fieryy:


True. I also don't buy into the idea of having to beg your husband for money, but I think in her situation there's probably little she can do. You can shed some light on how to work from home without a capital and a 'certificate ' she might not have. That's if you want of course. I think that'd actually help her instead of the whole blaming situation going on here

I don't think she can do my kind of work, I write, I started making money off it before I got a Bachelor's, but there are still jobs people do without capital and certificate.

Some people do laundry for others, and some who have knowledge of certain areas, run errands eg market outings for a fee, she may not need capital to clean houses, these are just some ideas. The laundry one I especially saw, with women who had little ones.

Get her arrested with the police
Things are not easy for us here because my step mom hated us from day one. She only cooks for herself, my dad and her children. She don’t give me and my baby and my brother from the same mom food. I have been managing with the little money I get from my husband. I do cook for us to eat that’s a story from another day.

Last week I went to meet with my husband to get money he promised to give me to stock up foods for us during this lock down. I left my baby with my brother only for me to come and meet my brother carrying my baby. She was screaming in pain and when I looked she had burn in her body from her right chest to her right hand. I almost collapsed because I left my baby very fine in good healt.

My brother said my step mom was preparing tea for her kids so she had left the hot water in the pot and my baby fell on the hot water. I got angry at my brother how could he be careless not to watch my baby when he knew our step mom don’t like us. I almost hit him and my step mom didn’t care. She acted like nothing, not even a sorry to me. My dad says I should be quiet accidents do happen and it’s nothing to be angry about. His words really shocked me but what can I do.

What pained me is my little sister of 5 years opened up to me that it was my step mom who poured water on the baby because she caught my baby eating her bread she left and she told her to keep quiet if she tells she will beat her and she pleaded with me not to tell her mum.

I knew she did it because she is very wicked but because I had no proof, I had to be quiet but now her daughter has confirmed she did, I want to deal with her because am so angry seeing my baby in so much pain.

Why pour hot water on a baby just because of bread? I hate her and I want to pour hot water on her too while she sleeps so she can feel the same pain she put my innocent baby.

Should I pour hot water on her too or what is the best way to deal with this witch? [/quote]

Biglittlelois:



Lalasticlala Seun mynd44

hahaha! isn't this risibly rich? like I'm scared out of my wit right now. oya fellas, come and ban me.


Biglittlelois, is a despicable heap of shît

chatinent:
What a pity. Report the matter to the police immediately.

Really!

safarigirl:


I don't think she can do my kind of work, I write, I started making money off it before I got a Bachelor's, but there are still jobs people do without capital and certificate.

Some people do laundry for others, and some who have knowledge of certain areas, run errands eg market outings for a fee, she may not need capital to clean houses, these are just some ideas. The laundry one I especially saw, with women who had little ones.

Do you still write? I actually don't mind buying your books. I read every single one you posted on nl. I'm actually sad about Caleb being left unfinished. If the full book is already out, I'd buy immediately

OP, your father is a very useless man. Don't blame your stepmother, but your dad. God bless my dad and all the good fathers out there who will never put pussy of any kind, no matter how sweet before their kids. I will never put any woman or pussy before my kids, not even their mother.

BigJoe19:
Thank you Martinez, you have said the truth. Even this OP would do same if she is in the step-mum shoes, women are just naturally wicked nothing more.

Sadly, this is the pure truth.

Martinez39s:
Sadly, this is the pure truth.

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Tiarababy:

Our rent expired we moved out of the house that’s why I moved back to my dad and my husband is staying with his sister

Report to your dad. He also needs to watch it. That woman can kill him

safarigirl:


Did I insult anyone? Why will you insult me unprovoked?

I am a very wise person, that is why I have my own means of making money, and my husband losing his job will not make me so broke and homeless, I have to return to my father's house and live at the mercy of an evil stepmother with my baby

The only fools, are people who have kids without stable, certain income from BOTH parties. If you had any sense, you would agree with me, but foolishness and an idiotic need to have children you are incapable of caring for, will drag you into impoverishment and endanger your own kids.

U re an epitome of foolishness!!!
Did u knw if d man was earning well enough to take care of his family single handedly

Once again u re an epitome of foolishness.
Fish brain

botrix:
Pls u and ur husband should try to rent a room,even if its inside a bush,if there's love,u both can manage.my wife and I ones lived in a single room without a toilet or bathroom.we wake as early as 4 am to take our bath outside d room,I deficated in a potty due to my condition(lame),she pours it out in a near by bush whenever I do without complain.

Until God help Us to move out,she did it for 3yrs. I love her so much.

Wowwww

JONNYSPUTE:
.Don't pour her hot water. Let her concience judge her.
Go back to your husband's house and manage with him so you don't lose your baby. Bet you can't say what her next action will be.

some people dont have conscience

Mypeople2:
Lady you are very correct .One very cold bottle of wine for you there..She should go and stay with her husband .Any where he goes ,she should go with him.After all, it is for better and for worse .

Lol, you are funny

[quote author=Tiarababy post=88407257]
She is so wicked to pur hot water on my innocent 10 months old baby ,am so angry I just want to pur hot water on her face to give her a scar she will never forget.

What tribe Re you.

chinchonglee:

U re an epitome of foolishness!!!
Did u knw if d man was earning well enough to take care of his family single handedly

Once again u re an epitome of foolishness.
Fish brain

You Must be the man

He certainly wasn't earning enough if they ended up homeless within months of losing his job. He would have been better off riding okada than whatever job he had.

I will not respond to you further, as it is clear you are missing brain cells.

That house is not safe for you, not because of that your step mother, but because of your dad who to me, is very wicked than your step mum... In this world, any sensible person will choose her children over any woman, any day anytime... But from your explanations, it seems ur dad Don already chop vegetable... Pls run for ur safety

Tiarababy:
I'm married with one kid. My husband lost his job when I was seven months pregnant. We are no longer living together. I'm back to my dad's house with my stepmom and 4 siblings.

Things are not easy for us here because my stepmom hated us from day one. She only cooks for herself, my dad and her children. She doesn’t give me and my baby and my brother from the same mom food. I have been managing with the little money I get from my husband. I do cook for us to eat that’s a story from another day.

Last week I went to meet with my husband to get the money he promised to give me to stock up foods for us during this lockdown. I left my baby with my brother only for me to come and meet my brother carrying my baby. She was screaming in pain and when I looked she had burned in her body from her right chest to her right hand. I almost collapsed because I left my baby very fine in good health.

My brother said my stepmom was preparing tea for her kids so she had left the hot water in the pot and my baby fell on the hot water. I got angry at my brother how could he be careless not to watch my baby when he knew our stepmom doesn’t like us. I almost hit him and my stepmom didn’t care. She acted like nothing, not even a sorry to me. My dad says I should be quiet accidents do happen and it’s nothing to be angry about. His words really shocked me but what can I do.

What pained me is my little sister of 5 years opened up to me that it was my stepmom who poured water on the baby because she caught my baby eating her bread she left and she told her to keep quiet if she tells she will beat her and she pleaded with me not to tell her mum.

I knew she did it because she is very wicked but because I had no proof, I had to be quiet but now her daughter has confirmed she did, I want to deal with her because I am so angry seeing my baby in so much pain.

Why pour hot water on a baby just because of bread? I hate her and I want to pour hot water on her too while she sleeps so she can feel the same pain she put my innocent baby.

Should I pour hot water on her to or what is the best way to deal with this witch?

I have had your experience, It is not easy so I can practically feel your pain and the pain of your baby too.
Retaliation can't help you, because your father will support his wife who is your stepmother and for these reasons, your stepmother will be more wicked against you and your brother.

I will advise you to report her to the nearest police station now that the buns are still fresh and let her be made to sign an undertaking that she will be responsible for anything that happened to you and your brother and if eventually, she did, she will be in jail for the rest of her life.
Make sure you keep your own copy of the undertaking for future reference.
God is with you okay.

fieryy:


Do you still write? I actually don't mind buying your books. I read every single one you posted on nl. I'm actually sad about Caleb being left unfinished. If the full book is already out, I'd buy immediately

Lol, I still write o. I even started one short story last month in literature section

Me and Caleb have a funny relationship, I still go to it occasionally, but I can't believe how many words I've written, and I still haven't quite made any headway in that story.

Aside In Memory, I haven't published any other work, even though I have a bunch of unfinished stories in my laptop. I want to finish some, before I post them.

frozen70:



Hmmm, leave revenge for God, in this circumstances, you are too poor and weak to fight a battle with a devil's advocate

Now the main advice

How come you allowed your husband to stay alone and deceived you to pack to your fathers house because he lost his job ❓

This is the height of your mistake and you will loose your husband to a woman before you know what is happening

He has no job, where did he get the money he sends to you ❓

Don't you know that you are supposed to stay with him and face the challenges together because of the followings

He may get a woman, who is working and ready to accomodative him and before you know it, voom his attention is gone

Your father's house is a no go area because your step mum doesn't want any of you and your dad is a weakly over her because he doesn't have a firm grip on your step mum

If you are staying with your husband, he will be forced to get something doing, even you too, because it seems that you don't have any income

You are supposed to be leaving with your sister of five years so that she will be far from that wicked step mother

What happened to your child is a sign that the worst thing will still happen to her

Just pack your things and take your little sister along to baby seat for you, whatever you and your husband sees you eat and you too start thinking of something

I just want to believe that you married early just to leave your father's house

Your husband can aswell tell a woman that he is single and the woman will allow him to be passing night with her

Dont ever trust a man especially when they are in a tight corner

A man can tell lies to get himself attached to a woman who is capable of herself


Think over it pls because you are still young to experience emotional pains

As for your step mum, just leave her, go back to your home and don't tell hubby you are coming, just pack and go there for your little child is no longer safe

If he deceives you again to go and meet his parents and leave with them, tell him that you will stay with him and suffer together

He will not like it because you are spoiling his plans, yes let it be so, stand on your feet but don't use force rather cry out your life for him

Go sleep abeg. You just keep repeating the same line. Lol

shit

Please go back to your husband and manage with him. By God's grace things will turn out better for you two someday. Use that money your husband do give you in your father's house to manage with him. Once you and your husband have a place to lay your head (accommodation). But please don't pour water on that wicked woman.

BURN THE B! TCH!!!!

DCmonster:
OP, your father is a very useless man. Don't blame your stepmother, but your dad. God bless my dad and all the good fathers out there who will never put pussy of any kind, no matter how sweet before their kids. I will never put any woman or pussy before my kids, not even their mother.

well said,, e dey baffle me say some men go spend plenty money on top child dedication,,do thanksgiving for church,,dance and celebrate,then later in the future the same man reason best known to him go still let one pooossy come in between him and his children

Abeg all that this lady needs is financial assistance, nothing more. So if God has blessed us with money, kindly help her so she and her husband can get a room b4 we hear story that touch the heart.

kadas01:
My heart goes out to your child!

Please, report this incident to the police immediately!

That evil step mom should be arrested ASAP!!

Thy LORD is your strength!

Report to police? Where is the evidence? You think what that lil girl told her is an evidence right? Think wide na, that can be rubbished as it's from a lil girl and at the end of the day, she put that girl in trouble just coz she wanted revenge or prove a point.

After everything, it will be settled coz she's her dad's wife and do you think they will live happily after that? Things will get worse, remember she squats.

If she lives her father's house, she should do in peace so as not to create problems for her siblings that will remain in the house.

When issues happens, make una dey calm down and think before acting, some actions can add fuel to a burning fire

safarigirl:


You Must be the man

He certainly wasn't earning enough if they ended up homeless within months of losing his job. He would have been better off riding okada than whatever job he had.

I will not respond to you further, as it is clear you are missing brain cells.

U no see as i dey beg for ur response

Riding okada? as per u re mocking okada riders na.

Well dis idiot before u comment nxt time make sure u think and if u dnt av anything reasonable to say kipshut or if its too much data that is worrying you den waste it on pornhub.

Dnt come here to display the intensity of ur foolishness. CIAO CIAO!!!

Be careful, investigate more before taking any action. How are you sure your sister of just 5 years old knew what she's talking about? I won't rush do anything nasty because of a 5yr old judgement. Truly, accidents do happen. Do we also have wicked people in this world? Yes.
First thing first, make sure your baby is fine. If there is any scar that may be permanent, consult a doctor to advise you on what to do.

your side of the story . . . . . . . . and you are taking the word of a five year old as credible enough . please take good care of the poor infant .

Just pretend as if you don't knw that she did it intentionally then secretly look for a way to deal with her and make sure it hurts

Tiarababy:
I'm married with one kid. My husband lost his job when I was seven months pregnant. We are no longer living together. I'm back to my dad's house with my step mom and 4 siblings.

Things are not easy for us here because my step mom hated us from day one. She only cooks for herself, my dad and her children. She don’t give me and my baby and my brother from the same mom food. I have been managing with the little money I get from my husband. I do cook for us to eat that’s a story from another day.

Last week I went to meet with my husband to get money he promised to give me to stock up foods for us during this lock down. I left my baby with my brother only for me to come and meet my brother carrying my baby. She was screaming in pain and when I looked she had burn in her body from her right chest to her right hand. I almost collapsed because I left my baby very fine in good healt.

My brother said my step mom was preparing tea for her kids so she had left the hot water in the pot and my baby fell on the hot water. I got angry at my brother how could he be careless not to watch my baby when he knew our step mom don’t like us. I almost hit him and my step mom didn’t care. She acted like nothing, not even a sorry to me. My dad says I should be quiet accidents do happen and it’s nothing to be angry about. His words really shocked me but what can I do.

What pained me is my little sister of 5 years opened up to me that it was my step mom who poured water on the baby because she caught my baby eating her bread she left and she told her to keep quiet if she tells she will beat her and she pleaded with me not to tell her mum.

I knew she did it because she is very wicked but because I had no proof, I had to be quiet but now her daughter has confirmed she did, I want to deal with her because am so angry seeing my baby in so much pain.

Why pour hot water on a baby just because of bread? I hate her and I want to pour hot water on her too while she sleeps so she can feel the same pain she put my innocent baby.

Should I pour hot water on her too or what is the best way to deal with this witch?

So sorry about what happened to your baby, pls take her with you to where ever you are going to, who knows what's next, she has a very wicked heart. She's capable of poisoning or keeping dangerous items around the house. And you know how babies can be. Please watch over your baby yourself pls....
And please keep away things like detergent, bleach, rat poision, insecticides, etc from her reach. Your stepmother can even set traps with all these for her. So pls be watchful, and if possible go back to your husband's place in order to avoid had I know. Stay blessed

suzzyboss:
Just leave her alone.. And take good care of your child...
Ignore her I can tell you that her plans is to fustrate you or blackmail you out of that house.. Just overlook it " You are better than that" And be close, kind and playfull with her children especially that her last born ... When you gain their trust, trust me she'll hate her self for hating on you...
Just keep calm like Sansa in game of thrones and play the mind game with her

Na so she go take kill the baby. What's she leaving her for? Let her report to the police and leave that house immediately.