Ofcourse poor men can love but some of them seem to forget with ease those that stood by them when they were hardup! E.g a babe will be by her poor lover and they both will claim to be swimming and drowning wth passion, once the man begins to see the light of day (wealthwise)he suddenly becomes aware of his status and claims the babe no longer meets his standard and ofcourse with the slightest excuse dumps the babe for so called high class chic.

hi guys,it depends on the level of poverty.another factor that wise ladies consider is the future of the guy!

actually,it was in the ancient times when there wasnt much luxury dat people enjoyed real love.But these days, tins don change sha,

nah, a broke as bloke is as good as dead

Yes it matters.

if you have a brain 2 hands, 2 legs - u can make money.

no excuse for poverty.

u gotta have d cash, i cant marry a man who will remain poor for the rest of his life.

how about my babies school, and little toys?

the cheek to ask a q like dat

OgaMadam:

Yes it matters.

if you have a brain 2 hands, 2 legs - u can make money.

no excuse for poverty.

u gotta have d cash, i can't marry a man who will remain poor for the rest of his life.

how about my babies school, and little toys?

the cheek to ask a q like that

Real talk

i wonder! poor as in "no hope for the future" or poor as in " not yet comfortable in life"

yeah, a poor man can love with all his heart but his family will suffer as a result

Being poor is relative[ if anyone has been listening to mariam Abacha; she called Dangote a poor man!] So, if he's the yardstick for poverty measurement then, anyways, the question ain't properly framed. A poor man can love, but in this world of insatiable wants and needs decorum has been thrown to the winds and few can actually tell what love is let alone, a poor man broke as a bloke has a fair chance with a cute chic only in soap operas. Not in the real world methinks.

The question should have been: "Can a poor man be loved?"

Why wouldn't a poor man love? I thought his poverty was financial and not emotional.

Please poster clarify!

i want to assume tha is nto a question

please next

A poor man can fall in love. The kind of girl he fall in love with matters alot.  Some Naija girls believe in richness.

Let me advice Naija girls in general, Its better to have a rich love and poor background than to have a poor love and rich background. in the later case, you can easily loose the richness(wealth).

when you loose love and loose money, no be dia i don bisle 4 ur head

Yeah. A poor man can love a poor woman

Yea, That is possible.

Can a man love? Yes. A poor man is first and formost a man.

If he is worried about the impact of his present predicament on his love life he should get his lazy behind into legitimate hardwork which produces wealth, clean wealth.

Well no matter the condition one finds himself either rich or poor,one can love.but the the problem comes when the inevitable challenges begin to set in.That is when we no if it cant stand the test of time.But for a poor man the pressures are too much from every angle but for the girl its a challenge,if she can stand the test of time.
But my honest opinion is that some men actual forget who stood my them when the going was tough,so that why gals dnt bother to start from the scratch with a poor guy,so "love is not even contemplated".
for the "poor guy" of course he is capable of loving why not. but the pressures no go easy from a demanding babe,mother,etc

My girl is not so happy around me, now that fuel is hot cake in Enugu state, so i came with bike and she said i should come back when i can afford the fuel. What does it mean?

It means exactly what she said; return to see her when you can drive down or at least pay for a taxi. You two may have been on a face-lift relationship otherwise how you got to her place shouldn't matter. Hardluck brother.

3d_hunter:

i wonder! poor as in "no hope for the future" or poor as in " not yet comfortable in life"

Not yet comfortable in life

Thats exactly what i am saying. Girls of these days want already made men. what happened to the girls that stood by their men from way down to the top?

Even the monkeys in Idanre now wear suits! Even men no longer look for liabilities. But on a serious note; you simply may be looking in the wrong places. Women who stand by their men abound.

a poor guy can love alright,bt b rest assured dat as soon as his finacial status improves 4 d beta, so will his dating preference change .so many babes don travel dat road ,com see say NO MEAT 4 FISH HEAD!

@mekaboy
that ur babe will make a very demanding wife. for better for stay for worse for pick race. Abi my fellow landers?

well i think the reason why this topic came here is because of nigeria girls

As someone rightly said,poverty is relative.as per guys running after girls i strongly believe they have a low esteem because d reverse shd be the case.ENOUGH SOLID,PRETTY BABES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

money is not every thing but it ranks next to oxygen.

What a dumb question, rich and poor can love. You don't need money to love. Love is free. Unless you be naija man, where money and love go hand in hand, they like to lure you with money. Money can't buy love only happiness.

thats hard in this year of our lord cos once u mess up like this , ur rich gurl will remind ur poor asx how she took u out of da guttaa!

hi all,
@topic i know that words is true but its not every body trhat have d same feelin.
poor or rich love can exist any were .

why are people so inconsiderate, pls let stop this topic or nobody seeing what i'm seeing.
A POOR MAN CAN LOVE WITH ONLY HIS GBOSA WHILE A RICH LOVE WITH EVERYTHING.
qUESTION ASKED which do you prepare.

why are people so inconsiderate, pls let stop this topic or nobody seeing what i'm seeing.
A POOR MAN CAN LOVE WITH ONLY HIS GBOSA WHILE A RICH LOVE WITH EVERYTHING.
qUESTION ASKED which do you prepare sorry prefer.