IloveFred:

When I met him, something awakend in me and I need to be a good wife for him. I feel I can. I'm sorry for my confession, but what do you think about it and is there anybody who met a Nigerian man and is happy too? Maybe you have some problems with your men? Would this marriage be happy in future? I am romantic woman, don't like fighting and I think I can adjust to him and my marriage would be happy. I can't see big differences between us, he is very gentle and kind, I didn't expect it. Now I know that Africa is a very nice country, people are very nice, but this weather I couldn't stand. I didn't dream about journey to Africa, it was only a dream. I know about marriages for money, but our meeting is special. I wanted to meet friend, he was looking for love.

Carolece:

Please make sure to report to your Niraland family every month so they can be happy for you.

190:

Poster

Why dont he com see u

Jenifa_:

lol. he needs a visa to do that
but not to worry, he will soon get one thank's to his new wife.
Hopefully she won't be back with a bitter story.

Then let him apply for one,
I dont see what' the issue here is,
She should invite him over and he get's a visa and flies down
what's so difficult there,
or dont Senegalese fly out no more

190:

Then let him apply for one,
I dont see what' the issue here is,
She should invite him over and he get's a visa and flies down
what's so difficult there, 
or dont Senegalese fly out no more

Jenifa_:

lol. if it were that easy, I think the whole African population will be in Europe and America by now don't you think?
Africa will be a blank map if it was easy to get visa.

190:

true,
then she should confirm that he's who he claims he is,
get in touch with Senegalese police force, tell them 2 check him out b4 she travels over
she can get details of police force on google,
she needs something concrete b4 going over and only the police force can do that

I decided to risk. I met him in internet. I know that there are many scammers, but I felt, he could be a good man.

omega25red:

happy for you hope your happiness lasts a long long time



dont read too much into a lot of the "advice" you get on this site just live your life and be happy i mean you are old enough to know that nothing in life but death is garunteed so enjoy and i wish you well

IloveFred:

you see everything in black colours, like my friends.
I thought like that and was very sad, but now I want to take only nice moments in my life. I don't want to think about bad sides of life.
I talk with his family, with his daughter, I can see their happiness. Do you think that everybody all over the world are bad? I really feel he is good. Maybe he really doesn't want more children, he told me, a woman hurt him and he needs love forever, he looked for a nice woman. I realize I'm not sure in 100%, I think, open way to Europe was his first plan, but,   Don't you want to meet a nice partner? Don't you want to live in peace?
Yes, my story is very common, but I have nothing to lose, I want to try. He is really very nice and kind, he cared about me in Dakar very good, I was very happy. And I am very happy. I want to send him an invitation and he will apply for his visa. I know it is hard situation particularly for him. A new country, new customs, but he is very modern. We will try together.
Finally I've got a new surname as a memento. But I know he will be with me. 

and he knows I have not a lot of money, he knows I took a loan to go to Africa and now I have to pay, he knows I have a hard financial situation now and he knows I have a son (17) I have to care about him still. I have 3 sons (29 and 22). This woman on that site is very old. She looks like 70, I have a young soul. 

I think, many women are happy, many men are happy but many people are hurt

Tsiya:

YOu are 52 and he is 37. The age different is so wide that I dont think you can make him happy.

Marriage is a two way thing. You have to give happiness to get happiness. Happiness is not all about living together and eating food. Nice doesn't end with sweet words. When you start living together, you will see things that aren't pretty nice. You might not be able to withstand his sexual demands and being an African man at this age, it will be just a matter of time before he finds true love in a younger, sexually active polish woman.

Whatever may be the case, you have save soul.

IloveFred:

No. I have never met bad people in my life. I hope he will not prove he is liar. But if,  I will be alone forever.
What about names. His name is Fred, daughter Anna, sister Linda, another sister and 2 brothers have european names. His father and mother too.
I think his parents thought about future. I talk with his sister on facebook, she calls me, we talk on yahoo, we see each other. They are very happy that his life will be maybe a little better. I can help him to care about his daughter. My life became nice.