Xclusiveme:

You are obviously a young guy

I am not sir

James4bright:


I think the man is 36 and not the lady.

d poster sef no get sense, he post rubbish

Kobicove:
I don't think the age gap is too much.

The most critical point is her maturity...just make sure she has passed the stage where she thinks that the only important thing in life is to go clubbing and use all the money in her account to buy the latest phone in town.

Also make sure she has had some dating experience and has had her share of heartbreak so she will not go into the marriage expecting it to be a bed of roses.

By the way I think you need to tell her your real age so she can make an informed decision.

Good luck!

12yrs is too much oo

FGonline:
12yrs is too much oo

..is not

Xclusiveme:


You are obviously a young guy

I think immature is the right word for that boy. Some are young but mature.

Savvywriteprene:
Age is just number, sometimes.

What you should be sure about before tying the knot is the financial, emotional, spiritual, mental, health, sexual compatibility between the both of you.

If she ticks at least 75% of your boxes, then by all means go ahead and get married.

P.S- Please, I beg you, don't get married on the foundation of lies. Make honesty, straightforwardness your watchword. Tell her the truth about your age, don't make her lose trust in you, it will be difficult to get it back.

You made a lot of sense!

Coming clean on his real age
is key because women are
sensitive to being lied to.

Women even like mature older
men for a variety of positive
reasons.

Abalado:
Straight to the point please,am 36 years old and my fiance is 25 years old, we met some months ago and we are planning to get married by December, actually I told her I was 33years,but jokingly I was telling her that am 36 already, so I don't know what to do about this.is it advisable for us to get married with the age distance please,, only mature minds should comment please, no insult or else I will send Mr Coro to u o... �

Many mature older men in their
late 30s and 40s are getting
married to young women who
are in their 20s around the
world.

You have to let her know your
real age, and let her learn from
your life experiences.


Cheers.

Abalado:
Thank you everyone, sorry for the gender status, I mean on my profile here, sometimes it could be typo error, I be original man, I no be woman,,, na typo error,, thanks for the advice, but the fact still remains that I always love to be like 3 to 4 years older than my wife to be, but in this case, I love the girl and I believe she also love me too, but the age difference is really given me issue,, am 11years older than her

Okay...

Age na just a number

Kobicove:
I don't think the age gap is too much.

The most critical point is her maturity...just make sure she has passed the stage where she thinks that the only important thing in life is to go clubbing and use all the money in her account to buy the latest phone in town.

Also make sure she has had some dating experience and has had her share of heartbreak so she will not go into the marriage expecting it to be a bed of roses.

By the way I think you need to tell her your real age so she can make an informed decision.

Good luck!

Well said!

Age is just a number. 12 years ain't much.

Abalado:
Straight to the point please,am 36 years old and my fiance is 25 years old, we met some months ago and we are planning to get married by December, actually I told her I was 33years,but jokingly I was telling her that am 36 already, so I don't know what to do about this.is it advisable for us to get married with the age distance please,, only mature minds should comment please, no insult or else I will send Mr Coro to u o... �

You are a male but you register as female on nairaland. You are 36 you told your girl you are 33. Please tell us more truth about yourself so that we can advise you properly.

Millenniumlady:
Judging from your profile are you a lesbian ?

Agboro know Agboro

It's advisable