Am 20 and not had sex before, am an introvert and getting a girlfriend is not in my plan cause of the the responsibilities involved and have to focus on succeeding before getting a fiancee no time for gf things. But this sex urge is getting too too much and masturbating is not solving it at all,it used to before until this very strong urge that I can't control anymore took over.

Another thing is I come from a very religious home where no one taught me abt sex education or that I would have this sort of urge at this stage of my life, all they say is abstain till marriage and all that, like they didn't pass through that stage too

How do I go about it.

Konji na bastard

Do u want to have or not?

Another thing is I come from a very religious home where no one taught me abt sex education or that I would have this sort of urge at this stage of my life, all they say is abstain till marriage and all that, like they didn't pass through that stage too

How do I go about it.

This is where our parents make terrible mistakes. Just assuming abstinence is achievable in religion name. More is needed than that to help a child abstain. That combined with being an introvert again is serious indeed. Look for any means that works for you bro. In anyway you choose just be careful. If I tell you how and where I got deflowered, it may take you the next ten years to understand. God help you.

Maintain sexual chastity please @ OP...

God loves sexually pure people.

bestabigaelever:
Do u want to have or not?

Are u talking about Gf or sex

Put your dick in a freezer.

Brunicekid:
Maintain sexual chastity please @ OP...

God loves sexually pure people.

God loves everyone

bestabigaelever:
Do u want to have or not?

Do u want to help him or not?


OP U are too young for wat u are occupying ur mind with. Channel all ur energy on somethimg productive. Ur age is the best age to take that leap to success, read books about people who succeeded at an early age, develop a skill that u can always rely on in future. A lot of us wish we can turn back the hands of time and restart at that ur age

Ecbatana:
Put your dick in a freezer.

Be serious abeg

zionmde:

Do u want to help him or not?


OP U are too young for wat u are occupying ur mind with. Channel all ur energy on somethimg productive. Ur age is the best age to take that leap to success, read books about people who succeeded at an early age, develop a skill that u can always rely on in future. A lot of us wish we can turn back the hands of time and restart at that ur age

I read two books a day, am writing one too, when it comes to time management mine is not bad at all it's just the the strong urge.

You should be thankful that you're having urges, what of those that cant even experience a single erection nko?

Truth is, its your decision.
If you decide to continue, you'll have to fight the urge. Its natural you're feeling this way and it's heightened because of the inactivity you're facing at the moment.
If you're a devote christian, I suggest the bible. It always works. Konji antidote.

If you choose to have sex, still your decision but I have to warn you, most times, it won't reduce the urge. If you end up having sex with a pro, my hommie, you gone. Lol.

What I'm trying to say is, staying without sex ain't easy, I admire your strength... But know that once u hit it and hit it good, there's no going back.

Focus on your future young blood.

pitamah901:


I read two books a day, am writing one too, when it comes to time management mine is not bad at all it's just the the strong urge.

Then go for a skill, acquiring a reasonable skill takes a lot of time and energy. that urge is fuelled by unused energy and thoughts, the day u start exhausting ur energy and thoughts into learning somethimg, the day u will find out u are loosing interest in things dat doesnt matter. Sex is as scary as u can ever imagine. It comes with a lot of damages

It's normal guy

zionmde:

Do u want to help him or not?


OP U are too young for wat u are occupying ur mind with. Channel all ur energy on somethimg productive. Ur age is the best age to take that leap to success, read books about people who succeeded at an early age, develop a skill that u can always rely on in future. A lot of us wish we can turn back the hands of time and restart at that ur age

The question she asked is the question OP should be asking himself, its his decision. He has to consider the pros and the cons. If he answers that question to himself, he knows where to start because right now, he doesn't know what he wants. He should be able to answer that. At 20,he's not a kid anymore.

pitamah901:
Am 20 and not had sex before, am an introvert and getting a girlfriend is not in my plan cause of the the responsibilities involved and have to focus on succeeding before getting a fiancee no time for gf things. But this sex urge is getting too too much and masturbating is not solving it at all,it used to before until this very strong urge that I can't control anymore took over.

Another thing is I come from a very religious home where no one taught me abt sex education or that I would have this sort of urge at this stage of my life, all they say is abstain till marriage and all that, like they didn't pass through that stage too

How do I go about it.

Rub the oil of sardines directly on your penis and go look for someone that owns a bulldog or a wild dog. Unclothing yourself is necessary in presence of the dog.
Make sure the sardine oil is well applied to your penis and the dog(s) are quite hungry.
I heard sausages are healthy for dogs consumption.

Brunicekid:
Maintain sexual chastity please @ OP...

God loves sexually pure people.

That's not the issue here o. Sure God loves sexually pure people but he put the highest urge from testosterone influence in this age gap of op. He who put the urge there would definitely have a way out of it to keep pure. What is that way?

Go to ashwo joint cross to you
As long as you use condom

You are safe

zionmde:

Then go for a skill, acquiring a reasonable skill takes a lot of time and energy. that urge is fuelled by unused energy and thoughts, the day u start exhausting ur energy and thoughts into learning somethimg, the day u will find out u are loosing interest in things dat doesnt matter. Sex is as scary as u can ever imagine. It comes with a lot of damages

Have done that too and most times when am exhausted for the day I masturbate before I sleep

ogechchukwu:
Go to ashwo joint cross to you
As long as you use condom

You are safe

Honestly. I wanted to give op this advice but held it back before ppl say I'm giving bad advice.

Ashawos are useful.. very useful.

idleness is the cause. try and have interesting online activities.

Use a toaster bro, it works all the time

op the only thing i can tell you is NO FAp!!!!!!

no fap brothers show me love and convince him

pitamah901:
Am 20 and not had sex before, am an introvert and getting a girlfriend is not in my plan cause of the the responsibilities involved and have to focus on succeeding before getting a fiancee no time for gf things. But this sex urge is getting too too much and masturbating is not solving it at all,it used to before until this very strong urge that I can't control anymore took over.

Another thing is I come from a very religious home where no one taught me abt sex education or that I would have this sort of urge at this stage of my life, all they say is abstain till marriage and all that, like they didn't pass through that stage too

How do I go about it.

you are having dopamine problem. In other words it is called dopamine tolerance.

arthorjnr:
Truth is, its your decision.
If you decide to continue, you'll have to fight the urge. Its natural you're feeling this way and it's heightened because of the inactivity you're facing at the moment.
If you're a devote christian, I suggest the bible. It always works. Konji antidote.

If you choose to have sex, still your decision but I have to warn you, most times, it won't reduce the urge. If you end up having sex with a pro, my hommie, you gone. Lol.

What I'm trying to say is, staying without sex ain't easy, I admire your strength... But know that once u hit it and hit it good, there's no going back.

Focus on your future young blood.

do you understand? A person is saying he have a high sexual urge next thing you say is to read bible? As I would advice Op not to go in the way of Fornication. What is actually wrong with op is hormonal imbalances. He need to start reducing pleasure activities little by little.

NockMedia:

Rub the oil of sardines directly on your penis and go look for someone that owns a bulldog or a wild dog. Unclothing yourself is necessary in presence of the dog.
Make sure the sardine oil is well applied to your penis and the dog(s) are quite hungry.
I heard sausages are healthy for dogs consumption.

is this sarcasm or what ever you have said necessary or even useful in regard to what op wants

stanliwise:
do you understand? A person is saying he have a high sexual urge next thing you say is to read bible? As I would advice Op not to go in the way of Fornication. What is actually wrong with op is hormonal imbalances. He need to start reducing pleasure activities little by little.

Well, I guess you don't know much about the spirit and the word. Hormonal imbalance?... Okay oh wise one, you're right.

NockMedia:

Rub the oil of sardines directly on your penis and go look for someone that owns a bulldog or a wild dog. Unclothing yourself is necessary in presence of the dog.
Make sure the sardine oil is well applied to your penis and the dog(s) are quite hungry.
I heard sausages are healthy for dogs consumption.

OpONU............EWU

arthorjnr:


Well, I guess you don't know much about the spirit and the word. Hormonal imbalance?... Okay oh wise one, you're right.

ahahahahha That is your line of defense. Pray that God will give you the spirit of discerning some day

stanliwise:
ahahahahha That is your line of defense. Pray that God will give you the spirit of discerning some day

Amen bro amen, I need it.
Have a great day, oh wise one.

stanliwise:
do you understand? A person is saying he have a high sexual urge next thing you say is to read bible? As I would advice Op not to go in the way of Fornication. What is actually wrong with op is hormonal imbalances. He need to start reducing pleasure activities little by little.

They don't understand that the op is human and he has to have such urges...... I have the same situation like him (same age bracket, introvert).
1. He should try to communicate more with people
2. No matter how you try to keep your mind or body busy, your emotions will still show up (you can't suppress it)
3. Stay away from porn (that shit doesn't work, i tried it so many times)
4. Leave your forking shell,
5. Communicate with people, try to have a good and healthy relationship with the opposite sex