only put unnecessary pressure on guys?

a man's money alone can no longer care for every bill.... especially a struggling young man.

we can't work to death just to take care of a woman.
the foolish man should break up with her. she may end up running away after leading him to debts and
eternal poverty

whoa!! nice points but at thesame time , just as a man is running away from a lazy man so is a woman running away from a broke ass guy.
if this same bae decides to break up and go for some one else, we will call her a gold digger but dnt forget ,marriage is all about responsibility. Yes, for now , the girl is not the guy's responsibility but what about tomorrow if they decides to tie the knot
Definitely, the both of them will be having sex and their is a high probability of her getting pregnant, and you think that kind of environment is the best for the child? if I may ask, how can a guy can't be able to boast of 30k in his account and yet he wants a bae? abeg he should improve on himself jor

gunners160:

whoa!! nice points but at thesame time , just as a man is running away from a lazy man so is a woman running away from a broke ass guy.
if this same bae decides to break up and go for some one else, we will call her a gold digger but dnt forget ,marriage is all about responsibility. Yes, for now , the girl is not the guy's responsibility but what about tomorrow if they decides to tie the knot
Definitely, the both of them will be having sex and their is a high probability of her getting pregnant, and you think that kind of environment is the best for the child? if I may ask, how can a guy can't be able to boast of 30k in his account and yet he wants a bae? abeg he should improve on himself jor

you have a point. both should work harder and maybe make some sacrifice.

the guy will have more than 30k in his account if he save all the money they use in eating out.

Everybody n their choice partiner n criteria!! Stop shaming people for stating what they want . She can consider if she really likes the guy but if she’s not happy she should leave n wait for a better guy .

Lostz:


the world is no longer how it use to be... when a man's money was enough.

if you don't want to suffer in marriage work hard. or you think rich guys are after lazy girls who only put unnecessary pressure on guys?

a man's money alone can no longer care for every bill.... especially a struggling young man.

we can't work to death just to take care of a woman.
the foolish man should break up with her. she may end up running away after leading him to debts and
eternal poverty

like seriously, if u think u are unable to take care of necessary bills of ur family,, n hv the ideology u will also depend on ur wife’s money to run ur home adequately!! Then u are less of a man !!

If u are not ready for responsibilities please stay single . Imagine the woman that will date this one ?