safarigirl:



Lol...is this what you think?

What will you then say, if your girlfriend is addicted to romance novels, where everything Is perfect, from the man's looks to his career and his bank account? Scratch that, you probably wouldn't be dating her, because women who are obsessed with romance novels rarely find such perfection in men.

Porn doesn't make sex look perfect, it makes it look rough and dirty, perfect sex only lies in the pages of romance novels, not on some 10-minute clips of women shouting "Spank me daddy" while one ogre-looking fellow with an abnormal-sized dick ruptures their cervix.

True.
I have never thought of it this way.

Kaka1234:
That girl was just like me until I discovered porn was damaging.. I hated sex, I'd watch it only because I was curious, I wanted to know why others enjoyed it. What they did that I wasn't doing that made it enjoyable for them. At least she's not cheating, just talk to her.

exactly my thought, most women watch porn for experience and for fun but invariably creates lust for bigger dic.ks in them latently. Soon start noticing their guys dick maybe small that's why they ain't enjoying it. Or when they see women cum they feel they are not getting enough, once they see someone who boast to satisfy them they give them a try thats where cheating starts. In her mind it's just an adventure.

nashito:
I Just Found That My Gf Who Always Says She Doesn't Like Sex Is Porn Addict

Needless to write long articles, I met this girl recently, who I met online and prior to that, she has always portrayed to be a good lady and I must confess I somehow see her as someone I might marry soon.

But to my greatest surprise, this afternoon, I wanted to check something with her phone (Google Chrome) and I saw over 3 opened porn pages, infact, her first bookmarked page is a porn site, guys what do you think about this?

I've never seen this part of her and during sex I kinda don't want to hit hard cos I have this mentality that she's gonna be my wife soon & to be frank, I'm not much into sex and I don't want to marry someone that's a sex addict.

Should I be worried about this? Please I need matured and rational advise guys. Thanks a lot

My brother talk with her and watch her openness with you. Every woman likes it hard don't mind their popular saying of I don't like it. Because on a serious note, if she's not ready to Chang, run away.
Never marry a woman that is addicted to sex or porn its not healthy.

iammo:



isn't it obvious you bore her... you don't watch porn... you think "hitting it harder" is the way forward, she doesn't feel all that excited with sex with you yet has porn history

1: you need to delete everything in your head about what you think you know about satisfying a woman
2: you need to be willing to learn without droping your ego
3: talk to her and see what she like or just check her browser history
4: read about points you can satisfy a lady with erogenous zone (clit , nipple , neck bridge, lip kissing etc)
5: understand thrust is more about "constant rhythm" "waste rythim" and not much about killing yourself
6: understand Clitoris is a major major shortcut to get her satisfied
7: more fore play works even lesbians get themselves just with pre-intimacy


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that's what many guys don't know. They just dangle their dicks and assume they have conquered Rome. Like I wrote on one other page. Porn is make belief and not true. Penetration has a low chance of orgasm for a woman if the above actions are not performed. E.g pre-intimacy. It's not about speed, it's about connection and knowing the spots and what tickles her fancy. But some people think that you have to be Usain bolt to run a Marathon race. Na last you go carry oh

meccuno:
that's what many guys don't know. They just dangle their dicks and assume they have conquered Rome. Like I wrote on one other page. Porn is make belief and not true. Penetration has a low chance of orgasm for a woman if the above actions are not performed. E.g pre-intimacy. It's not about speed, it's about connection and knowing the spots and what tickles her fancy. But some people think that you have to be Usain bolt to run a Marathon race. Na last you go carry oh

many women have given up on this "hit me harder" guys that want to kill themselves, they just fake everything for him to finish and get off, while they go to the toilet to finish the job properly with their hands and clits

OP,
Do you prefer she cheats?
I know one can be addicted to porn which isn't a good thing but let her know you have seen her browser history and then talk to her.

Already, you said you do not want someone with a high sex drive and if its a deal breaker for you, then meet someone else whose sex drive matches yours since you are already considering marriage, unless that's a ruse.

I suggested you seeing someone else because you do not want to deal with an unsatisfied wife who would resort to other means to satisfy her urges.

I watch porn too it doesn't make me a sex addict just watch how they do that gang ba*g thing and laugh over it......please leave her alone nah porn she watch she no kill person

iammo:


many women have given up on this "hit me harder" guys that want to kill themselves, they just fake everything for him to finish and get off, while they go to the toilet to finish the job properly with their hands and clits

No harm in revealing what you found.
Girls also watch porn too


Yesterday a girl mistakenly sent a porn comic to my department group..... She deleted it but I use GBwhatsapp. Lol

Just talk with her and don't be judgmental.

ityP:


That's why it isn't something I wanna take into marriage

I mean if her character is good that shouldn't stop her from being your wife. Just talk to her

pcguru1:


I mean if her character is good that shouldn't stop her from being your wife. Just talk to her

I sure would talk to her if she's worth it. But she must be willing to let go before we tie the knot. I can't have my wife virtually cheating on me with porn. If I'm watching porn as a married man, I'd feel like I'm cheating on my wife

Just seat her down and talk to her

Op the foreign porn she is watching is over-rated and won’t have any effect in the life of you both.

Tel her to be watching Nigerian porn so she will know the real different

You are nice to your lady and she is a porn addict


Most ladies likes it been done harder to them but pretend as a saint in Italy.

Pornography is a dangerous lifestyle.
It has the potential to destroy Marriage or Relationship.
Pornography destroy our relationship with God.
Pornography also contribute to spiritual spouse.
Having sex in the dream as well.
Pornography leads to lose of focus in life.
Pornography leads to masturbation which destroys destiny.
Call her attention, talk to her in a loving manner.
Let her know that she is destroying herself and your relationship with her.

Think about it she is watching porn and she doesn't like sex?

purplekayc:
Think about it she is watching porn and she doesn't like sex?

It means she masturbates, though its bad but its better than having sex before marriage

Unrated900:
Op the foreign porn she is watching is over-rated and won’t have any effect in the life of you both.

Tel her to be watching Nigerian porn so she will know the real different

You are nice to your lady and she is a porn addict


Most ladies likes it been done harder to them but pretend as a saint in Italy.

This is what I hate about my bf, he thinks every lady is like this, it's so wrong

Naa wetin u find u see
Accept ur destiny

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Bro you don't expect a lady to open up to you she loves sex,I f she does,you will see her as a sex material and not a wife material.Her speech,I am not into sex affected you psychological"I DONT HIT HER HARD DURING SEX BECAUSE I SEE HER AS A WIFE MATERIAL"This is why ladies don't open up,but bro infection might have caused her to be addicted to that,former ex might introduce her to that,Friends too.You can talk her out of it,for her to show intent of watching such,she is sexually alive,everyone has a weakness,that she watches porn does not mean she is a sex addict.Ask her reasons too for doing that?Don't just be judgemental,be helpful.It can still be someone she gave her phone to check something on the internet,the person entered such site.Bro just weigh all the options,Ask her how long she has being watching it,she should be sincere?If it's quite sometime just know that she has being into masturbation,One of the disadvantage of masturbation is that at a certain time,you will have no use of the opposite sex,when you check the stress sex entails,masturbation gives you an option








quote author=nashito post=87956787]I Just Found That My Gf Who Always Says She Doesn't Like Sex Is Porn Addict

Needless to write long articles, I met this girl recently, who I met online and prior to that, she has always portrayed to be a good lady and I must confess I somehow see her as someone I might marry soon.

But to my greatest surprise, this afternoon, I wanted to check something with her phone (Google Chrome) and I saw over 3 opened porn pages, infact, her first bookmarked page is a porn site, guys what do you think about this?

I've never seen this part of her and during sex I kinda don't want to hit hard cos I have this mentality that she's gonna be my wife soon & to be frank, I'm not much into sex and I don't want to marry someone that's a sex addict.

Should I be worried about this? Please I need matured and rational advise guys. Thanks a lot [/quote]

Some ladies prefer masturbation to sex... they av gotten zo used to it that it is d only way they can achieve orgasm.. sex will never have the same feeling on them. Wat u av to do is av a long talk with her.. make her feel confident.. she will open up.. she has fantasies she masturbate Ms to.. she may wanna try them. n that brings u into her sex life.. try to do some of those things n also at d same time try Wat u like to do during see with her too..

OP, how are sure it was you girl friend,what if the site was opened by a younger sibling,who hand prior access to her phone?

Bluezy13:
Common 3 web pages, you dey lament.

Lol this man.

Dem don quarantine you for north shebi?

What's wrong with watching p0rn? I also don't like sex but I watch p0rn once a month or so

cooooooks:
Trying to change her won't do anything.

He should watch with her.

I don't think it's a good idea

Something must be wrong with her or something must have not been gotten right

Masturbation and pornography destroys your life, destiny and future marital bliss

the lord delivered me from this bondage and in this video you will learn how? click this link

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sj4uQTeyMZY

nashito:
I Just Found That My Gf Who Always Says She Doesn't Like Sex Is Porn Addict

Needless to write long articles, I met this girl recently, who I met online and prior to that, she has always portrayed to be a good lady and I must confess I somehow see her as someone I might marry soon.

But to my greatest surprise, this afternoon, I wanted to check something with her phone (Google Chrome) and I saw over 3 opened porn pages, infact, her first bookmarked page is a porn site, guys what do you think about this?

I've never seen this part of her and during sex I kinda don't want to hit hard cos I have this mentality that she's gonna be my wife soon & to be frank, I'm not much into sex and I don't want to marry someone that's a sex addict.

Should I be worried about this? Please I need matured and rational advise guys. Thanks a lot

Reason for her action, better start getting reading for a cheating wife or you man up to your responsibility.

Besides, I still find it hard to believe, e get who no like sex ni

nashito:


Thanks for your advice. But I kinda don't like porn, they tend to make sex all perfect cos it is filmed and even sometimes the huge dicks we see there are just a mirage, if a woman gets addicted to it, and you don't make it happen exactly how it happens via porn videos, she might start seeing you as a lesser man.

God bless your brain. Now is clear you know what you want. To a large extent, I don't see you both as successful couple. One of the major causes of divorce in marriage is bedroom affairs and you guys don't seems to be on the same page from this very beginning. Be wise

ityP:



I sure would talk to her if she's worth it. But she must be willing to let go before we tie the knot. I can't have my wife virtually cheating on me with porn. If I'm watching porn as a married man, I'd feel like I'm cheating on my wife

I see you are a phone enthusiast nice to meet a fellow bro. All the best

zexy2030:

exactly my thought, most women watch porn for experience and for fun but invariably creates lust for bigger dic.ks in them latently. Soon start noticing their guys dick maybe small that's why they ain't enjoying it. Or when they see women cum they feel they are not getting enough, once they see someone who boast to satisfy them they give them a try thats where cheating starts. In her mind it's just an adventure.

Hmm another perspective,anyways it's diff strokes ...wat energises u might drain another.its like phobias.

donbachi:
As human,we are what we watch...na person wey like gospel preaching dey tune to dia stations,na person wey like wrestling dey stay glued to wwe station.

Case closed,No more arguments