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Re: Time To Divorce My Wife? by frozen70(f): 4:53am On May 06, 2020 |
Dididrumz: So all the men that have side chics increased the trouble in their lives Try and be in his position and see if its a rocket science to get divorce |
Re: Time To Divorce My Wife? by frozen70(f): 4:57am On May 06, 2020 |
bamidelee: Lol, my dear, the premature one's here lacks wisdom and experience They think it's easy as they say it until it happens to them directly I may look like a feminist but I differ when it comes to sound judgement I hate pretence and unnecessary covering of bad characters from both sexes |
Re: Time To Divorce My Wife? by Bluntemperor: 4:58am On May 06, 2020 |
Bro,on her behalf,please hold your breath!. You said 'her Characters is bad' .list them,please list those bad Characters for us to see; What I read only in summary is -she is Mrs Right at all times.that is bad. She is prayerful-then you can not be prayerful and exhibit bad characters,then it means-Your wife is not broken. How did you have two beautiful kids-Is it that you are only happy on bed alone and there after,you two go different ways? •when last did you Pray together sir? • What were your observations and the Character defaults you noticed when Courting that you raised with the 'supossed Pastor that you still observed after producing two kids in this marriage? •When last did you see the Pastor to tell him that,your packaged has not brought good results ? •I put it to you Sir that you have your own problems like your wife and I doubt if you are a genuine Christian -Have you tabled it in your Church for you' own pastor' to intervene?. •Are you saying that apart from her father and mother no other Senior in the whole family to report her,for her to show remorse eh,you do well o! I would not be amongst those that would recommend that you throw away the child with bad water!. |
Re: Time To Divorce My Wife? by Mummymahdi(f): 5:04am On May 06, 2020 |
Sir, she has been always reminding u she can stay alone . y not divorce and have rest of mind. That kind person even her kids won't be very happy with her . |
Re: Time To Divorce My Wife? by Heineken(m): 5:05am On May 06, 2020 |
Ishilove:ishi you Sabi yoruba ni? Awayu mama |
Re: Time To Divorce My Wife? by gentleedu(m): 5:05am On May 06, 2020 |
bukatyne:i love your brain dear, one of the best among many.. |
Re: Time To Divorce My Wife? by Heineken(m): 5:08am On May 06, 2020 |
This is serious.. God airpus. |
Re: Time To Divorce My Wife? by galadima77(m): 5:09am On May 06, 2020 |
Don't manage the problem. You deserves to be happy. |
Re: Time To Divorce My Wife? by bigcee(m): 5:25am On May 06, 2020 |
Jeweltz:Ah! I swear you're a dolt.
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Re: Time To Divorce My Wife? by kbams241: 5:27am On May 06, 2020 |
If you're a Muslim, don't divorce her, kindly take another wife ,spend more time with the second wife, I promise this would reset her brain |
Re: Time To Divorce My Wife? by bigcee(m): 5:28am On May 06, 2020 |
MIM77:Correct! |
Re: Time To Divorce My Wife? by Nobody: 5:48am On May 06, 2020 |
ladywise:u just want this poor man to die before his time.divorce is the only solution here.if he still keeps her she could even hire assasins to snuff out his life or poison him.its obvious she hates his guts. 1 Like |
Re: Time To Divorce My Wife? by ozone0801(m): 5:51am On May 06, 2020 |
[quote author=bukatyne post=89149605] What are you even saying? This things don't play out like you people think. I am 100% certain that you're single with the advice you gave him. Do you know how much mental and psychologically draining to know you're going home to meet a toxic partner, after the day's work. Yet, you encourage him to continue staying, ignore her, despite his deteriorating health. You can't ignore in marriage, you cannot manage your partner in marriage. No man/woman deserves to be going through this torture. God, I thank you for my wife, no stress, no pressure, no gbas gbos, always cooperating and making plans, so we become better. |
Re: Time To Divorce My Wife? by Nobody: 6:11am On May 06, 2020 |
frozen70:Succinct |
Re: Time To Divorce My Wife? by soundmind4ree: 6:18am On May 06, 2020 |
noakchukibadan: I honestly feel your pain sir. you admitted that you ignored all the warning signals before marriage, that was terrible! What I can advice now is this... *If she claim she can stay for two months without communicating with you, Learn to stay for four months without noticing her presence. *Try and found in something else other than wife supposed wife (am not advocating you cheat). something you enjoy doing. *don't take everything to heart (like birthdays, anniversaries,..etc... sometimes, I forget my own birthday. those things don't count much. your wife is using that as a strong weapon on you. *try and enjoy what you do for yourself, like cooking, laundry,.etc..infact, thank God you can do those things yourself. *don't always be available physically, your presence Should be scare. this will enhance your value. but fulfill your financial obligations... *pray and worry less. |
Re: Time To Divorce My Wife? by brightalo1010: 7:21am On May 06, 2020 |
kodix: You're horrible. Smh. 1 Like |
Re: Time To Divorce My Wife? by LINTUNE(m): 7:25am On May 06, 2020 |
bukatyne:thats because u are selfish and a feminist |
Re: Time To Divorce My Wife? by LINTUNE(m): 7:28am On May 06, 2020 |
bukatyne:what would u say , if it was the other way round..what would u advice the woman if it was the man abusing her physically, some times u gals can be so selfish and inconsiderate that i feel like strangling the ones with ur kinda mentality, pukes! |
Re: Time To Divorce My Wife? by NomzyJust(m): 7:29am On May 06, 2020 |
Someone once said: Divorce is not a solution to marital problems but in itself can cause more harm than good. Although I am not a fan of divorce but when sanity is at stake, I fully Stan. How can a wife not speak to her Husband for months? And they sleep on same bed every night. Take that walk if you can no longer endure. Your health is also at stake here and I'm sure you're looking older than your age. |
Re: Time To Divorce My Wife? by brightalo1010: 7:33am On May 06, 2020 |
OKOATA: Send me your number and network for 1k airtime I am serious. Imagine people telling a man dying gradually to keep praying and managing the devilish heartless, selfish, wicked monster. I vowed never to tolerate such nonsense. I don't even have such time to listen to any advice from any fvkin pastor or anyone before I'll frustrate the evil lady's life. 1 Like |
Re: Time To Divorce My Wife? by NomzyJust(m): 7:34am On May 06, 2020 |
[quote author=ozone0801 post=89236607][/quote] When husband and wife work together, alot turn out better for them. Better decisions, financial increase, look younger and healthier. |
Re: Time To Divorce My Wife? by faithfull18(f): 8:03am On May 06, 2020 |
DateMynd44:Yes, it's #250 |
Re: Time To Divorce My Wife? by judeleo: 8:18am On May 06, 2020 |
Divorce is not an option, u have to live wit it becos the bible says dat only in case of infedelity divorce can b allowed. my advice for you is to give her space and think less, she will come around by God grace |
Re: Time To Divorce My Wife? by Sunnyb10(m): 8:34am On May 06, 2020 |
noakchukibadan: You have got to man up, you have done everything possible to make your marriage work but since she’s adamant about it, I advice you give her what the Hausas call “seke daya” it’s like a 1st warning before divorce, meet a lawyer that will type something good for you, something like since she’s tired and feed up with the marriage she should take a break for like 4 to 5 months or so and leave you and your children alone until when she turn a new leave you will ask her to come back otherwise you are divorcing her. Pass her such letter and have some rest of mind for some time, don’t kill yourself with hbp before your time cuz of one thing called wife. Do this and you will thank me later. |
Re: Time To Divorce My Wife? by Nobody: 8:47am On May 06, 2020 |
Some men do endure shit. I cannot manage such a wife. |
Re: Time To Divorce My Wife? by Avidtags: 8:49am On May 06, 2020 |
babythug: You are just dancing around the issue and giving bad advice back to back. I hope the op noakchukibadan doesn't listen you and leaves that horrible marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Time To Divorce My Wife? by Nobody: 8:53am On May 06, 2020 |
soundmind4ree:Two wrongs don’t make a right.I don’t support Divorce but this relationship is too toxic to go continue.Sadly children are involved but psychologically they will grow to hate marriage or detest those of opposite gender. Yes the danger of a single story as we haven’t heard the woman’s version but if he is telling the truth then to your tents oh Israel before someone ends up dead. All Nigerians ever say is pray pray pray,yes it’s good but act too. 1 Like |
Re: Time To Divorce My Wife? by mickeyenglish(m): 8:58am On May 06, 2020 |
Lol.. OP , firstly, don't worry, you won't die of HBP.. Good thing you knew earlier.. Some never knew till it led to their death, which is the major cause.. The fittest person on earth may not know about his/her status till he drops dead on the street one day.. It's not as if you developed it 2 years ago but, it must have been in your body long time ago but only needed something to trigger your consciousness to it which, in this case is (or was) your wife.. You won't die if you take your pills regularly and exercise at least 80mins per week.. The thing is that a blood pressure constantly above 180/90 would kill you within a year and the trick is to ensure that it SHOULD ALWAYS BE BELOW 140.. Watch what you eat (beef, cholesterol-filled fats, starchy foods, fizzy drinks, smoking like a chimney, etc).. For those saying you're to young to have HBP, that's just rubbish.. No one is too young to have it as you can have it as early as age 16 yrs or any age.. The trick now is not giving a Bleep about your wife and her weird feelings but, the game is now to ensure you keep your BP always below 140 if you still need your life.. I'd advice you to get yourself a digital blood pressure machine like Omron, to regularly check your BP.. Don't be scared, you won't die.. It's just like saying you'd die from HIV when we know that we have Anti-retroviral drugs available at cheap prices.. Secondly(the main thing), do you now see why people would always say ; "Marry your best friend"! . This statement is the greatest life saver on Earth right now and, its saving lives seriously. At one point in time, you'd discover her beauty, breast , ass, sweet sex etc doesn't matter anymore, as only a peaceful marital life matters.. I once had a very gentle girlfriend back in Ibàdàn during my NYSC days but guess what? She was a crazy narcissist and worst of all, she never knew.. She was broken beyond redemption and i was urging her that she sees a therapist but, it was always a resounding NO! I Knew life would be very unbearable with such a broken person in future.. This was a person that doesn't think with her own head but, yields to the advice of others without thinking it through.. She was very naive and gullible on how the world works and, staying with that type of person is suicidal.. For that your wife, bro! Want the candid truth? It's game over! Pure and simple.. Someone who didn't change in her formative years would not change now, either by prayer or by logic.. Someone who was behaving like Josep Stalin to her own blood family, will eventually behave like a mutant combo of Hitler and Kim Jong-Un to you her husband, who's not her blood.. She's a lost cause! Let this sink into your skull bro.. You definitely will not die of HBP but, depression and mental illnesses are earnestly waiting for you, which could lead to suicide or even homicide (if push comes to shove).. Just walk away.. Let it go.. You don't even need to divorce her you could just move out into a seperate apartment and life goes on.. If she wants a divorce, give it to her, if your pastors come to your house for diplomacy purpose, take them to a private place and tell them to Bleep-off and go and marry your wife if they so care about the marriage.. Life is a beauty gift you won't experience twice... Don't let one ruthless bi-polar Cunt ruin it all for you in the name of 'holy union' or marriage .. Post No Bill 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Time To Divorce My Wife? by RIDOO: 9:05am On May 06, 2020 |
Farki:Just my opinion too. She might be mentally imbalanced.. She might not look it. The help of a psychiatrist and afterwards a counselor are needed ASAP. |
Re: Time To Divorce My Wife? by Jeweltz(f): 9:12am On May 06, 2020 |
bigcee: Me? How? |
Re: Time To Divorce My Wife? by Horlaslim(m): 9:21am On May 06, 2020 |
My own little advice is that OP try and get a small apartment for yourself if you can afford it since you said you financially ok ensure you send her at least half of the money you drop at home every month either for feeding or for one or two upkeep. Leave for a while and make sure she doesn’t know where you are but can reach you no amount of plead or beg ensure she promised to change completely then arrange a meeting with her the pastor and her mom if possible her dad as well let everyone be present and make her say it with her mouth. Just my own thinking thou. If not for anything your health state is important remember if anything happens to you she will continue her life and your kids will grow up. |
Re: Time To Divorce My Wife? by Aybeez(m): 9:27am On May 06, 2020 |
Broz. Divorce sharp sharp . I geh babe 4 you ��� |
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