My boyfriend is getting tired of me cos i ve refused to give in to his sexual request.
Wat do i do pls,am still a virgin.

how old are u and how long is the relationship?

Am also a virgin just forget him because love is not sex ,and tell him to throw you out before you go.

OREOFEMI do u really blame that guyits not easy even when u are dealing with a beautyful girl, some girls have abuse love with out sex so sex is like a garantee to guys

I blame the guy because the guy knows that she is a virgin,the guy should leave her and let her be useful for someone else.

Hey Let talk, How are you doing? If you are of age and you really like the guy, and know the guy is really in love with you too. Then please give the guy. If you are not of age .Please don't go near that.

Its only in Naira land that i still se virgins

LetsTalk:

My boyfriend is getting tired of me because i ve refused to give in to his sexual request.
What do i do please,am still a virgin.

So, wat are u waiting 4, find ur square root, abi u dey enjoy the guy cash, ?
if so, u go pay one day ooo. better leave immediately. Q.E.D.

how old are u and how long ave u guys been together

$ammy:

Its only in Naira land that i still se virgins

Sammy na wa for you oh.

sometimes i really don't understand our naija women!! i know for girl to go into a man's house a virgin is a pride to her and her family but do they still think that what they are safe guiding for mr. right is worth it? what you are protecting now becomes abuse by somebody you thought would care for it till death do them apart.

just answer me this, please!!! a virgin got married to mr. right and mr. right now abused her sexually and throw her out after some years of marriage with children in her hand" once proud virgin now out in the market seeking for a husband to call her own with a baby girl in her hand and no young man would want to settle with a woman that has been divorce it's only few naija women would want to enter a plane where there is a co-pilot.

so, what are we talking about? if mr. A as your boyfriend knows you are a virgin and want to test it, why don't you go ahead and give in? he might end up liken wat he test and eventually marry you at the long run. feeling proud of himself that he was the one dat de-flower you. it is better to be dis-flowered before marriage and stay there till death do you apart then to be a virgin and be thrown out.

final conclusion, there is nothing special about a girl been a virgin or not before marriage as i see it. (that's for me)

he who has an ear let him hear.

cheers.

interesting.

still observing, before i comment

u dey fear to add ur comment?/////

If the guy really loves you,he'd wait till u're ready.Dnt do sumthing

If the guy really loves you,he'd wait till u're ready.Dnt do sumthing

jhibola:

u dey fear to add your comment?/////

excuse me?

Soshio:

If the guy really loves you,he'd wait till u're ready.Dnt do something

also wait till he's ready before you start chopping his money?

Before i say a word

is the guy working/ready to marry u(serious person)

once a guy have sex with a lady, he losses interest in the lady

so if the guy really love you tell him to wait until conjugal bliss or you leave him remember love and sex are two different things.

Thank you jhibola, she is afraid to add her comment , nuisance,i dont know the name to call her, maybe i would look for someone to create a name i will give her.

ohhh come off it i think before i reply, thats what brains are meant for
, get a grip. your so damn childish. whew,
go get some life.

u're welcome oreofemiiiiii, how are u today?

It all depends on so many stuffs,if you have been in the relationship for several years and you are of age and the relationship is heading towards marriage,then i think its alright but if any of those is missing,don't even think of giving it to him.Whatever the case,its still your pride and it makes hopping out of a relationship easier for you in case the guy later turns into someone else.

but i think age is no bareer of friendship, age or no age love does not ask why

me and thonaislim are now friends we are going to reply together, if you know what i mean jhibola, c'mon girl say something am waiting for you.


@jhibola

thank you for welcoming me.

ok

jhibola:

but i think age is no bareer of friendship, age or no age love does not ask why

I knw but my bro,you need to be matured enough to cope with some things, else!

maturity comes from the mind not by age bro

age has an important role to play,

yeah most of the time age comes first but an adult can be stupid some times

jhibola:

but an adult can be stupid some times

lol

@ topic,

if you want to keep your virginity, you should be with a guy that appreciates your virginity otherwise your relationship was over even before it began.