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Re: My Girlfriend Who Says She Doesn't Like Sex Is A Porn Addict by safarigirl(f): 2:59am On Apr 02, 2020
nashito:


Thanks for your advice. But I kinda don't like porn, they tend to make sex all perfect cos it is filmed and even sometimes the huge dicks we see there are just a mirage, if a woman gets addicted to it, and you don't make it happen exactly how it happens via porn videos, she might start seeing you as a lesser man.


Lol...is this what you think?

What will you then say, if your girlfriend is addicted to romance novels, where everything Is perfect, from the man's looks to his career and his bank account? Scratch that, you probably wouldn't be dating her, because women who are obsessed with romance novels rarely find such perfection in men.

Porn doesn't make sex look perfect, it makes it look rough and dirty, perfect sex only lies in the pages of romance novels, not on some 10-minute clips of women shouting "Spank me daddy" while one ogre-looking fellow with an abnormal-sized dick ruptures their cervix.

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Re: My Girlfriend Who Says She Doesn't Like Sex Is A Porn Addict by safarigirl(f): 3:01am On Apr 02, 2020
BadBradley:
girls who watch porn are open to casual sex and are less commited to a relationship.

They also feel and think the grass is greener outside. No matter what anyone will tell you here ,this is a serious incident and should be reviewed if you value your relationship.

And how many girls did you ask to come to thos conclusion?

The Way you guys spread lies as facts on this site is amazing

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Re: My Girlfriend Who Says She Doesn't Like Sex Is A Porn Addict by DedeNkem: 3:09am On Apr 02, 2020
nashito:
I Just Found That My Gf Who Always Says She Doesn't Like Sex Is Porn Addict

Needless to write long articles, I met this girl recently, who I met online and prior to that, she has always portrayed to be a good lady and I must confess I somehow see her as someone I might marry soon.

But to my greatest surprise, this afternoon, I wanted to check something with her phone (Google Chrome) and I saw over 3 opened porn pages, infact, her first bookmarked page is a porn site, guys what do you think about this?

I've never seen this part of her and during sex I kinda don't want to hit hard cos I have this mentality that she's gonna be my wife soon & to be frank, I'm not much into sex and I don't want to marry someone that's a sex addict.

Should I be worried about this? Please I need matured and rational advise guys. Thanks a lot

If watching porn means sex addiction to you, then you have a lot to learn by improving your mentality first.

There's absolutely nothing wrong in watching porn as long as it isn't detrimental to your sex life! In fact, porn helps to improve sex in a relationship!

She may not want to marry a man who's f*ucking boring in bed. Sexual compatibility is vital in a relationship. If you can't handle her, cut her loose now and go look for your type!

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Re: My Girlfriend Who Says She Doesn't Like Sex Is A Porn Addict by EgunMogaji2: 3:23am On Apr 02, 2020
nashito:
I Just Found That My Gf Who Always Says She Doesn't Like Sex Is Porn Addict

Needless to write long articles, I met this girl recently, who I met online and prior to that, she has always portrayed to be a good lady and I must confess I somehow see her as someone I might marry soon.

But to my greatest surprise, this afternoon, I wanted to check something with her phone (Google Chrome) and I saw over 3 opened porn pages, infact, her first bookmarked page is a porn site, guys what do you think about this?

I've never seen this part of her and during sex I kinda don't want to hit hard cos I have this mentality that she's gonna be my wife soon & to be frank, I'm not much into sex and I don't want to marry someone that's a sex addict.

Should I be worried about this? Please I need matured and rational advise guys. Thanks a lot

It’s easy, she doesn’t like to have sex with you.

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Re: My Girlfriend Who Says She Doesn't Like Sex Is A Porn Addict by Nollynwa1(m): 3:27am On Apr 02, 2020
Most ladies are porn addicts... get the Info bro
Re: My Girlfriend Who Says She Doesn't Like Sex Is A Porn Addict by xbit: 3:47am On Apr 02, 2020
Guy my adviz is simple, Run wen the day is still bright. If u marry with sympathy, Had I Know go b ur Slogan. Adviz no b cuz. Marriage na another world of it's own
Re: My Girlfriend Who Says She Doesn't Like Sex Is A Porn Addict by Nobody: 3:54am On Apr 02, 2020
nashito:
I Just Found That My Gf Who Always Says She Doesn't Like Sex Is Porn Addict

Needless to write long articles, I met this girl recently, who I met online and prior to that, she has always portrayed to be a good lady and I must confess I somehow see her as someone I might marry soon.

But to my greatest surprise, this afternoon, I wanted to check something with her phone (Google Chrome) and I saw over 3 opened porn pages, infact, her first bookmarked page is a porn site, guys what do you think about this?

I've never seen this part of her and during sex I kinda don't want to hit hard cos I have this mentality that she's gonna be my wife soon & to be frank, I'm not much into sex and I don't want to marry someone that's a sex addict.

Should I be worried about this? Please I need matured and rational advise guys. Thanks a lot

Guy your own advice matters most, what if I tell you to send her away and you still in love with her, then my advice is meaningless to you, so do what your heart tells you
Re: My Girlfriend Who Says She Doesn't Like Sex Is A Porn Addict by justgabby(m): 4:09am On Apr 02, 2020
Guy, has it ever occured to you that she feel pressured to satisfy you sexually? And she is "coaching" , to up it for you? Be gentle with her cos that may be it.
Re: My Girlfriend Who Says She Doesn't Like Sex Is A Porn Addict by 9jaRealist: 4:17am On Apr 02, 2020
nashito:
I Just Found That My Gf Who Always Says She Doesn't Like Sex Is Porn Addict

Needless to write long articles, I met this girl recently, who I met online and prior to that, she has always portrayed to be a good lady and I must confess I somehow see her as someone I might marry soon.

But to my greatest surprise, this afternoon, I wanted to check something with her phone (Google Chrome) and I saw over 3 opened porn pages, infact, her first bookmarked page is a porn site, guys what do you think about this?

I've never seen this part of her and during sex I kinda don't want to hit hard cos I have this mentality that she's gonna be my wife soon & to be frank, I'm not much into sex and I don't want to marry someone that's a sex addict.

Should I be worried about this? Please I need matured and rational advise guys. Thanks a lot

]You seem to be the one with the bigger problem...smh undecided
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Re: My Girlfriend Who Says She Doesn't Like Sex Is A Porn Addict by franugo(m): 4:47am On Apr 02, 2020
Beckysexy:
Hmmmm so?
You should watch it with her, it's nice tho cause I sometimes watch it with my boyfriend.
But too much is bad.
If you don't like it tell her

My kind of girl. . . . most ladies are so annoying when it comes to porn...too conservative and religious
Re: My Girlfriend Who Says She Doesn't Like Sex Is A Porn Addict by franugo(m): 4:52am On Apr 02, 2020
Joystark:
Ion see how liking sex makes someone less of a wife material.
It only means you'll get some everytime.

Na only una knw wetyn una want sha

No mind d guy...probably all these extra religious kinds
Re: My Girlfriend Who Says She Doesn't Like Sex Is A Porn Addict by Eddygre8(m): 5:19am On Apr 02, 2020
Talk to her and find out what she really wants
Re: My Girlfriend Who Says She Doesn't Like Sex Is A Porn Addict by jimakeabi: 5:21am On Apr 02, 2020
Bro, do that tin well with her, before she runaway.

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Re: My Girlfriend Who Says She Doesn't Like Sex Is A Porn Addict by ityP(m): 5:26am On Apr 02, 2020
Porn takes a sacred, intimate union and makes it a spectator sport. Before getting married, porn is something I must let go off. My wife too must let go of it. If not, I ain't walking into that marriage. Introducing porn into my marriage obscures what sex should mean for us. Porn in marriage is like virtual adultery; like a foursome or something. The world is damaged tbh; if not, I don't know how comfortable it is for a married couple to sit together and watch porn. Y'all have screwed sex tbvh
Re: My Girlfriend Who Says She Doesn't Like Sex Is A Porn Addict by ityP(m): 5:34am On Apr 02, 2020
pcguru1:


Nah if she is good that's all that matters, my babe caught me with porn and forgave me (To me don't see the big deal but i guess it's morally wrong ), i mean it's healthy to like sex as long as it's not a warped view on sex.


Plot twist: porn creates a warped view of sex. Here in lies the problem
Re: My Girlfriend Who Says She Doesn't Like Sex Is A Porn Addict by saajus: 5:37am On Apr 02, 2020
I have seen good guys and nice ladies getting hooked on Porn. Even strong Christians. You need to read Kirk Franklin testimony about porn. A lot of Introverts have a porn addiction problem, I don't know if your girlfriend is one. As some brilliant nairalanders have suggested, secretly confirm from those web pages the kind of porn she's watching. This will help you to know where she's coming from. Lesbian - abuse by someone or boarding school habit, wild porn - she's looking for adventure but afraid to say it out, etc. I am not a counsellor but counsellors will tell u more on how the type of porn she's watching relate to her personality/desires.
Your lady comprises of several things and it will be unfair judging her and conclude who she is because of one index. Ask her if she needs help. If she's willing to quit, let her be accountable to you or find her an addiction counsellor if you can afford one. Make sure she's truly willing to quit. Some people have bad habits but not ready to stop.
Many people out there even some that you hold in high esteem are struggling with one thing or the other but thank God for Suits and Agbada covering us all.

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Re: My Girlfriend Who Says She Doesn't Like Sex Is A Porn Addict by Nobody: 5:50am On Apr 02, 2020
nashito:
I Just Found That My Gf Who Always Says She Doesn't Like Sex Is Porn Addict

Needless to write long articles, I met this girl recently, who I met online and prior to that, she has always portrayed to be a good lady and I must confess I somehow see her as someone I might marry soon.

But to my greatest surprise, this afternoon, I wanted to check something with her phone (Google Chrome) and I saw over 3 opened porn pages, infact, her first bookmarked page is a porn site, guys what do you think about this?

I've never seen this part of her and during sex I kinda don't want to hit hard cos I have this mentality that she's gonna be my wife soon & to be frank, I'm not much into sex and I don't want to marry someone that's a sex addict.

Should I be worried about this? Please I need matured and rational advise guys. Thanks a lot


Rubbish!

So opening three pages makes her a porn addict.
And because you re going to do her a HUGE favour of marrying her she should do what?

You guys come here and type all sorts about you thinking a certain girl is a good girl blabla and how you are now disappointed. How good are you? You, yourself

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Re: My Girlfriend Who Says She Doesn't Like Sex Is A Porn Addict by Kaka1234(f): 5:51am On Apr 02, 2020
At least she's not cheating, just talk to her.
Re: My Girlfriend Who Says She Doesn't Like Sex Is A Porn Addict by Baffupdrizz(m): 5:56am On Apr 02, 2020
nashito:


Thanks for your advice. But I kinda don't like porn, they tend to make sex all perfect cos it is filmed and even sometimes the huge dicks we see there are just a mirage, if a woman gets addicted to it, and you don't make it happen exactly how it happens via porn videos, she might start seeing you as a lesser man.

Stop starving that girl in the pretext of giving it to her gently that you wanna wife her. Give her what she needs.
Re: My Girlfriend Who Says She Doesn't Like Sex Is A Porn Addict by Talkingboy: 6:00am On Apr 02, 2020
nashito:
I Just Found That My Gf Who Always Says She Doesn't Like Sex Is Porn Addict

part of her and during sex I kinda don't want to hit hard cos I have this mentality that she's gonna be my wife soon & to be frank, I'm not much into sex and I don't want to marry someone that's a sex addict.

Should I be worried about this? Please I need matured and rational advise guys. Thanks a lot


DON'T FORNICATE !!!
DON'T FORNICATE !!!
DON'T FORNICATE !!!


Enough said!
Re: My Girlfriend Who Says She Doesn't Like Sex Is A Porn Addict by Nobody: 6:01am On Apr 02, 2020
ityP:



Plot twist: porn creates a warped view of sex. Here in lies the problem
True you are right
Re: My Girlfriend Who Says She Doesn't Like Sex Is A Porn Addict by ityP(m): 6:02am On Apr 02, 2020
pcguru1:

True you are right

That's why it isn't something I wanna take into marriage
Re: My Girlfriend Who Says She Doesn't Like Sex Is A Porn Addict by ityP(m): 6:03am On Apr 02, 2020
Kaka1234:
That girl was just like me until I discovered porn was damaging.. I hated sex, I'd watch it only because I was curious, I wanted to know why others enjoyed it. What they did that I wasn't doing that made it enjoyable for them. At least she's not cheating, just talk to her.


Sadly, many people still don't know this

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Re: My Girlfriend Who Says She Doesn't Like Sex Is A Porn Addict by Munzy14(m): 6:31am On Apr 02, 2020
nashito:
I Just Found That My Gf Who Always Says She Doesn't Like Sex Is Porn Addict

Needless to write long articles, I met this girl recently, who I met online and prior to that, she has always portrayed to be a good lady and I must confess I somehow see her as someone I might marry soon.

But to my greatest surprise, this afternoon, I wanted to check something with her phone (Google Chrome) and I saw over 3 opened porn pages, infact, her first bookmarked page is a porn site, guys what do you think about this?

I've never seen this part of her and during sex I kinda don't want to hit hard cos I have this mentality that she's gonna be my wife soon & to be frank, I'm not much into sex and I don't want to marry someone that's a sex addict.

Should I be worried about this? Please I need matured and rational advise guys. Thanks a lot
she likes sex which is good for u. Try and talk to her, dicuss ur sexlife at length be nice about it. And be realistic since u wish to take it to next level.

women believe in what the do, than what they say. She said she doesnt like sex, but watches porn cheesy hope u got the message.
Re: My Girlfriend Who Says She Doesn't Like Sex Is A Porn Addict by Joystark(f): 6:35am On Apr 02, 2020
foleskay:

Seems you also enjoy watching it.

Funny how ugly people always have the most confidence.
Re: My Girlfriend Who Says She Doesn't Like Sex Is A Porn Addict by Teymanhenry(f): 6:39am On Apr 02, 2020
well, I believe watching porn will make her fantasize about sex. And if your girlfriend likes sex, you have to give it to her very well. of course unless it becomes too much. Because saying you don't really fancy sex dat much is a problem already. You've got to marry a sexualy compatible partner
Re: My Girlfriend Who Says She Doesn't Like Sex Is A Porn Addict by Facidio: 6:47am On Apr 02, 2020
I have met a lady like that ones, she claims the only 2 times in her life she's had sex is rape so she wouldn't let me touch her, each time I try penetrating her after smootching, I will see goose pimples all over her body and she Wil be vibrating like a diesel engine. After 2 attempts I stopped. But before then there's day I wanted taking her to the cinema, told her to check the movies playing, wen she opened her browser boom.... It was porn site she was watching that just popped up. After a while we went our separate ways, though.... A girl can't just be eating my money and food, arousing me and I can't bleep her.

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Re: My Girlfriend Who Says She Doesn't Like Sex Is A Porn Addict by Nobody: 6:47am On Apr 02, 2020
She resides in calabar grin sure of that?
Re: My Girlfriend Who Says She Doesn't Like Sex Is A Porn Addict by Tapout(m): 6:53am On Apr 02, 2020
Bluezy13:
Common 3 web pages, you dey lament.

I tire oh... I never knew xvids had an app till I met prisca cheesy the OP should be more concerned with the category she dey view. Cos she might be viewing the opposite of what he is or has ....u know like big this big that grin grin

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