i am confused

I think you need to write more about this if you really need people's reply.

i think so.

Is it my ideal relationship?? Nope

Is it right or wrong?? dearie that would be your own "story" to tell

If all other things are in their right places nd both of you think you're meant for each other, and you complete each other in ways other people couldn't/can't, then the sky should be your limit. You won't be the first in history, and no matter what ending your's get, wouldn't be the first either.

You call the shots baby, just be one with your heart and self that you're doing the right thing

if u really luv him why not, remember love dont ask whyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

i think age does not really matter in a relationship, but i can say it matters in some situations like a girl in her twenties dating a man in his sixties

ThoniaSlim, how about if the girl of 20 decided to go out with a man of 60 as sugar daddy

think of that!

thats why i used the icon , cause some girls are just so irritating, going out with a man old enough to be your grandfather. i think one of the major reasons that cause such behavior in some girls is greed or poverty.

There is no problem to hook with a single guy who is 10 years older. I believe it all lies with the understanding of both of them. And since the girl has agreed, he has no problem. It lies in the potentiality in him which will give the girl a second thought that her life will be meaningful with the guy.

Understanding should be the order of the relationship. he will be more tolerant 'cos he might not get the 100% respect he may deserves from her.

I think, to some ladies, they prefer that for capability.

ThoniaSlim
you are right but believe this or not, it is a natural phenomenon that this happen at times. There are some situations when some lady take what is left and not what they desire due to some problems which could be physical or spiritual.

Remember in the northern part, the hausas do give out their daughter @ 14 to a man of 30 who is able to pay for their birthright and who is ready to sustain bitterness of the cane night.

hhhmmmm, guess you have a point there.
but concerning the Hausa marriage issue, i still think its so foolish.

ThoniaSlim
but that is there own culture. You will have no choice if you happen to be dropped there, lol you would have married a long time ago

abeg oh , no be me

Simple answer, No.

spoilt brat!

your time i no get!

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10 years old gap ?

Dear, there is nuttin wrong with dat.  If i could remember, when i was pursuing ma degree in school. It was near impossible to keep dating a particular girl to your final year.

Most girls usually get married to older men before their graduation. While we, on, before or after graduation starts up a new relationship with fresh intake in school.

They leave us for older men 'cos they feel we have a pretty long way to go. Graduation, NYSC, Job pursuing and all that. Can they really wait for us to get really comfortable and man enough to make a good home.

They say time is one thing they cant buy. What if they wait and we in turn hurt them.

what is that^^^story?

I just love NLander

good.

excluding you

wateva

why is there no hissing smiley here. . .
Anyway i hiss you away!