Ningen:
Marriage is overrated. I can agree on that part.

The problem however, lies with your girlfriend's poverty stricken mentality. She seems to believe married is a sort of poverty alleviation program.

Niceboyy:
My girlfriend that i always take care off, and i make sure she is always happy, which Atimes I send money into her account without her request for money. Because I have enough.
she always discuss about marriage to me. That when I will marry her she don't want to stress her self, that I will buy her Washing machine, and other things.
she told me today that when she will have enough money that she will not marry, because her senior sister's are married and there are suffering in their husband's house that there is nothing special about it, and she said she don't want to suffer, that there is no gain in marriage.
That when she is rich she won't won't marry. And she is serious with what she said.
Pls, i need your suggestion's what should I do, as she have made such Statement to me.

Niceboyy:
My girlfriend that i always take care off, and i make sure she is always happy, which Atimes I send money into her account without her request for money. Because I have enough.
she always discuss about marriage to me. That when I will marry her she don't want to stress her self, that I will buy her Washing machine, and other things.
she told me today that when she will have enough money that she will not marry, because her senior sister's are married and there are suffering in their husband's house that there is nothing special about it, and she said she don't want to suffer, that there is no gain in marriage.
That when she is rich she won't won't marry. And she is serious with what she said.
Pls, i need your suggestion's what should I do, as she have made such Statement to me.

Ningen:
Marriage is overrated. I can agree on that part.

The problem however, lies with your girlfriend's poverty stricken mentality. She seems to believe married is a sort of poverty alleviation program.

Ayomideayo:
All shes trying to pass across to you is if she eventually gets married to you, she did that because of the money, because she failed to become rich and needs someone to help with her bills

All shes trying to pass across to you is if she eventually gets married to you, she did that because of the money, because she failed to become rich and needs someone to help with her bills.

Niceboyy:
My girlfriend that i always take care off, and i make sure she is always happy, which Atimes I send money into her account without her request for money. Because I have enough.
she always discuss about marriage to me. That when I will marry her she don't want to stress her self, that I will buy her Washing machine, and other things.
she told me today that when she will have enough money that she will not marry, because her senior sister's are married and there are suffering in their husband's house that there is nothing special about it, and she said she don't want to suffer, that there is no gain in marriage.
That when she is rich she won't won't marry. And she is serious with what she said.
Pls, i need your suggestion's what should I do, as she have made such Statement to me.

Omar09:


OK Mr simp. Let me spell it out for ya. Your girlfriend meant to tell you this: “I will not marry a man who doesn't have enough money” hence, “I will not marry you if you are poor unless you are Yahoo rich or Oil rich”. She didn't want to come off as a gold digger (girls hate that) so she told the quote above and initially told you she didn't want to suffer in a marriage and that you will get her a washing machine. She's seen another guy who is that “Yahoo” or “Oil” rich, she just wanna tell you in a subtle way she can't marry you.

So simp, better drop her there and move on!

Kingarthur21:
I suspect all this wailing threads are trolling.

Kingarthur21:
I suspect all this wailing threads are trolling.

Martinez39s:
@Niceboyy

How many strokes of cane do you need to accurately deduce the following:
1) She doesn't love you; she is just with you for your money. All women are like this.
2) She plans to marry you for a comfortable lifestyle because she couldn't be rich and independent as she wanted. You are just a utility to bail her from poverty. She doesn't want you, but she has no choice. All women are like this.
3) She has not regard, kindness or respect for you to have said such odious and ungrateful things to you. All women are like this.
4) She is lazy and not ready to take on any role of a wife. She justs want to live a very comfortable and easy life devoid of any stress... all funded by you. You are just there for the cash, and she is trying to push the "marriage" as much as possible to a situation similar to her dream of being rich and independent without a man in her life. If she has her way, you would stand by the side providing the cash while she runs things and live her life as she pleases. All women are like this.

Just dump her. Your gf is just being a woman. Her excuse about her sisters suffering in their marriage as just a cover up, disregard that. Your investment in your girlfriend's life are just a waste; she clearly doesn't appreciate you. If during the marriage things become bad for you financially and she makes more money to be rich and independent, she will sideline you and enjoy her wealth alone while you rot without any assistance from her no matter how helpful you had been to her in the past.

Make sure you take this advice by a nairalander.

Martinez39s:
@Niceboyy

How many strokes of cane do you need to accurately deduce the following:
1) She doesn't love you; she is just with you for your money. All women are like this.
2) She plans to marry you for a comfortable lifestyle because she couldn't be rich and independent as she wanted. You are just a utility to bail her from poverty. She doesn't want you, but she has no choice. All women are like this.
3) She has not regard, kindness or respect for you to have said such odious and ungrateful things to you. All women are like this.
4) She is lazy and not ready to take on any role of a wife. She justs want to live a very comfortable and easy life devoid of any stress... all funded by you. You are just there for the cash, and she is trying to push the "marriage" as much as possible to a situation similar to her dream of being rich and independent without a man in her life. If she has her way, you would stand by the side providing the cash while she runs things and live her life as she pleases. All women are like this.

Just dump her. Your gf is just being a woman. Her excuse about her sisters suffering in their marriage as just a cover up, disregard that. Your investment in your girlfriend's life are just a waste; she clearly doesn't appreciate you. If during the marriage things become bad for you financially and she makes more money to be rich and independent, she will sideline you and enjoy her wealth alone while you rot without any assistance from her no matter how helpful you had been to her in the past.

Make sure you take this advice by a nairalander.