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Re: The Hypocrisy And Selfishness Of Nigerian Women by kokanepyramid: 4:58pm On May 09, 2020
delectablegyal:
Nigerian men are the same. polygamous, liars, patriachial, archaic, obstinate, flirts and above all, unfaithful lots.
Guys have never lived in denial so your analogy doesn’t make sense perhaps you don’t know what hypocrisy means.

What he’s saying is yall yap about feminism and being woke but won’t want your male blood to be involved with a feminist.

Yall can’t stand your mother in-laws in the name of being woke but will want to control your daughter in-laws and be protective of your son when you age .

You say we cheat and are polygamists yet yall will know a guy is in a relationship, you’ll even know his wife or GF yet you’ll be drooling over him. Who’s the hypocrite?

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Re: The Hypocrisy And Selfishness Of Nigerian Women by kokanepyramid: 5:14pm On May 09, 2020
ladyGKilaBCrueD:
but we aren't the ones whining and nagging and moaning like a retarrds
everyday one of your naija brothers open a thread regarding how awful naija women are
so im telling y'all to go for foreign women and leave us alone if we are that bad and stop with the irritating nagging
he is trying to spread the gospel to fellow guys who haven’t heard to avoid stories that touch. You can simply avoid the thread.
I think why you are worked up is that guys are getting woke by the day na baby mama things for most guys now and ladies are mostly on the receiving end as guys hardly settle with single moms these days.

Yall should change

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Re: The Hypocrisy And Selfishness Of Nigerian Women by Osobi32(m): 5:32pm On May 09, 2020
delectablegyal:
Nigerian men are the same. polygamous, liars, patriachial, archaic, obstinate, flirts and above all, unfaithful lots.
Are u done? Rubbish

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Re: The Hypocrisy And Selfishness Of Nigerian Women by Ancestos007: 6:14pm On May 09, 2020
delectablegyal:
Nigerian men are the same. polygamous, liars, patriachial, archaic, obstinate, flirts and above all, unfaithful lots.
my dear what u just said ain't pertinent to Niger men alone.
Re: The Hypocrisy And Selfishness Of Nigerian Women by MhizJoyce(f): 7:00pm On May 09, 2020
sexylassie2:
I hate men that nags.

These nagging boys or men are the broke and jobless ones.

Stop showing your frustration on Nairaland.
But you love women who nag? Youre trying to say it's OK for a woman to nag? I'm beginning to believe op.

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Re: The Hypocrisy And Selfishness Of Nigerian Women by GreatResearcher1: 7:04pm On May 09, 2020
GIdiata:
They are so selfish and mean which is why GENDER equality is almost impossible and FEMINISM is causing more harm than good in this part of the world.

An average Nigerian mother enjoys it if her husband do house CHORES but if they see their son doing same for his wife, they get pissed.

They hit a guy(not their husband, brother or even a boyfriend) first like we see viral videos online in banks, clubs e.t.c they expect the guy to be a gentleman and not retaliate but if a random girl do same to their husband or brother or boyfriend they call the guy a weakling if he doesn't retaliate.

Them and their daughter(s) all want to marry a husband that will do house CHORES. Even during this Lockdown, all their brothers and sons do is sleep, eat, play game, watch movies and sleep again but they EXPECT another family to teach their male children/brothers how to do House chores for them to marry.

I can go on and on and on. let me draw the cotton here.
Women are the worst things I've ever come across
Re: The Hypocrisy And Selfishness Of Nigerian Women by GreatResearcher1: 7:05pm On May 09, 2020
MhizJoyce:

But you love women who nag? Youre trying to say it's OK for a woman to nag? I'm beginning to believe op.
Don't mind that idiott called sexylassie2. She opened this same thread. fvck you sexylassie
Re: The Hypocrisy And Selfishness Of Nigerian Women by Originalsly: 7:10pm On May 09, 2020
@ Op.....so.who would you marry?..... what nationality woman?..... or would you stick to Nigerian and go for a man?

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Re: The Hypocrisy And Selfishness Of Nigerian Women by Kobojunkie: 7:18pm On May 09, 2020
GIdiata:
They are so selfish and mean which is why GENDER equality is almost impossible and FEMINISM is causing more harm than good in this part of the world.
The above statement does not make any lick of sense, @OP

What has selfishness or traits of any kind to do with the call for gender equality? undecided

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Re: The Hypocrisy And Selfishness Of Nigerian Women by sexylassie2(f): 7:25pm On May 09, 2020
MhizJoyce:

But you love women who nag? Youre trying to say it's OK for a woman to nag? I'm beginning to believe op.

Men aren't suppose to nag.

They are suppose to be problem solvers not naggers
Re: The Hypocrisy And Selfishness Of Nigerian Women by GIdiata(m): 7:25pm On May 09, 2020
Kobojunkie:

The above statement does not make any lick of sense, @OP

What has selfishness or traits of any kind to do with the call for gender equality? undecided

now take your time read again then you will be able to understand the role of SELFISHNESS in the quest for EQUALITY
Re: The Hypocrisy And Selfishness Of Nigerian Women by MhizJoyce(f): 7:34pm On May 09, 2020
sexylassie2:


Men aren't suppose to nag.

They are suppose to be problem solvers not naggers
And women?

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Re: The Hypocrisy And Selfishness Of Nigerian Women by Kobojunkie: 7:35pm On May 09, 2020
GIdiata:

now take your time read again then you will be able to understand the role of SELFISHNESS in the quest for EQUALITY

Your write-up did not seem to make any sane connection between the two is why I took to asking you the question myself ,in hopes that you could better enlighten us is what. undecided

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Re: The Hypocrisy And Selfishness Of Nigerian Women by Tozic(m): 7:38pm On May 09, 2020
MhizJoyce:

And women?

Baby I love you so much for this. cool





sexylassie2:


Men aren't suppose to nag.

They are suppose to be problem solvers not naggers


it will not be better to whosoever brought you up this way and whosoever that is responsible for your sheer frustration.
Re: The Hypocrisy And Selfishness Of Nigerian Women by GIdiata(m): 7:45pm On May 09, 2020
Kobojunkie:


Your write-up did not seem to make any sane connection between the two is why I took to asking you the question myself ,in hopes that you could better enlighten us is what. undecided
who's going to pass the bill?
how did you and your mother bring the person up?
Re: The Hypocrisy And Selfishness Of Nigerian Women by GIdiata(m): 7:52pm On May 09, 2020
Originalsly:
@ Op.....so.who would you marry?..... what nationality woman?..... or would you stick to Nigerian and go for a man?

do u Support everything your Religion/Religious Leaders preach to you? if you do u need God if you don't, have you changed your Religion/worship center?

did you enjoy/understand all your teachers/lecturers teaching method? did u stop attending classes of those you don't enjoy/understand?
Re: The Hypocrisy And Selfishness Of Nigerian Women by GIdiata(m): 7:54pm On May 09, 2020
MhizJoyce:

But you love women who nag? Youre trying to say it's OK for a woman to nag? I'm beginning to believe op.

PIKIN WEY GET SENSE
Re: The Hypocrisy And Selfishness Of Nigerian Women by kamikaze01(m): 7:59pm On May 09, 2020
GIdiata:

don't be pained. I don't believe in the saying; TRUTH IS BITTER. nothing is bitter about Truth
if u noticed, you will see how I explained all the points I highlighted.

not all are polygamous at least Joseph married only mary. besides u women claim to hate polygamy yet a married man approaches u, u accept.

liars: do I need to tell you that all humans lie?

patriarchal yet we have female polithiefians who get Support from us

Archaic yet u have a boyfriend/husband

obstinate yet Women quarrel and fight more often

flirts I don't remember us flirting with a fellow man we do it with you who are married/in relationship

unfaithful yet we cheat on women with women(People's wife and girlfriends oo)

Bro. Ur head get enough oil


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Re: The Hypocrisy And Selfishness Of Nigerian Women by Originalsly: 8:04pm On May 09, 2020
GIdiata:


do u Support everything your Religion/Religious Leaders preach to you? if you do u need God if you don't, have you changed your Religion/worship center?

did you enjoy/understand all your teachers/lecturers teaching method? did u stop attending classes of those you don't enjoy/understand?


Your questions not relevant to my comment nor to the topic.
Re: The Hypocrisy And Selfishness Of Nigerian Women by Kobojunkie: 8:17pm On May 09, 2020
GIdiata:

who's going to pass the bill?
how did you and your mother bring the person up?
How did your mother bring you up? undecided undecided
What makes your upbringing better than that of those of the female gender that you should should suppose that their right to be equal to you in everywise ought to be based on their upbringing? undecided undecided

Sad reality is that you don't even realize that your own mother is impacted by the inequality that is Nigerian culture and law. Have you not realized that she is a female and if you deem the upbringing of women a condition to their right to equality, you, in the same breath, condemn your own mother to the same fate.

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Re: The Hypocrisy And Selfishness Of Nigerian Women by lammylam(f): 8:22pm On May 09, 2020
Las las una go kill una self ontop Nigerian woman matter! Shioor

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Re: The Hypocrisy And Selfishness Of Nigerian Women by Geminvert(m): 8:44pm On May 09, 2020
delectablegyal:





who read that? smiley
I did..you should too
Ps:it might be a bitter pill for you to swallow.
Scum has no gender.
But lemme remind you that your gender is the type to make an innocent child live a false identify their whole life by making them believe their Legal father is their biological father

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Re: The Hypocrisy And Selfishness Of Nigerian Women by cutewahid(m): 9:24pm On May 09, 2020
oh boy dis fight no b here o

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Re: The Hypocrisy And Selfishness Of Nigerian Women by GIdiata(m): 9:34pm On May 09, 2020
Kobojunkie:

How did your mother bring you up? undecided undecided
What makes your upbringing better than that of those of the female gender that you should should suppose that their right to be equal to you in everywise ought to be based on their upbringing? undecided undecided

Sad reality is that you don't even realize that your own mother is impacted by the inequality that is Nigerian culture and law. Have you not realized that she is a female and if you deem the upbringing of women a condition to their right to equality, you, in the same breath, condemn your own mother to the same fate.

Your thinking low Sha ooo
Shu undecided
Na so something dey hard you comprehend?grin grin

If u have a working brain, you would have been able to ascertain that the upbringing I'm referring to is that of a male child not a female child.

Go back to the topic, read the points I highlighted I hope it helps you understand that the up bring is that of a male child.
How you you women bring up ur male children/brothers.
Re: The Hypocrisy And Selfishness Of Nigerian Women by GIdiata(m): 9:38pm On May 09, 2020
Originalsly:


Your questions not relevant to my comment nor to the topic.
are u very sure? Or u don't even understand your comment
Re: The Hypocrisy And Selfishness Of Nigerian Women by Kobojunkie: 9:51pm On May 09, 2020
GIdiata:

Your thinking low Sha ooo
Shu undecided
Na so something dey hard you comprehend?grin grin
If u have a working brain, you would have been able to ascertain that the upbringing I'm referring to is that of a male child not a female child.
Go back to the topic, read the points I highlighted I hope it helps you understand that the up bring is that of a male child.
How you you women bring up ur male children/brothers.
Equality SHOULD NOT BE BASED on how each woman chooses to bring up their male children/brothers etc. The selfishness of some women should not impact their right to equality in any way or sense. The argument for or against equality should have nothing to do with that.

That said, I agree that there is a problem with the way women raise their children in Nigeria, and we ought not to forget that most of them do so because of what is considered the cultural norms in the country. Even when a mother strives to raise her children to see all genders as equals, society at large still does not recognize such positions, and it makes it difficult for these kids to truly grow up into the better humans they ought to become.

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Re: The Hypocrisy And Selfishness Of Nigerian Women by Heathrow44: 10:06pm On May 09, 2020
delectablegyal:
Nigerian men are the same. polygamous, liars, patriachial, archaic, obstinate, flirts and above all, unfaithful lots.

Is that y u re unmarried? Pls don't marry a man since is obvious u hate dem with so much evil words there! Buh No, I need sm1 t feed mi lazy ass y u offer absolutely nothing t him...leech & gold digging asshole..

Congrats to all well meaning Feminist's and independent women all over, this one here is not among oo!!!!

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Re: The Hypocrisy And Selfishness Of Nigerian Women by GIdiata(m): 10:08pm On May 09, 2020
Kobojunkie:

Equality SHOULD NOT BE BASED on how each woman chooses to bring up their male children/brothers etc. The selfishness of some women should not impact their right to equality in any way or sense. The argument for or against equality should have nothing to do with that.

That said, I agree that there is a problem with the way women raise their children in Nigeria, and we ought not to forget that most of them do so because of what is considered the cultural norms in the country. Even when a mother strives to raise her children to see all genders as equals, society at large still does not recognize such positions, and it makes it difficult for these kids to truly grow up into the better humans they ought to become.

Read my first and third point it will tell you Nigerian women role. They are actually the ones that sew the superiority mentality seed in male.
Re: The Hypocrisy And Selfishness Of Nigerian Women by Heathrow44: 10:10pm On May 09, 2020
ladyGKilaBCrueD:
you simps should leave us alone then and marry foreign women

only weak men keep crying onto women matter everyday

Are they not better than u? Y are u talking as if is not the best thing t do.. A typical British woman is independent, are u?
How long can u survive on ur own without asking money from dad, bf, pastor, ur employer & offering sex as return?

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Re: The Hypocrisy And Selfishness Of Nigerian Women by ladyGKilaBCrueD(f): 10:13pm On May 09, 2020
I hear you, you're right, oya just stick to your foreign women and leave us the fukc alone instead of always whining and crying and nagging about us like little bitches grin grin grin haba!!!
Heathrow44:


Are they not better than u? Y are u talking as if is not the best thing t do.. A typical British woman is independent, are u?
How long can u survive on ur own without asking money from dad, bf, pastor, ur employer & offering sex as return?

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Re: The Hypocrisy And Selfishness Of Nigerian Women by Heathrow44: 10:16pm On May 09, 2020
ladyGKilaBCrueD:
well we aren't the ones moaning and whining and complaining so you should stop coming for us if we're that bad

Stop taking dem if u so independent don't have orgasm convulsing like a little brat!

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Re: The Hypocrisy And Selfishness Of Nigerian Women by Kobojunkie: 10:20pm On May 09, 2020
GIdiata:

Read my first and third point it will tell you Nigerian women role. They are actually the ones that sew the superiority mentality seed in male.

I do not believe it is as clear cut as you make it out to be. Many of these women are blind -- they cannot see what they do. Why? Because they themselves where raised in a culture and society that endorses male superiority. And so with this already built into their identity, they are essentially lost as far as even recognizing the problem that you point out there.

Imagine the case of a woman who already has 5 daughters, but still believes that she has to have a male child in order to properly validate her place as wife of her husband. This Nigerian woman has lived in the U.S for over 12 years. So, this cultural cancer runs deep for some of them.

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